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My husband doesn't want more than friendship with me. How do I get him back?
Q. i have been married to my husband for 2 years, but we have been seperated 4 a yr now. he wanted me to move back in with him and i told him yes but i never got off my butt and moved back in with him. a couple of weeks i found out he had another woman ...
A. 30 June 2009: yes you did the right thing telling him you will not give him rent . Move on with your life this man doesn't seem worth while Do you really want him back even if you could get him ? you can do better ... (read in full...)
Should I end it with the older guy and find love with a guy my own age? Opinions please!
Q. I've known my boyfriend for 4 yrs and we've been a couple and living together for 3yrs... so here's the Deal...He's twice my age: I'm 21 he's 44. We haven't talked about it with our families yet...but they practically pretty much already know sin...
A. 30 June 2009: We seem to meet the right people at the wrong time Your life is just starting you are young and you should be free. The best age is your age right now you have the world as your oyster. Do you realy want to get married and have kids even befor... (read in full...)
Help! Sex for the first time!
Q. I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 14, we are going to have sex for the first time soon, but am really nervous and scared. will it hurt? how does the pain feel like? will i bleed? will i faint? can i walk? thank you to the person who answers ! really ne...
A. 30 June 2009: You should wait your to young but if you must make sure he wears a condom .... NO CONDOM NO SEX ! I am a guy and cant say how much it will hurt but yes it will ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't want more than friendship with me. How do I get him back?
Q. i have been married to my husband for 2 years, but we have been seperated 4 a yr now. he wanted me to move back in with him and i told him yes but i never got off my butt and moved back in with him. a couple of weeks i found out he had another woman ...
A. 30 June 2009: He doesnt sound like Prince Charming.... why is he asking you for rent ? Your baby is 12 months old and he split with you and is now with another women. Hes a RAT ! ... (read in full...)
Any advice for a 16yr old dating a 37yr old married man?
Q. I am 16 years old.. and my boyfriends is around 37 years old and he has 2 kids and he is also married.... He is my coach in table tennis when i was in high school, we bond together, we go out together as friends.... yet unfortunately, as the yime...
A. 30 June 2009: you should split with him ! Hes to old Has kids You were/are at school with this man Trust your parents ... (read in full...)
Do you think waiting is the right approach? Will ignoring him get him back?
Q. Hi everyone Thanks in advance for your advice. I am a 26 year old woman in the process of applying to medical school, and began dating a man, who recently turned 32. Our first date was in the first week of March, and it was quite possibly...
A. 30 June 2009: Yes ignore him . Sounds like a jerk ... (read in full...)
How do I regain my parent's trust? They found a hickie on my boob.
Q. My parents recently found out about the hickie on boob from going through my text messages. My mom already had a talk with me which didn't go so well but now its time to have a talk with my dad. I dont know what to tell him and they have already ...
A. 30 June 2009: Tell them is isnt their business what guys do with your boobs... dont you think its wrong for your mother to go thru your text messages ? Its 2009 what do you think your mother got up when she was your age ! if they take your car away take th... (read in full...)
I have blisters on my vagina and it makes it too sore for sex!
Q. A few weeks ago i had some blisters and soreness on my vaginal lips so i went to the doctor and i got tested for herpes the test was negative, i have had this before a couple years ago and test results were negative then, so i know it's not herpes. ...
A. 30 June 2009: You need to go to a STD clinic or a gynacologist. You get good doctors and bad doctors ... (read in full...)
Is there something you can eat to make your sperm taste sweet?
Q. I hope this isn't a dumb question -,- lol But I was reading a question on here and I was wondering if you could eat something to make your sperm sweet??? okay so I love eating out my girlfriend, I do it on almost a daily basis BUT she rare...
A. 30 June 2009: ive heard that you drink pineapple juice every day for about a week that should do it ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my girlfriend's interfering family?
Q. Im a 33 year old man with a 14 year old son. im gonna get straight to the point. I was single for about a year then I met a beautiful 25 y.o. woman whom now im deeply in love with and she loves me too. now the problem. her parents have such a hold ...
A. 30 June 2009: you need to win over the "old folks " find out if they like anything apart from watching TV find out what they like and be their "son". You catch more fly with sugar than vinegar... (read in full...)
Should I tell this new girl I'm dating I was engaged?
Q. Im going on a date with this girl i really like, and all signs point to her liking me as well, but there is a minor problem, my last realtionship that ended 2months ago i was engaged to marry her. Even though im completely over my ex and want to ...
A. 30 June 2009: Its your first date ? talk about light things movies , music , painters , art etc . there is plenty of time to tell her about your ex if you want to, but i woundt say to much " if you get a second date ( perhaps you will not )and IF ex's comes up ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend focuses more on work than our relationship, what should I do?
Q. Wow I better add a little to this, it seems that I didn't describe enough. My girlfriend and I have been together just over 10 years. Last year I did what I shouldn't and had an affair. But I had the affair after one year of us NOT having sex. The ...
