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My boyfriend of nearly 3 years left me and wont even talk to me about it, please help
Q. my boyfriend of nearlly three years left me and wont even talk to me about it. I made a list of reasons why i shouldnt be with him, but i cant help but cry all day and call him constantly begging him to be with me, i love him so much and this is ...
A. 12 May 2008: What you expect form us??
What want from us??
You know it very clearly that he is not the one as you gave 20 reaosns not be with him but you still love him!!
PAIN IS INEVITABLE BUT SUFFERING IS OPTIONAL.
Why don't you opt for good things in y... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of nearly 3 years left me and wont even talk to me about it, please help
Q. my boyfriend of nearlly three years left me and wont even talk to me about it. I made a list of reasons why i shouldnt be with him, but i cant help but cry all day and call him constantly begging him to be with me, i love him so much and this is ...
A. 12 May 2008: What you expect form us??
What want from us??
You know it very clearly that he is not the one as you gave 20 reaosns not be with him but you still love him!!
PAIN IS INEVITABLE BUT SUFFERING IS OPTIONAL.
Why don't you opt for good things in y... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of nearly 3 years left me and wont even talk to me about it, please help
Q. my boyfriend of nearlly three years left me and wont even talk to me about it. I made a list of reasons why i shouldnt be with him, but i cant help but cry all day and call him constantly begging him to be with me, i love him so much and this is ...
A. 12 May 2008: What you expect form us??
What want from us??
You know it very clearly that he is not the one as you gave 20 reaosns not be with him but you still love him!!
PAIN IS INEVITABLE BUT SUFFERING IS OPTIONAL.
Why don't you opt for good things in y... (read in full...)
What should I do if I don't like my boyfriend as much as I used to?
Q. well wat if i dont like my boyfriend as much as i use to but im afraid to break up with him because i know how it will be with out him it will be very different no more holdin hands or talking on the fone for a long time or even having a boyfriend ...
A. 12 May 2008: Have you thought what is the reason that has changed things towards him.Usually it happens when one is cheating or there is a consatant fight or you start liking other guy.
Find out the answer that makes you to opt out?
And if there is a reaso... (read in full...)
Is 17 too young to know you have found "the one"?
Q. Ok I know what everyone is going to say when I ask this question but is 17 to young to find the one? Me and my boyfreind are very matture then most other couple and so happy, everyday just keeps getting better with him , so what im asking is can it ...
A. 12 May 2008: There are couples who meet at very young age and continues it thorought their lives but then there are very few of its kind.
But why are you keen in this question?will you be with him only if he is there throughout your lifetime? common,p... (read in full...)
I've heard she likes me but not from a reliable source, do I pursue her?
Q. I have a very good friend who I would like to pursue a relationship with, but am unsure how to proceed, and if to proceed at all - I do not want to lose her friendship by making a clumsy attempt at romance, but I have had feelings for her for a long ...
A. 10 May 2008: She is intersted if whatever you noticed wasn't fake.
I mean what if she was dropping all those himts just to win a bet to proove your friends that you are into her.
lol!!!
she is very much interested so now just ask her out.... (read in full...)
Does he love her or me?
Q. I need to know something, it's kind of 2 questions. Well, first is, I need to know if my ex really does love his girlfriend. He never really acts like he does, and he beats her. He's always cheating on her. And the other is, I need to know if ...
A. 10 May 2008: He neither loves his gf nor you.
IF he still touches you and kisses you the way he used to then you are hand in glove with him in cheating his gf.
You are just getting used and pehaps you have no problems with that.
I may soung harsh but this... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with my ex-boyfriend!
Q. hi im 13 and im going out with this really nice,caring guy i mean hes not the best looking guy in the school but he loves me and i said i loved him but every time i see him i try to smile but i cant and i dont think thats love . on the other hand ...
A. 10 May 2008: If strings are still with your ex then why are you cheating your bf?do you want him to suffer the way you are being?you said that he loves you then don't play with his emotions.
forget about yor ex,he dunped you and if somehow you two get back agai... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that giving signals to them will depict me as a flirt-But I cant get a bf!
Q. I am very good looking female....but i dont get guys...i dont knw why...actually i am an image conscious person and will never love the idea of spoiling my image by flirting with guys but at the same time i want male attention too....so even if ...
A. 10 May 2008: either think of image or find love.
true love??lol!!
no need to search it will come when it has to.... (read in full...)
Am I getting off to quickly?
Q. I am not married. When I masturbate i get off in less than 20 seconds. Is this a problem?...
A. 10 May 2008: ITS NOT A PROBLEM UNLESS YOU ARE MARRIED.
LOL!... (read in full...)
Is it because I refused him sex that he couldn't wait to get rid of me?
