Fiancee says we are never going to have sex!
Q. Me and my fiancee have been together for about 7 months, and we love either other very much, but she told me that we are never going to have sex. I love her and i would never cheat on her. but it is getting to me. We used to fool around but lately ...
A. 19 May 2009: "Maybe you should have responded "well then, how do you expect us to ever have kids of our own?""
that's a damn good answer !
Also, no sex will drive you crazy, maybe she didn't mean it, but if she did, I'm pretty sure you'll end up frustrate... (read in full...)
I'm looking a boyfriend with out making holy show out myself.
Q. I feel at age i should have at least one decent boyfriend, a nice genuine guy but i have none. Any guy i like turned out to be rotten to me always been nasty to me. i feel guys have more opportunity to meet girls because girls are chasing guys ...
A. 19 May 2009: You're wrong about something: most guys chase girls, not the reverse... I am a guy, and that's what I see from here.
I decided I would go on a dating site this fall (give yourself a time helps to prepare for it). I think you should do the same. Ge... (read in full...)
Should I make the first move or let him?
Q. I have been dating this guy for 3 months and we have made out with the kissing etc which is great. I can't tell if he wants to have sex because as soon as we get to that point he just stops and that's it. Should I make the first move or let him?...
A. 8 April 2009: maybe he's nervous. We guys all love to make our move, but sometimes we're too nervous to do so. I think he is, maybe you should go ahead with the first move. He's a guy, of couse he wants sex (sorry if it looks cliche, but it's true). Maybe he has ... (read in full...)
Dating woes ... is it always awkward or do you "click" right off the bat?
Q. I'm inexperienced dating but I met this guy online (2nd time) a couple days ago. He's nice, smart, reasonably attractive and he likes a lot of the things I do. But it was *so* difficult conversationally and I felt like I had to do a lot of talk...
A. 5 April 2009: Well, us guys are told by great pick up artists not to speak ourselfves too much on first dates (let the lady talk). I think you should go on second date and see what happens. He may be shy too. ... (read in full...)
Will he ever make contact? Or too nasty tests put him offf
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend and continued sleeping with him, that is all done now due to a lot of nasty texts messages sent by me whilst drunk i did this because he wouldnt take me back but still acted like we were together so i was confused, i ...
A. 5 April 2009: You broke it off, then spammed him with nasty things... I don't think he will come back, because if he has ANY commitment issues, those 2 things makes it PERFECT for him to walk away without any guilt.... (read in full...)
I'm loose. Will my future husband be put off by this?
Q. Dear Angony Aunt, I am a 17 year-old high school senior. Last summer I lost my technical virginity. Since then I have had sex with six guys.I start college in the fall and I expect to bed a different guy every Friday and Saturday night.Do you thi...
A. 4 April 2009: um... I am really sorry to say this, but if I was religious I'd find that repulsive enough not to mary you. Losing you virginity is not a problem, but having sex with 2 different guy every week kinda rings a bell in me: 'do not get close to that ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on good hiding techniques or any way to make a very little mess?
Q. Hi, my girlfriend wants to give me a handjob but is worried about getting caught. Our only chance alone is doing downstairs when her mom sister and brother leave us alone and go upstairs. I said I would wear basketball shorts and we could cover it ...
A. 1 April 2009: Man, I think it's worth it to pay a bit of money and spend a wonderful evening in a motel or hotel without fearing anyone hearing you or catching you, especialy on the first times.... (read in full...)
I know I'm "ready" but I'm scared his penis won't fit in me...
Q. Me and my bf have been dating for about 4 months and I'm still a virgin but he's obviously not. I really want him to be the one because I trust him fully and even if we do break up - I just know that he's the one. I'm only 14 but I know I'm read...
A. 1 April 2009: 14 is young, but still, you better be informed than laughed at ! So here it is:
With enough lubrification, it will fit. Lubrification needs foreplay. It might hurt on the first time, or after the first time. It will take a few times before y... (read in full...)
I want to surprise my fiance on our anniversary and dominate him sexually. Ideas?
