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writes:I'm going out with this boy but I don't know what to do, I don't love him anymore I love this other boy.Ever since me and my boyfriend met people have said that we should date so I gave it a go. He says that he loves me but lately I've met a boy which I like I feel guilty but I can't help it. He is single and I wish I was too, however I don't think I stand a chance with him, He is funny smart cute kind all of that stuff I just don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend but more as a friend I just can't bring myself to break up with him, Please help x Reply to this Question
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reader, growing  +, writes (21 May 2008):
 Break up is not hard for you.its just that you are not sure if this other guy would be interested in you and you don't want to be left out alone later.So your mind is not conditioned for break up yet but once you know that this second guy is also into you,you won't think even once about your bf.
I am not saying you are mean but its something that you can't change.
You don't love him now and started developing feelings for this other.But watch out,sometime its mere an attraction that spoils serious relationships,so if it is one then control your feelings cos these will get away soon but then you won't be with the same loving bf.
And if you have strong feelings for him then let your bf know about all this and stop cheating him.
Then you two can decide for yourselves.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (21 May 2008):
 Please take notice of what the other Aunts have said. Be honest with your boyfriend, and tell him how you feel. He will respect you for not going behind his back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): You have to think about yourself. You are unhappy in your current relationship and you have interests in other guys. It will be hard, but you really shouldn't pro-long the inevitable, it will only make it harder for yourself and for your boyfriend if you keep the relationship going.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): Tell him all that you have told us, in the end it is the kindest thing to do. you should never string someone along because you just cannot bring yourself to finish with them. Be honest and truthful with yourself. If this isnt what you want then move on. You only live once.
take care
xx
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