Does she like me or something?
Q. I go to the gym 3 days a week, I see 2 girls who go on the same days. I've noticed one who is attractive and our eyes have met a few times over the weeks, I check her out not quite a bit and sometimes catch her looking at me but looks away as soon ...
A. 30 July 2009: Seems like positive signs to me, go ahead and ask for a drink ! ... (read in full...)
How do I satisfy him without sex
Q. hey I have been with my bf for about 4 months we haven't had sex because i'm just not ready and however corny this sounds i want my first time to be special and i think he understands that but he never seems fully satisfied with the physical ...
A. 30 July 2009: Satisfy a man without sex ? You certainly cannot sexually satisfy a man without sex, but you can still work on the other aspects of your relationship, like the chemistry, how much you feel close together. However, should that "special" first ... (read in full...)
If our ages were reversed, would it be such a problem?
Q. Hello. I have a big question! Last week end i went to a friendly/family reunion for my friend. There was someone really interesting there. We had good conversations over the fire, some lafing, connecting... he is single and so am i... We fond ...
A. 29 July 2009: If you both have feelings for each other, don't resist exploring them together ! ... (read in full...)
An innocent flirtation, two months of fighting
Q. My girlfriend of two years won't let me go to an old job because she found out I flirted with a customer once. She found out looking through my emails at a message I sent to another friend, in which I told them the full story and even admitted that ...
A. 29 July 2009: You really need the cash, tell her she can either pay your bills or let you work in that job to pay them. First, make sure you admit that you were wrong though: promise not to flirt with other women again and make it so.... (read in full...)
Why do angel boyfriends turn out to be monster exes?
Q. Question to all males: My boyfriend always tells me that he has never met any female who has the kindest, most white heart he has known as me. (I am the only woman he seriously dated) I was always understanding to him, never calls him names, even ...
A. 29 July 2009: I think he was honest when he said all the good things about you, but now that it's over, he is suffering. People that suffer act very differently, especially because he probably blames you, the first real love of his life, for all his pain.... (read in full...)
Messy breakup is leaving me out of pocket!
Q. I just got dumped badly from my girl after 11 years. I am 29. We purchased an appartment 2 years ago and the home loan is in both our names. Her parents gave us $60000 towards the place when we bought it. She now wants to sell and her lawyers sent ...
A. 29 July 2009: I am not an expert and I strongly suggest you talk to a lawyer about this (paying a few hundred of dollars to get 30K is nothing, especially if she hurts you and you want to return the favor).
However, in my opinion, the 3 most important things i... (read in full...)
I had my first blow job but I didnt feel anything!
Q. I'm kinda shy here, so this is a BIG step forward for me ^^' Anyway recently I finally got over a self-confidence issue of not allowing anyone to do anything to me, and I received my first ever blowjob! (YAY!) Unfortunatly for me, I couldn't reall...
A. 29 July 2009: In order to achieve orgasm, and in some extend pleasure, people must free their mind from worries, which is definetly not always easy if you are shy and used to lack confidence. If you are worried and lack confidence, it's possible it caused lack of ... (read in full...)
Are these guys playing games with me? I don't know who to trust!
Q. help! two months ago i met a guy X. he grew massively on to me. i considered him as family thats how close we were. we had sex and everything. then he introduced me to his mate Y. i started seein Y cuz X left for holiday to sort out his LDR. X kept ...
A. 29 July 2009: Being a PUA or not is only a question of your level of skills at picking up women. You can have good intentions, you can have bad intention, but every man wants to have sucess with women and somewhat looks foward to increase his sucess rates with ... (read in full...)
I care for him so much but he talks to Rachelle about sex!
Q. There is a boy a year older than me named "Nick", and he is Orthodox Christian like me, and he is godsiblings to my cousin "Cecily." When we were all younger, his father, a priest, had an affair and he was disrobed and he and his wife divorced. ...
A. 28 July 2009: woment prefer older men; she's not going to have sex with him, although there is 2 explanations:
1) She likes to feel attractive to younger men
2) She's generous and she's giving him some advice... (read in full...)
Do men think about their female friends when they masterbate?
Q. I have this male friend who used to be a lover. Now we just hang out and occasionally kiss or touch each other. I pretty sure he used to masturbate thinking about me but it makes me curious if he still does. And I'm just curious in general if guys ...
