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writes:hello, my g/f from 6 mos. broke up wit me last week bc she said she wasnt happy n the relationship anymore bc she just likes her freedom and wants to be single rite now. she said i am the only one she would want to be wit if she would want a relationship, but its not the rite time. we still talk everyday, and she said she still loves me and when i asked her if she misses me; she said yea, a little but not enough to want to get back in the relationship rite now. should i try and quit callin her all together rite now? i feel like it, but i dont want that to cause her to get farther away from me. so how do i know if i should continue to call her or should i just wait and see if she decides to want me back?? do u think even though she does not miss me that much rite, that maybe in a few days som feelings will come back and we will end up gettin back together?? thanks for any advice you give..
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice. do u think i should ask her again bc wit all the stress in her life right now, says that she just dont want to think about our relationship rite now. she has not been wit anyone before me in 2 yrs. and she said that she just needs her space and thats why shes not sure about the relationship rite now. she promises that if she would want a relationship that i would be the only one she would want. i kinda believe it bc everyone that is close to her always told me before we got together "good luck" bc she is hard to get. and they still tell me that they think that she really does not want anyone else. even her daughter tells me that. am i stupid to believe that r not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): I've found that the best thing when you separate is not to see or contact each other, as it makes you keep wanting the other person.
She has said she doesn't want you, but doesn't sound certain. Maybe she could give you the full reasons of what was wrong? Then if she is definite, you can decide what to do.
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reader, growing  +, writes (21 May 2008):
 She says that it would be you if relationship is on cards but am pretty sure that she is not sure and just being a smart ass.
She doesn't want any fuss or guilt if she falls for other guy thus she called off the relationship but she is single and used to you so she is just the same as she was in a relationship.
If she talks daily and admits that she misses you and loves you but not enough to get back then it clearly indicates that"I am looking for someone and you are just a filler in the mean time".
Well its your choice to waste your love on someone this low.
If you want her then put your feelings across her and if she still sticks to her idea then tell her you are not Ok with whats going on and then you know what has to be done?
This is what is right but love is beyond right and wrong so if you prefer these few last days with her merely as a time pass and then later on with broken heart and tears ,then go ahead who can stop you?
I would advice you to know your importance and importance of your love so before going further ask yourself Is she worth it?
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