Just come off the pill......
Q. Just come off the pill, when I was on it I was not really interested in sex. Now that I'm off I want it more than usual! ;) Just wondered if anyone else has experienced this and if its a normal thing to have happened when coming off the pill....
A. 31 October 2009: You should stay on the pill, find one that doesn't kill your sex drive, I take Yaz and I'm fine.... (read in full...)
So do you think I'm pregnant?
Q. I think i might be pregnant. I had sex about 5 months ago and i was on birth control and he was using a condum. I got my period for the first 3 months and than missed it the fourth month i than got it at the begining of the fifth month and i was ...
A. 29 October 2009: I highly doubt it, because you menstruated after you had sex.
The pill can mess with your cycle, but even if you don't have sex often keep taking the pill. It does other things than prevent pregnancy, it regulates your cycle. You did the righ... (read in full...)
Could this mean I'm pregnant? I have no symptoms.
Q. my last period was on sept.19 and finished on the 24,had protected sex(condom)2 days after my period ended,2 days after i had sex i started spotting,light bleeding then it turned brown and had it for quiet a while that i even had to use a...
A. 28 October 2009: I would go see your doctor, are you on any birth control?
If you went to see your doctor, their pregnancy tests will be better than a HPT. I would ask your doctor about Birth Control, I have been pregnant before and didn't have any blood. If this... (read in full...)
My girlfriend hasn't talked to me about getting an abortion. What should I do?
Q. My Girlfriend is going to the abortion clinic without me she is making all these decision without concerning me what should I do?...
A. 28 October 2009: You go with her, and be there for her. I had an abortion, and did not have anyone to support me, someone came with me but I went though it alone. You may not like my opinion, but I think right now the decision is up to her.
Abortion is a toug... (read in full...)
Could she be pregnant?
Q. My girlfriend and i had sex a little more than two weeks ago, she's not on any birth control, but i did use a condom. I pulled out with the condom still on, and i made sure the condom wasn't ripped or anything, and NO sperm even touched the vaginal ...
A. 18 October 2009: Probably not, my periods were never on time at that age. She needs to be on BC, that would prevent pregnancy and regulate her cycle. Stress always delays your cycle, you did good using protection, but if she wants to be safer tell her to get on ... (read in full...)
Is this bleeding normal?
Q. been checked out: clean. I've never had sex without a condom thus wasn't worried. had sex with my boyfriend before but it was gentle, slow. recently hes taken to fingering me with more than two fingers and it hurts alot, he tends to do it before i...
A. 18 October 2009: That happens with me too during intercourse, I tend to bleed and have cramps a couple of days after, and it isn't very pleasurable when that happens. I was checked out by my doctor and she said I was okay. I would go see your doctor, just to get ... (read in full...)
Is there a possibility that I'm pregnant?
Q. Okay so here is my dilemma, i took 3 hpts and they all came out negative, if i were to be pregnant i would be a month and a half now. i have montgomery glands and i know every woman has them, but theyre raised like never before. i sleep almost a...
A. 18 October 2009: You need to go see your doctor right away, and get on the pill too! I am not going to get after you, because I have been though the exact same thing you're going through. I would just go see your doctor and have her test you, then go from there.... (read in full...)
Mad at myself because I got drunk and danced at a party! I've always been a 'good girl'...
Q. over the summer i went to a party with a bunch of friends i grew up with i was the only girl.. we went to this party like early june and i got drunk badly! ive always been called a good girl cause i am a virgin at the party i got drunk and danced ...
A. 16 October 2009: I wouldn't worry about it so much, I've got really drunk at a party and got sick and broke a toilet seat, and I was embarrassed about it for awhile. I got chewed out by a friend, and I paid for the damage I caused. I don't think your behavior is ... (read in full...)
Should I take full custody of my two year old brother?
Q. I have a 2 year old brother that I have Temp. custody of. I am 18 myself....I'm getting a job, he has medicaid, and I'm going to be going to school online at some point in the future. I want full custody of my brother because my mother is a horrible ...
A. 12 October 2009: You take care of your little brother, he needs you. I think your Fiance is very selfish, he should be supporting you instead of telling you to leave your little brother to be neglected. I hope you get custody of your little brother.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I had sex without protection, but I had my period. Could I be pregnant anyway?
Q. okay so me an my boyfriend had sex without a condom cuz we didnt have 1 like a week and a half ago. he pulled out wenever he was ganna cum and ive had my period already but cud i still b pregnant? because hes ben freakin out cuz ppl have made it ...
A. 12 October 2009: Sorry about that, but I still think you're a bit young to be having sex, just take a test and see. Make sure to get on Birth Control.... (read in full...)
