I ended it because I felt it was all happening too soon after my breakup, thing is... I miss him sooooo much!
Q. I recently seperated from my husband and I met someone else quite soon who swept me off my feet, I have now ended that relationship because i felt it was too much too soon and I couldn't cope with it all at the moment. This man was so nice to m...
A. 29 November 2009: Ask him to go into counseling with you.... (read in full...)
Urination pain discomfort during pregnancy..any advise?
Q. I have a question for everyone here about pregnancy. Has anyone here ever had pain in their abdomen while peeing or anything during early pregnancy? Like ithin the first trimester? Its like pressure/a littl pain around the pelvin area when I pee. ...
A. 29 November 2009: You could have a bladder infection, I would go see your doctor right away just to be safe. I found out that I had uterine fiborids when I was pregnant, and they hurt bad when I was 6 weeks.... (read in full...)
Should I get the morning after pill just to be on the safe side?
Q. Last night I got extremely drunk at a party and ended up having sex with one of my guy friends. We used protection, because I remember that I insisted on it, and even when he pulled out we kept the condom on until he came, but i'm worried about what ...
A. 29 November 2009: To be safe I would go ahead and get it, but make sure to call your doctor and let them know that you did this. It is a huge dose of hormones and it could throw your cycle off, or make it come early. I would also advise to get on birth control, ... (read in full...)
No period since taking the morning after pill!!!
Q. I took the morning after pill ( levonelle ) and now my period is 6 weeks late. When i was 2 weeks late i went to the doctors for a urine test and it came back negative. Could this test be wrong or can the morning after pill make your period this ...
A. 29 November 2009: Its probably the pill, it does all kinds of stuff to your body, I've taken it twice before when I probably should not have because I was on birth control. I think that if you went to the doctor and their test was negative then you're probably not ... (read in full...)
He got cum all over my stomach, am I pregnant?
Q. Am i pregnant!!! the other night i gave my boyfriend oral he ejaculated over my stomach about 1 minute later i ran to the toilet rubbed water and soap on me then showered the soap off is ther a possibility that i could be pregnant x...
A. 29 November 2009: Get on the pill, but I doubt you're pregnant, because it was on your stomach and not in your vagina. Make sure you use condoms when you're giving oral sex too, then you won't have these problems. My advice to you is get on birth control, buy ... (read in full...)
Question about birth control.
Q. I need immediate answers please! thank you! Ok, i was wondering if anybody else has done the birth control pills where you get your period 4 times a year. Cuz I'm about to get my first period after taking them, and I need to know if it's going to...
A. 28 November 2009: I have never used it either, it should be like a normal period is, just be ready like it was any typical month.... (read in full...)
Forceful sex!
Q. im 16 and ive been hooking up with a guy who's 26 for the last 5 months. it has been good, we just have sex, no dating. we have really good sex up until the last time which was a week ago. he really hurt me and left bruises all over me. he came ...
A. 28 November 2009: You're too young to be with someone that age, it sounds like he took what he wanted from you and left, what you have described is RAPE! Don't love this guy because he is not worth it, in the United States he has committed a crime of sexual assault, ... (read in full...)
Is that considered sex? Am I still a virgin?
Q. if a guy stuck his penis all the way in my vagina but he just stayed there and didn't move. like there were no thrusting or humping motions, is that considered sex? or sexual intercourse? am i still a virgin?...
A. 25 November 2009: No, you're not a virgin anymore, welcome to the club....... (read in full...)
Having unprotected sex, could I be pregnant? I know I've been stupid, so no lectures please!
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for eight months and we have been having unprotected sex (dont lecture me) i know i have been so stupid, i should no better as i use to be a really safe girl and would never sleep with a boy without a condom. we dont ...
A. 25 November 2009: You really could be, I had some of those symptoms when I was pregnant, I choose to terminate my pregnancy, I don't regret my decision. But you need to get on birth control and always use condoms, don't take chances that could change your life ... (read in full...)
What do you all think of 'one night' stands?
Q. I'm sort of on the fence about one night stands and would really like other peoples opinions on them, both men and women.. I've had about 5 in total now and they've all been mainly when i'm drunk. Each time we have been careful and used protect...
A. 24 November 2009: I've done the same thing, except I see them for a while then its over... I don't see anything wrong with it, because you're protecting yourself. I really don't enjoy having sex when I'm drunk, I enjoy it much better when I'm sober. You're just ... (read in full...)
Irregular periods, please help?