Q. I want to surprise my fiance on our anniversary and dominate him sexually. Problem is I don't know how to. I've tried googling it but it didn't give me what I needed. Someone please help me I really want to surprise my fiance....
A. 29 March 2009: When he comes home, take him by the tie, kiss him and trow him on the bed. Try some females on the top position, be agressive a bit, hold his hands.
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Is it just about sex?
Q. Theres a guy I've become quite friendly with over the past year. He lives quite far away, so I don't see him often. Whenever we're together we act like a couple, with him intiating most things (as I didn't want to seem to keen, as I like him loads) ...
A. 29 March 2009: I agree with ArmyMedic: it is sad to say, but like all men, he needs sex... and might want to get it somewhere else if you don't (which is WRONG, I am not saying it's right). Do you enjoy having sex with him ? If so, why not have it ? If not, make ... (read in full...)
Would masturbating or having sex regularly even after joining a gym for exercise affect my health??
Q. Would masturbating or having sex regularly even after joining a gym for exercise affect my health?? I have a very good healthy body, I'm 34" in waist and 5'5" in height with 73 kg weight. Kindly advise me and let me know if I ejaculate 3-4 times a ...
A. 29 March 2009: Masturbating or having sex does not affect health in ANY negative way, especialy if you only do it 3-4 times a week. However, it does have positive effects: it reduces you tension, it's enjoyable and it keeps your libido up while you are single.... (read in full...)
Advice needed! How can I get closer to him and make him jealous?
Q. I really like this guy at college and I can't stop thinking about him. I want to get close to him but I don't know how. I don't see him much and I want to make him jealous.. but how? I'm really confused, could you help please x...
A. 29 March 2009: Starting by making him jealous is ***not a good idea***, guys are very serious about competition and you will not trigger any positive emotions by going on the jealous side (by flirting with other guys in front of him, for exemple) or he will simply ... (read in full...)
What did he mean exactly?
Q. What did this mean...? Right well background information - there's a guy that me and my mates always thought liked me because he stared at me a lot and he really showed it, then when asked about it by someone he denyed it but the way he said it ...
A. 29 March 2009: I'm a guy and "(my name)'s nice but it'll never happen. You know.." makes me think it could be 1 out of 2 things:
1) I really love her, but there is no way I can get a date such a smart and gorgeous woman
2) I really like a lot of things in... (read in full...)
Will he be put off by my breasts?
Q. I have got a new boyfriend of 3 weeks, but i am worried that when he asks for sex he will be put off by my sagging 48f breasts....
A. 29 March 2009: Don't worry about your breast's size, because what breast size a man likes in a woman varies greatly from one man to another, but mostly because he will not be put off by any kind of breast when he's about to have sex.
Men do not think as much ... (read in full...)
I'm too hairy!
Q. Okay so im a 15 year old hispanic and i used to think that it was just my race well it isn't . Im much too hairy for a girl. I have hair on my stomach,back,pubic area, arms,legs, face. Basically everywhere! No exceptions. I don't know what to d...
A. 29 March 2009: Well, this is only one thing I remember hearing about what to do against pilosity in women: I *heard* (might not be true) that the contraception pill does help for that. But it will certainly not cover the entire problem. Being a man, I don't think ... (read in full...)
He cheated once. Do I cheat now?
Q. okay well i just currently turned 14 and i'm in a relationship wit a 15 yr old. But he live's in another town. And he currently cheated on me. But i got bak wit him. Now a 16 yr old asked me out and i don't want to cheat on my boyfriend. But he chea...
A. 28 March 2009: Cheating on a cheater is still wrong...
If you really want that new guy, break up with your current bf and get with the new guy.... (read in full...)
Who cums first between a guy n a gal?
Q. hi there good people. I'm back again for your excellent advices. here's what I've been wondering most bout: who cums first between a guy n a gal?...
A. 28 March 2009: On the first time, the male tends to cum first. After that, it depends on the techniques and positions you use, and in which order.... (read in full...)
My ex invited me & my b/f to a housewarming party and played a sex tape we had made together!
