A bump inside my breast! Is this normal?
Q. Dear Cupid, Im a 16 yr old normal teen. I've recently started feeling my breast and noticed there was like a bump inside my breast. Whenever i put my finger on that certain area, i can feel the bump. Im super worried because i have no idea what it ...
A. 10 January 2011: Soundest advice is see your doctor have it checked.... (read in full...)
Could this be a yeast infection or is it an STI/STD Title
Q. ok so.... saturday 8th january i had unprotected sex with a guy while i was drunk. It's the first time i've gone back to a guys house after meeting them that night. and ive only slept with 4 people. The thing is i now have an itching / slightly...
A. 10 January 2011: Stop seeking advice from here about it and see your GP itchiness or anykind down there could well be a STI like herpes or what not or a tear that has got infected from vigorous sex either way for your own peace of mind and health have it seen by ... (read in full...)
If a woman isn't moaning, does that mean she isn't enjoying the sex?
Q. hello, i just wanna know what does it mean when the girls dont moan while making love ? i know this girl and we are f*** buddies. but when we have sex she doesnt moan or like scream or something, i mean if she was really enjoyin it or feeling ...
A. 10 January 2011: You've watched far too much porn by sounds of things where false vocals are always a must not every woman is vocal in their pleasure of making of love it can be damn annoying too specially if your trying to be quiet and not wake the kids up lmao if ... (read in full...)
When does flirting go too far?
Q. I have recently become concerned about my own behaviour. I have always been a flirt and for the most part my friends partners never seemed to mind - or at least to the point where they've never minded enough to address the issue with me. But it ...
A. 10 January 2011: Thats why flirting can be a dangerous sport you've sent wrong signals to a married man. I don't understand why the need to flirt though if your already taken that kind of thing annoys the crap out of me lmao your fella is either a meh kind of bloke ... (read in full...)
My new bf flirts with all my friends - WHY?
Q. My new bf keeps flirting with MY friends. My Facebook page is pretty popular and heaps of guys flirt with me on a daily basis. I find it really hard to police and am still trying to clean up my profile of these people. Mafia Wars killed my profile ...
A. 10 January 2011: Maybe his just trying to prove his a decent bloke to the girlfriends or maybe his just a bubbly person who flirts but means nothing by it if it bothers you either get used to it or speak up about it to him. And in regards to FB theres a privacy ... (read in full...)
Can a relationship recover after cheating by a partner?
Q. I'm very curious about this because I have been cheated on. I would reallly like to move past it, and still be in a relationship with this man. He has done everything he can to earn my trust back and I do completely trust him again. I don't think he ...
A. 10 January 2011: 4 months into a relationship I would've walked from it. Then again once trust is betrayed it can sometimes recover but not all the time a leopard never changes it's spots and neither do cheater's. Myself though once my trust for someone has been ... (read in full...)
Is my cousin interested in me?
Q. Ok so my question is a bit apart. But please go through it. To start with, I've got a cousin of mine whom have been giving signs that he is interested into me lately but am not really sure if this is the case. I have also seek help from this s...
A. 10 January 2011: It definitely sounds like he has hijacked your FB account after using his phone this isn't normal behaviour sounds like your cousin has a few screws loose who is he to delete your mails from friends? I'd suggest steering clear of being alone with ... (read in full...)
I can't break up with my controlling boyfriend!
Q. I'm having a problem. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. I love him a lot and I'm sure he loves me too. But i don't like him anymore. I don't like the person he's become. He is immature, confrontational,...
A. 9 January 2011: He definitely has trust issues and whether you've done something to cause that only asking and discussing that will reveal the truth but by the sounds of things his too unstable to even try having a mature discussion.
He has to understand if he ke... (read in full...)
I want to be able to talk to my boyfriend about negative things without feeling so vulnerable and afraid!
Q. My boyfriend and I went through some problems last year.. where he would get mad for just about everything.. even though what he would get mad about usually did not make any sense whatsoever. For example, one time he started acting like a little kid ...
