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writes:okay thnx for the previous advice guys and yea everything is fine now, my parents were pretty stricken at first but after their shock they were very suppportive! our friends were all shocked but their great...just another question...what should i be prepared for? (i don't sleep much anyway so a baby waking up multiple times at night won't be a problem)what would my gf be going through? i want to be thre as much as i can for her and what would my school do to us if thy knew?? will they like call child services or sumthing?? thnx guys! Reply to this Question
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reader, Abella  +, writes (27 December 2010):
 while your girlfriend is pregnant she needs to see the Dr regularly to check baby's progress. She also needs folic acid(prevent birth defects) and calcium(baby needs lots to grow bones). Dr can explain.
She will get more tired in last 3 months and her back will hurt. also while pregnant use rich good quality (pawpawcream) moisturiser on area where she could get stretch marks - especially her stomach area. Also apply pawpaw cream to nipples as skin can
crack there. Don't overdo it but a few times each week do pelvic floor exercises.
Once baby is born (for first 3 to 6 months) that is when a new Mom is tired and easily overwhelmed. If possible get some information on breast feeding. It is easier, no bottles, no heating up, sterilising bottles when bone tired. And breast feeding very good for baby. And helps new Mom lose her tummy quicker after the birth. Babies go through huge number of diapers daily. Not at first, but later as baby gets bigger I found at one point it was 10 to 12 diapers per day. Thats 70 to 84 a week. 280 in a month. Price a packet and you'll see how much is spent on diapers. A changing table at the right height is essential. There are so mant other needs it is staggering.
One way to help is to hold a Baby Shower just before baby is born, i may have forgotten much thay is essential
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reader, comeonjesusthishurtstoomuch +, writes (27 December 2010):
 as far as i know the school can do nothing only parents as for your gf just be there for her listen back and foot rubs when needed MAKE SURE she takes her prenatal get lots of ultrasound pics for scrapbook and start hitting flea markets and used stores for supplies bassinet stroller ect gas drops and teething gel are a must any more questions i'm a seasoned mom and can answer em all
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (27 December 2010):
 To be there for your girlfriend you'll need to do a lot of errands, make sure you treat her well, even if you are tired you must not be lazy and still work hard. You should immediately figure out a plan on how to earn money/find a job, figure out where you will live etc. What support have your parents given you? If they are supportive you should ask them these questions, not us.
What about your girlfriends parents, how do they feel about it? You need to make a plan on what to do and how, and make it together with your girlfriend. Do not focus on yourself now, from now on it is all about the baby you will soon have.
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reader, faenon  +, writes (27 December 2010):
 Im not familiar with child services in your country. But hmm, you're going to need a lot of patience. A new born can be stressful on some people, with the early morning feeds. Part time work would be a first, if you dont already have a job.You are going to need money to feed the child and cloth it. If there are parenting courses available I'd strongly advise attending one just to learn what to expect.Every woman is different some suffer with morning sickness others don't. Changes in the breasts,cramps fatigue etc. If there is parenting classes available since you are young it doesn't hurt to attend these classes for extra information as well as guidance from your own parents.
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