I regret having an abortion and feel I have no one to talk to about it!
Q. im 15 and had an abortion last year in febuary. all i think of know is what if i kept the baby. I have very strong feelings, and have no one to speak to about this. My mom stood by me when i had the abortion but i feel akward speking to her k...
A. 22 March 2010: I think you should seek out a counselor about this, I had a abortion last April, and with school, and work I almost had a breakdown from the stress. I feel like that I made the right decision and stand behind it 100%. You never get over this, you ... (read in full...)
I forget to take the pill once or twice a week. Is it possible I am pregnant?
Q. I am on the pill but i sometimes forget to take it once or twice a week I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and now im panicing Is it possible to have pregnancy symptoms 2 weeks since? I feel like im going to be sick alot, Im always really...
A. 22 March 2010: You could be, birth control is supposed to be taken everyday for it to be effective.... (read in full...)
Concerned about going on the pill.
Q. I turned 16 four months ago, and i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. My mum has given me the ''all clear'' to go on the pill, any many of my friends are on it. There are only a couple of things im worried about. Im worried that i will put on ...
A. 17 March 2010: I have been on Birth Control for almost a year and I have not gained any weight. Yaz has been a good pill for me, because it takes the cravings away and my periods are much lighter than they were before. I would go see your doctor and talk with her ... (read in full...)
Could I still be pregnant or am I immediately protected because of the pill?
Q. I started the combined pill on the 2nd day of my period last wednesday. I took it Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday at exactly the same time of 7:30. On saturday nite i had sex without a condom with my boyfriend and he came inside me could i ...
A. 16 March 2010: Why did you start the pill on the second day of your period? You either start it on the first day or a Sunday start.
I have no idea what pill you're on, but if you're a day one starter you usually don't need backup the first seven days, but if you'... (read in full...)
How do I get over an ex?
Q. I have blogged here several times about someone I was involved with last summer and into the fall. I ended it in October of 2009, but some reason I cannot get over it, I still see him when I go out, and we look at one another, I feel his eyes on me ...
A. 16 March 2010: I asked him once if he was having sex with others, he said no and I think he was telling the truth. But no, I'm not signing up to be with him again, because I figured out that I am smart, and just as good as any other woman. I did learn one thing ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I have chlamydia again!.
Q. almost a year ago i had a boyfriend who i loved so much, but in the end things never worked out and i found out that he had passed me chlamydia, i didnt know i had it until a few months after we broke up. i went to the clinic and took anti-biotics ...
A. 16 March 2010: You should just go to the doctor and be tested, do you know what the symptoms for chlamydia are? If your boyfriend really cares about you, then he will listen to what you have to say. Just go get yourself checked out, and always use condoms!... (read in full...)
Could this get me pregnant?
Q. Me and my boyfreind were dry humping, he asked me to relieve him and I let him cum over my breasts and stomach and there was loads of it, I cleaned it up with toilet paper and had a bath about an hour later, my friend said that was silly because I ...
A. 16 March 2010: Unless some got in your vagina, than probably not, go get on the pill or stock up on plan B if something like that happens again.... (read in full...)
How do I get over an ex?
Q. I have blogged here several times about someone I was involved with last summer and into the fall. I ended it in October of 2009, but some reason I cannot get over it, I still see him when I go out, and we look at one another, I feel his eyes on me ...
A. 15 March 2010: I know that we should talk, but I have no idea how to go about it. We have not spoken since the day I told him it was over, things between us got way to complicated. I don't think he feels the same way I do, he is the first man to almost unlock ... (read in full...)
I'm scared to tell my ex that I still have feelings for him.
Q. Just really need to know what to do. My boyfriend finshed me two months ago and I still love him so much.. We had really bad fights like he told me to go and die and everything and my councillor said that am Letting him do it cause a still love him ...
A. 15 March 2010: I understand how you feel, I ended a fling with someone in October and I still have feelings for him. I have tried everything to get over him, but the feelings are still there. We don't speak to one another, but we glance at each-other when we are ... (read in full...)
How do I get over an ex?
Q. I have blogged here several times about someone I was involved with last summer and into the fall. I ended it in October of 2009, but some reason I cannot get over it, I still see him when I go out, and we look at one another, I feel his eyes on me ...
