Am I just his 'secret' friend...what's going on with this guy?
Q. theres this guy at school who already has a girlfriend and i think he fancies me. we met in the beginning of the school year in my science classes. we were forced to sit together so we got talking, music, likes, hobbies ect. small talk really. and ...
A. 4 February 2010: You should tell him, privately, that you see him as a friend. But, his behavior is bothering you, and that you won't put up with it anymore.... (read in full...)
He told me he's territorial and doesn't want me hanging out with other guys! What does he mean?
Q. hey i gotta question whats it mean when my boyfriend tells me that he doesn't want me hanging with other guys or really talking to them.....he told me hes territorial...??...
A. 31 January 2010: It means he will think you're cheating if you hang out one-on-one with other guys. You have decide whether or not you can deal with that insecurity.... (read in full...)
It seemed great, and then he doesn't want to go out. Was it just for sex?
Q. I just got dumped by a guy I really liked after less than a month. Things seemed great at first as we had a lot in common and our personalities really seemed to click. After two weeks he suddenly seemed distant, but when I asked if something was ...
A. 31 January 2010: Only he knows for sure. The point is he doesn't want to be with you. He was nice about it, and I think that you should respect his decision and move on.... (read in full...)
He calls me names and he has stopped taking care of himself. Should I dump him?
Q. My boyfriend calls me a bitch sometimes when he's mad. We've been together for 4 years now, but we just got back together at the end of October after I broke up with him for 3 months. One of the agreements for us to be a couple again was that he ...
A. 31 January 2010: As my friend likes to say: your ex was your ex for a reason. Drop him immediately! He has no right to talk to you like that.... (read in full...)
He flipped out when I answered his phone. Is his anger justified?
Q. Tonight, I was playing a game on my boyfriend's cell phone. A private number called, so I handed him the phone. He pressed the ignore button, which ended the call. I went back to my game, and the private number called back about a minute later. I ...
A. 31 January 2010: Thanks for the replies! Posting this question has been bittersweet. I'm glad to know people agree that I was not in the foul. But, it hurts to see your fears be reaffirmed. I will talk to him again, and consider all the factors before decid... (read in full...)
I want her but she has a bf! Any advice on how to make her mine?
Q. Never really knew what I wanted in a Girl, but now i do. The only thing is she already has a boyfriend. Another thing to add is she already knows i like her. Im in desperate need of help and any advice on how to make her mine. Any tips?...
A. 31 January 2010: Don't try to steal someone's girlfriend. It's a lose/lose situation. You fail; you put yourself out there for nothing. You succeed; if she would do something like that to him, she would/will do the same thing to you.... (read in full...)
I think he has feelings for another girl! How do I talk to him about it?
Q. I think my boyfriend has feelings for another girl... Should I talk to him about it? What would I say if I talk to him about it? HELP!!!...
A. 31 January 2010: Just come right out and ask him. Be sure to maintain your worried tone, rather than an accusing tone.... (read in full...)
Never thought I'd fall for a married man...super confused here!
Q. I never thought I'd fall for a married man! I didn't intend for things to get so heavy.I work in the same building and see him everyday..he just told me he wants to end our affair of only 1 month. Yet on the weekend he texts me and sends me pics of ...
A. 31 January 2010: Whether he really likes you or not, he is a married. Stay away from him.... (read in full...)
Turn out the open realtionship is only kinda ok withher boyfriend
Q. k so i was fooling around with this girl and i knew she had a boyfriend but she said it was an open relationship so i thought it would be cool we went pretty far suffice it to say if we would have had a bed we probly woulda had sex. any way turns ...
A. 31 January 2010: I don't think you should have sexual relationships at this time. If you do, it is safer to be with someone who is committed to you; certain STDs can be spread even with a condom. I recommend staying away from her to keep yourself safe in more ways ... (read in full...)
Is love supposed to hurt?
Q. I need some major advise i am so confused i wonder at times is love suppose to hurt? i have two daughters with two different men and the last man was almost perfect except for the fact that he didnt work..he was so nice understanding and romantic ...
A. 31 January 2010: I think that you should talk to him about how to incident at the party made you feel. Some people just "play too much", but don't mean any harm. However, I see you also said that he is controlling/has anger issues; which I believe also makes you u... (read in full...)
I have had sex 7 times with 3 diff men and don't enjoy it.
Q. So Ive only had sex about 7 times but Ive been with 3 men. But everytime I have sex it doesnt feel good for me at all. Its more uncomfortable than anything. But I dont get that feel good sensation that people keep telling me about. I dont think that ...
A. 31 January 2010: What do you think about when you're having sex? You should try recalling your personal fantasies. Also, it could be that the men don't perform well or don't have the sort of "equipment" you like.... (read in full...)
