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How am I going to last 6 months without him?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We see eachother every weekend and only on the weekends because it's somewhat long distance (he lives in NY and I'm in NJ). I love every minute with him, but I miss him so much during the week. I ...
A. 9 May 2008: You didn't reveal this side of yours.things are very easy then .just love and trust him.
god is there to bring best things in your life.... (read in full...)
How can I help my girlfriend? I'm the only one to whom she has confided she has been raped.
Q. Hi, my girlfriend recently confided in me that she had been raped, or molested or something of the sort not too long ago, possibly less then a few months ago, she refuses to divulge any details to me, she won't tell me who, when, where, what ...
A. 9 May 2008: It seems to me that you are more on legal side and you want that ______to report to judiciary.though being a good citizen ,one should abide by rules but here you need to see yrself as her frd first,and try to have an idea what she is goin through ... (read in full...)
Used to been with my boyfriend I've never thought I could feel this way about anyone else but I do
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years but lately we have'nt been the same and i don't no if i love him anymore, i really like someone else and i think he liked me but now im not so sure has he has'nt been the same with me lately and ...
A. 8 May 2008: Last post handled the question very well so I wud just add that life will never be same the way you wanted it to be,it can be even better or may be worse but never in accordance of yr thinking.what you thought or not but reality is that you have ... (read in full...)
Does he really not have feelings for me or just doesn't want to admit it?
Q. Hey!! ok i just want to know what you think of this, for the first time in my life i feel in love with a lad on my course. We are kinda friends but not good friends but all of us as a group han around together so i spend a lot of time with him. Over ...
A. 8 May 2008: It was all confusing.did you mean that somehow you conveyed your feelings to him and he said he is not into you.rite??but still he stares at you and all that??is this all you mean???... (read in full...)
Young and not sure I want to commit yet
Q. I have dated only one guy for my entire high school career. I love him so much. There isn't really as much of a spark anymore, but we still think of each other in a romantic way and we know each other better than anyone else in the world. It's a ...
A. 8 May 2008: I guess you are just assuring yourself by saying" but would I really be so torn up and upset and asking for advice on some random forum if I didn't love him?"
Coming on to your question,your age is prone to fun and exciting things.So its very obvi... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell my partner of 2 years that it's over.
Q. I've been with my partner for 2 years now, but i recently found someone else that treats me better. I don't know how to tell my partner of 2 years that it's over. Can anyone help me?...
A. 8 May 2008: So you are ready to spend your whole life with him becos he left his place to be with you.rite???I hope you are aware about divorces??what is the reason that after spending some of the great moments together,crucial years of life ; comromising on ... (read in full...)
How to make our parents trust us, as I feel we are really responsible and play safe?
Q. Hello, I have a big problem and this seems the right place to get some advice. Well my boyfriend's brother has got his girlfriend pregnant and now his mum is trying to keep my boyfriend from staying around mine. I respect her views because being pr...
A. 8 May 2008: Ask him if he can introduce you as his frd or colleague??probably this will do or if you have enuff of time in your hand then why not go with movie scripts??i mean your bf can accompany his mom for shopping and you too come at the same time there ... (read in full...)
How am I going to last 6 months without him?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We see eachother every weekend and only on the weekends because it's somewhat long distance (he lives in NY and I'm in NJ). I love every minute with him, but I miss him so much during the week. I ...
A. 8 May 2008: Its your age that makes you feel like this.in this age people in serious relationships just want to spend most of the time together and keep other things aside but this is not life all about.you should appreciate your bf that he still considers you ... (read in full...)
Now he has a girlfriend and wants to be with me and I have a boyfriend and want to be with him!
Q. Ok i need desperate help, i dont know what to do.. i am in love with boy we've dated 3 years on and off. The problem is last month i broke up with him because i needed time i think, i was so confused i didn't know if i really loved him. So i went on ...
A. 8 May 2008: well i may sound inhuman but sumtimes one should be manipulative.one thing is clear that both of you want to be together and leave your respective partners.so don't think of getting back to them.