A. 9 January 2011: You should always lay down the line on things even if they are unpleasant to talk about it helps make the relationship stronger for the better voicing your concerns lets him know what you dont like as well which in turn helps him be a better ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be friends with her if I can't be her boyfriend!
Q. In short, I know a girl who I became friends with over the past year. But to be honest, being friends with her is not like being friends with one of my guy friends. We talk, or rather she does most of the talking. I find myself in a role of helping ...
A. 9 January 2011: Nope your not a jerk she's using you, and you shouldn't allow yourself to be used your paying for outings and dinners and what not with no reciprocation and she tells you to your face of guys she is seeing that should be a indication to grow a pair ... (read in full...)
What is this respect thing about?
Q. I have been dating a guy for a while now. We sat down to have a talk because things are not going so hot. I have always been supportive and warm towards him. During the conversation he said that I would have to earn his respect and he did not trust ...
A. 9 January 2011: If he hasn't respected you from day one then yes you definitely shouldn't be sleeping with him. Sounds like his a little like myself been burnt badly by a woman so his mistrusting with good reason at first BUT if he knows you arent like those or the ... (read in full...)
Shall I shoot him a friendly text after what happened last night?
Q. This is a bit embarrasing, but I went out last weekend and got talking to a guy I have seen a few times on nights out, we ended up dancing together and chatting all night and he came back to my flat, with my friends. We had sex, and again in the m...
A. 9 January 2011: Play hard to get for he may well have viewed you as a one nighter if that was all he was after. He called once but wait and see if he actually shows up if he arranges a meeting with you again if he doesn't don't worry bout chasing him you'll find ... (read in full...)
Are guys losing respect for girls today than in the past?
Q. I know the guy I am with does not act like this what so ever, but is it just me, or am I getting the feeling that now a days, men expect girls to bend over and give themselves to them? Are guys really loosing respect for females now a days? ...
A. 9 January 2011: Hmm its a catch 22 that Catlady and Baddogbj hit on the head with the hammer with a couple of truths. Are we getting dumber as a race? yes due to a lack of decent education standards.
Are we losing respect for one another definitely but it isnt ... (read in full...)
Do I really like her for who she really is?
Q. right, ive been with a girl for nearly 6 months now. we're both 17, she's 4 months older than me, and we go to the same school though she is in the year above. The way we started going out is a bit strange really, she just started talking to me ...
A. 9 January 2011: Very mature mindset I agree with shawncaff OP even as we get older we still question the difference with love vs lust at times too.
Just one thing though no sex before marriage it isn't just a biblical rule, it's a rule for one's happines... (read in full...)
My soon to be ex wife isn't giving me rights to the house I'm paying for!
Q. My wife and I are separated, almost divorced, and waiting for our house to sell. She lives there, I live in a condo. Money is VERY tight. I pay half her bills and half the mortgage. I visit my son there at least every other weekend and some ...
A. 9 January 2011: I can understand paying half the mortgage still and alimony but why on earth are you paying half her bills when you no longer reside there? I'd be having words with your lawyer why do you see the son at the house whats wrong with bringing him to the ... (read in full...)
For the girls: Is an uncircumcised penis a deal breaker?
Q. Is an uncircumcised penis a deal breaker? Only for women...
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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011):
yes, all the penises iv been with were all circumcised.. its the risk of STI! sexually transmitted infections
******... (read in full...)
How do I attract the bad boys?
Q. what is it abour me that attracts unattractive guys i mean my mom always told me to be nice so i am and i attract boys who i dont like how do i get the ones wh i like what do i do.ps i like the bad boys...
A. 5 January 2011: bad boy is such a loosely used term whats your meaning on bad boy OP? If you mean one that is always in trouble with the law you need to grow up and get a brain these kind of men aren't relationship material unless you like the idea of being the ... (read in full...)
