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... Send *hazx a private message | | | *hazx's profile:I think what qualifies me to help is that i have had a very tough time and that i have seen more than a 19yr old girl should have seen.
My life is very complicated i have views on nearly everything that gets written in this website.
I live in Bedfordshire in the uk.
People starting on my family.
I hate it that people can get away with stuff that they have done wrong in the eyes of the law they should be put away but the courts cant be bothered to deal with things that are so important.
They would rather let the rapists and people like that out in the world and sentence people who aint paid there taxes.
Sickening!!!
I'm 19, Female and a full time mother to my 9 and a half month old daughter.
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Is he cheating, cybering to this other girl and asking for pictures?
Q. I am feeling so distraught. my boyfriend signed into msn hotmail on my computer to check his e-mail and the details as in password and address were stored on the computer, my curiosity got the better of me and i had a look at his e-mail. i was ...
A. 10 February 2007: Do bring it up with him and let him know you have read/seen stuff he has been doing. Im a snoop to and if you snoop through things expect to get hurt but you have to handle it if you choose to do it babe. Good luck and keep us informed. I'm... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and pregnant. Worried I may miscarriage again..how can I prevent that from happening?
Q. I am an 18 year old female who just found out today that i am pregnant.5 months ago i had a miscarriage and I am very frightened it might happen again.Do u have any advice for me far as how to prevent the miscarriage? I know miscarriages happen, but ...
A. 29 January 2007: hiya babe. you can go to your doctors and ask for your womb to be stitched. its like some stitches on the womb to keep the baby in there. my mum miscarried then she had her womb stitched and she never misscarried again shes had 5 kids.
Hope this... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and pregnant. Worried I may miscarriage again..how can I prevent that from happening?
Q. I am an 18 year old female who just found out today that i am pregnant.5 months ago i had a miscarriage and I am very frightened it might happen again.Do u have any advice for me far as how to prevent the miscarriage? I know miscarriages happen, but ...
A. 29 January 2007: Congratulations. when did you miscarry if i may ask??
Its a very hard time for everyone. my auntie miscarried about 2 weeks ago and she was very upset bu she wasn't that far gone. she already has3 children. its an awful thing.
Congr... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and having Quads ..please help !
Q. i was with my boyfriend daniel for 1 year. and last year when i was 13 we decided to have sex. we used the pull-out method but it obviously didn't work. i kept on being sick so dad took me to the doctors. that was when they told me that i was ...
A. 24 January 2007: babe, if ya need me just private message me and I'll try to help you as much as i can ok. where abouts you live.... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and looking for advice about orgasms! Any advice?
Q. I Am 14 and am in a very good strong relationship and we are now having sex. it seems good but it always seems like hes getting alot more fun out of it than me, i dont even think i have orgasms...can you suggest ways in which we could both reach ...
A. 24 January 2007: You are 14 years old you should not be encountering these sort of things. dont have sex stop doing it now and wait till your at least legal.
and DearCupid staff should not be telling you that oral sex will help.
i hope you are taking it safe and... (read in full...)
Another guy walked in on us having sex and joined in. I told him to leave and he wouldn't! Is this rape?
Q. Ok. i have been thinking. I went to a bar a while ago and eneded up going home with a guy i knew of from high school. well we were having sex and another guy popped in and began messing with me as well. I didnt want this other guy there at all. but ...
A. 22 January 2007: i think the answer from the anonymous person is bang out of f**king order. who are you to tell her she is in the wrong. look at the end of the day you did not consensually have sex with this man. get counceling and ask for some advice. see what... (read in full...)
Is it too soon after being raped to date?
Q. Hello i wrote in before about my friend not helping me in my time or need (i was raped n needed her to go to court but she wont) anyways like i met this guy i fancy and he gave me his number today and said can he take me out for dinner soon he i...
A. 16 September 2006: yea i have told him what has happened and i told him that wen we first met trust between us is very strong i love him n he loves me i trust him with my lif3e thank you all for the help chaz x ... (read in full...)
I'm 14. How do I tell him I don't want to go further?
Q. ok well ive been gd m8s with this boy 4 about a year now and 2 days ago we started seeing each other. I really like him but hes 16 and im 14 and I know he will want to go further with me and I dont know how to tell him how much i like him but not ...
A. 29 August 2006: Hi babe first of all if you have only been going out with him 2 days and he already wants to go further then i dont think this relationship is going to go anywhere he is obviously only in it for the sex 1st u are only 14 years old and shouldn... (read in full...)
Is it too soon after being raped to date?
