I know I am fat, but why cant I get a boyfriend?
Q. fat girl needing a man to date but why none have asked me ? i am a 24 year old fat woman who has had two problems most of her life not having guys ask me out and my weight by trying to loose it even though i gain more . it is bugging me . i tried ...
A. 2 August 2007: Well you address yourself as a fat girl. That is unhealthy in every aspect to see yourself as anything other than a just a "girl."
You don't have a boyfriend, not because your fat. But because how you see yourself.
You need to move out of your... (read in full...)
A boy that I like wont play with me or anything
Q. a boy that liked me won't play with me or anything what should i do...
A. 2 August 2007: Ummm. He's just not that into you. Or if you think differently feel free to post more.... (read in full...)
I need date ideas! Where are some cool places I can take my girlfriend?
Q. I've been trying to find some new places to take, and new things to do with my girlfriend. She's not much of an outdoorsy person, as I found out. We usually spend all of our time at her house, watching movies. Which is great in one respect, because ...
A. 30 July 2007: Go make pottery together. It's messy and fun!
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Is he interested in my and shy, or just not interested?
Q. Hi all, I posted a question up a few days ago regarding the guy that i fancy and the mixed signals i'm getting from him. Having spoken to someone with a few more years of life experience than me, they seem to think he likes me but is shy. ...
A. 30 July 2007: Most likely he is trying not to act too interested in you. It tends to scare girls off when guys do that. ... (read in full...)
Do you think we will end up together?
Q. I am 16 . I have liked a guy who I only shared 1 class with for 2 years. We are both extremely shy but I got the feeling that he like me e.g. His friends would let him know when I entered a room or he would show off infron of me and things like ...
A. 26 July 2007: Well yeah. It sounds like he likes you.
Well I Don't make much of him dancing with that other girl. as a pretty popular good looking guy I can tell you sometimes you have to dance with a girl you really don't want to.
He probably rejecte... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my married teacher and there's a lot of evidence to suggest he likes me too, what should I do when school starts again?
Q. I've tried getting over my teacher so many times. I've tried getting to know this boy I had a crush on for a few months, but once we went out, there were no sparks. zip. nothing. I think my teacher likes me back, it seems like he has since the day ...
A. 25 July 2007: I didn't read your question. I don't have to. your 16 or 17. He will get fired if he has any kind of a relationship with you. Your welcome to tell him. But he is gonna turn you down. Sorry to give such a not happy answer but its the truth.... (read in full...)
She teased me last night and now I have pains this morning!
Q. Hi Im new at this so bare with me. My girlfreind slept over at mine last night just the two of us (my parents have gone away for the week). As the night went on things got a little more steamy. We was both being turned on. But due to her being on ...
A. 24 July 2007: or tell her that she needs to finish the game...... (read in full...)
Why are so many children having sex?
Q. Hi. This is a general question, rather than help really, and for all the young people to think about perhaps. Ok, here it is..... Why are so many very young people having sex under 16 years old? For a start the legal age for it is no...
A. 24 July 2007: as a 17 year old I feel I am qualified to answer this. and good question. The media has confused sex with love with lust with cool with being normal. and its not 16 everywhere. Here in colorado USA age of consent is actually 12. so anyon... (read in full...)
What should my average weight be?
Q. i would like to know what the average height for a 15 - 16 year old male is and shoe size and weight, im 5'9", shoe size 11.5 and 155 pounds....
A. 24 July 2007: im 17. about 165lbs right now. It goes up or down daily though. about 10lbs of fat. shoe size is 11.5 Height is 6 foot. it depends on your build though. i have big shoulders and therefor way more than a naturally lanky person. ... (read in full...)
I produce a lot of pre-cum and it's embarassing! What can I do about it?
Q. Hello. im only 15 and im new to sex. the problem im having is that i seem to be pre-cumin all the Time!! when me and my girlfriend are just laying side by side and im feeling her up or something like that or something that may get me erect, i ...
A. 24 July 2007: enjoy being over stimulated. because in 50 years you won't ever be able to do that again. naturally...... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Moderators needed!
Q. Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING -- many moderators drop out after just a couple of weeks so if you're not committed please don't apply! ...
A. 24 July 2007: I am willing to be a mod. I'm always on the internet. I know how to use proper English and grammar. I always spell check my posts. My advice is direct and to the point. I don't fluff it. But it's usually what people need to hear.
-Tea ... (read in full...)
I'm too embarassed to buy condoms but I don't want to end up being a daddy; what should I do?
