I don't want an abortion but I don't want to risk my sisters health!
Q. I'm 19 years old and 6 weeks pregnant. My uni course starts in 2 weeks where i will be studying Law. So my boyfriend of a year has me all focused on having an abortion, when it will break my heart to do so, and even worse my family has a history of ...
A. 15 September 2009: I had an abortion in April, my sister who is very Catholic threw a fit and almost cut me and my parents out of her life. She blamed my parents, thinking they made me get an abortion, but I made up my mind the minute I found out that I was preg... (read in full...)
She's 14 should I tell her that I love her?!
Q. Dear Cupid, i'm 20 and there's this girl that i play video games w/ online who is 14. the thing is, i really love her, which to me is an understatement. we've now known each other for 8 months. i really have feelings for her. i think about he...
A. 15 September 2009: I would watch yourself, ever watch Chris Hanson on Dateline? She's 14 years old, just stop and think before you do anything. ... (read in full...)
I'm in so much pain after sex but I've had sex before!
Q. right - sorry if this question shouldnt be asked on here, im just gettin a bit annoyed now, im seventeen and im single, but for the past few months (ish) ive been meeting this guy, (age 23 for if it matters) we met at a party in july and since then ...
A. 15 September 2009: You probably over did it, you lucky girl. =)
I would take some pain killers, or maybe soak in epson salt. I know how you feel, I am 28 and I sadly don't bend like I used too, my legs still hurt.... (read in full...)
I want to have sex whilst I'm spotting, how can I talk to him about it?
Q. I'm currently on birth control. Its my second month taking it, and now im starting to spot. I know its normal but I really was looking forward to seeing my boo today and having both oral sex and penetration. I know it may sound nasty, but I just ...
A. 15 September 2009: I spotted tons on Tri Sprintec, give it a couple of months, if it keeps happening ask your doctor to put you on something else.... (read in full...)
I don't really feel sex. Whats wrong with me?
Q. OMG help me!!! wen I masturbate nothing happens. I'll rub on my G spot but nothing.. it doesnt appeal to me one bit not even a little!! my boyfriend will do it but nothing either.. sex feels ok but not like what its made out to be for me...i fake ...
A. 13 September 2009: I've had more orgasms in my sleep, than when I've had sex, you need to experiment. I would invest in a vibrator, that would probably make some changes. ;)... (read in full...)
I'm positive he's cheating but I don't want to say anything. If I ignore it, can I still make things work?
Q. Hello, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend now for nearly four years and I love him very much. We do have our problems from time to time but that's because "one" of us has anger issues. He has hit me one time after I slapped him but I ha...
A. 13 September 2009: If I was in a situation such as this, I would confront him about it. I can see you've been together for 4 years, that is a long time and you feel like you cannot start over. You're stronger than you think, if he's cheating he will do it again, and ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex whilst I'm spotting, how can I talk to him about it?
Q. I'm currently on birth control. Its my second month taking it, and now im starting to spot. I know its normal but I really was looking forward to seeing my boo today and having both oral sex and penetration. I know it may sound nasty, but I just ...
A. 13 September 2009: I would just tell him about it, so he won't be surprised, its happened to me before, and he was okay with it, I felt bad about it too. I agree with washing up a bit, what BC are you taking, I took Tri Sprintec and would spot constantly. Finally, I ... (read in full...)
My first boyfriend wants to get back with me but I'm engaged, how do I tell him?
Q. I dated a guy in high school for 2 and a half years. During that time I fell in love with him. He was my first boyfriend, my first kiss, my first time, my first everything. We ended up being forced apart by my parents from some trouble we got into. ...
A. 11 September 2009: You're too young to be getting married, your life has not even began yet.... (read in full...)
Why do I always think I'm pregnant?
Q. hello everyone, im a 17 year old girl and i am on the contreceptive pill however every time i have sex im convinced im pregnant. No matter how many negative pregnancy test i have i still convince myself im getting pregnancy symptoms, even when i use ...
A. 11 September 2009: I get like that, but I had an abortion a few months earlier, I am on the pill, and had sex last month, I panicked and took plan B, now I am worried that I'm pregnant. Though my doctor told me I was not. I want to get my tubes tied so I don't have ... (read in full...)
The first time I had sex I didnt feel anything
Q. I was a virgin?! But the first time I didnt feel anything? Why?? Am I still a virgin??...
A. 11 September 2009: I didn't feel anything either the first time I had sex either, I assumed my hymen broke playing sports years ago. My last encounter was somewhat rough on his part, couldn't walk straight for a couple of days. Sex is sex, its not your fault, the ... (read in full...)
Irritated vaginal region!
Q. i tried searching for a medical site to help me but got lost and didnt find anything useful , have been two days since my vaginal opening is irritated and has little white stuff on in that if i scrathced can be removed but it is uncomfortable to...
A. 9 September 2009: Sounds like a yeast infection, I am just getting over one myself, no big deal, over the counter meds will clear it up.... (read in full...)
Am I actually squirting?
Q. Hello all I have been searching about squirting during sex. I played with myself with a toy. When I felt that pressure like I had to pee I was told to push with my muscles. So I did well needless to say warm liquid came out and even though it didnt ...
A. 9 September 2009: That sounds like an orgasm to me, lucky you =)... (read in full...)
Did I miscarriage?
Q. I think I might have had a miscarriage...I don't really know. I was suppose to have my period 3 weeks ago and I didn't get it so i figured I was pregnant since I didn't get it and there were no signs that it was comming any time soon...and a couple ...
A. 9 September 2009: You need to go to the ER right away, and find out what is wrong, those are not normal menstrual pains. I think you have miscarried, my sister had one. I would not use a tampon either, I don't think that might be safe.... (read in full...)