Q. Hello i wrote in before about my friend not helping me in my time or need (i was raped n needed her to go to court but she wont) anyways like i met this guy i fancy and he gave me his number today and said can he take me out for dinner soon he i...
A. 27 August 2006: hello and thanks for all the answers but i do not have a councellor or anything like that because i dont need that sort of support because i feel it is very pointless i have had councelors for most of my life and i cant take any more they do my head ... (read in full...)
Do my parents care too much?
Q. What does anyone think of a situation where parents intervene in who they think is right or wrong for their children who've been brought up well and go to the extent of banning them from seeing someone. In this case it was a nice person but whose ...
A. 26 July 2006: Hello
Ithink that maybe you should speak to your parents and tell them that he isnt like the other lot in his family.
but it is understandable that you family are worried about you because you are still there child and parents are always tryin... (read in full...)
I had a bad experience and not sure if he did have sex with me, is there a way I can tell if im still a virgin ?
Q. About one year ago I was drinking and a guy made a move on me. Having no second thoughts at the time i went with it. One thing lead to another and he ended up stripping me and himself down and throwing me onto the bed. From there i know i told him i ...
A. 26 July 2006: i dont think it would be a very good idea to ask him what happed
first he wouldnt admit to it and second he could do something else.
well if you dont want to talk about it to anyone then how about email me a few times a month to chat if you have ... (read in full...)
Life is very stressful right now and my boyfriend is contributing to that stress
Q. im 17 and I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years we were very very close. Over the past year He has been getting very angry and has a quick temper on him, I know these outbursts are not aimed at me but they are still upsetting. I've ...
A. 26 July 2006: Hello Babe
i understand what you mean by all the stress because i have just done my exams and im having a bit of a hard time as well and family, friends and boyfriends trying to add more stress on doesnt help.
yes you are doing the right thing ... (read in full...)
The spark in gone...Is there a future for us?
Q. Hi, Been with my boyfriend a little over 2 years but the spark has gone...does that mean theres no future for us or just that we need to work to get the spark back? Thanks x...
A. 26 July 2006: Hello Sweetie
it doesnt mean your relationship has to be over because you spark has gone but you do need to get it back so try and be spontanious and do different things seperate and together and try rebuild what ya had and see if the spark re... (read in full...)
My friend has the perfect girl and cheats on her...Should I tell her?
Q. i'm close too my friends girlfriend and shes really nice pretty much the perfect girl. she thinks the world of her boyfriend and believes he would never cheat on her, the only problem is that he does all the time. shes often asked me if i would tell ...
A. 26 July 2006: Hello
I Think that you should tell your friend if you are 100% deffinate he has been cheating you shouldnt keep something like this away from her because she has the right to know.
any man that decides to cheat doesnt deserve a decent girl ... (read in full...)
He is currently going through a divorce but I hate him talking about the ex, how can I stop being so jealous!?
Q. I had a huge argument yesterday with my boyfriend because I got all jealous regarding his wife and I need to know how to control these feelings and think before I speak before I push him away. He isnt divorced yet, they have been separated 2 years ...
A. 25 July 2006: Hello Sweetie
you have to try very hard to keep your jealousy out but is there really anything to be jealous about?
it is understandable for him to want to be nice to his ex wife to be because of the children.
jealousy is the first... (read in full...)
How do I get this ex bf out of my life? I just want my life back!
Q. i have split up with my ex now seriously twice! every night he made me cry...!! last time we split he left me for some silly reason and i had enough!! so i didnt go crawling back like i always did!!! he phoned me texted me emailed and kept showin up ...
A. 25 July 2006: hello terri
well i think that all you can really do is try and stay away from him.
But if that doesnt help then maybe you should report him as harrassing you and get an injuction put out on him.
now i dont know how old you are but i am wit... (read in full...)
I feel left out, everyone else has boyfriends except me!!
Q. Im 14 and ive never had a boyfriend. All my friends have and i feel really embarrassed. When i see them hugging or kissing their boyfriends i feel sad and lonely. How can i get a boyfriend? Im not a slut, it just i feel left out. Plese help!...
A. 25 July 2006: Hello Sweetie you dont need to get a boyfriend because everybody else has one you have alot of time to grow up and do the hugging and kissing stuff so dont rush your life away ok babe because life is precious every minute means something so tak... (read in full...)
Her daughter was abused and now Mom needs advice on how to help her little girl.
Q. hey guys n gals. im an aunt on here but i wish to remain anon. my question is on behalf of a member of my family. lets call her lauren. lauren has an 8year old daughter who has just recently told her that she has been sexually abuse...
A. 24 July 2006: hi anon
i think that you should be there for your neice and so should lauren i think that it would maybe help to see a doctor if she is really bad so scared she cant sleep.
keep her eating and try and keep her in the light sa long as you can bec ... (read in full...)