Q. About 2 weeks ago I slept over my bf's house. I told him before that I wasnt ready for sex, so he should not of expected me to sleep with him just cause i agreed to sleeping over...i just wanted to sleep in his arms, nothing more. Anyway, he wante...
A. 10 May 2008: If you are conservative then for good. this guy is just not into you.the way you ended up in nite can still be justified ,that out of frustrfation,he turned away but if he started at same note in morning too then he was just intersted in sex and he ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is always so busy and never seems to make time for me?
Q. My boyfreind is always so busy and never seems to make time for me....It really hurts my feelings and makes me feel down all the time..It is really distracting me so what i am asking is should i just move on and find someone better. We have been ...
A. 10 May 2008: I agree that after 1000's of attempts to amend things between you two,you came here to seek advice but you know the answer. Its there in you.
Think again,the way you said that you should you move on,made me think that you too are not into him and ... (read in full...)
What can I say to make this guy smile?
Q. For the past two months i've been talking every now and then to this guy who i know from places, but have never met, but i know he's not a pedo or anything. The past 2 weeks we've been texting loads and i spent 3 hours on the phone to him last ...
A. 10 May 2008: Common whats there to get this tensed.i believe that you two spend considerable time on net so you can send him E-card.
Have you heard of them??am sure this will make him feel special and put smile on his face.
check out this link and send him... (read in full...)
I know the relationship is really unhealthy but I don't have the strength to leave!
Q. well i dont even really know where to start. me and my bf have been dating for 15 months now. i am currently ending my first year in college, and about to go home in one week. he is still in high school, a senior, and lives back home(i go to college ...
A. 10 May 2008: Ok lemme tell you what you can do in these days just to occupy yourself.
Get registered with this site and then start giving advice to others.
Believe me you will feel better and when one gives suggestions then one tends to follow them too.
... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be with a partner and not trust them 100%, but disconnect yourself emotionally so you don't get hurt?
Q. Hi there, My problem is that I can't trust my current girlfriend. We have been together for a month. But have known each other for 4 years. The problem stems from a few text messages i read on her phone from her ex boyfriend, which read 'I love you ...
A. 10 May 2008: Well thats sad to read,but....
remember the golden rule
EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON AND FOR YOUR GOOD .
so just be strong and move on..
its hard as you wrote but...
You will get sum1,who came in this world just for you.
count down ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has lied to me about her sexual history! I hate what she's done to herself but she says she's different now?
Q. I know this is not a new topic, I know this has been discussed over, and over... i know that some of you will say get over it, but I don't think I can... Or at least, not always. My problem is that my girl friend has been with more people than...
A. 9 May 2008: Hey thats great!!if you have already done that.
Don't worry,she won't leave you.it was so much of love through out and if for some reason she reacts different from the way we thought then,don't panic.Make her understand that you didn't raise fing... (read in full...)
Will a brace put the men off me?
Q. I want to meet and date other people again after getting out of a relationship. But i maybe getting a brace this year, as i want to straighten my teeth. will it put men off me? when they see it? ...
A. 9 May 2008: You want your teeth to be fixed.
Now how does that matter if men ,women or chidren put off by them?
Common,if you encounter some accident then wud you think before getting bandage??"no"
why???
even that can be a big turn off,bandage all over... (read in full...)
I see him looking at me but I don't know if he really likes me
Q. Hey, okay I have a problem. Theres this guy at my school who I really really like! And all my friends know I do-but he doesnt, we dont really talk, but if we see each other we smile/say hello... My friend asked him who he liked and he said its...
A. 9 May 2008: www.acmelove.com/romance/top-10-romantic-lines.php
lovetips4all.wordpress.com/2007/07/28/my-voted-10-most-romantic-movie-lines/
Make some changes and use these lines in your text.
you are a kid,even asking for lines to text.
... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...
A. 9 May 2008: Yes go and get 1 sex mate. lol!!!!!!... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...
A. 9 May 2008: Government organises "blood donation camp" and lisa will "sperm donation camp". but hey why don't you join hands .first he will donate his blood and then sperms.
lol!!!... (read in full...)
I am madly in love with a married colleague and I want him for me at any cost!
Q. I am married. It was love marriage. Recently i started working in an insurance company and there i met a guy named Rajan. He very warm, friendly and funny guy and i attracted towards him and fell in love with him. I'm madly in love with him ...
A. 9 May 2008: Your husband should come with same idea and leave you before you tell him.... (read in full...)
He found out about my hairy armpits and now he's flirting with my friend
Q. I really like this guy but he found out i had hairy armpits and is really freaked out now he is flirting with my friend wat should i do...
