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writes:My boyfriend of 6 weeks is 23 years older than me and very experienced in bed,well thats what he told me the problem is that i am 40 year old virgin whose previous boyfriends have never goto the bedroom stage, how do i tell him that i am virgin without looking like an idiot. Reply to this Question
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reader, Guitarist +, writes (29 March 2009):
 So your partner is 63? i'm sure he'll be mature enough to understand darlin. i know i'm a lot younger than he is but if it were me, i'd prefer to be told, and to be honest, i'd welcome it. as for how to tell him? hmm... there's nothing wrong with being blunt, obviously you'll be a bit shy about it which he should pick up on so he wouldn't think anything bad about it. there's no reason for you to feel like an idiot.
take care and let us know what happens.
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reader, ladydette  +, writes (28 March 2009):
 Do you really have to tell him? Don't you think it is wise if he would just find out himself? Unless you want to sleep with him soon and that what makes him find out about your virginity.
Telling him would either make him think you're giving him a warning or something to look forward to. I guess men still want a virgin woman these days rather than an experienced woman in bed.
But if you think it would give you peace of mind by telling him then go right ahead. Be prepared on what his reactions might be but never regret what you told him cos it's one thing you should be proud about.
You can try telling him by saying you don't want to disappoint him in bed cos you're still a virgin. Then that would give him an idea not to be rough on you (if ever you would want to sleep with him!)
Just be yourself and think that you won't lose anything by just telling him you're still a virgin. :)
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