My friends think I am just a booty call. Am I?
Q. I've known a guy through a mutual friend for 2 years. We have slept together 4 times. After each time, I would send a general message, from a friend to a friend asking how things were going, but I would receive no reply. From what it seems, he ...
A. 31 January 2010: I don't really use that label. However, you are just someone he has sex with; you are not friends.... (read in full...)
Should I dump him and move on or give him another chance?
Q. I have been dating this guy for two years and its been on the rocks since day one. We developed a relationship from a one night stand.To make matters worse I found out several months later that I was a part of him cheating on his at that time, ...
A. 31 January 2010: You should cut your loses, and try to get some of the money you spent on him back.... (read in full...)
Older Boyfriend, I don't want to lose him. Should I worry about him going out to clubs and parties???
Q. My boyfriend and I have a really good relationship. He's there for me, cares for me, and wants to be with me in the future. I feel that i can trust him, and dont mind him talking (as friends) to other girls. So ive been on punishment lately and ...
A. 31 January 2010: I don't think you should worry. Clubbing is what a lot of people do to have fun.... (read in full...)
What does it mean when someone only calls you talk about their problems?
Q. When you meet someone and get into a relationship with them while they're going through a rough time, but then they finally come out of it a while after you break up (they are finally improving their life and are happier), and they used to call you ...
A. 31 January 2010: I think it means they just see you as a shoulder to lean on. Someone he/she can come to with their problems. This can be a positive thing, but it seems like it makes you uncomfortable. If that is the case, you should tell the person about it and ... (read in full...)
Am I just his 'secret' friend...what's going on with this guy?
Q. theres this guy at school who already has a girlfriend and i think he fancies me. we met in the beginning of the school year in my science classes. we were forced to sit together so we got talking, music, likes, hobbies ect. small talk really. and ...
A. 31 January 2010: Intimate conversations at 13-15? I hope I'm just misunderstanding... I think that you should leave him alone. He has a girlfriend, but seems to want to keep you as an option on the side. Your feelings are fine, because you only see him as a fri... (read in full...)
Do I just sit back and let my boyfriend disown his family?
Q. Hi, My boyfriend and I are both 21 years old. Our relationship has been plagued by the same problem from the very start. I am West Indian and he is East Indian. So, his parents come from India and mine from the Caribbean. Both of our parents are ...
A. 31 January 2010: Your boyfriend has to decide whether or not he wishes to disown his family. All you can do it give your honest input. It is wrong (and ignorant) to dislike someone because of their ethnicity. However, you mentioned school. Are both of you curr... (read in full...)
To move on or not when we have trust issues?
Q. We are having trust issues because he decided to bring a girl home, got touchy feely with her and in his bed. Then he updates her with his new number after swearing he is not going to have anything to do with her again. I went through his phone ...
A. 31 January 2010: I think that you should just be friends with him. Too many things have added up, and he can't be trusted.... (read in full...)
I got my sis to speak to my wife about sending money to another man. Now she says I can thank my sis for her dirvorcing me.
Q. Hi everyone...im in alot of confusion and disbelief... ok so on monday the 26th my wife used my credit card to send money to some guy names Ivan...so i texted my 2 of my sisters and asked them to ask her what was going on cause i tried texting ...
A. 31 January 2010: Well, she still may cool down. Try to call her, but also email her (physical proof) and tell her how you still want to stay together. If she doesn't reply or still refuses to work on things, tell her she needs to move out and stop supporting her ... (read in full...)
Are some people simply destined to be alone all their lives?
Q. At age 25 i have never been in a relationship and obviously still a virgin never kissed anyone and as each day passes i see myself growing older and lonlier. I suffer badly from depression and anxiety i have no self esteem at all no confiden...
A. 31 January 2010: I don't think you have to be alone if that's not what your looking for. It will be hard, maybe impossible, to convince someone without HSV (herpes) to engage in a romantic relationship. I suggest joining one of the many dating websites for people ... (read in full...)
Should I take police advise and sue my ex?
Q. I have an awful ex - he abused me emotionally and sexually for years (physically only right at the end, when I was finally getting out). I'm wondering if revenge is worth it at all? I could either do nothing and continue working through my issues, ...
A. 31 January 2010: I think that you should do both.... (read in full...)
I'm worries because I repeated something my ex g/f told me in strictest confidence.
Q. Ok i broke up with my girlfreind and i really took it bad, she had revealed lots of intimate secrets to me(about sexual abuse in the past) i promised her i would not tell a soul. During the break up I became a real mess. I had to speak to somone and ...
A. 31 January 2010: Yes, you were really wrong to tell someone else about your girlfriend's past. You should tell your friend that she shouldn't tell anyone else, and hope the information doesn't get around to more people.... (read in full...)
