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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011): Dealbreaker for me, sorry guys. Call me shallow all you like, but if I find something revolting, then how am I supposed to have sex with it?
Right, and I'm 21, American, and Jewish (although more in a cultural sense than a religious one)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011): personaly i dont find circumcised penis is a turn off it doesnt look natural like somethings missing 'obviously' lol silly thing to say but it has to be clean i love the fact my bf washes or wipes after he pees, dnt think id do half the stuff we do if he was a shake to dry guy lol
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reader, JESSYBABII  +, writes (8 January 2011):
No it just depends if it looks okay or not.
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reader, malibooty1 +, writes (7 January 2011):
Not at all
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reader, smiliek  +, writes (7 January 2011):
 nothing wrong with it. My hubby's not. He's clean and i find sex with him better then anyone else i've been with (who were circumsized) It changes nothing so long as you wash it when you shower. Plus he's more sensitive there which makes everything more pleasureable for him. And of course, its the person that matters. Not the penis
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): i dont see why it should make a difference.
it is a matter of personal preference. no hygiene or std issues involved with being uncut.
and wtf people saying they wouldnt give a bj if he is uncut? grow up that is just silly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): There is absolutely nothing wrong with this at all!!! Ive had both. No difference once it's hard.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 An advice for the anon female who finds uncut penises repulsive-
don't ever move to Europe then. Nobody is circumcised here ( unless they are Jewish or Muslim - a small minority ).
We are talking about millions and millions and millions of guys ....
It's totally a culturally oriented perception, not an aesthetic one . I nearly fainted the first time I saw a circumcised penis !
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reader, Godchild +, writes (5 January 2011):
I have talk to a guy before that wasn't circumcised. I cant be intimate with him. Personally its a turn off. For i am very affectionate person. Then again if someone really cares for you it shouldnt be a problem because love is suppose to be unconditional.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): Let's be honest. Many women find it repulsive. It's just nor politically correct to say so out loud
I might date a guy who was uncut if I REALLY liked him. Not sure I could ever give him a BJ
Does that make me shallow. If u think so, ur full of BS. I also don't find read heads attractive. Nor men under 5'6". Nor do I find Asaian men attractive. It's just what I happen to find attractive as a sexual partner
Just as some men might prefer big tits, a nice ass, or long legs...
A preference does not make you superficial, just honest with yourself
Deal with it
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 "There have been studies that show higher incidences of both STD transmission, infections, and cervical and penile cancer related to uncut penises. If you use protection or you are totally monogamous with one partner this should not be an issue."
There have also been studies that show how those studies are total bull.
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reader, BreastMan  +, writes (5 January 2011):
To be honest I am shocked, I always assumed this useless practice has been abendoned long ago, and now I see the things are almost as if there are more curcamsised men out there that those who are not. I guess in America that might be the case, since i never lived there perhaps is why I was oblivios to the fact that the practice still exist. Anyway, if having a foreskin is an issue for her, then dump her ! She is not worth five minutes of your time, even less so your afection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): No, not a problem. I actually prefer it uncut
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): There have been studies that show higher incidences of both STD transmission, infections, and cervical and penile cancer related to uncut penises. If you use protection or you are totally monogamous with one partner this should not be an issue.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 I prefer a dressed up penis, preferably with a condom.
Nope, either way is fine by me!
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (5 January 2011):
 Nope, couldn't care less. It's the person said penis is attached to, that makes or break the deal for me.
No matter how you dress it up.. a penis is just a penis.
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reader, faenon +, writes (5 January 2011):
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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011):
yes, all the penises iv been with were all circumcised.. its the risk of STI! sexually transmitted infections
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It does not take too much brainpower to work out that circumcision does not do anything to prevent, halt or slow down in any way the spread of sexually transmitted diseases or infections that are not related to it. The problem is the penis contacting another person to spread the disease which is preventable with the use of a condom, not the shape colour size or physical characterisics of it (uncircumcised/circumcised). This day and age its more a religious thing with Jewish peoples.
If it's a deal breaker for your woman OP then she's a shallow individual it shouldn't be a issue when your practising safe sex.
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (5 January 2011):
Having foreskin does not increase your chance of getting an STD, it does not make you dirty, it doesn't not increase/decrease the chance of pregnancy etc..
I'm sure you have noticed that your foreskin is sensitive, obviously you will lose that if its cut off. And sex will be less sensitive and ultimately less pleasurable.
Please don't cut off your foreskin just because some girls are too shallow to accept you as you are, based on a whole load of misconceptions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): Depends on the woman. To me it's not. I have never heard of it being a "deal breaker."
But I did have a girl friend get very anxious about her first sexual experience with a specific guy because she knew he was uncut. She was horrified by it in concept. She had never seen one uncut before and thought it would be "gross." I tried to tell her it wasn't, but she fixated on it for a while. I even took her to the zoo to show her how natural and commonplace it was.
She is the pickiest woman I know and even she got over it & stayed with him for over 3 years. It's not a big deal.
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reader, rolfen  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 Sorry I'm a guy and I would like to answer: A women for whom a circumcised penis might be a problem - IS a deal breaker. For me.
(PS: I am circumcised myself - so this is nothing personal)
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reader, BettyBoup +, writes (5 January 2011):
 Hell no! Not at all. The only reasons I can see for someone to find it a deal breaker is for religion(the cause of so many of life's disagrements) or because she is shallow or immature. Any normal, down to earth, sensible woman would not consider this important, unless for religious views. To me it would be like breaking up with someone because they didn't have their ear pierced. If a person chose to break up with you over that, they obviously weren't that into you or too shallow to see past their own ideals.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): yes, all the penises iv been with were all circumcised.. its the risk of STI! sexually transmitted infections
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (5 January 2011):
I think this question is more directed to American or Jewish women where circumcision is more common.
To me, circumcised or not, it's the person at the end of the penis that matters!
I don't see myself what the important difference is between one or the other. It is essentially just a bit of skin!
Any woman that does have a problem, I don't think is worth bothering with!
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