Q. Hello im 15 and im a WIMP i have a girlfriend and we have sex as often as possable. the thing is im to much of a wimp to get condoms. i just get too embrassed. i have recently been stealing them off my brother and about a week ago i was lucky an...
A. 24 July 2007: If your to emberassed to buy condoms then it means that your to embaressed to admit your having sex. which means you know that its not right for someone your age to be having it. So either stop having sex or get over yourself and buy them. It's ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sometimes glances at pretty girls and it really bothers me
Q. My boyfiend isnt the type of man to buy newspapers with women in, or magazines ect. and is not a womaniser. However ive noticed in the supermarket for example that he glances over at attractive girls, he doesnt ogle but i see him look,maybe once. ...
A. 24 July 2007: Well I'm going to assume you've seen a movie. Yeah cause im risky like that. Whenever a "hot" actor comes on screen you more than likely ogle him. it doesn't really mean anything to you. that feeling you get when you do that is the same he gets... (read in full...)
What does witty mean?
Q. A girl i fancy so badly told me she would love to have a boyfriend with great sense of humour, witty comments who's loving and tender. I get some of it, but what is witty comments? And what does she mean by being tender?...
A. 23 July 2007: Witty actually means quick thinking. If you ever watched the show SCRUBS then Dr. Cox is very witty
http://youtube.com/watch?v=EYm5bbCKh44
He is also a bit of an ass.
But you get the idea. be carefull with wit. it goes hand in hand with b... (read in full...)
Want to lose weight by not eating.
Q. Ok well i'm 14 and i want to loose weight as im 9 stone which is like pretty bad for my age i'm fat really..i wanna loose weight by not eatin..but i wanna know what will happen to my boobs? will they shrink?? please answer thanks xxx...
A. 23 July 2007: Boob size doesent matter all that much. It's great for hooking up i mean. But in a relationship I'm sure most guys will agree its pretty low on the list of importance. and no one wants an anorexic stick.
what does stone mean? I assume its a Br... (read in full...)
With my physique, what's the easiest way to build a six-pack?
Q. i'm 15 years old, 5ft something or other weighting 10, stone what is the easiest way to get a 6 pack?...
A. 23 July 2007: you need an extremely low body fat %. so lose all the extra fat. ... (read in full...)
Would it be a sin or illegal to be with my first cousin?
Q. Ok, over the past few years me and my first cousin and i have gone really close and want to go further she lives kind of far and we talk time to time but i am afrain my family will not accept me. What should i do? and also is this a sin if we have ...
A. 23 July 2007: umm she is your 1st cousin. you are related by blood. thats wrong in my opinion. and it probably would be a sin.... (read in full...)
She's suddenly scared to do the things we've been doing instead of sex and I'm displeased
Q. hey, im 15 years old and me and my girl friend have been doing allot of things except for sex. and now all of a sudden she is scared to do everything else (stuff we even did before ex: anal) now im always feeling unpleased and depressed because she ...
A. 23 July 2007: have you asked her? its pretty unfair and wrong to change the rules of the game mid relationship.... (read in full...)
I'm meeting my online female friend for the day; any tips on good behaviour?
Q. Hi all, I've been talking to a girl online for 3-4 months and we're now planning on meeting up and hanging out for the day. I'd have to say that this is mainly a Q for the girls. I was wondering is there anything special I should do other than be...
A. 23 July 2007: I know i'm younger than you. But advice is advice.
1) be aware of the world. Know what is going on in the news.
this is good for conversations.
2)It's good if you can make her laugh. But if your not funny don't push it. even something dorky... (read in full...)
How do i know if he wants to kiss me?
Q. Okay, I like this boy and i want to kiss him, but i don't know if he wants to kiss me. Any hints?...
A. 21 July 2007: Well does the boy like you? have you gone on any dates? Your 10-12 years old, the best thing would be to just plant one on him. If worst comes to worst... well if he likes you then he will like it. if he doesent he probably wont mind too much.... (read in full...)
Does he really like me or not?
Q. Hey, I'm 14 and the guy i like is 16, he flirts with me quite a lot. He is always brushing up against me as if to kiss me and putting is arms round me, he has also fallen asleep on my sholder lots on coach journeys. Do you reacon he really likes me?...
A. 21 July 2007: Well, ask your self "If he doesent like me, would I be allright with just being very physically intimate friends?"... (read in full...)
How do I safely break up with a jealous, paranoid bf?
Q. Hi, thank you for taking the time to read this... I really want to break up with my long-term boyfriend, mainly because I don't think that our relationship is healthy. He is jealous and paranoid. I have tried my hardest to make him feel secure about ...