I'm 14, have had one abortion with complications, and I think I may be preganant again!
Q. Well im 14 yrs old and will be 15 February 3rd. I am in a relationship going on a year january 3rd and had an abortion september 1st. For my follow up ii was told that there was a blood clot left in my stomach ! ii believe they got it out but the ...
A. 11 October 2009: You could be, go see your doctor, and get on the pill, or Implanon. You're really too young to be having sex, having an abortion at your age could cause damage. Tell your mother, and tell her you want to get on birth control so this doesn't keep ... (read in full...)
Break through bleeding on the pill!
Q. I started taking the pill several months ago and never had a break through bleed until about 5 months after taking it. I went off it for a while when I was single again (having no sexual contact during that time) and have started taking it again now ...
A. 11 October 2009: What pill are you taking? If I were you, even though you're not having sex often keep taking the pill, because then you probably would not have the breakthrough bleeding. I had breakthough bleeding on Tri-Sprintec, and Junel when I was on active ... (read in full...)
Does he just want sex from me?
Q. i have been txtinga man i met on internet for the last 7 weeks. early into it he said he tught he had alein love wit me. he txts me every morning all day and nite.he is vey thoughtful and every message is accompanied by him calling me babe and love ...
A. 11 October 2009: Take your time before you jump into bed with him, because it sounds like to me, he is just wanting sex.... (read in full...)
He took something very special to me. Should I confront him?
Q. okayy so theres this guy ive liked for quite some time, we were all at this party and i was drinking a little to much, i poured my heart out to him and told him how i felt, we stated talking alot, than he took me off into this room, and we started ...
A. 11 October 2009: You've got taken advantage of, a man said to me last week he loved me twice, but I knew he was just drunk and being stupid. You were drunk, I have been there myself more than once, I am so sorry he took your first time, and threw it in your ... (read in full...)
I can't afford protection so are there any other methods of birth control?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to live with him in his car. He hates his father and his mother kicked him out. He asked me to help him clean it out because of all the vodka bottles in the back seat. He chain smokes, so that will take some getting used to. ...
A. 10 October 2009: You're stupid for wanting to be with someone like that. You can do so much better, you're making a big mistake.... (read in full...)
After 2 negative pregnancy tests could I still be pregnant?
Q. Alright so on August 15th, I had unprotected sex, we didnt use the pull out method nor did he ejaculate in me (that either one of us are aware of), I had just come off my period at the time. I am now almost a month late on my period (it will be a ...
A. 10 October 2009: Go see your doctor right away! There could be something else going on, other than being pregnant! Don't sit around and wait it out, go see your doctor.... (read in full...)
When can I take a pregnancy test?
Q. Hi. So, here is my situation: my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex (stupid, yes) the day after my period ended. Ten days later, even though I know it is unlikely that we conceived, I feel weird. PMS-like symptoms, nausea/hunger, everything smells ...
A. 10 October 2009: Go see your doctor and ask them to test you =)... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I had sex without protection, but I had my period. Could I be pregnant anyway?
Q. okay so me an my boyfriend had sex without a condom cuz we didnt have 1 like a week and a half ago. he pulled out wenever he was ganna cum and ive had my period already but cud i still b pregnant? because hes ben freakin out cuz ppl have made it ...
A. 10 October 2009: You're too young to be having sex. And if your partner is 26 he should be in jail, where in the hell are your parents.
Just take a test and see.... (read in full...)
What does having a casual relationship mean?
Q. What does having a casual relationship mean? I think that is currently what I am having with a man that I have known for awhile. I was really trying to get over him and he dragged me back in over the weekend. I went out on Saturday night an...
A. 8 October 2009: I really don't know what he wants, frankly I am just tired of it. I really don't care what the outcome is, because I am the one who has feelings, and always gets hurt in the end.
I am not but I should be strong enough to say no, I am not taki... (read in full...)
Sex still hurts!
Q. how do you know if your cherrie has been completely poped or all the extra skin has broke??? please give me sum answers becouse im 16 iv had sex about 25 or more times w/ the same guy and it hurts every time and i hate it!...
A. 6 October 2009: I really doubt it has anything to do with your hymen, it probably went long ago.
I also have that problem, I am quite a bit older than you, I have visited my doctor about it. My problem is I tend to bleed, even from fingers, but I also have uter... (read in full...)
I really don't know what he wants from me!
Q. I've been fooling around with a guy. We're close friends. He's told me wants a relationship but I've mad it clear from the start that it won't happen and that I just don't want to get into anything that deep with anyone again. He's happy with what ...