Q. hi, I'm new to this, but I'm really worried. I've had my period twice in one month and i don't know what that means :[ I'm not very old I'm only 13 and it freaks me out. It hurts really bad and nothing makes the pain go away other then layin...
A. 22 November 2009: It will take time for you to start having normal periods, I remember when I was that age, I would have the most horrible cramps that I had to lay down four a couple of hours. One thing that might help would be birth control. I take Yaz and my ... (read in full...)
Is this my period or implantation bleeding?
Q. Hello I had sex with his guy I know ..I made him use a condom ... He continued to keep it on even tho he had came in it??? But, after a whle I made him put on a new one. Also, when he was puttin it on, he put it on he wrong way so he then would...
A. 22 November 2009: Are you on Birth Control? Implantation bleeding is a rare thing, when I was pregnant I didn't have it. You would probably have been past the ovaluation stage, it usually happens 14 days into your cycle. You need to get on the pill, because ... (read in full...)
He's 22. I'm 13. How do I tell him I love him?
Q. why did i ever have to fall in love with him? hes 22 and im just 13 its cuz his so cute so nice and is always there when i need help, so nice and polite. i dont know how 2 tell him i need him to know but im afraid he will hate me. what c...
A. 21 November 2009: You're not in love, you just have a crush... In his eyes you're a child, if he had any sort of relationship with you, he could get into serious trouble..... (read in full...)
Could my drink have been spiked?!
Q. I'm sorry i know this isn't the right site for this sort of question but i always get good advice so i thought id give it ago. Last night i went out with a friend... both got quite drunk...(but its not the first time, were 21 and very used to dri...
A. 20 November 2009: That really sounds like it, go to your doctor and get checked out right away. I have been very drunk before but I can remember things that happened the next day, make sure to never leave your drink unattended, if you get up and go somewhere take it ... (read in full...)
Am I a slut?
Q. Am I a slut? A few people have said it to me and sometimes my friends say it, in a jokey way, but I think they kinda mean it sometimes. I'm 16, I've only ever had 1 proper boyfriend and we went together for about a year. About 10 months in...
A. 20 November 2009: I guess that I'm a slut too, I'm a little older than you, but I do things a little bit differently, I might see a guy a few times then its over. You're young and just experimenting, there isn't anything wrong with it, your peers are just too ... (read in full...)
Bf has 11 inch penis... how can we make sex more comfortable for me?
Q. Please take this seriously. Me and my boyfriend have been trying to have sex for a while, we have been going out for 5 years and trying for the last few months. It is really hurting me, and it is becoming unpleasant, we just end up arguing....
A. 20 November 2009: Yes, it probably is, a guy I had intercourse was so big that I would bleed after intercourse. You might try lubricant it could help ease things up a bit. Some women can handle big, but some women cannot.... (read in full...)
Fifteen and I want a baby now! Mature advice needed.
Q. Please help. I'm quite mature, and I have support from my family and friends. I've always wanted a baby, since I have hit puberty, I think of what it would be like, and how hard it'd be but at the same time how wonderful it'd be. I know it costs a ...
A. 20 November 2009: You still have a great deal of growing up to do before you even think of having children. I know you're going to do what you want, but what happens if your boyfriend decides he doesn't want to play house and be daddy at 15? Then you're stuck with ... (read in full...)
A bad experience in bed!
Q. I had an experience in bed the other night and I am not sure how I should react to it. I was having sex with my boyfriend, I was lying on my stomach and he was on top of me. We were both very drunk. Then he stuck it my bum. I dont know whethe...
A. 18 November 2009: You were both drunk, he just couldn't find it. You were not raped, because he stopped when you said no.... (read in full...)
Is this normal? Am I pregnant?
Q. I have missed my period for five monts and I have had backaches and headaches, my breasts have been itching a lot lately and all I do is eat. I mean I always ate a lot but now I just can't control it. Can anyone help me out here? Am I pregnant? I ...
A. 18 November 2009: Have you had sex? I would go see the doctor, that sounds like something else. You could have a molar pregnancy.... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant 2 days after ovulation using the rythem method?
Q. Can you get pregnant 2 days after ovulation using the rythem method? I cheated on my bf, and im not sure if my one night stand is the father of my child. I was with my bf 4 days before ovulation no protection and he ejaculated plenty inside me. Then ...
A. 17 November 2009: Why didn't you take plan B?... (read in full...)
He goes "soft" and I don't know what to do???
