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writes:I am in love with a guy a year older than me. Before anyone says am not in love its "lust" I am. I know I am. I never stopped thinking about him and he just makes me so happy and want to smile all the time any other time I am depressed and not happy at all. He told my friend he really liked me but he is going out with another girl. He has started sending flirty texts and I really don't know what to do. Please give me some advice because I'm becoming depressed at the fact we aren't together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah thanks for the advice but a am really upset about this all the other day if elt tht bad i self harmed which i know does not solve anything but took my mind off him for the first time in ages :/ xx
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reader, smiler08 +, writes (3 June 2008):
all you can do is tell him how you feel and be str8 out with him!!you also need to sit him down an ask him who is it he wants to be with because he cant be going with sum1 and then messin with your head by sending flirty texts...if he likes you im sure he will pick you because he is obv interestd so jst sit down an tell him how your feel..goodluck xx
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reader, growing  +, writes (3 June 2008):
 At present he is going aroung with other gal and sending you flirty texts too then before moving any further,just know what's there in his mind?if you got the hints from someone that he liked you then gather some courage and speak out.
if he wants you then he can dump this other gal and just hope he won't do the same with you.
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Yeah, it's rough because of this other girl. Maybe next time he sends you a flirty text, you can say, " I love when you flirt with me, but don't you have a girl friend?" maybe put on your joking voice and say "you should just leave her, and be with me"-see what kind of reaction you get, cause if he really isnt into his lady, he'll say, "I know!" But if he is attached to her, he will probably laugh-and thats it. Or he'll say, "Nah, she's ok." But if you sound like you are just joking, you wont seem too much like your head over heels in lust with this guy, keep the moment from becoming super akward. If you get the reaction you are looking for, you can step it up a little. Whatever you do, don't become his girlfriend untill he has broken it off with her. If you do, you will always wonder if he is cheating on you, and it will cause trust issues in your relationship. Good luck, keep us updated:)
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