A. 28 July 2009: When a person (male or female) masturbate, that person thinks about exiting things. Well, some of our sexy girl friends can be exiting, so ya, we sometimes think about them while we masturbate.... (read in full...)
Is the guy I met on holiday playing games with me??
Q. met a guy on holiday, we got on brill. he did show signs of being insecure and a bit jealous. and i think he liked me to chase after him. since i got home i txt him the other week and he did not reply to me although my text did not require a ...
A. 28 July 2009: I 100000000000000% agree with Emily, you rejected him TWO times. That being done, you should expect an out-of-the-ordinary answer ! (otherwise, he has a problem).... (read in full...)
I get wet before having sex, is there something wrong with me?
Q. im in a sexual relationship and my fella always comments on how wet i am down below before we have sex. he always mentions it and has also mentioned that he has had to use lube with some of his exes and never with me so im starting to wonder if ...
A. 28 July 2009: getting wet is perfectly normal, it's exactly how it's suppose to happen. I'd say some of his ex were different than most women.... (read in full...)
I want rough sex!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for awhile. I want him to be really rough me with during sex. Hes a really sweet guy and I wasn't sure how he would react to me asking him to be rough with me. So we've been having sex this for ahwile and he ...
A. 27 July 2009: I've already heard that problem a few times, you're not alone.
Maybe he would like to have rougher sex with you, but is shy to ask ? Personaly, I would like to have rough sex (and some people say I am a "nice" guy, too).
Don't be shy,... (read in full...)
Large labia minora....is this a turn off to men?
Q. Hello This is a little bit embarrassing.... I just wondered if anyone could give me HONEST answers as to what they think as i'm too embarrassed to ask anyone I know. I have large labia minora that hang down a little... i am so paranoid about t...
A. 24 July 2009: Can I tell you a secret ? Women are too judgemental about their bodies, while men are just grateful to see them !
Don't complicate things so much, our IQ drops to about a third or a quarter of our usual IQ when we're exited, I don't think me... (read in full...)
Why do good looking guys always get girlfriends?
Q. why is it good looking guys always get girlfriends no matter where there are....
A. 24 July 2009: well, some people say:
girls are like parkings: all the good ones are already taken, and the only ones left are handicaped.
I guess it applies to guys from a girl's point of view, too.... (read in full...)
When it comes to sex hes stuck in low gear any ideas?
Q. I'm now 6 weeks into a new relationship with a great guy. He's fun and outgoing, and i had my hopes high for the bedroom department. But it turns out that he has a very low sex drive. In my experience of being with a new partner, i was more than ...
A. 19 July 2009: It's strange, usually the reverse happens more often ! I am certainly adding this to my watch list, as I am interested to know what people have to say about this.
Maybe you should tell him how attractive you think he is, and you want to feel clo... (read in full...)
What do men do when they realise their game doesn't work with you?
Q. What do men do when they realize their game doesn't work with you? In other words, you can pretty much see right through their bull. Do they try harder, freak out, or become tame? ...
A. 19 July 2009: If she's really damn worth it, I might try a bit more. However, if she's just playing "hard to get", I'll just leave. I'm not playing games, I'm looking for the right one.... (read in full...)
What is your meaning of life?
Q. I have no idea what I'm supposed to do. I thought maybe reading other people's raison d'etre might help me figure my own. So does anyone here know why you exist?...
A. 19 July 2009: I exist to experiment hapiness and pleasure. This has a lot of implications, but that's the general idea.... (read in full...)
I want to be more...
Q. I know there are many, many flat chested women in the world who are living life happily. However, I'm not one of them. I'm single, and it just seems so unfair that despite having a nice face/hair, taking care of my appearance, and dressing up well, ...
A. 19 July 2009: Hey some guys don't want "big boobs" !
Personnaly, proportion matters more than size, and her face, especialy her smile and the look in her eyes matters more to me ! I falled in love with a girl, and other guys said she was "boobless", but to m... (read in full...)
Does everyone read their SO's emails?
Q. I wonder what everyone's opinion is regarding their signifigant other's email? Reading the questions here, too often I see questions asked prefaced by the person saying they read their SO's emails (or messages on myspace or facebook). Am I...
A. 18 July 2009: if I had a gf that invasive, I'd consider it an hostile violation of my privacy, even though I do not do anything wrong with my e-mail and I'm not the biggest fan of facebook neither. Also, I'm good with computers, I'd find it soon or later that my ... (read in full...)
