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I'm ready to end relationship and pregnancy..help!

Q.   I'm so hurt I think its time to end my relationship and not continue my pregnancy. Yesterday was my birthday my co-workers bought me flowers and took me to lunch. My boyfriend did nothing for me. When I got to his house from work he had already ...

A.   27 November 2009: come on your old enough to know better to have not gotten into this situation to get pregnant like this and want to abort it is really selfish because there are so many women dying for the chance to have a baby and you have this healthy child in you ... (read in full...)

I'm depressed after my abortion.

Q.   im 14 and i had an abortion in February, and know im depressed and want a baby. what do i do? please help me. i have never been this depressed in my life before please please help me ...

A.   5 November 2009: you should go to your doctor or talk to a friend but definitely please dont have a child until you are old enough to pay for it and look after it properly it would be really selfish i know its hard to say but instead of longing after a baby you ... (read in full...)

My teen pregnancy inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What do I do?

Q.   I'm 17 and pregnant, and I keep telling my family about how much I love it, and it inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What should we do?...

A.   5 November 2009: scare her. tell if the boy who gets her pregnant is old enough you won't think twice about getting him done. no offence but youre silly for getting pregnant and youre so silly for bragging about it but u sound mature if shes alredy pregnant not much ... (read in full...)

Having second thoughts about possibly terminating my pregnancy.

Q.   Hi,i can't believe i am 39 and got myself into this situation.Firstly i have a 6 yr old daughter from a previous relationship.I have been dating a new guy for about 3mths and have just found out i'm pregnant.My inital feeling is to have an ...

A.   5 November 2009: hiya i know you said you used contraception but you still knew there was a risk when you decided to have sex right and as your an older woman id have thought you'd want to take responsibility for your actions this child is your blood it wasn't ... (read in full...)

I have fallen in love with my stepdaughter

Q.   Ok, let me see if I can get this all in. My step daughter and I have grown very close over the past year. She is a bit younger then I am (over 18). I can't help these feelings I am having for her. I have not told her about them and don't plan on ...

A.   4 November 2009: If your marriage is unhappy end it now. This isn't fair on your wife. Would you want someone staying with you but lusting after somebody else? Because it would also be unfair to jepardise the relationship between mother and daughter. If you have... (read in full...)

I'm a Catholic. What are the pros and cons of waiting til my wedding night?

Q.   I am a Catholic and I know that as one I should not have sex before marriage but as most, if not all, Catholics do today they do. I just assumed that I would sometime in my late teens. Now I am nearly 16 and I'm beginning to change my mind. I real...

A.   4 November 2009: ahh well since i haven't been married or anything and i've had lots of sex i sometimes wish i was a virgin. i think the idea of sex on your wedding night is lovely i mean don't get me wrong, sex is amazing but only with a person you genuinely love ... (read in full...)

We only have sex according to a schedule. Please help!

Q.   I'm 37 and been married for 9 years. My wife and I went through a rough spot. During that time, she stopped having sex with me. I was hurt. Part of the outcome of marriage counselling was the agreement that we would have a schedule. Wednesdays, ...

A.   2 November 2009: you need more spice sex cant always be planned! thats just silly you and your wife should take a break. if you have kids leave them with a sitter and go to a hotel for the weekend and relax. you need to spice it up a bit! Maybe ask her what she woul... (read in full...)

How do I get a No-Strings-Attached Relationship?

Q.   Ok without going into the reasons why I want one and the up- and down- sides of it: I want a sex buddy. So how do I get one? I can't (and don't want to) ask exes or female friends. How do I even let a women know that's what I want, without co...

A.   2 November 2009: as someone who asked this question and basically got called easy cos im a woman, you can try smooch.com i had a bit of fun with this website x enjoy ... (read in full...)

Can't climax with my boyfriend

Q.   I have always been able to masturbate and climax, but with my boyfriend I can't. It's extremely odd because he's very good at what he does and he turns me on like no one ever has been able to. We don't have sex, but we do oral/hands and all that. ...

A.   10 June 2009: how about you rub your clit and he gives u oral at the same time reli works for me, i was with my boyfriend for 3 months before i let myself go like mentally cause he was amazing at what he was doing i just couldn't cum cause i didn't feel comfy ... (read in full...)

Premature ejaculation! What can I do?

Q.   Okay here's the situation. I've been having sex for over 2 years now (since I was 16) and I definitely suffer from premature ejaculation. I ejaculate as soon as I enter my girlfriend and if we're kissing a lot and she is stroking my penis through my ...

A.   4 June 2009: you could try practising when you masturbate as soon as you feel yourself close then stop practise makes perfect after all. ... (read in full...)

Now that I'm pregnant he wants to have sex all the time and is getting aggressive about it

Q.   alright so im 17 years old and my boyfriend is 28 years old. we have been together for a year and a half. the thing is he used to work at my school as a security guard. he left my school about 6 months ago to move onto another job. we met through ...

A.   3 June 2009: he wants you to be his baby momma who the hell does this guy think he is liek he can just run around being a slag and raping young girls while you look after his blood. i feel so sorry for u my ex 2 years ago stole my virginity even tho i told him i ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my 11 year old cousin that I love her?

Q.   Hi i am an 18 year old boy and last week i met my cousin who is 11years old actually i met her for the very first time...we had nice time and became really very close.but i have fallen in love with her i am too much attracted to her. What shall i ...

A.   3 June 2009: shes too young your 18 right? or older, don't confuse her its only cruel on her give her time to grow up she's still a child really ... (read in full...)

My g/f is spending time with her questionable uncle

Q.   Hi i'm very confused and need some advice about my girlfriend. I have been together with my partner for 4 years now. She is younger than me and is now 24. When she was growing up she received a lot of attention from her mother's brother who live...

A.   3 June 2009: it sounds to me as if shes very confused about her love for this man, you really need to sit down and discuss that its making you feel alittle uncomfortable spending alot of time with her uncle, she's always been around him and hes made a mark in ... (read in full...)

Racist friend....what can I do?

Q.   Heyy I've written an article about this, but while replying to someone else I realized I have a problem..which might seem strange but yeah... Basically my best friend can be racist sometimes, and she just sees it as a joke and I don't really ...

A.   28 May 2009: i had a best friend that was racist towards turkish people and her mate was racist towards pakistani people. i really can't tolerate racism, and i simple punched her everytime she made a racist comment haha don't do that but i found that it was just ... (read in full...)

Had sex with my sister, she says if I tell she will cry rape, what should I do?

Q.   When my sister and I hit puberty we started masturbating together because we were curious how it would feel. It turned out to feel great; but, around two years ago she started to do oral sex on me. On my seventeenth birthday weekend when my parents ...

A.   22 May 2009: perhaps you should seek councilling, i think your sister is as ashamed of this as you, i think you should never masturbate together in future and deffinatly spend less time together. Telling your family might not be the best idea unless you really ... (read in full...)

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