Now if you want to do sumthing good for them then... (read in full...)
How do I approach him about getting a relationship started?
Q. Okay, so there is this guy and i really like him and we have dated before and we were so perfect together and then just one day it all fell apart i really dont know what went wrong to make our relationship come to an end. We were like best friends ...
A. 8 May 2008: What is so hard in asking sum1 who was yr best frd and even bf sumtime back and now again you two are getting friendly.you must be knowing him in and out.just pop up the question the way he liked when you did it fo the first time but yes,its not all ... (read in full...)
Will he feel hurt if I don't tell my parents about our relationship?
Q. Do most teenagers tell their parents about their love life? I've never felt the need to tell mine, partly because they never ask and partly because it's just not the kinda thing we all talk about. The main reason though is that they would act weir...
A. 8 May 2008: Its not that big issue sweetie.you two are in no hurry to settle down so why family involvement is needed.just have fun the way you are having.do you want all those restrictions and tiffs with yr mom?I am sure your bf too wudn't be intrested in ... (read in full...)
She dumps her boyfriends because she gets bored. What should I do?
Q. Since i said before that i like her a lot, i told her about my feelings and she replied to me that she doesn't have any feelings for me and she takes me as her best friend. If she had any feeling for me it would have been in the start of our real...
A. 8 May 2008: "Six months to this relationship",what relationship are you talking about??? she was never into it.it was all one way. in fact you should be thankful to her that she didn't fool around with you.she was quite clear about her attraction towards ... (read in full...)
I can't make small talk when introduced to a new group of people. How can I find my voice and use it?
Q. Hi i have a serious problem i'm shy beyond belief. I've always been this way. At school i used to blush intensly, so much so after any encounter where i had to speak my face felt like it was burning up. In small groups of friends i was o.k but still ...
A. 8 May 2008: To be honest,you should enroll yrself in some personality development classes. that really helps and if you are not looking for something like that then you need to motivate yourself.
You need lots of self motivation.be confident about your opin... (read in full...)
She's uncomfortable being affectionate in public, she says. What can I do to make her feel comfortable?
Q. I just started seeing this girl who is kinda shy and on our first date i was her first kiss. At school however, she is strongly against p.d.a.(which i agree) and told me she's uncomfortable being affectionate in public. She says she doesn't like ...
A. 8 May 2008: She is shy and that won't be easy for a gal like her to encourage PDA.it makes sense to me .well if you really don't want to leave bad impression on her then start understanding her .at this age,boys are always eager to show lovebond in public but ... (read in full...)
How to make our parents trust us, as I feel we are really responsible and play safe?
Q. Hello, I have a big problem and this seems the right place to get some advice. Well my boyfriend's brother has got his girlfriend pregnant and now his mum is trying to keep my boyfriend from staying around mine. I respect her views because being pr...
A. 8 May 2008: There you are,you said you have never met his parents .Can you trust your brother's choice before actually meeting his gf?.no matter what all rosy picture he creates in front of you,you will still have some doubts about her for the fair reason that ... (read in full...)
First time with her - did I handle it badly?
Q. I'm 19. My gf is 16. Recently she came to visit me from another town. We petted since her arrival. One morning early,while my parents were out for a while, she was still in her nightie and we were we were kissing, I pulled her panties down. Sh...
A. 7 May 2008: Well now you are over with that scene.Make sure the next time you two hit each other,it should make her feel like a princess.this relationship is not just about sex, feelings are involved here.so it demands after cuddling.though it didn't go well in ... (read in full...)
How do I show him that I really care and am here for him??
Q. ok here goes... ive been seing this guy for about 2 months...and he messaged me yesterday saying that the two people that he lives with are moving out...and told him that they'll speak to the landlord to see if he can have the lease but all of...
A. 7 May 2008: You really love him and are very much concerned about him.But sweetie you actually can't jump into the field to sought out his problem .so the behaviour that is expected from you should be met.from your post i believe that you are giving him ... (read in full...)
Is he not interested?