A. 14 March 2010: I would like to do that, but I know he would never take the time to listen to me, he would not even let me come over to end it, I had to do it over the phone. We're both 29 and still behaving like this, I feel like men are always afraid of me ... (read in full...)
Should I be worrying about pregnancy, even though I'm on the pill?
Q. Hello everyone! I am on the first cycle of Yaz which is a combination pill, and yesterday my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time and we used a condom. I am a perfect user - never missed a pill, so we had that extra bit of back up just in ...
A. 14 March 2010: I think you're in good shape, I take Yaz too and have no problems with it. When you get a new package of pills, sit down and read the booklet that comes with it. When you had sex, you were probably past ovulation. You should have your period by ... (read in full...)
Should I talk to my friend about what happened between us?
Q. I have recently developed a close friendship with a guy. We have a lot of chemistry, but until now or relationship has remained platonic. We went out last night and drank a little too much. We ended up back at my place in a few very sensual ...
A. 14 March 2010: I would talk to him about this, just leaving it alone always creates more problems. I've been in your situation, and we never talked about it and things got strange, and now we do not talk anymore.... (read in full...)
I have taken pregnancy tests, they are negative, so what else could be wrong?
Q. i need help....i'm 18 and 6 days late on my period, i had sex on my ovulating day which was the 26th of dec, on the 1st of jan i had some brown stuff like blood, but a few hours later it stopped, i've been havin some cramps under my belly, but thts ...
A. 14 January 2010: Go to the doctor and have a blood test done.... (read in full...)
How can I get my point across?
Q. At work there is a guy who constantly texts me, telling me how much he likes me, how pretty I am, etc., but he knows that I am still in high school and 5 years younger. He will not leave me alone even though i have stopped texting him and avoid him ...
A. 26 December 2009: Since he isn't listening to you, I would have someone else do it, like your father or your mother, if you have an older brother or sister have them do it. He sounds obsessed and when someone is like that they probably won't listen to you. You can ... (read in full...)
Home remedy for a yeast infection?
Q. Hi, So I had gone over my guy's house and was on my period, but we still had intercourse. When I'm on my period usually we don't use a condom, except this time i got kind of dry during intercourse. When i had gotten home i had noticed I was itchy "d...
A. 26 December 2009: Just go by some over the counter medicine, that will clear it up.... (read in full...)
I had sex for the first time and am now worried I might be pregnant
Q. pleeeaaasse responde im so scared! i am 13 years old. i turn 14 in 5 days. i really like this guy who is not my boyfriend, he is 16 and is used to having sex a lot and says he really likes me and wont leave me and seems very different from the other ...
A. 23 December 2009: You need to tell your mother, and have her take you to the doctor right away, there is still time for you to take plan B. It sounds like he took advantage of you, there is a strong possibility you could be pregnant, you need to tell your mother r... (read in full...)
Yaz and full protection?
Q. Hello, I have been on the birth control Yaz since July of 2009. I was wondering how long it takes to have full protection, is it one month after you begin taking the pills. I had a little mishap on Saturday night and had unprotected sex, I ...
A. 22 December 2009: You're right, I was pretty foolish...... (read in full...)
Yaz and full protection?
Q. Hello, I have been on the birth control Yaz since July of 2009. I was wondering how long it takes to have full protection, is it one month after you begin taking the pills. I had a little mishap on Saturday night and had unprotected sex, I ...
A. 22 December 2009: I have taken plan B before, and I kept on taking my birth control, that is what my doctor told me to do. I also called the plan b hot line and they told me since I haven't missed any pills that I should be fine. But I will call my doctor tomorrow ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if ....................
Q. Can i get pregnant if my boyfriend cums on my vagina but then wipes it off? It wasnt all the way inside but i kno they swim. He wiped it really good but im not sure if theres a chance i can get prego....
A. 22 December 2009: Its possible, are you on the pill?... (read in full...)
Missing money--we think son's friend is responsible, how do I approach this?
Q. my son earned some extra Christmas bonus money doing a job recently and he left it in his room his friend visited that day and my son remembers seeing the money prior to the friend leaving his friend received a call from another friend saying he was ...
A. 22 December 2009: I would confront him about it, I doubt you will get the money back, but I would let him know that you know he took it.
The same thing happened to my Mom several years ago, my cousin who was in his 20's stole several hundred dollars from her, we woul... (read in full...)
How do I figure out which employee to cut?