A. 20 July 2007: If you are worried about your own protection just have friends with you a lot. specifically stronger male friends. and if needed dont wait to call the police.... (read in full...)
Going through puberty experiences and wondering, if I might be gay. Any advice?
Q. Hi im chris, 11 and (jeez this is nerveracking) i am really getting deep into my puberty such as a different voice and really getting tall in short times and other things that id rather not say. Recently i have had very tight stomach feelings and I ...
A. 20 July 2007: Looking at yourself does not make you gay. Being only attracted to males makes you gay. Your welcome to google puberty and read up on it. It should answer more of your questions. good luck!... (read in full...)
MY mum won't let me stay at my bf's place! How can I persuade her to change her mind?
Q. I'm 16, my mum knows me and my boyfriend have sex, she wont let me stay round his house, ive tried everything! She let me stay round once on new years, its his birthday in 2 weeks and i have to stay round! Ive written letters, begged, threatened! ...
A. 20 July 2007: child said it best "Part of growing up and transitioning between being a teenager and an adult is the constant re-drawing of boundaries."
im in this stage. Coming out the other side. you just have to show them your mature in other areas. Keep you... (read in full...)
Love my bf but his immaturity is starting to annoy me! what can I do?
Q. i love my boyfriend to bits! he is nearly 22, but he keeps acting immature. like he talks in a little baby voice sometimes. it really annoys me because i am attracted to him most when he is being really mature. i have repeatedly asked him to sto...
A. 20 July 2007: well he is immature. You can't act immature. You either are or you aren't. If it bothers you that much just leave him. If you think that is to much then dont leave him and get used to it.
I'm gonna tell you this though: You cant change a guy. Dat... (read in full...)
I've gained 4 pounds and I feel fat! How do I lose it?
Q. i need some advice. i am 19 years old, female. i feel like i am getting to fat for my boyfriend. he says i'm not. but i have put on 10 kilos (4 pounds) in the past 12 months. does anybody have any advice on how i can lose some weight? what has ...
A. 20 July 2007: I dont know about other countries but Americans drink a ton of pop (soda). If you drink any of this stuff. just stop. Its nothing but calories and sugar. i lost 10lbs by cutting soda out over the course of 7-8 months.... (read in full...)
I'm 10, he's 19. He found out I've got a crush on him and now he's avoiding me!
Q. i like a guy 9 years older and i thought he liked me ( me 10, and him 19). it was good when no one knew i liked him, but then some one found out. she told him and now he wont talk to me. what do i do???...
A. 17 July 2007: Simple. He doesent like you back. He avoiding you because he doesent want to lead you on. Time to move on.... (read in full...)
What's the youngest age to fall in love?
Q. What's the youngest age to fall in love? I'm 9 years old and i think that i've fallen in love with my friend's cousin who's 10. I've heard people say things like it's not possible to fall in love until you are an adult so now i'm confused whether ...
A. 17 July 2007: I think you don't really know what love is until you know what heartbreak is. And you wont know that your hearts been broken till its over. ... (read in full...)
I do really love my boyfriend but if I loved him that much I wouldn't have feelings for other guys right? I'm so confused?
Q. Hey, I cheated on my boyfriend with another lad. I feel so bad, it's just my boyfriend spends too much time with other girls and for this one night this lad paid me attention and made me feel like it was only me and him in the world, sounds stupid ...
A. 17 July 2007: He was just using you. Dont ever date a guy on who you think you can make them. Date them on who they are. If you want to get used again give him a call. A kiss is only a tool to a player.... (read in full...)
Can I get in trouble for kissing her....?
Q. I posted a similar thread previously... I am seeing a girl a year and a half younger than me. She isnt 18 yet. Can her parents press charges on me for kissing her?...
A. 26 June 2007: OK first of all. The rules are different in the United States then in Great Britan. Ours are way more strict. If she is past the age of consent then you cant get in trouble. It depends on the state though. Colorado is 12 years of age for example. ... (read in full...)
Can the DearCupid men elaborate on their views on porn?
Q. Hi, I just read some answers to a question that was posted about porn and some answers from you guys were that men look at porn stars who are completely different for what they go for in real life and it's not a threat at all to their partner. ...
A. 25 June 2007: I'm just going to say that most men view porno stars as not being people. Their just actresses. I know you have quite a bit more years of experience with life then me. But I don't get nervous about my girlfriend when Leonardo DiCaprio walks a... (read in full...)
How do I say no to dating him without ruining our friendship?
Q. Okay one of my best friends, Cat, recently broke up with her boyfriend. Now he claims that he's in love with me and recently broke the news to Cat. She asked me if I had feelings for him and I said I obviously didnt. Now he wants to ask me out...how ...