Q. he doesnt look me in the eye when we are talking...but when i turn away he looks at me for a couple of seconds..and when i turn back he looks for like a second..and turns back away..i like eye contact!...is he not interested? ...
A. 7 May 2008: I guess you got your cutie pie.thats great!!have fun and yes he is very much interested in you and all the romantic flicks too.
lol!!he acts just like those male actors in lead.... (read in full...)
How can I get in contact with girls for friendship, romance & sex?
Q. hi how i can get contact of girls for friend romance and sex....
A. 7 May 2008: Can't believe you are really around 26!!seems as if some desperate teen has posted this question.Anyways you mentioned 3 different cateogories: 1)friends-you can't really force gals to be friends.so may be your colleague or someone aroung your pla... (read in full...)
The chemistry was great but I haven't heard from him since. Why?
Q. Well I have been single for quite a while now and i have been trying to meet men. Well I met this guy on the internet like six months ago and i have been talking to him ever since. We had made plans to meet because we live only like a half hour from ...
A. 7 May 2008: First of all don't panic and now make some efforts to talk to that lad .may be he met some accident and thus can't be in touch.
i assume oyu have exchanged phone numbers as you have met so its not just through offline msgs.so call him and find out ... (read in full...)
Worried I won't "do it" right!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a quite a few months now, and have never been in a rush to do anything. He knows I'm not ready for sex, and he's supportive of that. I want to wait untill i'm legally old enough, in a stable relationship and all ...
A. 7 May 2008: It depends on you.if you want that then go for it,but first ask yourself are you ready and is he the guy that you trust this much that you are ready to do stuff with?cos sumtimes it leads to SEX.then it depends on ideology.if you think that you are ... (read in full...)
I heard that everyone on campus says my boyfriend doesn't take our relationship seriously!!
Q. Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he gets on well with my good friends, A, B and C who I've known for the same period. He plays and jokes with them so that they can feel free around him. But many times their play fights end ...
A. 6 May 2008: I guess 2 years are not less to know someone.its you who is in relationship with him and not your friend.so don't let other's comments to spoil yr relationship.
As you said that two of them can't even stand each other after the last tiff so may be j... (read in full...)
Do I tell him she's cheating, even tho' I promised I wouldn't?
Q. One of my good friends has recently started to date the guy i fancied. They seem good together, but i found out she had cheated on him. Do i tell him even though i promised her i wouldn't? Please help. They are both my friends....
A. 6 May 2008: The best way is to make your female friend realise what she is upto andmake her see things from the angle you can see it.may be that will help her to be loyal then onwards or she would make her mind to dump him.
And if you still fancy him then why ... (read in full...)
Is he giving out signals towards me, or is he just being friendly?
Q. Ok, there’s this boy (call him A) who’s 1 year older than me who I have a crush on, but is ALSO my best boy mate. I haven't known him that long - about 4 months. Basically I’m confused about his feelings towards me. Yesterday me my best friend (G),...
A. 6 May 2008: whats there to be scared about rejection????
if you are not confident about yourself then how can you expect sum1else(i am pointing on yr "A")to be confident about you to be his girlfriend.would you like him to have doubts about you??so clear all ... (read in full...)
Who does he like, if he's flirting with me and my best friend?
Q. If a boy keeps flirting, but is doing it really serious, and is doing the same to your best friend. Who does he like ?...
A. 6 May 2008: Ask him.lol!!
your age is not for love and getting serious.i guess he is just acting his age.having fun with both of them but ooops you two got it.so now you two friend can act youe age and let that kid know his age.
Quite a relieve from monotono... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell my partner of 2 years that it's over.
Q. I've been with my partner for 2 years now, but i recently found someone else that treats me better. I don't know how to tell my partner of 2 years that it's over. Can anyone help me?...
A. 6 May 2008: It doesn't matter if it was for 2 yrs or 10 yrs.Now you no more feel for him.so the least painful way for him to know this, is you telling him directly.Just be straight and no need to beat around the bush.when break up occurs,one has to go through ... (read in full...)