What is the 'norm' for hair down below?
Q. I don't suppose this is relationship per se but it's just something I've been pondering and can't answer it myself! Well I have been seeing this guy for a while now and we've been making out and stuff but things are starting to get a bit more h...
A. 5 January 2011: The norm is what ever you yourself are comfortable with to be honest for if he is that deeply into you the nether regions hairstyle isn't going to be a issue with him. Some girls prefer keeping a airstrip ala mostly shaven along the inner thigh and ... (read in full...)
I don't want to go on the weekend trip with my fiance. How do I tell him?
Q. My fiance wants me to go on a four drive this weekend to his brothers house. I don't really like staying at other peoples houses. It makes me feel uncomfortable and its not my stuff not my house and I allways feel like I have to ask to use the ...
A. 5 January 2011: Anonymous' comment on lieing to the fiance is wrong as well if you have to lie to your potential lifemate then you shouldn't be getting involved with this person period if socialising with family is such a issue. Im actually suprised theres so many ... (read in full...)
She is having trouble connecting to me after the death of a parent, what can I do?
Q. First time post here, a bit nervous. You know how there are always two sides to a story, right? I am trying my best to keep this non-biased. I really need help. I met my wife when I was 17, she was 16. It is now 20 years later. We never...
A. 5 January 2011: Well not to raise concerns to cause a argument these inside jokes with txts to friends arent male friends are they is she always inviting friends over while your out of the house or do they visit while your home too? That is a strange thing she'd ... (read in full...)
I don't want to go on the weekend trip with my fiance. How do I tell him?
Q. My fiance wants me to go on a four drive this weekend to his brothers house. I don't really like staying at other peoples houses. It makes me feel uncomfortable and its not my stuff not my house and I allways feel like I have to ask to use the ...
A. 5 January 2011: I can understand wanting personal space time if your living together and the other half doesnt go out very often to socialise with his friends etc unless its case of you had other plans for that weekend with someone else reason I say that for is ... (read in full...)
I left my wife for another woman but she chose to get married, what do I do next?
Q. This is a story about doing everything wrong....it is a story about two people and their partners. One of those people had a new marriage which is now at an end. The other was engaged and is now married. The story begins at the place where I wo...
A. 5 January 2011: I tend to agree with Mystiquek on your post you chose your bed now lay in it fools and the blind live in what if's after your own choices have brought you to where you are today.
Common sense should tell you work colleagues should only ever be ... (read in full...)
Into the unknown after ending of bad relationship.
Q. Hi. I am feeling scared and alone. Basically, I have never had a relationship with a girl before this year (I am a young adult). This girl was beautiful...but was egotistical, manipulative and untrustworthy. It took me months to free myself from the...
A. 5 January 2011: Been in a destructive marriage myself before we were divorced and while I do miss the female company of even just sitting on the verandah having a late night ciggy and a scotch while chatting under the stars here.
I've been contently single f... (read in full...)
He's joining the military and my religion won't let me move in with him!
Q. ok, well i am really confused on what i should do. this guy, let's call him Patrick. Well Patrick and i have been dating for 1 year and a few months... And he is getting ready to leave for boot camp for the army. And he has asked me to wait...
A. 5 January 2011: Your young to be contemplating moving in with a man, I am guessing this guy is at least 17years of age since he is enlisted if his older then I'd be questioning why his dating a teen for but if its a case he is 17 all you can do and all he can do is ... (read in full...)
Help, do I just accept the psychopathic boyfriends' mother and her bad doings?
Q. My boyfriend and I get on fabulously, at least we did, until our argument just before Christmas 2010, which really has put permanent doubts about us in my mind. The thing is that his mum is a manipulative, controlling expert, whom I cannot win ...
A. 5 January 2011: The answer is simple for starters --My birthday, he put me in hospital-- No man if they truly have an ounce of love for you inside them will ever resort to physical abuse regardless of what caused the argument that indicator there should tell you to ... (read in full...)