A. 9 May 2008: Wax them in future. lol!!
You can even abduct him and then forcefully show your clean armpits.mMy be he give a thought then
lol!!!
what a kiddish question was that.lol!!... (read in full...)
We keep breaking up, but I really want him back
Q. I felt in love with this guy since the first day I met him, and then we had a relationship, for more than a year, the problem now is we always break up and make up, because we do really love each other. He dumped me but I know that he still lo...
A. 9 May 2008: I am sure that one of you will soon pop up this question .Can't say who will be that.But this will happen.untill and unless one of you get involve in another relationship.
So there is no need to right some long answer. this is the conclusion.
Me te... (read in full...)
I watch lesbian porn and masturbate. I hate myself. Is this normal?
Q. hi im 13 year old female and just recently started masturbating but i use a hairbrush and masturbate watching lesbian porn i no it sounds discusting and i want to stop because afterwards i feel so dirrty and hate myself for doing in i...
A. 9 May 2008: I agree wih "lonelytwo".so read it again,i just want to share one thing that you will feel guilty for few times but then it will fade away and may be just reading these answers will do away it.you feel guilt when you think that you are doing wrong ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has lied to me about her sexual history! I hate what she's done to herself but she says she's different now?
Q. I know this is not a new topic, I know this has been discussed over, and over... i know that some of you will say get over it, but I don't think I can... Or at least, not always. My problem is that my girl friend has been with more people than...
A. 9 May 2008: Bring her to this site and make her read the question you posted. she will surely show some change..
Am not kidding.am very serious..forget all your fears and just show her this.then there will be nothing left to discuss or tell her.she will know... (read in full...)
So...I'm still really confused about whether he likes me or not! Does he?
Q. Ok this is sort of a repost and really hope it gets posted cuz i really need help! I wrote up yesterday and and only got one answer who said they didnt' really undrstand it so i'm reposting to make it mroe understandable so hope you can help!! R...
A. 9 May 2008: IT was just the same. so why you want people to go through this big story once again..
yestreday also it was me who actually, asked for shorter version of your story but gals are mad when they are infactuated with guys.crazy!!
lemme breathe firs... (read in full...)
I know the relationship is really unhealthy but I don't have the strength to leave!
Q. well i dont even really know where to start. me and my bf have been dating for 15 months now. i am currently ending my first year in college, and about to go home in one week. he is still in high school, a senior, and lives back home(i go to college ...
A. 9 May 2008: Why you are running into things??why you want to control his life??why you need him every now and then??if he can enjoy break,then why don't you try to??why you keep calling him and bothering him and give him hint as if you are nowhere without ... (read in full...)
I have cheated on him several times but we're still together. Do I really love him?
Q. Hi Everyone We have been dating for 2 yrs now, but sometimes i feel like i dont love him, and like he does not love me. I have cheated on him several times but we're still together, and he is the first longest relationship i have ever had. The o...
A. 9 May 2008: why you asking this here????
its so funny that people ask us if they love sum1..how do we know if you yourself don't know
weird!!lol!!... (read in full...)
I see him looking at me but I don't know if he really likes me
Q. Hey, okay I have a problem. Theres this guy at my school who I really really like! And all my friends know I do-but he doesnt, we dont really talk, but if we see each other we smile/say hello... My friend asked him who he liked and he said its...
A. 9 May 2008: If he looks at you that doesn't mean that he is into you.school boys are very notorious and am even sure that he is very well aware about your crush on him.but he is acting as if he is so unknown to things.
if your friends know about this then i th... (read in full...)
Is he only being friendly?
Q. i've known this boy since i was 7 years old. Is he flirting with me or is he just being friendly. *he tickles me and pokes me *he always teases me and have special little nicknames for me *he'll shove me after he has said something funny *he la...
A. 9 May 2008: If you are 13 then,these things can be just out of frienship.
Children in this world grow up early,when they should be actually enjoying with frds and class mates ,they get into relationship and waste their chidhood and teenage.
But then its the... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has lied to me about her sexual history! I hate what she's done to herself but she says she's different now?
Q. I know this is not a new topic, I know this has been discussed over, and over... i know that some of you will say get over it, but I don't think I can... Or at least, not always. My problem is that my girl friend has been with more people than...
A. 9 May 2008: If i see myself at your place then it would have bothered me a lot more.16 times,5 relatioships,other 1 nite stands,2 times with women,4 rapes,threesomes...........
Am still thinking how to start with...!!!
okh lets go deep inside
4 rapes-... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be with a partner and not trust them 100%, but disconnect yourself emotionally so you don't get hurt?
Q. Hi there, My problem is that I can't trust my current girlfriend. We have been together for a month. But have known each other for 4 years. The problem stems from a few text messages i read on her phone from her ex boyfriend, which read 'I love you ...