He tells me he loves me all the time, but doesn't show it.
Q. Hi i'm really worried about my b/f, he has been funny with me and we have been together for about 8 weeks. He tells me he loves me all the time, but does not show me that he means it and everything. I really like him but don't know what to do, i th...
A. 6 May 2008: Then be one of the hot chick.may be thats all is missing!! go and try a trick or two between the sheets.lol!!
jokes apart,if you like him and he keeps on telling that he too loves you then what is that stopping you not to believe him?don't you trus... (read in full...)
Why am I not getting any response from her?
Q. Hello people, i need your help....again I like this girl and i would like to think she likes me. Anyway, i was talking to her a couple of days ago and we were having a laugh, now when i go to phone her she doesn't answer, when i text her she doe...
A. 6 May 2008: Thouhg she is showing reluctance towards your calls and texts but she still has not said NO.so you still have ball to hit the goal.she is just upset with something and may be somthing that has to do with you.
I hope she is unaware about you fool... (read in full...)
He's paranoid and depressed coz I'm going to college
Q. Well, I'm in my last year of school, with only this week left of school till my exams, and then I'll be off to college in September. My boyfriend has been really depressed lately because we are in the same school and he's a year younger than me ...
A. 6 May 2008: Life is not all that difficult as it seems sometimes.you said that he is extremely paranoid(i hope its not in real bcos that implies he is suffering from some mental disorder and needs urgent treatment,so avoid using such extreme terms out of your ... (read in full...)
Do you think he wants me back? should I talk to him about it?
Q. Ok me and my ex have been broken up for over a month and we just started talkin again on friday because he was whingin to me askin why i don't talk to him anymore.. we met up friday just at a friends place and didn't say much to each other th...
A. 6 May 2008: hi,don't get this stressed.after goin through yr question,my mind is running in two differnet directions. 1may be ,he has realised yr importance in his life after you two got apart.we all know that ,we realise importance of sumthing when we loose... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend an ABUSER?
Q. I am confused about whether of not my bf is abusive. Please tell me what you think. We haven’t been dating for long (just under 2 months) so part of him is still putting on the perfect guy act I think, but I feel that maybe these little things that ...
A. 5 May 2008: i agree with daniel,even i cud make out in just few lines that you need to be out of this crap.it was still acceptable if he was forcing you to bring some hot and wild element into the scene but knowing that he was hurting you,he cudn't stop ... (read in full...)
After a long relationship I want to finish it, but how, without hurting his feelings?
Q. Hi All I am into a so-called "great relationship" for outsiders( friend who envy me) for the past 4 years. I am a bit manly in my thinking but a soft pity corner for him. I know at this point of life ,if i leave him i`ll be fine and maybe great....
A. 5 May 2008: i cud visualise yr life with him.gal,ask yrself do u realy want to be with him??is there any hope that he can meet yr expectations??and if he brings some changes in his behaviour,wud u still enjoy with him or have that rockin relationship as u said ... (read in full...)
I am a little overweight, any suggestions?
Q. i would really like to lose some weight as i am a little over weight. i have tried to diet lots of times before but nothing seems to work for me and i am a very fussy eater. Has anybody got any tips of how i could lose some weight....
A. 5 May 2008: You said you don't eat much, but may be whatever you eat adds on to your weight. Well,first step to get into shape is to ban carbs (potato and rice), fat and all the junk food (chips, aerated drinks, chocolates, cakes, all kinds of sweets etc). Th... (read in full...)
Gradually she started hating me...she didn't even give me time to prove myself better!
Q. I love her since last 1 year but she hates me she doesnt even want to befriend me what should i do? i fell in love wid her when she had a bf. her bf betrayed her and i proposed her immediately. but was taken aback another friend of mine also pro...
A. 5 May 2008: you said that you don't believe in giving up.but ,don't you think her heart is not a game that you want to win at every cost.well,i can get a feel that you are going through but i would suggest you to let her fly with her preference.its her life ,so ... (read in full...)
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