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Q. This is driving me crazy! My bf broke up with ME about 1 month ago. One of his mates has made this break up like hell for me... The friend has been constantly messaging me and passing along things that my ex supposedly says. And he tells my ex anyth...
A. 13 May 2008: when his frd again pass on the information then tell him that you are just not interested.let him know that you don't want to hear about your ex so he should keep this thing in mind while having conversation.
It won't do any harm and then you can ... (read in full...)
I'm a tired, sad mess
Q. This is really hard for me to admit, but i think im falling into depression or something. I'm just young, but am in a long relationship and things seem to be getting harder and harder. the good times are so good, but the bad times can be awful. H...
A. 13 May 2008: Look,you are in a long relationship,its not that you just started dating so things definitly won't be same,way they used to be.you are lucky that you know he still loves you and you too.
One can't get happiness everytime and it makes sense,ho... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm going to get hurt again, in this weird situation we're in...
Q. Hi all, I wanted to share my weird situation with you and to maybe get some good advice.. The deal is, me and this girl broke up some months ago, we've been together for almost a year. She couldn't continue seeing me the way it used to be cause...
A. 13 May 2008: SHE IS JUST USING YOU
I don't know what other has to say but after reading all,i am 95%sure about whatever i am typing.
When she was with you,she realised that you are not the one that she was looking for ,but yes you were together for a year a... (read in full...)
If he does these things does it mean he likes you?
Q. -Stands near you, almost touching -If a part of your body is touching and he doesn't move -His pupils get big when you talk -Supports your ideas -Finds little excuses to touch you (appropriately) -Tease each other -Voice changes sometimes whe...
A. 13 May 2008: Not sure about him but you are very much into him as you keep minutiae of details of his behaviour.
lol!!... (read in full...)
When a girl says she's falling for you, does she mean 'falling in love'?
Q. Hey everybody. I don't really know how to interpret this, but what exactly does a girl mean when she says she's falling for you? Does it mean falling in love or basically crushing? I would think it means falling in love am i right?...
A. 13 May 2008: She is falling for you means she is feeling for you and that implies love is in the air.... (read in full...)
My crush took my number, now what do I do??
Q. My crush just took my number and he said he would call me in a few hours..god!!!! I am so nervous..what do i talk about? How do i make the conversation interesting so that he likes me too???...
A. 12 May 2008: Just be yourself and real.
don't fake anythng except of sweet voice.... (read in full...)
I insulted my crush, how can I make things better?
Q. I have known this guy since i was at primary, even though he is a year older than me. When i got to high school i started to fall for him. When he found out how i felt he started ignoring me. I asked him the other day online why he was ignoring me. ...
A. 12 May 2008: If your exams are not lined up and you have plenty of time to be at your romantic best then you can do a lot of stuff to make things better but you should ensure that he is single so that you don't end up making things even worse.
1)just behave t... (read in full...)
I went through his phone and he had been 'dirty talking' to some girl through texts.
Q. I dont know what to do. I feel so hurt and trapped. I love my fiance more than anything in the world we've been together for just over a year and we've gotten engaged recently. We live together and everything has seemed perfect but just a few days...
A. 12 May 2008: Make sure that you are not getting married in near future.
You still need time to know him more.you are with him now more than a year,so is this incident first of its kind?has he cheated you in past?
You need to be aware.see through things befor... (read in full...)
He says he needs space...so why is he seeing someone else?
Q. Hi, My boyfriend told me he needed space and is seeing someone else. He still calls me, comes over, we go to dinner, etc. I love him so much and I don't know what to do. Should I just let him go? My heart seriously hurts everyday that I ...
A. 12 May 2008: What's this mess?
He is seeing sum1 else,you are well aware then what you are waiting for??
for thresome???
He is just having a good time with you and her and only he knows with how many others.
Remember, if you break up with someone or som... (read in full...)
I don't love her as much, what should I do?
Q. What should i do if i don't love my girlfriend as much as i used to? Should i break up with her or just stay with her?...
A. 12 May 2008: Has she done something wrong??
That you don't love her the way you used to. Think about her feelings too.if she too is so casual towards this relationship then what are you still thinking??
break up with her.