A. 25 June 2007: Ahoy, I wouldn't even acknowledge that you could ever like him. That will just give him hope. and as mean as that seems as a guy I can say that its not going to be a fun ending anyway, and its better to get it over quickly. Don't show any signs o... (read in full...)
I was a virgin and now he wants to be f*** buddies! I'm so confused, please help!
Q. I just lost my virginity early yesterday morning roughly 4am (we were at a wedding before). I really liked him and I met him briefly before. It wasn't sore but I bled a little--I didn't tell him I was a virgin...do you think he might have known? ...
A. 25 June 2007: He just wants to use you for sex because its a very pleasurable thing. And if you are willing to be in a sex only relationship go for it. But your not going to turn it around and make it a romantic thing. You didnt do anything wrong. ... (read in full...)
My friends don't approve of the fact that I'm in love with my online bf.
Q. I have a bf over the net and I love him but my friends dont think so. I am aware of the dangers he's never asked for a photo or to meet up but i still don't feel comfortable when my friends are teasing me. Please help...
A. 25 June 2007: Their only teasing you because they care about you. And they are to immature to talk to you straight up about it. If you ever do want to meet him in public, please bring a friend or two. Feel free to message me... (read in full...)
My Bf said to my friend that he was using me. I need someone else!
Q. im sooooo confused and i need lots of help with this ok its so hard for me to have a boyfriend these days im 13 and going to 8th grade i get lots of boyfriends but im not a whore last weekend i was going out with this guy and i thought he lov...
A. 25 June 2007: At 13 you need to take some time off. Look in the mirror and figure out who you are. You shouldnt EVER need a partner. If you feel like you have to be someone then it isnt love. Its more of a self pitty and desparity that you are trying to fill. ... (read in full...)
We've fallen in love but his friend wants me too!
Q. I have fallen in love! YAY! We'll call him G. We have been friends for almost two years and have fallen in love. I am very happy and everything couldnt be better except his best friend, D, has feelings for me too. I am also close friends with D but ...
A. 25 June 2007: Agreed, Don't make him feel bad. He is between a Rock and a hard place. Just continue your relationship and he will slowly come off it. Feel free to message me... (read in full...)
My friend seems to be being two-faced
Q. Its hard to say but ive been hearing alot about my best mate that i dont want to hear, shes apparently been really two faced to a couple and to me and my bf in similar ways, she tells my bf that hes right and stick to his guns and the same to me ...
A. 25 June 2007: I really would like to help you out. But I cant understand the question. Can you proof read it next time?... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and puberty still hasn't kicked in
Q. help me please i am 16 and still havent hit puberty fully. I have got pubic hair gowing and i have grown in hieght and thats all. my voice hasn't broke and my penis hasn't grown much in lenght has anyone got anything that could help me please?...
A. 25 June 2007: Don't worry about it. It will happen. Just look at it as something that you have no way of controlling so there is no point in worrying over it. I was an early guy myself. and that was just as weird. Feel free to message me... (read in full...)
I'm nervous about losing my virginity but I feel pressured by my friends
Q. Im still a virgin at 14 but recently, all my friends have been losing it and I'm beginning to feel left out. I know you shouldn't give in to peer pressure but they go as far as to say "Put your hand up if your a virgin" and I find only I raise my ...
A. 25 June 2007: Well if you had sex because of peer pressure, then thats no different then someone forcing you to have sex. Which is no different than rape. And you will regret it. And yes guys get nervous. Wait till you find someone worth giving it too. You will... (read in full...)
I love him but I'm not ready for sex, what should I do?
Q. i am only 13 years old and i am very scared in a way but i love him to death!!!!!! 333 but i think that he really wants to have sex with me :( and im NOT!! ready for SEX!! what do i do????!!!!!!!...
A. 25 June 2007: Most likely he wants to have sex because he thinks its what he is supposed to want. Just turn on any television show and you will see what I mean. I'm telling you this flat out. Your not ready at 13. Unless you want to ruin your relationship. Im... (read in full...)
I dumped her but I don't want her to move on
Q. I just broke up with my girlfriend that i really loved and i still do but i got too much going on and it's to hard to be with her. We always were arguing so we broke up. I'm jealous that she will find a new boyfriend and move on i want somebody else ...
A. 25 June 2007: Well If you don't want to move on. Try and get her back. It's cliche but say you made a mistake. If you truly do want to move on. You have to stop communicating with her for awhile. Don't call,text,IM,Myspace etc. Force yourself to hang out with... (read in full...)
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