Q. How do you fix a guy's problem... I mean like me and the guy I like a lot!, where in the middle of doing it and he just went soft. I looked it up on webmd and it said that it cause be caused by too much drinking which he does drink a bit too much ...
A. 16 November 2009: Some men just can't get it up when they are drunk, the guy I was with never could when he was dead ass drunk. Its not you, its him. The only way to fix it is to have sex when he's sober.... (read in full...)
He gave me a back hander across the face when I mouthed off as he was yelling at me!
Q. Hi aunts. I have a real problem here. I'm just not sure what to do any more. Me and my boyfriend have been arguing a lot lately but last night it escalated and he backhanded me across the face because I mouthed off to him while he was yelling at me. ...
A. 16 November 2009: Break it off with him, if he has already hit you once, he will do it again.... (read in full...)
Can anyone recommend a good contraceptive pill?
Q. I need some female advice, I am 27 (virgin) and currently not on the pill, I have been seeing this guy and we want to take things further, I have never really wanted to go on the pill because I think it messes with the female body, but I also don't ...
A. 15 November 2009: I take Yaz and I love it, its a very low dose pill. I have not gained any weight, and I don't get cravings or any PMS symptoms and I have a 5 day, very light period. You still need to use condoms though, just to protect yourself.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to have sex during your period?
Q. Is it wrong to have sex when you're on your period? I recently did and I believe that I freaked my partner out, but I didn't think anything about it and forgot to tell him....
A. 15 November 2009: I never have sex without using protection, and I take birth control and I never miss pills. I think he was a little squeamish and freaked out. It was messy but not painful. I read the other post, I just didn't see it as a big deal... ... (read in full...)
Sex after an abortion...
Q. After abortion how many weeks must I stay before I can have sex, I mean sex without a condom....
A. 12 November 2009: I would wait a month or so, because you need to get on the pill at it takes a month for the pill to take full effect. I learned from my mistake..... (read in full...)
Could this baby be the other guy's???
Q. Hello, I have a 3 month old son who was born in August this year. About a week after my last period, I slept with 2 different men on the same night, one being my baby's father. I took the morning after pill the day after, but i'm now pregnant aga...
A. 12 November 2009: You were probably already pregnant when you took the MAP and that is why it didn't work. I'm not going to tell you to have an abortion, but did you go to the doctor and figure out how far along you are? I've taken the MAP before, but I am also on ... (read in full...)
Six months and no I love you
Q. I know that every relationship moves at a different pace and you can't put a time limit on love. But I think it is typical of most relationships that after six months you know someone well enough to know whether you love them or not? It's not ...
A. 10 November 2009: It would take more than 6 months for me to tell any man that I loved them, I would say years.... (read in full...)
Need some advice about IUD coils.
Q. I have some questions about the IUD coil I am 24 and my partner he is 29, we have been together for almost 7 years. since I was about 14 I have tried a lot of different forms of birth control, mostly in my younger teen years I was taking ...
A. 10 November 2009: I tried to get mirena, but my uterus sits funny so they couldn't insert it, it was very painful when they tried to insert it. My doctor told me that it would not cause weight gain or acne, and she said you would bleed for awhile but then your ... (read in full...)
My period is two weeks late but I've never had sex
Q. Im 15 and started my periods 3 years ago. They have been regular and consistant until this past month where Im currently over two weeks late. Im definately not pregnant as I havent had sex so I know I shouldnt worry but its bothering me. Does anyone ...
A. 9 November 2009: Here is ten reasons that might answer your question, you can exclude pregnancy.
1. Stress
Stress can affect many things in our lives, including our periods. Sometimes we're so stressed out that our body decreases the amount of a hormone ... (read in full...)
Will un-protected sex in July result in pregnancy now?
Q. Hi, I had unprotected sex in July of this year. My periods have been shorter and I have gotten one every month. Is there anyway I'm pregnant?...
A. 9 November 2009: I wouldn't think so, you would be 5 months, and probably would be showing and feeling movement in your abdomen by now.... (read in full...)
Will she get pregnant even though I wiped the sperm away?
Q. i got spirm on the top of my girlfriends virgina but not in it she used a wipe to get it off straight away will she be pregnant or shouldnt i worry ?...
A. 8 November 2009: Its possible, I would take plan B just to be safe. Next time used condoms and tell her to get on the pill.... (read in full...)
2 questions: My little brother searches for porn and I don't have my period yet!
Q. [MODERATOR NOTE: The same (13 year-old) poster has presented two questions, which has been combined into one post.] ok my little brother is on youtube serching on sex and i know cause i checked the search on my laptop what shold i do??? Also, why...