I just dont enjoy sex with my boyfriend anymore, its affecting us what can I do ?
Q. I dont enjoy sex with my boyfriend anymore. i use to but after we moved in together it has just gotten worse and worse. now of course he is is complaining bu as much as a try it just is not the same. i dont feel cormfortable anymore. what can i do ...
A. 24 July 2006: try different stuff there are other options than sex and im sure you can get pleasure and the fun spontanious feeling back.
role playing games, toys ect!!... (read in full...)
My mum thinks this guy only wants me for sex, but I'm sure he doesn't!
Q. Hi, I'm feeling really confused at the moment. I've liked this boy for over a year, but I've never spoken to him and we met on the streets. I was chuffed when he asked me for my digits today. Problem is, he's 22 and I'm much younger then him, and...
A. 24 July 2006: hi saza
if you really think that he doesnt want you just for sex go with your heart but it is understandable for your mother to be worried about you as you are her little girl so just try ease her mind ok.
good luck girl!... (read in full...)
Im pregnant, but I dont want this baby, how can I go about getting a termination ?
Q. I'm 17 and I'm pregnant. I don't want a baby but i don't know how to get rid of it. I can't go to a hospital coz someone might find out. What should i do? I need an abortion....
A. 24 July 2006: hello well i think you should think before you act on this but if you really want an abortion go to your doctors and tell them you want an abortion and they will have to get two doctors to sign it and then your set. (but think about it first mak... (read in full...)
What made him ask the question, "How would I manage if I left" ?
Q. Am I being too over analytical? I'm a female and jn a relationship..things have been going well. My bf and I have been together for 3 years. The past year we have lived together. I own a lovely home, I work and of course he helps me pay the bills, ...
A. 24 July 2006: hello i think you are ok i think maybe you should bring it up but just tread careful maybe he was just wondering ok. i hope it all goes well for you and you get the right answer. Good Luck!... (read in full...)
He couldn't "get in"... Is there something wrong with me?
Q. Hello. I am a virgin and recently tried to have sex for the first time. I'm really worried that there is something wrong with me becuase my boyfriend just couldn't get inside me, it was excruciatingly painful. We tired several times, but it just ...
A. 24 July 2006: there is nothing wrong with you babe its your first time so it will be painful but i dont understand why he has had problems getting it in maybe see a doctor about why it was so painful or why it wouldnt go in and maybe you and your boyfriend can do ... (read in full...)
Both my friend and my boyfriend feel that each other is a threat, which one should be the most important ?
Q. i think my friend is threatend by my boy friend and my boy friend is threatend by my friend i awlways feel myself having so choose between them it really difficult , and i dont know which one is more important... which one should be the most i...
A. 24 July 2006: hello well friends stick around forever and boyfriends are just for christmas (if you get me) mates come first you shouldnt let a boyfriend/girlfriend come between you and your good friends! good luck! ... (read in full...)
The boy wants to take it to the next level
Q. ive been going out with this boy for a week today. ive snogged him a few times and he wants to finger me already. Do u think this is a bit fast? ...
A. 24 July 2006: hello yes it is deffinately to fast for you to be doing that yet you make him wait if he really wants you he will wait ok so stand by your principals ok dont let him do anything you dont want to happen!... (read in full...)
I had a bad experience and not sure if he did have sex with me, is there a way I can tell if im still a virgin ?
Q. About one year ago I was drinking and a guy made a move on me. Having no second thoughts at the time i went with it. One thing lead to another and he ended up stripping me and himself down and throwing me onto the bed. From there i know i told him i ...
A. 24 July 2006: hello if there was alot of blood and you was a virgin before i am very sure that you are not a virgin now because masturbating is not a form of sex so it would not have made you bleed if it was your first time. i think you need to talk to a ... (read in full...)
I was not paying attention to her and she left. Now I miss her-how do I get her back?
Q. we have been in a relationship for three years now. changed jobs together, we still are working together. two months ago she broke up with me saying "the feeling is lost and i dont feel the way i did for you anymore" she said she wanted to be by he...
A. 24 July 2006: hello your ex girlfriend has problem feeling like she is being ignored, rejected ect so she wants the attension and from what i can gather she is getting that somewhere else so thats where she has gone if you want her some much you have to try ... (read in full...)
My partner seems to resent my teen age son-how do I handle this?
Q. Tell me what you think? I am female, mid 40's. My son is 15 and has a learner's license to drive. We have 2 vehicles, a car and a older van. The past few days, I have started taking my son out practise driving. My partner has said, my son is not ...