Q. dear aunts, my boyfriend and i have been dating for two and a half years. he's funny, honest, smart, hard-working, just everything i could want in a man. i have never connected with another person on so many levels, and i can't imagine loving a...
A. 28 March 2009: You don't deserve to be treated like that, you seem to be a very good person.
However, it is true that you shouldn't have check his voicemail, it's a bit too much controling and would scare me off, which would cause me to overreact to any curr... (read in full...)
Should I leave her alone on keep on trying?
Q. Hello guys and girls. On Mon i finally asked out this girl whom I've been having a crush on. She requested time to think about it. i let Tues pass n talked to her on wed. she told me to come back on Fri. on Thurs she had told my friend that her frie...
A. 27 March 2009: Sorry man, but leave her alone: she will only hurt you if you keep trying. I really sorry.... (read in full...)
I want to force him to chose between me and the wife!
Q. Hey all new to this site. Look I know how most of you feel about affairs. Sohere it goes. I am in love with this man he says his relationship with his wife is gone. They have been married for 30±yrs. No I don't feel bad. He spends most of his ...
A. 27 March 2009: Most men will not leave their wife for another woman if they were maried for 30 years, I am sorry. Also, putting pressure on him will probably remove what he liked about being with you: it's pressure-less, while his wife probably puts him pressure ... (read in full...)
Phone records show my wife having an affair
Q. I found out by phone records that my wife was having an affair. she says it was not at all sexual. But she was in contact with this guy while I was out of the house, during work and other times. She even texted with him 26 times in one day after ...
A. 27 March 2009: It really looks like she is having an affair, but it is not 100% sure.
It's hard to think up something to do... maybe you should ask to meet that guy and see how she reacts ? Then, you could meet the guy and see how things look.
I disagree wi... (read in full...)
I found out that my LDR boyfriend flirted with other women!
Q. I have been in contact with a man over the internet for over a year, he has just seperated from his wife and we have got very close emotionally. We used to ring each other and chat on the pc every night but we live quite far away from each othe...
A. 27 March 2009: I don't want to be mean, but a lot of people on dating web sites consider it fair to keep searching as long as they are not in a *serious* relationship. The problem lies in the definition of serious: some think it's after first date, other first ... (read in full...)
My partner has been viewing porn sites and I'm not happy
Q. I have found out that my partner has been viewing porn sites and Im not happy. Should I confront him...again. I have told him i dont like him doing this and he promised not to do it again. Some of these sites have teenagers in them and we have tee...
A. 27 March 2009: The #1 reason why men do watch porn is sexual unsatisfaction, which can occur because of quality or quantity, must commonly the second. He respects your libido and tries to satisfy himself otherwise without putting pressure on you to have (better?) ... (read in full...)
I am really worried he has been to a prostitute!
Q. Hi, my boyfriend stayed in Hong Kong for less than 2 days and in that time he took out two lots of £125. He is now is Australia and says he didn't do any shopping while he was there - just went to an Irish bar. I am really worried he has used a p...
A. 27 March 2009: I understand dirty text does not help trust, but don't be paranoiac neither. You're not crazy, it just happens to everyone to think like that once in a while...
And do not ask him by e-mail ! It might be a gift or some good times with his guy frie... (read in full...)
Will sexual experience help my anxiety with the opposite sex?
Q. I am 18 and wondering if having sex will reduce anxiety towards the opposite sex and if yes how effective is it. Thank you....
A. 27 March 2009: Let's give you a direct answer !
Yes, experience (preferable good experiences) does bring confidence in yourself as well as self-esteem, which does reduce anxiety towards opposite sex.
... (read in full...)
Does my apparently flirty teacher like me?
Q. my teacher is sort of freaking me out. i posted a question like this today but no one really answered it so i am going 2 try again:) any ways my teacher in my school is really confusing me. i don't like him other then a teacher and that is it. but ...
A. 27 March 2009: He likes you and I think he likes to flirt with you, but may not love you. Does he do that with every sexy girl around ? ... (read in full...)
Still a virgin at 33...
