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writes:hey you guys. ive been wanting to try giving my boy friend **** but he just doesn't seem to want a blow job. he keeps saying he doesn't want my mouth around that thing, but i can't help but think its me. . .is he not attracted to me anymore??
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reader, stephanie,jayne  +, writes (1 February 2010):
Ok there are a few things you need to consider here.
A. You may be rubbish and he doesnt like them.
B. He may have had a bad experience of blow jobs that has put him off them so in this case you need to either show him that they can be good or just accept that he doesnt want one and get over it!
C. He may be self conscious about the way his penis looks and you being so close to it, eye to eye so to speak, might make him uncomfortable!
I had this problem with my ex as he had a scar on his penis and didnt like me seeing it but after persuading him to let me give him one he decided they were too good to pass up on and eventually he wanted one whenever we were alone!! This resulted in me now having major issues with my jaw!! lol.
If i was you i would be thanking god that i didnt have to give him head constantly and enjoy being able to receave and not neccisarily have to give! ;) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2010): my x did the same thing dont worry its not you, he might of had head before and didnt like it. i made my x feel bad so he begged for one nd after wards he was like "woah when am i getting another one" just give it a try, if he still doesnt like it just stick with handjobs :) hope that helps!
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (31 January 2010):
 Yet another idea ....
If your having a sex session with this guy at the time when he is knocing back the BJ's, he may be stopping you from them to keep his staying power at what he percieves to be a respectable level for other activities.
Anyway, it's a thought ....
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010): I know a lot of guys who would get a BJ from a farm animal if they thought the animal would do a decent job and nobody else would find out. If your man doesn't want you to suck him off then it's his issue about BJs in general. Some guys do just see it as "dirty" even though a mouth is probably dirtier than a penis. Another idea is maybe he's afraid that if he accepts then he'll be expected to give you oral too. Maybe that's his hangup. Believe it or not this probably means he values you a lot.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (31 January 2010):
 Some men believe that oral sex is nasty. It is not. If partners are healthy and disease-free, oral sex is nothing new and a great pleasure both ways. False religious or other incriminating views may condemn oral sex, but these are only very narrow and highly biased interpretations. Still, it is difficult to change one's mind about the acceptability. The match here may not be a good one. In other words, sexually incompatible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthx you guys i will talk to him more. but its ok i want to but i wont pressure him into it
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010): Hey there, personally I think BJ's are gross and I commiserate with your boyfriend. It has nothing to do with your attractiveness.
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reader, curious0hot +, writes (31 January 2010):
 Your question is a little confusing...
Are you saying he just doesn't want a blow job? That's easy, he just isn't interested in that particular activity. Like some people are into say, anal.
Or are you saying he doesn't want to do anything sexual? It could be that he's not attracted, or a number of other things. Only he would know for sure...
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reader, sandiego619 +, writes (31 January 2010):
 he might not like the idea of you doing that to him and then kissing you. he might be a little disgusted, for lack of a better word, with that idea. why dont you ask him why he doesnt want you to do it.
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