But if she loves you and was alwa... (read in full...)
Why have I still not got a boyfriend?
Q. hey, Okay... I feel like a pathetic 17 year old- ive never had a bf.. I used to be a bit of an ugly duckling, but I've grown into myself more, gained some confidense ect, that was 2 years ago...why have I still not got a bf? There have been so ...
A. 12 May 2008: Something is surely wrong with you.
Till the time ,you won't show your feelings,how can you expect to get a bf?And if somehow ,a guy asks you out and you still prevail this shy attitude then even he will withdraw himself.
So now you know whe... (read in full...)
I'm shy about my underarm hair!
Q. hi iam ------- i need help when my friends go swimming i feel shy getting my clothes off i think theyll make fun off me im the only one who has under arm hair they are all normal what should i do?????...
A. 12 May 2008: Don't worry,even they'll become abnormal in coming days.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of nearly 3 years left me and wont even talk to me about it, please help
Q. my boyfriend of nearlly three years left me and wont even talk to me about it. I made a list of reasons why i shouldnt be with him, but i cant help but cry all day and call him constantly begging him to be with me, i love him so much and this is ...
A. 12 May 2008: What you expect form us??
What want from us??
You know it very clearly that he is not the one as you gave 20 reaosns not be with him but you still love him!!
PAIN IS INEVITABLE BUT SUFFERING IS OPTIONAL.
Why don't you opt for good things in y... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of nearly 3 years left me and wont even talk to me about it, please help
Q. my boyfriend of nearlly three years left me and wont even talk to me about it. I made a list of reasons why i shouldnt be with him, but i cant help but cry all day and call him constantly begging him to be with me, i love him so much and this is ...
A. 12 May 2008: What you expect form us??
What want from us??
You know it very clearly that he is not the one as you gave 20 reaosns not be with him but you still love him!!
PAIN IS INEVITABLE BUT SUFFERING IS OPTIONAL.
Why don't you opt for good things in y... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of nearly 3 years left me and wont even talk to me about it, please help
Q. my boyfriend of nearlly three years left me and wont even talk to me about it. I made a list of reasons why i shouldnt be with him, but i cant help but cry all day and call him constantly begging him to be with me, i love him so much and this is ...
A. 12 May 2008: What you expect form us??
What want from us??
You know it very clearly that he is not the one as you gave 20 reaosns not be with him but you still love him!!
PAIN IS INEVITABLE BUT SUFFERING IS OPTIONAL.
Why don't you opt for good things in y... (read in full...)
What should I do if I don't like my boyfriend as much as I used to?
Q. well wat if i dont like my boyfriend as much as i use to but im afraid to break up with him because i know how it will be with out him it will be very different no more holdin hands or talking on the fone for a long time or even having a boyfriend ...
A. 12 May 2008: Have you thought what is the reason that has changed things towards him.Usually it happens when one is cheating or there is a consatant fight or you start liking other guy.
Find out the answer that makes you to opt out?
And if there is a reaso... (read in full...)
Is 17 too young to know you have found "the one"?
Q. Ok I know what everyone is going to say when I ask this question but is 17 to young to find the one? Me and my boyfreind are very matture then most other couple and so happy, everyday just keeps getting better with him , so what im asking is can it ...
A. 12 May 2008: There are couples who meet at very young age and continues it thorought their lives but then there are very few of its kind.
But why are you keen in this question?will you be with him only if he is there throughout your lifetime? common,p... (read in full...)
Is my friend after my boyfriend?
Q. my friend had always liked my boyfriend even before he was my boyfriend. there had been moments when she tried flirting with him. but since he doesnt like her, he didn't play along. even though she said she didnt like him anymore, i always caught ...
A. 11 May 2008: With whom you are more close to???
Friend or a boyfriend???
Decide first.
If its your boyfrd then tell him everything that she told you about him and just see his reaction.I don't think that you are that dumb in reading reactions.
If... (read in full...)
HELP me, I can't tell if he likes me or not.