My best friend doesn't want to be my best friend any more!
Q. My best friend of 4yrs abruptly emailed me a note saying it was time we go our separate ways. He did this after I sent him an email that was very innocent. He was also my personal trainer and I was his number 1 client, I also helped him with his ...
A. 29 December 2010: Yeah well I din't want to come out sounding too harsh towards you either some people find it difficult to say I just need time alone to think and recentre myself to friends so they do sometimes snap and come across mean to get the picture across. ... (read in full...)
Anything I do for him is not enough for him. Help!
Q. My boyfriend and I finally took the step to move in together. We've been together for almost 5 years. We've had our ups and downs....but for the past couple years, I have really felt like he won't ever commit to me. He says that he even...
A. 28 December 2010: Your main priority is your daughter not some chump with false visions of grandeur when he can't afford to host 'kingly' parties in attempt to lie to his friends 'how well off we are'. He sounds like he is trying to live outside of his means, does he ... (read in full...)
My best friend doesn't want to be my best friend any more!
Q. My best friend of 4yrs abruptly emailed me a note saying it was time we go our separate ways. He did this after I sent him an email that was very innocent. He was also my personal trainer and I was his number 1 client, I also helped him with his ...
A. 28 December 2010: My best friends I've known for 29yrs and 30yrs respectively their brother who I have grown up with since we were kids and we both know when each needs space four years isn't enough time to label someone as a best friend if anything a friend. Your... (read in full...)
I do all the housework and he refuses to contribute or help.
Q. I don't know what to do. I am in a relationship with a guy who is a year younger than me. He moved in with me three months ago (after online dating for two--I know it was a little soon...) I'm starting to get second thoughts about continuing a ...
A. 27 December 2010: online dating for two in those two did you have days/nights where you actually saw him and how his household behaviour was? I don't see anything wrong with expecting a cooked meal ready at home unless of course its been cooked and his late getting ... (read in full...)
I can't leave because of the kids, but our relationship is terrible.
Q. i am in a terrible situation and would love to get some advice i have been with my partner for 5 years now. we have 4 children who i love very much. Me and my partner dont get on we always argue. Every day there is something im doing wrong i tidy up ...
A. 27 December 2010: Im trying to see the genuinity to the question but with a comment from you like-- My partner isnt with any1 because they always hurt her-- it's hard to determine so are you with her now or are you not?
Only a fool believes star sign rubbish ... (read in full...)
Son's girlfriend cheated, now his whole outlook on life has changed.
Q. I need help really badly. My son he has been down for the last year or so. He had a girlfriend who he loved a lot. He did things for this for this girl that were super romantic and she reciprocated. I liked her. 5 years later,, and I repeat my son ...
A. 27 December 2010: He needs to blow the steam off mind keep him in check for any man who mistreats a woman is a dog in my book be it verbal or physical abuse but sounds he is just raging from hurt after a while he'll be himself again unless its steroids that are ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I love him? He is with someone else.
Q. ok... there is a super long backstory to me and my best friends relationship but I won't bore you with it. I'll just lay it out plain and simple. I met my best friend 5 years ago... have a connection with him that I have never found with anyone else ...
A. 27 December 2010: You can't be certain he is making that commitment if he told you he doesn't know yet he hasn't decided, if a man cant answer for I want to marry her it means he isnt sure himself on whether the other girl is the right one for him or his keeping his ... (read in full...)
I can't watch him destroy his life, what should I do?
Q. Should I stay with my boyfriend? Way to get right to the point right, it's just that my boyfriend and I live in two very different worlds. We started going out about two years ago, fall 2009 he went away to college, and when he came back last ...
A. 27 December 2010: When you said smokes I assumed he was a nicotine cigarette smoker (myself am guilty of that lol after a year of not smoking) but you cannot force someone to change regardless that is a decision one makes themselves and to be honest if you keep ... (read in full...)