Q. I am a 33 year old virgin. I have never had a boyfriend, only dated casually. The reasons for this are several... the most important one is that I am overweight so I feel too self conscious to get close with a man. I have had several men try and ...
A. 25 March 2009: Nothing forces you to tell anyone you are a virgin... However, it would be a good idea that you discuss it before you do it for the first time (do not discuss it on first date...). Like damluvaam said, women really judge themselves very hard.... (read in full...)
He doesn't show me as much attention when we're with friends...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 months now (officially). The first couple months were good, great in fact.. We have the same friends and are in the same "circle" of friends.. In this group, there more single guys than couples. I'm ...
A. 25 March 2009: I don't think you need to panic at all... like you said, he's perfect when you two are alone. But you two cannot always be alone, sometimes he needs to do some guy speaking with his friends or just simple stupid things we all do. He's not going to ... (read in full...)
First kiss dilemma...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating since January 17th and we want to kiss but we're both too nervous to. What should I do and can you get kicked out of the library for kissing? (we're only 17)...
A. 24 March 2009: First, you certainly cannot get kicked out of library for kissing if you don't get caught.
Second, if you do get caught, I don't think so... they will probably ignore it, exept if they are some kind of religious extremists.
Some technica... (read in full...)
He cheated because he thought I did!!
Q. I have been with my husband for six years. I am 34 and he is 28 we have a 4 year old and 8 month old. He has commitment problems. We get in a fight and leaves to his sisters for like 5-9 days then comes home for about two weeks and the cycle repeats ...
A. 23 March 2009: A woman threatening to cheat on her husband should not really expect him to do nothing... he will react, strongly, often stupidly and will even regret it after... but after it's done, you can't change it. It is very important that your reassure hi... (read in full...)
I can't decide.. I really need opinions! please!
Q. Right I have a boyfriend who really likes me, and i don;t really know why i said yes to seeing him, i don't think I've ever had strong feelings for him, but we've been with each other for 3 months, we don't live near each other and maybe see each ...
A. 22 March 2009: If I was your boyfriend's best friend, I would seriously think about it before going out with a girl that can dump her boyfriend for his best friend... it would make me think "oh well, she'll do the same to me some day or some other..." and would ... (read in full...)
Crying during anal sex normal?
Q. is crying doing anal sex normal it was so painful my boyfriend said if i don't get things straight he will brake up with me what should do...
A. 22 March 2009: It shouldn't be that painful, he's probably doing it wrong (not enough foreplay, no lubrifiant, too rough maybe ?). Also, a lot of guys took this idea directly from porn which is explaining why their perception of reality is a disturbed.... (read in full...)
How on earth will I be able to fit a penis in there???
Q. It's a bit of an embarrassing question really, I just don't know who else I could ask... well I frequently masturbate (clitoral stimulation, sounds a bit clinical) and bring myself to an orgasm... but, whenever I try to actually get something inside ...
A. 22 March 2009: I agree with Pyro_Dimples: "it is a good thing to have a tight puss".
It will make you feel more of your partner, and I garantee your partner will love to feel you more too.
And yea, it will fit.... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm the ultimate "generic" girl
Q. I'm feeling sad because I'm starting to wonder if the reason I've had nothing but back luck (with guys) in my 29 years is because there is something wrong with me. Other girls have boyfriends who love them, and I wish and wish I could know what ...
A. 22 March 2009: First, I want to tell you I read your text two times: don’t be so sad, I share your pain about love relationships: even though I am a man, those things happen to us too. You are suffering from the Impostor syndrome: you don’t know what people could ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm the ultimate "generic" girl
Q. I'm feeling sad because I'm starting to wonder if the reason I've had nothing but back luck (with guys) in my 29 years is because there is something wrong with me. Other girls have boyfriends who love them, and I wish and wish I could know what ...
A. 22 March 2009: First, I want to tell you I read your text two times: don’t be so sad, I share your pain about love relationships: even though I am a man, those things happen to us too. You are suffering from the Impostor syndrome: you don’t know what people could ... (read in full...)
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