He said he has a 'lust' problem and looks at other naked girls. He wants me to help him, should I believe it?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. While we were on a walk at the park when i found pictures of girls (not models) posing nude. We argued about this for hours. He told me that he has a problem with lust and sometimes likes to look. ...
A. 18 July 2009: well... to me it just looks like someone who like porn... It's not uncommon among guys. Maybe he feels guilty about it, but somehow needs it ? ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to have male friends and go out with them behind your BF's back?
Q. Is it wrong to have male friends and go out with them on ocassion? But behind your boyfriend's back? I ask this because I've had a good guy friend for 2-3 years. We don't talk all the time just when we want to hang out. Initially, we we...
A. 18 July 2009: kinda true that we are attracted to attractive girl friends we have. After all, if we are friends, there is something that attracts us. Might how smart she is, how good she is to help us a bit when we need it... or it might be she's romanticaly ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to keep a man or a friend no matter what I do
Q. Hi, what brought me to this site is the loneliness and despair i feel. I can't seem to keep a man or a friend no matter what i do. I run everybody off and I'm not sure why. I laugh at peoples jokes, listen to them, and always try to offer ...
A. 18 July 2009: Are you really 36-40 ? I find this strange for a mature woman. Maybe you're trying too hard ? what did people say you before leaving ?
Try to keep a friend first, it's easier than a man.... (read in full...)
Is sex important in a relationship?
Q. Okay let me just start this out as...I am 21 and still a virgin and would like to stay that way until I'm ready to get married. I have always promised myself I would and I'd rather do so, sex just doesn't seem important to me...I've never even ...
A. 11 July 2009: ok, I don't want to be mean, but a sex is important to guys, especially in their 20s.
I think you might want to try some specialized dating site like a "christian only" one or something like that. Otherwise, you will find someone who gives a ... (read in full...)
29 year old male virgin, still approaching women with zero luck. Any tips appreciated!
Q. im a 29 year old male going to turn 30 next month. i am indian american born and raised in NJ. i have never kissed, dated,..still a virgin. i am not shy when it comes to approaching. i have been approaching women since the age of 18. i have ...
A. 11 July 2009: 75% of people are already matched with someone, so the solution is to go on a dating web site.
0 out of something here too (20 yo). You are projecting failure, not sucess, on them. ... (read in full...)
I want one night of fun with her but it will be my first time!
Q. this girl and i are good mates, we keep talking about hooking up for one night of fun, i want to a lot, but at the same time i dont, becuase, well, it will be my first time and im woried that it will be over in like 30seconds and she wont enjoy it, ...
A. 11 July 2009: Relax, average erected length is something like 15 or 16 cm (6''), so you're average. ... (read in full...)
Am I a weirdo?
Q. heeey ! right well i would just like to ask people am i a weido for not having a boyfreind or have kissed anyone in my whole life i know i sound like a proppa geek ahah ! but if i could just have you feedback and not rude comments i am sick of the...
A. 11 July 2009: "13-15" ? perfectly normal !!!... (read in full...)
Is there a certain age when women find sex more satisfying?
Q. Is there a certain age that woman find sex more satisfying or appealing? Is there a certain age that woman have more sex? Woman any advice? ...
A. 11 July 2009: Women often have a sex boom 39-40 (biological: want kids before it's impossible) and in their 40s (this one I don't know why)... (read in full...)
What's worse ? being a slut or being 40 years old virgin ?
Q. What is better either having sex with many people or keep virginity until you're way too old ? What do you think ?...
A. 11 July 2009: I think you should definetly know that average age for first time sex is 17, and there is a huge variety around that. Don't stress it out.... (read in full...)
When a guy says, while holding a girl's hand that he caught a big fish, what does he mean?
Q. Just curious.. What does it mean when you're planning a fishing trip and the gal says, 'Let's get up early enough to go out and catch some big fish.' Then the guy looks over, holds her hand and says, 'I already did catch a big fish.' Oh, an...
A. 11 July 2009: the big fish ? That's the woman of your life, the one of your dreams.... (read in full...)
Virgin, think about sex all the time.
Q. iam 24 years old and I am virgin and I want to know if its good to think about sex all the time?...
A. 11 July 2009: I'm 20 and I can tell you it's normal... hormones are very strong at this age, but also we all want to discover some new exiting stuff sometimes ! ... (read in full...)
How common are these "dating rules"?