A. 6 October 2009: Holy Crap! I think that you're going through the same thing as me.
Stick to your guns, and protect your emotions, its what I have had to do, because we broke it off a couple of weeks ago and jumped back into the bed on Saturday. I am just to the ... (read in full...)
Do nice guys even still exist?
Q. I am 19 and I have never been kissed. Or even been on a date. Now that I am in college I want to date but all the guys I meet are more interested in partying and meaningless sex. I do not go to parties and I obviously don't have sex so I don't know ...
A. 6 October 2009: That is a good question, I have yet to meet a nice guy. I am also a college student, but just a little bit older than you. Try to get involved in stuff on campus, they have clubs and activities that you can do. I thought about signing up for the ... (read in full...)
I know he's "off limits" so why does he stare at me?
Q. So I like this guy...but he has a girlfriend so I know he is off limits and would never do anything to break them up. But I know I look at him a lot and sometimes our eyes meet so I look away....But I catch him just staring at me sometimes and he...
A. 5 October 2009: Sounds like this guy has a wandering eye, but you're also attracted to him, its hard to keep your feelings in check.
It sucks, but I have been there before, I would watch out for him he sounds like he could be a player.... (read in full...)
How do I prepare myself for anal sex?
Q. Well i wanna have anal sex but im scared to.... Ive tried b4 but i think with just the little that the head has gone in it riped the sides and now every time i use the rr i sorta bleed but im scared more of the way it feels when the whole penis goes ...
A. 5 October 2009: I would use lube, but if you're not comfortable with it, tell your partner no, I did. But use lube, that will make things much easier.... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do with this fine, Mexican boy!!
Q. im still trying to get a boyfriend without being so desperate. im mean ive been asked out a few times, but not by the right guys. Here's a follow up. Ok, last year ive been looking up ways to suduce, flirt, all kinds of stuff with this one boy. It...
A. 5 October 2009: Just go ask him, the worst thing he can say is no.... (read in full...)
I need words of wisdom. I'm a girl in a dark place...
Q. I think all my problems start with the vivid memories of my childhood. I remember I must of been only four, I was pounding on the door, screaming for my mother and when the door opened, another woman was standing there - naked. It must of took us ...
A. 5 October 2009: Having an abortion is tough, I had one in April. Its something that will haunt you for the rest of your life, you don't ever get over it, you just learn to live with it. If I were you, I would seek professional help. I just could not handle ... (read in full...)
If I had came inside her is there a high risk of her getting pregnant?
Q. My girlfriend has just gotten off her period 6 days ago, and has been on birth control for 5 days. (5 pills taken) We had unprotected sex but I pulled out. I am not 100% sure I pulled out in time though. If i had came inside her is there a high risk ...
A. 5 October 2009: You should go talk to your local pharmacist, or call the doctor's office and talk to the nurse. You're supposed to use back-up in the first 7 days of taking the pill. I doubt she's pregnant, but I just would not take any chances, she needs to go ... (read in full...)
Is it common for a woman to go through a period of promiscuity/sexual experimentation?
Q. Is it common for a woman to go through a period of promiscuity/sexual experimentation in her young adult life. My girlfriend of six months told me she had been with 5 guys in six months her senior year of college. The last one she dated for 6 ye...
A. 26 September 2009: You're right about a woman going through promiscuity and experimenting in college, not every women in college does this. I think that I am going though this right now, its not that I don't want a relationship, its just I see someone off and on and ... (read in full...)
Did I get abused sexually?
Q. I'm just your average 14 year old girl. I've been going out with this guy for a couple of months. He's been fairly decent with me all this while.. but all of a sudden, sometime last week, he started asking me to have sex with him! I wasn't and am ...
A. 24 September 2009: You were not sexually abused, but you were almost forced into having sex. I think you should tell someone what has happened to you, so he does not try it on some other girl. It sounds like he could have issues that needs to be addressed before he ... (read in full...)
I'm terrible at math. What can I do to overcome this?
Q. I am a freshman in school and I am getting back on track after a terrible semester. I still need to pass my math placement test and I am terrified. I am TERRIBLE at math! I'm so scared I might not pass or do well in the rest of my classes. I also ...
A. 24 September 2009: You need to get a tutor, I am terrible at Math too, I got a tutor and he helped me catch up.
Do you have any volunteer programs in your community, like a Literacy Program that offers volunteer tutoring?
If you're in college, they should have res... (read in full...)
What do I do for the best? Keep the baby or terminate?
Q. Hello, I am 7 weeks pregnant, me and my partner were togther for about 4 years and now have been broken up for almost a year now but he now has a new girfriend of about 6 months. He wants to terminate, he feels as if he's not ready and that he is ...