Q. I'm 14 and i have a crush on this 15 yr old guy. he always looks at me when we walk pass or when i'm around but i pretended not to notice him. then as weeks past, he looked at me lesser and lesser till it's like he doesn't even care about me ...
A. 11 May 2008: let me know the result.... (read in full...)
I've heard she likes me but not from a reliable source, do I pursue her?
Q. I have a very good friend who I would like to pursue a relationship with, but am unsure how to proceed, and if to proceed at all - I do not want to lose her friendship by making a clumsy attempt at romance, but I have had feelings for her for a long ...
A. 10 May 2008: She is intersted if whatever you noticed wasn't fake.
I mean what if she was dropping all those himts just to win a bet to proove your friends that you are into her.
lol!!!
she is very much interested so now just ask her out.... (read in full...)
Does he love her or me?
Q. I need to know something, it's kind of 2 questions. Well, first is, I need to know if my ex really does love his girlfriend. He never really acts like he does, and he beats her. He's always cheating on her. And the other is, I need to know if ...
A. 10 May 2008: He neither loves his gf nor you.
IF he still touches you and kisses you the way he used to then you are hand in glove with him in cheating his gf.
You are just getting used and pehaps you have no problems with that.
I may soung harsh but this... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with my ex-boyfriend!
Q. hi im 13 and im going out with this really nice,caring guy i mean hes not the best looking guy in the school but he loves me and i said i loved him but every time i see him i try to smile but i cant and i dont think thats love . on the other hand ...
A. 10 May 2008: If strings are still with your ex then why are you cheating your bf?do you want him to suffer the way you are being?you said that he loves you then don't play with his emotions.
forget about yor ex,he dunped you and if somehow you two get back agai... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that giving signals to them will depict me as a flirt-But I cant get a bf!
Q. I am very good looking female....but i dont get guys...i dont knw why...actually i am an image conscious person and will never love the idea of spoiling my image by flirting with guys but at the same time i want male attention too....so even if ...
A. 10 May 2008: either think of image or find love.
true love??lol!!
no need to search it will come when it has to.... (read in full...)
Am I getting off to quickly?
Q. I am not married. When I masturbate i get off in less than 20 seconds. Is this a problem?...
A. 10 May 2008: ITS NOT A PROBLEM UNLESS YOU ARE MARRIED.
LOL!... (read in full...)
Is it because I refused him sex that he couldn't wait to get rid of me?
Q. About 2 weeks ago I slept over my bf's house. I told him before that I wasnt ready for sex, so he should not of expected me to sleep with him just cause i agreed to sleeping over...i just wanted to sleep in his arms, nothing more. Anyway, he wante...
A. 10 May 2008: If you are conservative then for good. this guy is just not into you.the way you ended up in nite can still be justified ,that out of frustrfation,he turned away but if he started at same note in morning too then he was just intersted in sex and he ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is always so busy and never seems to make time for me?
Q. My boyfreind is always so busy and never seems to make time for me....It really hurts my feelings and makes me feel down all the time..It is really distracting me so what i am asking is should i just move on and find someone better. We have been ...
A. 10 May 2008: I agree that after 1000's of attempts to amend things between you two,you came here to seek advice but you know the answer. Its there in you.
Think again,the way you said that you should you move on,made me think that you too are not into him and ... (read in full...)
HELP me, I can't tell if he likes me or not.
Q. I'm 14 and i have a crush on this 15 yr old guy. he always looks at me when we walk pass or when i'm around but i pretended not to notice him. then as weeks past, he looked at me lesser and lesser till it's like he doesn't even care about me ...
A. 10 May 2008: If am free to express thoughts going in my mind after readin your question then....
Why you come us with such "not to ask from others" type question.
I have been writing that the best way at this age and in similar type of situation,is to ... (read in full...)
What can I say to make this guy smile?
Q. For the past two months i've been talking every now and then to this guy who i know from places, but have never met, but i know he's not a pedo or anything. The past 2 weeks we've been texting loads and i spent 3 hours on the phone to him last ...
A. 10 May 2008: Common whats there to get this tensed.i believe that you two spend considerable time on net so you can send him E-card.