A. 30 June 2009: I think you should move on ..... Nothing is going to change she will stay who she is now and you will stay who you are unless you decide enought is enought. There must be someone better out there for you ? you come home after working a hard shift ... (read in full...)
We broke up yesterday, I want her back, how long should I wait before I text her?
Q. ow do i get back my ex-girlfriend? She respected me enough to talk about it in person. She sed she loves me as a friend, and isnt in love with me, what should i do? i would like her back, but i dont know how to go about it.... We broke up yesterday, ...
A. 30 June 2009: Its the oldest line in the book" I still want to be friends" yer right , I know its hard but move on , be polite if you see her but I wouldnt text etc ... (read in full...)
The girl I like says I'm 'too easy' what should I do?
Q. I've known this girl (girl-1) for 2 years. We met and I was obviously into her, and she could tell. We hung out a lot but I was stuck in the friend zone even after trying to ask her out and getting denied 3 times. Finally I decided I had to just ...
A. 30 June 2009: A month after you get a girlfriend friend 1 gets drunk and comes onto you. sounds like friend one didn't want you much until someone else came and got you. Then friend 1 perhaps thought " hey this guy is boyfriend material" but how long will you ... (read in full...)
Do certain foods affect how a guy tastes?
Q. my friend told me that eating pineapple makes a guys cum taste good, but idk is that true?? is it true that drinking dairy products makes you have bad tasting cum??... is it really needed for a girl to have big boobs to be hot? MOD NOTE: These q...
A. 30 June 2009: I have read that pineapple juice makes your cum taste better but never tried so cant confirm 100% All different shapes and sizes of boobs are great everyone has there own likes and dislikes. ... (read in full...)
Did I make a mistake by not talking to her? I feel so stupid...
Q. okay.. so I'm going to be a senior in high school. the girl my friends told me I should have talked to has recently graduated. I would always see this girl everywhere at school walk out of a room or down the hall and see her. this girl was soooo ...
A. 30 June 2009: yes you made a mistake but then that is how we learn in life and I have learnt SO MUCH ! . Next time when you see someone you fancy take the bull by the horns and say "Hello". A coward dies a thousand deaths but a brave man only one. In no wa... (read in full...)
I feel like my boyfriend is being dishonest about his sexuality
Q. I am going out with an amazing guy, we will call him Q. He's intelligent, gorgeous, funny and we really click. We have a lot of chemistry, both physical and otherwise and the sex has been amazing! There is one slight problem. I have known Q for a nu...
A. 30 June 2009: Are you sure that your other friend was telling the truth about him and Mr.Q ? Perhaps he lies because one he cant face the truth or number two he doesn't know what your reaction will be. ... (read in full...)
The guy I'm seeing already has a partner - what to do?
Q. Help!!!..... ok what do I do? I recently started seeing somebody the only issue is he has a partner of 5 years already! I know this was wrong but our feelings just grew for each other and it became difficult to keep away. Everything was g...
A. 30 June 2009: yes you have done the right thing , you cant put a price on self respect . You respect yourself put your happiness first ... (read in full...)
My wife refuses to go to marriage counselling
Q. My wife said she won’t go to marriage counselling with me: she’s convinced that we have solved all our problems (even though I tell her that I don't believe this is true), and she doesn’t want to talk to a stranger. I’m still going to make an ...
A. 30 June 2009: Sometimes its just best to call it a day if your other half doesn't want to make the effort to try and meet you at least half way what can you do about it ? .... very little . Its sad to part when you have children but life is to short to be ... (read in full...)
Naked and cuffed to the bed and now wife won't talk to me!
Q. hello,I just got married few weeks ago we are on our honeymoon..one night I decided to be kinky after dinner and decided for bondage,my wife my against being tied;so I handcuffed my self to the hotel bed..she was downstairs for dinner,so I had the ...
A. 29 June 2009: next time have a spare key ! yes let her calm down and then talk to her she will forgive you in a few weeks she will see the funny side I bet it was fun to be slapped around by her ... (read in full...)
Is sex all that really matters in a relationship?
Q. is sex everything is relationship? i knew this man, we didn't go out but we were close. until he wanted to have sex. and i refused. i don't want to do it before i got married. call me old fashion but that's my belief. so he suddenly went away. and ...
A. 29 June 2009: No it is not the only thing that matters but it matters , young guys want sex as bees want flowers its why the planet is OVER populated. ... (read in full...)
He sends and receives dirty texts from random women and tells me this is normal behaviour!
Q. My bf (we've been together 5 years) looks at porn on the internet a lot (which I don't mind) BUT he also checks out adult dating sites, uses adult text messaging services to send/receive dirty texts to random women (including naked pics and texts ...
A. 29 June 2009: Looking at porn on the net is normal but the other dating sites texting etc isnt . tell him you will not stand for it an tell him to stop . ... (read in full...)
