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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): i don,t like good looking guys there not to be trusted
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (24 July 2009):
 If it's any consolation, I went to college with a guy who looked like an Adonis. Perfect athlete's physique, a beautiful mop of curls, handsome features. He was handsome and boy did he know it. A heartbreaker, that one. Let's call him Matt.
Fast forward fifteen years to the reunion. In walks a fat, balding, lumpy man--Matt, transformed. No longer the beautiful specimen, now just a middle aged guy with a paunch. The magic was gone, and so was the arrogance.
It's transitory, physical beauty. What matters is what's inside. You can work on the outside, work out, eat right, dress to suit your body type. But if you're not beautiful inside, well... that would be much harder to fix. But I think more important.
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reader, DLover  +, writes (24 July 2009):
well, some people say:
girls are like parkings: all the good ones are already taken, and the only ones left are handicaped.
I guess it applies to guys from a girl's point of view, too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): life is very unfair very very unfair
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (23 July 2009):
Because the universe is unfair. Because life is unfair. But always remember that "goodlooking" is a relative term. What is beautiful to one person might be ugly to another. Some cultures value women who are curvier and fuller figured. Others value women who are thin with no bosoms. The ideal of beauty has changed over time as well. Look at those Renoir beauties, painted with such enthusiasm for the round and curvy and what would now be considered "fat". Marilyn Monroe would have been told to lose weight before being made a star. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder but it also emanates from within you. If you believe you are beautiful you will be perceived as beautiful, if not by everyone, at least by a few other people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): Because they're good-looking. Forgive the tautology.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (23 July 2009):
 My bloke got me, and im not exactly a good looking chick, im not fit, sexy or young but he is
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reader, Alexiedos +, writes (23 July 2009):
 You could say that we were animals really before our brains developed so we still have animal instincts and the whole being attracted to an attractive person means they have good genes and the girl wants their child to have good genes also. However its not always the case. Sometimes people want more than just good looks and if they fall in love with someone that 'ugly' they usually dont care. But yeah good looking people will always have someone who is attracted to them you cant change that
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): Because what is the first thing you see when you look at a guy? I'm guessing it's not his soul or personality because unfortunately, those are hidden on the inside and a mystery for onlookers. The first thing you see is.. him.. obviously. His face, body, height, wright ect. So despite what a girl thinks of a guy and how that actually complares to who he really is, if he is good-looking, then that is the only honest impression she is left with. People feed off of physical attraction, generally. It is the sad truth that that becomes he most important thing sometimes. I for one, would never have gone out with a good-looking guy who decided he was man enough to walk up to me, without even knowing me, and ask me out. He thought he could get away with it becuase he's got a pretty face, but i don't fall for a pretty face. That's just me though. Most girls take the "go out with the hunk first, get to know him later" approach.
They don't want to let the handsome ones go until they know they are not worth keeping.
And let's face it: everyone wants to like what they see when they wake up every morning and roll over for a kiss... am i wrong?
~Sy.
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