Have you heard of them??am sure this will make him feel special and put smile on his face.
check out this link and send him... (read in full...)
I know the relationship is really unhealthy but I don't have the strength to leave!
Q. well i dont even really know where to start. me and my bf have been dating for 15 months now. i am currently ending my first year in college, and about to go home in one week. he is still in high school, a senior, and lives back home(i go to college ...
A. 10 May 2008: Ok lemme tell you what you can do in these days just to occupy yourself.
Get registered with this site and then start giving advice to others.
Believe me you will feel better and when one gives suggestions then one tends to follow them too.
... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be with a partner and not trust them 100%, but disconnect yourself emotionally so you don't get hurt?
Q. Hi there, My problem is that I can't trust my current girlfriend. We have been together for a month. But have known each other for 4 years. The problem stems from a few text messages i read on her phone from her ex boyfriend, which read 'I love you ...
A. 10 May 2008: Well thats sad to read,but....
remember the golden rule
EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON AND FOR YOUR GOOD .
so just be strong and move on..
its hard as you wrote but...
You will get sum1,who came in this world just for you.
count down ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has lied to me about her sexual history! I hate what she's done to herself but she says she's different now?
Q. I know this is not a new topic, I know this has been discussed over, and over... i know that some of you will say get over it, but I don't think I can... Or at least, not always. My problem is that my girl friend has been with more people than...
A. 9 May 2008: Hey thats great!!if you have already done that.
Don't worry,she won't leave you.it was so much of love through out and if for some reason she reacts different from the way we thought then,don't panic.Make her understand that you didn't raise fing... (read in full...)
Will a brace put the men off me?
Q. I want to meet and date other people again after getting out of a relationship. But i maybe getting a brace this year, as i want to straighten my teeth. will it put men off me? when they see it? ...
A. 9 May 2008: You want your teeth to be fixed.
Now how does that matter if men ,women or chidren put off by them?
Common,if you encounter some accident then wud you think before getting bandage??"no"
why???
even that can be a big turn off,bandage all over... (read in full...)
I see him looking at me but I don't know if he really likes me
Q. Hey, okay I have a problem. Theres this guy at my school who I really really like! And all my friends know I do-but he doesnt, we dont really talk, but if we see each other we smile/say hello... My friend asked him who he liked and he said its...
A. 9 May 2008: www.acmelove.com/romance/top-10-romantic-lines.php
lovetips4all.wordpress.com/2007/07/28/my-voted-10-most-romantic-movie-lines/
Make some changes and use these lines in your text.
you are a kid,even asking for lines to text.
... (read in full...)
I need to talk about being together. How should I approach it?
Q. well, ive been seeing this dude for sometime now about two months or so and we also have sex together like two to four times a week. and i feel close to him, he takes me out to eat and we have fun together. well over time i have gained feelings for ...
A. 9 May 2008: Well am sorry.last post was not for you.
but you can use links..... (read in full...)
I need to talk about being together. How should I approach it?
Q. well, ive been seeing this dude for sometime now about two months or so and we also have sex together like two to four times a week. and i feel close to him, he takes me out to eat and we have fun together. well over time i have gained feelings for ...
A. 9 May 2008: www.acmelove.com/romance/top-10-romantic-lines.php
lovetips4all.wordpress.com/2007/07/28/my-voted-10-most-romantic-movie-lines/
Make some changes and use these lines in your text.
you are a kid,even asking for lines to text.
strange t... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...
A. 9 May 2008: Yes go and get 1 sex mate. lol!!!!!!... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...
A. 9 May 2008: Government organises "blood donation camp" and lisa will "sperm donation camp". but hey why don't you join hands .first he will donate his blood and then sperms.
lol!!!... (read in full...)
I am madly in love with a married colleague and I want him for me at any cost!
Q. I am married. It was love marriage. Recently i started working in an insurance company and there i met a guy named Rajan. He very warm, friendly and funny guy and i attracted towards him and fell in love with him. I'm madly in love with him ...