Should I stay? Or get rid of the hoe?
Q. Ok here is the story I have been dating this girl for two yrs and she hasn't ever spent any real time wit me. if im lucky I get to see her lik 5 hrs every 2 weeks and she says she is busy but she will cancel or plans to make time for her friends and ...
A. 29 June 2009: She has NO respect for you ! You are wasting your time with her ! Time is the only thing you can NEVER get back. You need to have a hard look at yourself and examine why you let this situation go on for so long. Next time be more stronger and DONT ... (read in full...)
Not heard from him since I turned down sex, but I still want him. What should I do?
Q. I am a 14 year old girl. I live in a conservative middle eastern country where I cannot talk to anyone about this problem I have, so I have to confide in an internet site as a last resort. I have had a crush on this guy since the beginning of the y...
A. 28 June 2009: If you want to have sex with make sure he wears a CONDOM No CONDOM NO Sex !
I think 14 is a little young , how old is the man 18 - 19 if he was bitter after you said No you have done the right thing in not going further with him. It would be best ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend threw a chair across the room!! What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend of 3 years just threw a chair across the room because he got mad that I was questioning him about an online account he has. We live together now for 6 months and in the entire 3 years he has NEVER throw anything, let alone a chair!!! ...
A. 28 June 2009: "chalk it up" ive been with my wonderful girlfriend for 6 yrs and she is great in every way but sometimes she gets angry and we fight and she might throw goats cheese against the wall ! people get angry ... (read in full...)
Is this wrong of me to keep thinking of my coach?
Q. So my team and I just finished up our season a couple weeks ago and I've had mixed emotions sense then about some things (mainly about my coach). I really enjoyed being on his team this year and he made it so much fun for me, personally. ...
A. 28 June 2009: sounds very normal , you liked him alot and miss him , sounds like a great guy. We get some great teachers and some crap teachers this time you got a good one. ... (read in full...)
I wonder if he was a pedophile, or was it my fault...
Q. I was 17 when it happened, I was lonely and a male teacher in his late 40s (who gave out many hugs to me and other students) started touching me a little too much. I felt a little uncomfortable at first, as his hands lingered on my waist each tim...
A. 28 June 2009: You have done nothing wrong it was all your teachers fault you were a child and he was in a position over you. ... (read in full...)
I am wanting opinions from people! Should our relationship be kept secret?
Q. I am 16 and my girlfriend is 13. We've been together for around 4 months but we've known each other for years. She's really mature for her age and I must say she's f*****g Beautiful! I've known that she's liked me quite a lot for a long time but ...
A. 28 June 2009: sounds like you realy love and care for her, its very sweet . I would say carry on she cares for you and you her. ok she abit young but girls these days grow up fast ... (read in full...)
I want to do something for my teacher... but what?
Q. I need help people!!! I'm in love with my special needs teacher, this has been going on for a while now. And I just graduated from high school, She is soooo incredibly sexy! And so nice to me. When we first met we didn't get along very well, but ...
A. 28 June 2009: why dont you play a song for her on You Tube to thank her for all the help she has given you ... (read in full...)
The girl I like is with another guy, should I accept that I'm second best or continue to persue her?
Q. There's a girl that I like. We met over the internet, and have been chatting for the past 2 months. We get on really well and have a lot of common interests. We even arranged to go on a date earlier in the month, but the plan fell through. Now it ...
A. 28 June 2009: Make the effort to keep your friendship you never know she might change her mind and pick you a few weeks later. But if you have pushed her away there will not be any chance.
Its nice to have friends and just think she will be telling all her ... (read in full...)
Am I overstepping where I shouldn't?
Q. My husband and I have been married for almost 7 years, and things are lovely. We have a great relationship. In the last 3 years we have moved and changed our circle of friends. My best friend (other than my husband) is a very gay man. There is ...
A. 28 June 2009: Hes gay and your his friend and you stayed over one night ? cant see any problems there . Dont look for problems when there arnt any. Have a nice sunday ... (read in full...)
Should I choose racing or professional football?
Q. hello there i have left school and i am wanting a job in a shop but when i have enough money i would like to fly over to america and live there so that i can start a racing career i really enjoy racing but i like football(soccer) just as much and i ...
A. 28 June 2009: I would go for the football , if you are any good you could have trials for the junior sides of the major football clubs and if you have some skills who knows. to be honest and very blunt at 16 driving Indy cars in America ? NO WAY !
My advise w... (read in full...)
Should I get my nipples pierced?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to get my nipples pierced. I think it might be kind of sexy and am interested in getting it done. I'm a 34 DD (natural--no surgery). Does anyone know if it hurts a lot? Will my bra cover the nipple rings or will it be ...
A. 28 June 2009: I am a guy but many years ago I had my nipples done I thought it looked good but on girls SUPER SEXY ! yes it does hurt ouch but it is over quickly takes awhile for it to stop and after you have it done your nipples are very sensitive. There... (read in full...)
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