I haven't had my period since xmas...and I can't be pregant...is there something wrong?
Q. I dont really know how to say this.. im not really good at telling people things so here it goes... every girl is ment to get their periods monthly right? well thats wat someone told me... i havnt gotten mine since just after christmas. i thoug...
A. 1 September 2009: When I was 14 my period started, I remember it lasted about a week, and after that I did not have one for several months. It took me a really long time for my cycle to regulate, it was never like clockwork, but if I were you, I would go visit yo... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and might be pregnant! Help!!
Q. Ok. Im 14. And maybe pregnant. So i have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We are really in love and i know he's the one. My mom and dad both know we are having sex so they put me on the pill and got condoms. So almost a month ago now me and ...
A. 1 September 2009: Calm down, stressing out delays your cycle even more, ask your mother to buy you a pregnancy test and go from there. If you have questions about BC and how to take it ask your mother or your doctor about that. I have had slip-up's, but I took plan ... (read in full...)
Two one night stands with the same guy - How can I find out what is going on between us?
Q. I have posted on this site before about a man who I had a one night stand with.. Well, it happened again... I like to go out on Friday nights, I usually go by myself because I always see people that I know. Well, I saw M again, it had been a ...
A. 31 August 2009: Yeah you're probably right, it is just sex. We don't communicate at all, when I was with him, I never told him what I wanted, he never told me what he wanted. He has never told me that he likes me either, but I have never said it back. What ... (read in full...)
He's beaten me before and is now pushing for sex, should I or not?
Q. Hi umm i need help with my relationship well we are not sexually active.He is really pushing sex though..He has beaten me to the point that Ive had to have stiches..but i still love him..I wonder he says if i love him I will have sex with and take...
A. 30 August 2009: You need to get away from this guy, call the police and have him arrested for assault. Hitting you is just the beginning, what if he gets out of control and sexually assaults you or really hurts you. Your parents need to put their foot down and ... (read in full...)
Did he take advantage of me?
Q. Almost a month ago I had a one night fling with this guy we will call him "M", well we talked over the phone about our "fling" we both agreed that things would go back to the way they were between us. Well, last Saturday he just calls me out of the ...
A. 16 July 2009: I think both of you are right, he did take advantage of me. He paid me back, but he was not honest with me in the first place. ... (read in full...)
I never loved him when we married
Q. I am 34, i will be married 5 years in a few months. Truth is though i never loved him when we married, i did it so that i would not be alone anymore. He does not know how i truely feel about him, i smile at the right times, laugh on cue, agree to ...
A. 16 July 2009: I don't think its a good idea to get involved with someone you met online. Leaving one relationship and jumping into another one probably would not fix things either. You should focus on yourself, you obviously have no children so you could break ... (read in full...)
Can pre cum make you pregnant?
Q. What if a male produces a lot of precum, and he only inserts half of the head of the penis into the vagina... is there any chance that she is pregnant? or what if he has precum on his fingers and inserts his fingers into the vagina...?...
A. 1 July 2009: Pre-Cum is more potent than regular sperm. ... (read in full...)
I'm scared my boyfriend will object to the dress I've bought.
Q. We are invited to a 4th of July party, and I bought a rather modest (in length) strapless summer frock, which shouldn't be a problem except my bf is very particular about what I wear, and I am afraid he will somehow object to this dress!! He also ...
A. 1 July 2009: I would not date someone who is so controlling, but I love being rebellious, I would just do it anyway. DO NOT bring another outfit to change into just to please him. You are starting something that will be hard to change with anyone you date, ... (read in full...)
Why has my teacher been treating me differently than anyone else?
Q. Why has my teacher been treating me differently than anyone else? This year, he's given me full credit (twice) for an answer that I put, and half to the rest of the class who wrote the same answer. He's also thrown papers to everyone else bu...
A. 1 July 2009: This guy sounds creepy how old is he? I would go talk to your school counselor about this, if you feel like anything he is doing is inappropriate, you should never have to feel uncomfortable around your teachers. ... (read in full...)
Daughter feels its ok to masturbate in the open?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 41 years old single mother. My daughter is 15 years old and I was single ever since her father left me when she was 9 years old. She's a very bright student and scores very good marks at her exams, excels in sports a...
A. 1 July 2009: She needs to understand that sometimes there needs to be boundaries, and that there comes a time when you must respect a person's privacy. She is 15, she would've seen porn sooner or later so I do not see a problem with that, kids are learning ... (read in full...)
Drunked one night stand!
Q. I had a so called "One Night Stand" a week ago, we did not have sex, but it got really intimate. He was really drunk and I had drank three beers which was my limit. I was worried about this guy because he did not have a ride home so I gave him a ...
A. 30 June 2009: Well, I finally called him, and it went about the way I thought it would. He figured that something had happened when I was not there, when he woke up and I was cold in my emails. He also said that is not a way to start a relationship, I just said ... (read in full...)
Are we two freaks or do other couples act this way?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 11 years. We do have kids. My wife has always been more on the conservative side. I have always hoped that she would try to open up more sexually with me. Try new things etc. but was afraid to ask. One night...
A. 29 June 2009: I really doubt that you're the only couple that does this, most couples would probably envy how great your sex life is.... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex with two different guys -- could I be pregnant?
Q. three weeks ago i had sex with 2 different guys in 2 days. one of them was my boyfriend, one was a guy i met at a party that i went to with some friend's. usually i don't have sex with my boyfriend unprotected but it was just one time and he told me ...
A. 29 June 2009: I would go visit your doctor, there is probably a good chance that you could be pregnant. I think your boyfriend manipulated you into having unprotected sex, one thing I don't understand is why you're not on birth control.
I understand how you ... (read in full...)
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