Q. The company I work for needs to down size my office by one position. Since I'm the manager it's up to me to figure out which position can be eliminated and create a strategy for re-directing the work load to the other 4 workers. There are two ...
A. 18 December 2009: Go talk to Human Resources, that is their job to help with things like this.... (read in full...)
If I'm pregant, I want an abortion without being judged!
Q. hi i am really worried that i am pregnant. I have a feeling that i am and i think im starting to look as though i am. i am scared to go to the doctors because I am afraid of being judged and i know it sounds stupid but if i am i want to abo...
A. 17 December 2009: I think you should go get a HPT and if its positive, go see your doctor. I got pregnant last March, and I didn't keep it, and the doctor who told me that I was pregnant was Catholic and what she was really nice about it.
The only person who real... (read in full...)
Was it a miscarriage or not?
Q. I was two weeks late on my period but didn't think anything of it since I had been irregular months before.. Well one night I was being carried up a flight of stairs by two friends (because I was intoxicated) and they dropped me down them (I think ...
A. 15 December 2009: I think you need to go see a doctor right away...... (read in full...)
I am confused, I love and hate my ex boyfriend, how can I keep my cool?
Q. I am confused I love and hate my ex boyfriend. I know i can never date him again cuz he was a jerk and would use me but that was at the end in the begining he was realy sweet and kind, thats why i love him but now were over and hes being a real big ...
A. 14 December 2009: That is hard to do, I am going through the same thing. I was involved with someone over the summer, it began in June and lasted until October when I finally said it was over. He would get drunk and say stuff to me that would really confuse me, we ... (read in full...)
Its our first Christmas together, any ideas for a gift on a tight budget?
Q. mY boyfriend is 17 im 15 and this is our first christmas toghether. He works i dont so i dont want him to spend a lot of money on a gift form me when i dont even know what to get him... what can i do? help...
A. 11 December 2009: I would make him dinner, he would probably appreciate it.... (read in full...)
Sometimes there's blood when I wipe!
Q. I am really worried. I need your help. Ok, this barely started some time ago, not that long ago, but the problem is that sometimes when i go to the bathroom and then i wipr theres blood. What can this be a sign of ? What shoudl I do ?!...
A. 9 December 2009: Then I misread, hmm you could have hemorrhoids ... (read in full...)
Sometimes there's blood when I wipe!
Q. I am really worried. I need your help. Ok, this barely started some time ago, not that long ago, but the problem is that sometimes when i go to the bathroom and then i wipr theres blood. What can this be a sign of ? What shoudl I do ?!...
A. 9 December 2009: How old are you? Have you started your period yet? If you're worried I would speak to your mother about it, or an older sister.... (read in full...)
I am scared that I might be pregnant! Help!
Q. Hello. I'm 16 about 4 days ago I had sex with my boyfriend. He used a condom but I'm so worried I might be pregnant I don't think the condom "broke" or anything, I would've felt it or heard it,right? I didn't notice a tear or anything in the ...
A. 8 December 2009: Do you know exactly where you're at in your cycle? Ask your mother if you can be put on birth control, if the condom didn't break I think you should be okay.... (read in full...)
Is birth control really necessary?
Q. Is birth control really necessary??? I mean hell i dont want to be a babies daddy just yet but i have condoms and we have been together for more than 2 years. I feel like she is just avoiding having sex.. no we havent had sex yet either...
A. 8 December 2009: Birth Control and Condoms are a must!!!! You never know when a condom could fail, I take birth control and use condoms and have no problems. You're playing dangerously if you're not using both.... (read in full...)
16 and possibly pregnant... any advice?
Q. FREAKING OUT!!!!! I'm 16 years old and I have been pregnant before when I was 15, I had a surgical miscarriage. I regret it every bit, but I know for a fact that i was not ready for a baby. I'm still not ready, I think I'm pregnant again, I'm show...
A. 8 December 2009: Why didn't you get on birth control, if you had an abortion before didn't you learn from it? You need to go get a test and find out then go see a doctor and go from there. I had an abortion and I learned from it, I take my birth control every ... (read in full...)
He wants me to have his baby but I'm so not ready yet! How do I tell him?
Q. Ok! I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and hes soooooooooo ready for me to have his baby. I love him so much thats my baby but I'm not ready yet. I want to but not just yet. How do I tell him this??????...
