Did he just use me for that one night?

A female age 30-35, *pl writes:

i had sex with this guy we are not committed but we know each other since elementary. i know im stupid doing that but for me and to him its just for fun. after that night he go back to wisconsin coz he lived there. im not inlove with him but why im feeling this? i cant get him outta my head' the night we had sex feel so good but never thought that the effect will be like this. we chat and i think im falling for him but he act like he dont care' he dont trust me. he was sweet he calls me and we chat everyday. but what confuses me is that were NOT LOVERS! im so confuse! yesterday he sent me a message he said that he dont want to talk to me anymore wtf? maybe he do that coz our situation is complicated i dont know! and he deleted me on his friends list on facebook! i want to hate him because i think he just uses me that night. its hard to believe. help me :(

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