A. 21 September 2009: The decision to keep the baby or terminate is yours. When I found out that I was pregnant, I chose not to tell the father, and terminated my pregnancy. But after I had the termination, I tried to tell him and he would just ignore me so I just gav... (read in full...)
Boyfriend pushing me to get a breast lift
Q. I am 20 and my breasts have been sagging since I was 18, when I lost a lot of weight. My boyfriend has for quite a long time been asking me(frequently) if I could get a breast lift done in the future. As of now I don't have the money but should I ...
A. 21 September 2009: If he wants you to have surgery, ask him if he is going to pay for it. I would try Clariss suggestions, I just think what he is saying to you is rude.... (read in full...)
My girl is a sex addict
Q. HI im 18 years old 6'2" 180 lbs average body size and there is a reason for the specs so keep reading. Theres this girl she is amazing and she wants to start dating but im not sure about it i REALLY like this girl shes beautiful wild and random but ...
A. 21 September 2009: Hmm, she should see a doctor, it sounds like her hormones could be out of whack.... (read in full...)
I am pregnant, but my boyfriend isnt the father. Its his brother. Should I tell him?
Q. I'm 15 and im pregnant My boyfriend is not the father of my baby, it is his brothers, his brother knows about it and he too thinks it might be his. Should I tell him the truth or pretend that it is his?...
A. 16 September 2009: Are you 100% positive that its the bother's child?
If you're sure your boyfriend has a right to know.... (read in full...)
Are these symptoms of pregnancy? I am too scared to go to the doctors
Q. I'm 16, my boyfriend is 18, we have been together for 2 years and the condom split 2 weeks ago, my period is due in 9 days, I have; headaches cramping but no bleeding nausea more clear discharge than normal (no smell or irritation) mood sw...
A. 16 September 2009: I am not a doctor, but I had some of those symptoms when I found out that I was pregnant. I had cramps, but no blood, I was moody and irritable, but I was so hungry all the time, plus I had to pee. I did not have nausea, and very sore breasts. I ... (read in full...)
In your opinion whats the best birth control method?
Q. Okay so I am an 18 year old female i have never been on birth control before and was wondering if any one knew how to determine which form is the best for you any suggestions? I was thinking of trying the patch but don't know if its effective or not ...
A. 16 September 2009: I would not use the patch, I am taking Yaz and I love it, I have my periods on schedule and my skin looks better. But I would talk with your doctor about what method you want to use, if you're going to be having sex make sure you use backup even if ... (read in full...)
Should I tell this new guy about the abortion I'm about to get?
Q. A little over a month ago, I had a one night stand. Unfortunately, I did not use correct judgment and we used the withdrawal method. As it turns out, I can attest it is not as effective as I'd hoped to believe. An Abortion has been scheduled for ...
A. 15 September 2009: I would not tell him, after you've had the abortion don't have sex right away unless you're using protected because you'll ovulate right away. I had an abortion in April, it was really tough, and really hard on my mentally and physically. Make ... (read in full...)
Is it true that anal sex is illegal?
Q. Is it aganst the law 4 a man 2 screw a woman in the butt? ...
A. 15 September 2009: If she consents, why should it be against the law.... (read in full...)
We broke up but now he's suggesting FWB
Q. my boyfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago. he says that he still cares about me more than anybody else and the only reason that he broke up with me is because he doesn't see us being together forever. he thinks there is someone else out there ...
A. 15 September 2009: Our stories are similar, except I have not dated the guy that I am having casual sex with. If I were you, don't do it, because you're going to be the one getting hurt in the end. Men don't feel emotional pain like we do, I already figured out that ... (read in full...)
The truth about my teenage pregnancy
Q. I still remember the day I found out I was pregnant. It was on July 27th, but it some how feels so long ago. I look back and think, "Did all of that really happen, in only a months worth of time?" It seems almost unbelievable to me. How my life fell ...
A. 15 September 2009: Teenage mothers are not the only ones who go through this. I am 28 and had an abortion in April, I was pro-choice, but like you I knew the father would never be in the child's life and I had no way of supporting me and the child alone. I learned ... (read in full...)
I don't want an abortion but I don't want to risk my sisters health!
Q. I'm 19 years old and 6 weeks pregnant. My uni course starts in 2 weeks where i will be studying Law. So my boyfriend of a year has me all focused on having an abortion, when it will break my heart to do so, and even worse my family has a history of ...
A. 15 September 2009: I had an abortion in April, my sister who is very Catholic threw a fit and almost cut me and my parents out of her life. She blamed my parents, thinking they made me get an abortion, but I made up my mind the minute I found out that I was preg... (read in full...)
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