A. 7 December 2009: Tell him no, and if he doesn't like it go get Mirena, because he could try to get you pregnant on purpose, men can pull stuff like that.... (read in full...)
Was this too soon to have sex after a termination?
Q. i need help!!! i had sex 10 days after i had a termination will i be ok??? they told me to wait until 14 days surely 4 days wont hurt or do you think i should see a doctor?...
A. 7 December 2009: You needed to wait, that is too soon, plus after an abortion it doesn't take long for you to ovulate right away. But you are probably not healed up, so go see your doctor. There is a possibility you could get pregnant again, get on birth control ... (read in full...)
Could missing that pill possibly cause me to get pregnant?
Q. i know how crazy this sounds,but im gunna be 19 in february. I got pregnant around this tyme last year but had an abortion because i wasnt sure if having a baby was what i wanted and i was also starting college in the fall. Now i want a baby more ...
A. 7 December 2009: You're way too young to even be even thinking about having a baby. Having another baby isn't going to fill the hole for the one you aborted. I had an abortion in April, and I decided that I will never have a child, because I cannot care for it and ... (read in full...)
My mother has banned my boyfriend from visiting because we don't use birth control
Q. Ok so I have been dating my bf for 3 yrs now, since we were both 16. When my mom seen our relationship was getting serious she took me to get birth control pills. The first 2 months I was on them I got really sick and my doctor said I need lower do...
A. 4 December 2009: Your Mom was smart banning your boyfriend from your house, she is just trying to make sure you don't ruin your life.... (read in full...)
How do I break the news that I'm pregnant to my mom? Is what I did so bad? Am I a fool?
Q. Im 16 years old im in 10 grade. I just found out i was pregnant for my boyfriend whos 17. I kno im to young to young to raise a child but it wasnt my fault. My boyfriend wanted a baby so i wanted to make him happy. Becuse he been so good to me so i ...
A. 3 December 2009: You've made a foolish mistake, you and your boyfriend are too young to be having a baby. Stability is not something a 16 year old boy has, I know how men can be they are manipulative and try to talk you into almost anything. I am 29, and no man ... (read in full...)
Anyone with experience taking Plan B?
Q. I just want to know if anyone has had any experience taking plan b. ...
A. 3 December 2009: I've taken it twice, I probably should not have seeing as I was on birth control, but it is a huge dose of hormones, so it might throw your cycle off possibly. If you have taken it, I would call your doctor and let them know. Where at in your ... (read in full...)
One night stand couldn't get it up
Q. i (attempted) to have a one night stand with this guy. things were getting really hot and heavy when he asked if i had a condom i told him i didnt we kept fooling around but he couldnt get hard then he went to go check if he had a condom but he said ...
A. 2 December 2009: He was way to drunk, my ex was the same way... It isn't you, trust me I've been there more than once, he's too damn drunk.... (read in full...)
If I am pregnant what do I do? Am I pregnant?
Q. i think im pregnant. but im not sure. im still young and im scared to tell anyone because my parents will kill me and i dont want anyone thinking anything bad. it was just once and it got carried away. it happend 2 3 weeks agoo.. and im supposed to ...
A. 2 December 2009: First, take a deep breath, then go out and by a pregnancy test. If it turns out to be positive, go to your parents right away and tell them what you want to do. Do not let anyone try to pressure, trick, or bully you into anything that you do not ... (read in full...)
How do I know what is more important
Q. Which do you think is more important? Marrying your best friend, or someone who is great in bed?...
A. 2 December 2009: I wouldn't marry my best friend, that would be way too strange, like marrying my brother. ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want a relationship, just sex!
Q. i like this boy and i would love a relationship with him but we were talking earlier tongight and we got onto the conversation of relationships and he told me he didnt want a relationship, just sex. im still a virgin but im 16. should i go for the ...
A. 30 November 2009: He's going to use you, I think your first time should be different than "just sex". Don't change your life for him, find someone else who will treat you better. I've had this done to me more than once, but I see it differently, I don't want a ... (read in full...)
I ended it because I felt it was all happening too soon after my breakup, thing is... I miss him sooooo much!
Q. I recently seperated from my husband and I met someone else quite soon who swept me off my feet, I have now ended that relationship because i felt it was too much too soon and I couldn't cope with it all at the moment. This man was so nice to m...
A. 29 November 2009: Ask him to go into counseling with you.... (read in full...)
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