A. 9 May 2008: i read your new post and liked the way you opted.
good decision!!... (read in full...)
Help me please- beat up my mate and dumped gf because they slept together
Q. help me please, my girlfried has told me that see has slept with my best friend. ive beatin the hell out of my mate and dumped my girl friend. now i regret doing them both. what should i do?vplease help me....
A. 9 May 2008: i guess,you should beat yr gf and dump yr best frd. you will feel better.
chillax!!!they already did what they wanted to.. now why are you reaching mercury??cool down and try to mix up with frds .though i know that best frd going this down sure... (read in full...)
Should I be willing to break up with my boyfriend for him?
Q. I am dating this guy and he is really special to me... but i like this guy who likes me and i told him i like him and he was happy and amazed. i have liked this guy since i met him. He has a girlfriend to but is willing to break up with her for me. ...
A. 9 May 2008: This is your age so fly with whom you want to.
ask him to break up with his gf and then you too can do it
and then have fun cos you have a long way to go for sumthing serious.
enjoy!!... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be with a partner and not trust them 100%, but disconnect yourself emotionally so you don't get hurt?
Q. Hi there, My problem is that I can't trust my current girlfriend. We have been together for a month. But have known each other for 4 years. The problem stems from a few text messages i read on her phone from her ex boyfriend, which read 'I love you ...
A. 9 May 2008: If break up is new then it can be that her ex still has feelings for her and thats why bothers her and she is just handling situation at her own without involving you.so give her time and yes ,if you can hold your feelings back for her,then it's ... (read in full...)
Why is she taking so long in deciding whether she loves me or not?
Q. Please help me! I've been with this girl for 6 months and I love her, she told me she'll feel the same way soon about me. She's said before that she wants to make sure everything will work between us. I'm doing my best to wait for her to make up h...
A. 9 May 2008: Will someone explain me that how can they be in a a relationship if one is not sure if she loves the guy!!!!
this is insane!!
i guess you are frds and then she is telling you that she needs time to come up with the answer but if you two are goin... (read in full...)
How can I deal with my friends who are constantly bringing me down?
Q. I love my boyfreind, i'm leaving school at the end of the year (I have completed grade 12 and then doing to uni) and getting engaged. It feels so right to me but, all my mates just dont understand what i feel, and always bring me down like sayi...
A. 9 May 2008: You sound very immature person to me,i am just wondering how your question got approval of getting posted here??just go and don't waste our mind and dare not post such questions in future.
So now will this stop you of posting questions he... (read in full...)
My date for the prom...do I greet her with flowers, a rose or what?
Q. I'm taking girl to prom. I'll be meeting her there because she's arriving with friends. Do I bring flowers? A Rose? Please explain in much detail. Thank you....
A. 9 May 2008: Rose is something that everyone likes. but I would suggest "DAISY" flower.why daisy???
A daisy is a much loved flower for its natural beauty and purity.It is often used for expressing unspoken feelings. A daisy symbolizes innocence and can also... (read in full...)
Why am I cheating on a girl who is so perfect for me?
Q. I've been dating a girl for 2 years. Everything was perfect, until I met a girl about 8 months ago who I slept with, roughly twice a month, for 6 months. I have only physical feelings for this girl and do not love her what so ever. I have be...
A. 9 May 2008: You have already got such detailed answer so i would just be straight.
She might cheat again if she is not getting physical and emotional satisfaction from you.she cheated before for the same reason and is most likely to cheat again for that resa... (read in full...)
How am I going to last 6 months without him?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We see eachother every weekend and only on the weekends because it's somewhat long distance (he lives in NY and I'm in NJ). I love every minute with him, but I miss him so much during the week. I ...
A. 9 May 2008: You didn't reveal this side of yours.things are very easy then .just love and trust him.
god is there to bring best things in your life.... (read in full...)
How can I help my girlfriend? I'm the only one to whom she has confided she has been raped.
Q. Hi, my girlfriend recently confided in me that she had been raped, or molested or something of the sort not too long ago, possibly less then a few months ago, she refuses to divulge any details to me, she won't tell me who, when, where, what ...
A. 9 May 2008: It seems to me that you are more on legal side and you want that ______to report to judiciary.though being a good citizen ,one should abide by rules but here you need to see yrself as her frd first,and try to have an idea what she is goin through ... (read in full...)
How am I going to last 6 months without him?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We see eachother every weekend and only on the weekends because it's somewhat long distance (he lives in NY and I'm in NJ). I love every minute with him, but I miss him so much during the week. I ...
A. 8 May 2008: Its your age that makes you feel like this.in this age people in serious relationships just want to spend most of the time together and keep other things aside but this is not life all about.you should appreciate your bf that he still considers you ... (read in full...)
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