A. 24 July 2006: hello i think you , your husband and your son need to sit down and talk about what is happening your husband needs to tell you and your son why he doesnt get on very well and why he is trying to sabotage the time you and your son spend together b... (read in full...)
Never thought I'd look at another guy but this married guy makes me feel sexy and alive! What should I do?
Q. I am a 32 year old women. I have been with my husband for 14 years, 7 years non married 7 years married. My problem is that I have recently met another guy who is also married. Nothing has happened between us yet except for a snog but it is quite ...
A. 24 July 2006: well i think that you need to sit down with your husband and tell him how you feel but only if you are 100% sure that you want the other guy because you dont want to cause problems between you and your husband for no reason. as well as i think ... (read in full...)
I was concerned over her male attention whilst she was away, this annoyed her and nows shes not talking to me!
Q. recently my partner went abroad wth friends for 5 weeks, subconsciously i was asking lots of questions about male company ect, and my girlfriend became annoyed at this. i appologised for my actions and told her that it was because i felt jealous ...
A. 23 July 2006: hello well i think maybe she needs some space dont give up just cool it a bit and wait for her.... (read in full...)
In love with my 13-years-older friend and I don't want to risk the friendship!
Q. I'm in love with my good friend, but he's 13 years older than me. How can I tell him I love him without ruining our friendship?...
A. 23 July 2006: just tell him how you feel but go gently and say you dont want it to ruin your friendship with him.... (read in full...)
After 3 years she just ended it.. Im in bits... im really in a mess please help.
Q. Hi...im feeling very very messed up at the moment, im 19 and i have been with my partner (who is the same age) for nearlly 3years, yesterday (22nd July 2006) i got a phone call which i have been expecting because she hasn't been herself anymore, and ...
A. 23 July 2006: hello andy my name is charlotte i am 16 years old i was with my boyfriend a very long time and he did something that was unbearable for me i felt i was cracking up and i just wanted to crawl under a stone and die but i didnt i had to pull myself t... (read in full...)
Why do women stay with utter jerks?
Q. I need advice. What is it that women want with men? I always see girls who are generally nice in personality with guys who are complete jerks not just to other people but to them as well. Yet these girls still stay with them. It's the same ...
A. 23 July 2006: dont change yourself becuse its not you its the women some of them may be to scared to leave them or maybe they truely love them... (read in full...)
A teacher is letting me get away with a lot of offenses. He winks and stares at me and I'm getting freaked!
Q. I am very confused by the behaviour of one of my teachers towards me. He is a very strict teacher who never smiles and always seems annoyed and a lot of people find him scary. The problem is he behaves completely differently towards me. His face lig...
A. 23 July 2006: it could very well be that your teacher is attracted to you if you are so worried then maybe you should report it because that could be peadaphilia ok do somethng about it if you are sure... (read in full...)
We were close friends, she asked to take it further, I said no and now I regret it!
Q. im in a bit of a dilema here. let me start at the begining of it all. there was this girl i was best friends with and eventually she started hinting that she liked me in that way, she then asked me properly if i would date her but i didnt want it to ...
A. 23 July 2006: see if she likes this other guy alot and sort of say that u really regret letting her go to another guy because you wish you had said yes now because you want her. just be straight with her... (read in full...)
I love my guy and want him to be happy... even if he's actually gay
Q. I have been living with my partner for two years now and although we have a great relationship I have started to suspect he may be gay. There aren't any of the usual signs - exactly the opposite, and although our sex life has taken a bit of a...
A. 23 July 2006: well just gently speak to him about gay people and sort of fdrop it into the conversation but you have to be serious dont let him think its a joke ... (read in full...)
Stuck in a love-triangle with a guy who doesn't know I fancy him!
Q. I have fancied this lad for near enough three years and I can't get over him because he's really good-looking and funny and he's really sweet to me. A few days ago, I was talking to this girl in the year beneath me at school and she really likes hi...
A. 23 July 2006: ok well what i think is that you should think about anything you say to your friend she may have broken a promise but as long as she is happy i am sure that is all that matter there will be other boys for you. and i am sure that boy will come online ... (read in full...)
Started cheating on my boyfriend... now I have strong feelings for both guys!
Q. My bf and I have been going out for 6 years. He and I have gone through a lot. He is always by my side when I am in trouble. And I stood by his side when his company is in bad shape.. I started cheating on my bf 2 years ago. I met someone o...
A. 23 July 2006: hello i think that you should be straight with your boyfriend tell him that you were feeling lonely and you wanted a friend but it got out of hand then you need to decide wether you want your boyfriend or the other guy.... (read in full...)
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