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female
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anonymous
writes:my bestfriends ex recenly started talking to me..well in october.. after a while we started hanging out and the ended up kissing. he was my first kiss. we continued to make out at least once a week, and my friend knew. as we kept going he started you know.. feeling me up and i dont care.. but later he got a girl friend and just ignored me. he didnt return my texts or IMs, so i just forgot him. then after this girlfriend broke up with him he started talking to me and we ended up making out again, and i realised i liked him. we made out once again but now he has a girl friend and is ignoring me again.. i really like him but i dont know what to do. he also has the rep for being a play but we got really close. should i just forget him or wait again just to be hurt?
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reader, curious0hot +, writes (31 January 2010):
 You should ignore him. He isn't interested in making you his girlfriend, and that is what you want.
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female
reader, EveryLittleHelps  +, writes (30 January 2010):
Have you ever heard the term 'Bit On The Side'? I'm sorry to say this but that is exactly what he is treating you as. Listen, I know it may not seem like it but not all boys are the same. This boy may treat you well when he hasn't got a girlfriend, but think about it! If he was such a nice boy, he would make you his girlfriend! Don't be so hard on yourself by taking him back each time, your just causing yourself more misery and pain. You need to get from outside this 'love box' with this boy and find someone who can treat you so much better and be happy he has you. Lets face it, boys can be stupid, but sometimes us girls don't give the nice ones enough credit. They are out there, but sometimes were just too busy thinking about the ones that treat us bad. Hope this has helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2010): Stay away from him. It's gonna be hard, I know, but that's the only way for you to re-learn how to love and respect yourself. take care
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 January 2010):
He's using you when his girlfriend isn't around. That's cruel of him, and you can do better. Forget about him.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2010): Forget about him. It looks like he is using you for whenever he doesn't have a girlfriend. Move on.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2010): He's using you for your body. He doesn't care about you. If he did, he'd make YOU his girlfriend. Forget about him. He's trash. There are much better guys out there.
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