A. 6 November 2009: I started my period when I was 14, everyone is different, I would talk to your mother about it, ask her when she started her period, and your aunts too. Change the password on your laptop and put parental locks, that will put a stop to your bro... (read in full...)
Twice I had unprotected sex. Am I pregnant?
Q. help! ok soo me and my boyfriend broke up a few days ago. but just last weekend, i slept over and we had unprotected sex twice that night and again in the morning. i usually get my period from the 10th to the 12th of each month. its the 5th now. soo ...
A. 6 November 2009: Why are you not on BC? I don't really have much room to talk, but you usually get on BC so you don't have these problems. From your description you could be pregnant, just take a test and go from there. And if you're not, please get on BC, I've ... (read in full...)
I'm depressed after my abortion.
Q. im 14 and i had an abortion in February, and know im depressed and want a baby. what do i do? please help me. i have never been this depressed in my life before please please help me ...
A. 6 November 2009: You need to get help! I'm 28 and I had an abortion in April, and for awhile I was a total wreck, but I didn't want another baby. Having an abortion just opened my eyes and showed me that children are not for me. You're 14, don't run out and get ... (read in full...)
Do I need therapy after being sexually assaulted or is it possible that I have gotten over it and won't need therapy?
Q. I was drugged and raped by someone I just met whilst unconscious when traveling alone last year. I can recall everything prior to falling unconscious, once during (somewhat blurry and brief), and can remember afterwards when I wake to find him next ...
A. 6 November 2009: I think you should get therapy, it will help you out greatly. The trial will be tough, and a therapist will be able to help you learn to handle that. You don't need to go though something like that alone, you need help! Don't distract yoursel... (read in full...)
I had an abortion and now my sister won't talk to me!
Q. Should I say sorry to my sister, I had an abortion in April and my sister got very angry at me, she is very pro-life and wanted to to weigh my other options. She did not talk to me for a couple of months, and it was really hard not being able to ...
A. 4 November 2009: I forgot to mention my sister has two kids, and another on the way. ... (read in full...)
My Co-worker likes me... right?
Q. I recently read a Question pertaining to a situation of a Guy with his co worker. She had a boyfriend yet had told others at work that he was taken/hers. Someone I work with also does this with me. Ive only known him for about 4 months, close as...
A. 3 November 2009: Don't date him, I went though the same thing with a co-worker and it went really bad. Go see human resources right away, because you're probably not the only one that he's pulled this on. You may not realize it, but what he is doing is sexual ... (read in full...)
Should I date my bad boy best friend?
Q. ok so this will only take a few seconds please help... my best friend is 19 and i am only 17 he says he is in love with me.. i think his really hot and sweet and his a bad boy 2..... but i dont want it to ruin our friendship... i trust him with all ...
A. 2 November 2009: I wouldn't, usually when a guy says they love you, they want something else. If you decided to be with him, it would probably ruin your friendship.
I just don't get how people think they know what loves is at that age, I am 28 and still cannot figu... (read in full...)
I slept with my girlfriend and now she's not calling me back! And also.. my male friend hit on me!
Q. Hello fellow agony aunts. I have a problem..actually it's 2 and i was wondering if you guys could help. So last night was Halloween and there was a huge party in my town. Everyone..all my friends and people from other schools were there. And i we...
A. 2 November 2009: You guys are quite young to be drinking like that, but who am I to say anything, I've been trashed and done similar stuff and I'm old.
Your girlfriend is in shock, she probably didn't plan to loose her virginity that way, and she's probably real... (read in full...)
My ex is a jerk but I still want him!
Q. My ex is a jerk but I sitll want him. Last night he took me to a pub, because he was meeting a guy over there. I told him he could go alone, 'cause I wasn't in the mood for going out. But he begged, so we went. It was all ok, but suddenly he ...
A. 31 October 2009: Sounds like the same thing I went through, I finally just told him its over. I got tired of his crap, he would only want me when he was in a jam, or to take care of him when he was drunk.
You can't imagine how much I wanted this man, I wanted him ... (read in full...)
Just come off the pill......
Q. Just come off the pill, when I was on it I was not really interested in sex. Now that I'm off I want it more than usual! ;) Just wondered if anyone else has experienced this and if its a normal thing to have happened when coming off the pill....
A. 31 October 2009: You should stay on the pill, find one that doesn't kill your sex drive, I take Yaz and I'm fine.... (read in full...)
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