Q. I have a general question about dating. I am 39, originally from Ukraine, and have been living in US for the past 13 years. Where I grew up (or at least at the time I was dating back there) there was no concept of becoming exclusive with someone ...
A. 11 July 2009: I've heard from many sources (Canada) that it's ok to date many persons at once ONLY if all of the following:
1) both are not already engaged
2) None of those relationships have got serious yet.
the problem with this definition lies in "serious... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to have sex with a stranger I chat to in the Internet??
Q. Hi, Im 15, and i met a girl on the internet who is 19. Ive been talking to her seriously about us and she asked if we wanted to meet up and to have sex. I said yes, shes attracted to me im attracted to her. We have shown eachother our parts on webc...
A. 11 July 2009: 1) Meet in a public place for security.
2) If he is what he says he is, go to a hotel or to your home, but not his (security again)... (read in full...)
He talked non stop the entire date but never mentioned a second date. Now what?
Q. I recently went out with a guy whom I'd met online. We met up after about 1 week of emailing. The date was drinks only. There were no awkward silences and we spent about 2.5 hours together. The only thing is that he talked most of the time. I ...
A. 11 July 2009: Maybe he was stressed: people can react to stress in many ways, including not talking, talking too much and/or too fast. If he was stressed, maybe it was because he cared about how you feel about him, because he feels attracted to you. Maybe I am ... (read in full...)
Can someone interperate cyber language?
Q. i received a message from an online female friend who i care for so dearly and it read as follows: HATE YOU* what's with the asterisk? does it mean anything? i'm just not sure if it simply means that she hates me or more. i really wanna know what's ...
A. 11 July 2009: sometimes astericks means something that cannot be seen through words while you write, like *shy*.... (read in full...)
Am I too nervous? Or just not ready for a relationship?
Q. Ok i am like 20 y/o and i wanna know is it normal to be able to talk to a female, on msn/yahoo/aim/games/phone easier than talking upfront to em? i get all nervous while even being near a female, sometimes i have tears coming down my face but i do ...
A. 11 July 2009: it is certainly normal that you find it harder to speak face to face to attractive women than on the web and etc, I feel the same, but not as strong as you. Tears are a sign of a strong reaction, it can be a positive or negative feeling, it's not ... (read in full...)
Guys: Was it right to let a shallow get the better of me?
Q. I liked a guy a few years ago, though he rejected me when he was drunk about 4 times. He didn't care. He does the same sport as me, I left it for 2 years and I fell behind, now he's away ahead of me and he the same age as me. Now I'll never catch ...
A. 5 July 2009: I'm not a native english speak and I'm not 100% sure I truly understand everything, but I'd say he's not the love of your life, as the love of your life will obsiously love you, and never want to hurt you. Don't do a sport just to match him. Th... (read in full...)
Does the pill help clear up poor skin?
Q. This is just a general womans health type question. My girlfriend says the pill helps with her skin, she has pretty troublesome skin with spots and sores especially on her back and upper arms. I was just wondering if this is true because I find it ...
A. 5 July 2009: The pill can have effect on acne, but also on pilosity: less hair.... (read in full...)
I'm I a slut? How can I forget!
Q. If I look at this on the funny side I'd say me and my boyfriend have a horn problem.. But on the not so funny side - I feel like a slut. Me and my boyfriend have done things in places we really shouldn't have. I regret it afterwards and n...
A. 5 July 2009: Relax, you're not a slut, you're just adventurous and that's perfect ! ... (read in full...)
Guys: Would you stop liking a girl if she was stupid?
Q. guys,would you still like a girl(now you like her a lot) that got just a bit lower grades at an exam than you did?and you know she did better than you at every contest you went at?would you consider her stupid and stop liking her?would this stop you ...
A. 19 May 2009: having a lower grade on one examen doesn't prove stupidity at all.
But if you were like really stupid, which you are far from, yes, I'd dump you.... (read in full...)
Fiancee says we are never going to have sex!
Q. Me and my fiancee have been together for about 7 months, and we love either other very much, but she told me that we are never going to have sex. I love her and i would never cheat on her. but it is getting to me. We used to fool around but lately ...
A. 19 May 2009: "Maybe you should have responded "well then, how do you expect us to ever have kids of our own?""
that's a damn good answer !
Also, no sex will drive you crazy, maybe she didn't mean it, but if she did, I'm pretty sure you'll end up frustrate... (read in full...)
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