What option do I choose?
Q. Me and my long tearm boyfriend have recently split up and we have a 2 month old baby. I have recently declared my self homless and I will need to put my name down for a new home. I have 2 opptions, 1/ stay in the same area code as my x because he ...
A. 31 January 2010: I say take the option that is closest to where you are now. It will be good to be close to home, and for your daughter to be able to see her dad more regularly. Do not keep the bills in your name!... (read in full...)
He hugged me...does he like me or was he kidding around?
Q. So i'm in tennis. There's this guy on my tennis team, he's korean and i'm viet/chinese. He's a sophomore and i'm a freshman. On Friday, my friends and I stayed after school to practice and play, and he showed up, since he always stays after scho...
A. 31 January 2010: Based on what you typed here, I don't think you can safely say he's interested.... (read in full...)
How do I get over the anger I feel towards my parents?
Q. I just turned 30 and I'm still hurting from anger at my parents, and I'll always struggle with that anger. In my heart of hearts, I feel certain that they didn't want me and that they don't love me. I don't want to have to bear their surname ...
A. 31 January 2010: I think that you should seek counseling/therapy for the anger/sadness you feel surrounding your childhood. It can help you move past it, and continue your life happier. If changing your name makes you feel better, do it!... (read in full...)
I'm embarrased that I got drunk and texted my ex to tell him I love him.
Q. so i drank alittle more than im used to and i just decided on the spot to send a text to my ex. I know very dumb especially since the message started off saying i love uu lol. I really felt like saying it to him randomly and i know right now he's ...
A. 31 January 2010: I think that you should send him a text (or call) apologizing for the drunk text, and saying you feel foolish/embarrassed about it and hope it didn't make him feel uncomfortable.... (read in full...)
He ignores me when he has a girlfriend but makes out with me when he doesn't! I like him, should I wait to be hurt again?
Q. my bestfriends ex recenly started talking to me..well in october.. after a while we started hanging out and the ended up kissing. he was my first kiss. we continued to make out at least once a week, and my friend knew. as we kept going he started ...
A. 31 January 2010: You should ignore him. He isn't interested in making you his girlfriend, and that is what you want.... (read in full...)
He doesn't even want a bj! is he not attracted to me anymore?
Q. hey you guys. ive been wanting to try giving my boy friend **** but he just doesn't seem to want a blow job. he keeps saying he doesn't want my mouth around that thing, but i can't help but think its me. . .is he not attracted to me anymore??...
A. 31 January 2010: Your question is a little confusing...
Are you saying he just doesn't want a blow job? That's easy, he just isn't interested in that particular activity. Like some people are into say, anal.
Or are you saying he doesn't want to do anything sexual? ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being gay?
Q. I need help!!..Long story short Im 20yo n have had a pretty normal life..well.. I am gay.. but I hate it..I wish I wasnt gay. I dont know why or at what point in my life I became this way... Id like to know why I turned gay.. think about it all the ...
A. 31 January 2010: I think you should see a therapist. I don't mean that in a mean or sarcastic way. Just in a serious way. It can help you understand your sexual preferences, and why you don't feel like you can connect with people on a romantic level. If you ... (read in full...)
I don't want people to think I'm interested in my married friend
Q. This is a question I have about friendships with married men. I met a guy at college whom I get along with well and we have gotten to know each other more on a personal level in recent months. I'm hesitant about developing a closer friendship, ...
A. 31 January 2010: Anytime two members of the opposite sex (provided one isn't homosexual) hang out there will be the question of if it's more than friendship. Especially when those two people are hanging out with just each other (not in a group). I assume you're not ... (read in full...)
A guy proposed to me online, then he saw a photo of me and changed his mind. Now he just wants friendship. Please help!
Q. so here is my problem....There is a boy whom i love madly. v met on facebook n then after some days of chatting, he proposed me. i told him to think again n see my photo 1st of all bt he said that he love me for what i am and will never leave me ...
A. 31 January 2010: Darling, I strongly doubt he was serious in the first place. You don't know him. You've never met him. You were just talking on the Internet for "some days". Wipe your tears, it's just e-flirting. People say all sorts of things. For future ... (read in full...)
My ex sexually assaulted me and I don't know what to do
Q. Okay, so im sorry if this gets long, and i know that im more in the wrong than any of these guys! I just really dont know what to do anymore, ive been with my amazing boyfriend Richard now, for 11 months, everythings being going great, hes so kind ...
A. 31 January 2010: It's not your fault! You need to tell Richard, and the authorities! It may be hard to prove, because (I think) a rape kit needs to be performed the same night. But, you will get it off your chest, and possibly save your relationship. Again, it's not ... (read in full...)
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