A. 9 May 2008: Your husband should come with same idea and leave you before you tell him.... (read in full...)
He found out about my hairy armpits and now he's flirting with my friend
Q. I really like this guy but he found out i had hairy armpits and is really freaked out now he is flirting with my friend wat should i do...
A. 9 May 2008: Wax them in future. lol!!
You can even abduct him and then forcefully show your clean armpits.mMy be he give a thought then
lol!!!
what a kiddish question was that.lol!!... (read in full...)
We keep breaking up, but I really want him back
Q. I felt in love with this guy since the first day I met him, and then we had a relationship, for more than a year, the problem now is we always break up and make up, because we do really love each other. He dumped me but I know that he still lo...
A. 9 May 2008: I am sure that one of you will soon pop up this question .Can't say who will be that.But this will happen.untill and unless one of you get involve in another relationship.
So there is no need to right some long answer. this is the conclusion.
Me te... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has lied to me about her sexual history! I hate what she's done to herself but she says she's different now?
Q. I know this is not a new topic, I know this has been discussed over, and over... i know that some of you will say get over it, but I don't think I can... Or at least, not always. My problem is that my girl friend has been with more people than...
A. 9 May 2008: Bring her to this site and make her read the question you posted. she will surely show some change..
Am not kidding.am very serious..forget all your fears and just show her this.then there will be nothing left to discuss or tell her.she will know... (read in full...)
I know the relationship is really unhealthy but I don't have the strength to leave!
Q. well i dont even really know where to start. me and my bf have been dating for 15 months now. i am currently ending my first year in college, and about to go home in one week. he is still in high school, a senior, and lives back home(i go to college ...
A. 9 May 2008: Why you are running into things??why you want to control his life??why you need him every now and then??if he can enjoy break,then why don't you try to??why you keep calling him and bothering him and give him hint as if you are nowhere without ... (read in full...)
I see him looking at me but I don't know if he really likes me
Q. Hey, okay I have a problem. Theres this guy at my school who I really really like! And all my friends know I do-but he doesnt, we dont really talk, but if we see each other we smile/say hello... My friend asked him who he liked and he said its...
A. 9 May 2008: If he looks at you that doesn't mean that he is into you.school boys are very notorious and am even sure that he is very well aware about your crush on him.but he is acting as if he is so unknown to things.
if your friends know about this then i th... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has lied to me about her sexual history! I hate what she's done to herself but she says she's different now?
Q. I know this is not a new topic, I know this has been discussed over, and over... i know that some of you will say get over it, but I don't think I can... Or at least, not always. My problem is that my girl friend has been with more people than...
A. 9 May 2008: If i see myself at your place then it would have bothered me a lot more.16 times,5 relatioships,other 1 nite stands,2 times with women,4 rapes,threesomes...........
Am still thinking how to start with...!!!
okh lets go deep inside
4 rapes-... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be with a partner and not trust them 100%, but disconnect yourself emotionally so you don't get hurt?
Q. Hi there, My problem is that I can't trust my current girlfriend. We have been together for a month. But have known each other for 4 years. The problem stems from a few text messages i read on her phone from her ex boyfriend, which read 'I love you ...
A. 9 May 2008: i read your new post and liked the way you opted.
good decision!!... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be with a partner and not trust them 100%, but disconnect yourself emotionally so you don't get hurt?
Q. Hi there, My problem is that I can't trust my current girlfriend. We have been together for a month. But have known each other for 4 years. The problem stems from a few text messages i read on her phone from her ex boyfriend, which read 'I love you ...
A. 9 May 2008: If break up is new then it can be that her ex still has feelings for her and thats why bothers her and she is just handling situation at her own without involving you.so give her time and yes ,if you can hold your feelings back for her,then it's ... (read in full...)
I need to talk about being together. How should I approach it?
Q. well, ive been seeing this dude for sometime now about two months or so and we also have sex together like two to four times a week. and i feel close to him, he takes me out to eat and we have fun together. well over time i have gained feelings for ...
A. 7 May 2008: Be the woman of 2008.Tell him straight but a blush on your face,that you have developed some feelings for him and you would love to be in a serious relationship with him.
Am giving you this link.make sure that you use these lines in your next conv... (read in full...)
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