Lost love contacted me after 10 years, I love him, but we're both in relationships
Q. my ex-boyfriend got a hold of me a few months ago.he tells me he loves me and i sitll love him too.we broke up ten years ago and lost contact.i moved out of state.he recently found me on facebook and we have been talking over the phone and texting. ...
A. 27 December 2010: Ten years is a long time to say you love someone when that relationship broke up ten years ago obviously for a reason. Whats the real motive for him wanting to get back with you after 10years? If he was that keen on you to start with he wouldntve ... (read in full...)
32 and I don't know how to approach women successfully
Q. Hi there. I’m 32 and still trying to get the hang of this dating thing before I lose the will to live. Im really trying to put pressure on myself to find a girlfriend as the gaps between partners in my life has been just too big meaning I’ve had ...
A. 27 December 2010: Definitely trying to hard mate, love is one thing that cannot be hurried or pushed brother no matter how many times one may be hurt there is plenty of fish in the sea so to speak and patience pays off instead of pushing yourself. Relax and dont ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend calls me a manwhore!
Q. So my girl and I have been together for a couple years and we used to be really happy but things lately last 4 months or so havent been all that great. She makes me feel bad about myself. Since I've had some history with women before dating her, she ...
A. 27 December 2010: Either she feels insecure about your past and feels threatened she isnt performing to a expection on what you have women do think strangely at times man or she is one who delights in emotional abuse to her fellow do you know if she was like that ... (read in full...)
How should I prepare for being a teenage parent?
Q. okay thnx for the previous advice guys and yea everything is fine now, my parents were pretty stricken at first but after their shock they were very suppportive! our friends were all shocked but their great... just another question...what ...
A. 27 December 2010: Im not familiar with child services in your country. But hmm, you're going to need a lot of patience. A new born can be stressful on some people, with the early morning feeds. Part time work would be a first, if you dont already have a job. You ar... (read in full...)
He didn't get me anything for Christmas! Does that mean he's not into me?
Q. My boyfriend didn't get me anything for Christmas. We've only been dating a month. He is visiting family overseas right now so I sent him a present. He knew I was giving him something but still didn't get me anything. Should I take this to mean ...
A. 25 December 2010: It doesn't depend at all people all seem to misread the true meaning of Christmas. You've been dating for only a month thats some high expectations on expecting a gift when you hardly know the guy more so when you know full well his overseas ... (read in full...)
Is getting an AIDS test scary, how is it done?
Q. So in health class weve been talking about STDS and aids and how it is transmitted through any kind of sex. Two years ago i used to give my now ex blowjobs, but i usually didnt swallow the cum except for once or twice.But my health teacher told us ...
A. 25 December 2010: Your health teacher advises you of the clinic yet since your sexually active you know you wouldn't be having this worry if you practised safe sex even if it is just oral sex a condom protects you as well as him.... (read in full...)
My wife can't have children so she told me to marry her sister!
Q. 1 am 30 years man . I am married with good wife of 28..we have no child ... we consulted a doctor , there is some problem in my wife , so there is no chance of child .. my wife has one sister of age 23 ,my wife ask me marry her , whether i can ma...
A. 25 December 2010: In this day and age why do people still have such short sightedness. Ok so your wife is infertile talk with your wife on the options of IVF (even if the sister agrees to be a surrogate for you both) or even adoption. Talk the options out with your ... (read in full...)
I have a new guy, BUT keep thinking of my ex, even though my ex bullied me.
Q. I am extremely confused with my relationships at the moment. My boyfriend of two years split up with me two months ago and then a month ago, after becoming close with another boy we got together. My problem is I keep thinking of my ex and I'...
A. 25 December 2010: By sounds of things no your not over him yet when he doesn't deserve that kind of emotions from you from what you described about him. Makes it a little worse three months later you found someone else not that that's wrong but sometimes especi... (read in full...)
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