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My name is Jacqueline and Im 21 and work in a Nursing Home...
My job is what drives me to help people, its my life...
Im in a long term relationship..
I love watching Will & Grace, Charmed, Just Shoot Me and Bwitched..
I love to read anything by Shakespeare or Sylvia Plath and have just recently read Jordans autobiography.. Very interesting..
I dont like people who lie or cheat but It does happen I suppose..
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What can I do, I still miss her and can't forget about her!
Q. Hi there I posted this about a week, and i followed advice from this website sort of...anyway here is an update, and previous post.....help folks... Previous Post Hey there guys and girls, i have an issue, about one month ago I had a split with...
A. 12 April 2006: Hey there jude..
Im glad that things are looking up for you with your ex girlfriend and I am also glad that you have some kind of contact with her, I understand that you missed having her in your life..
The fact that she doesnt regret it is ... (read in full...)
I'm joining the police, my mates are going to Uni... How do meet new people in the meantime?
Q. This isn't a problem exactly - i'm more just looking for advice:) I'm in my last year of sixth form college and in a few months will have done all my exams and left. I'm not going to uni (out of choice - i'm sick of education!) but most of my mates...
A. 5 April 2006: Hey there..
Course you can meet new people, Everyone would want a friend like you..
You sound so organised and everything is going to pan for you so you just feel that tad lonely in between..
My advice is that you could join clubs in the me... (read in full...)
My straight boyfriend works in a gay bar and flirts with the guys!
Q. My boyfriend is working in a gay bar although he is straight. During the day he works out at a local gym and he looks good. He says a lot of guys come on to him and admits he likes it. He says I am stupid to be jealous because he would never ever...
A. 4 April 2006: Hey there pet
Yes, I definately agree with d4uo4..
Innocent until proven guilty, and I think your boyfriend is just very good at his profession.
Of course you boyfriends boss wont like you going round your not a guy and It is a gay bar and its ... (read in full...)
He used our computer to look at porn, the came to bed to try our what he saw... Now I feel used and defiled!
Q. I need advice. I found that my husband had been looking at porn on our laptop. It hurt me because I had always promoted openess in our relationship and explained to him how important trust is to have a happy sex and married life. I've experienced ...
A. 4 April 2006: Hey there pet..
Im sorry to hear what you are going through in your scenario and from reading your question I take it that you have spoken to him about this???
Im an awful one for rambling on about "Communication Barriers" but honest... (read in full...)
Are heels when naked sexy or slutty?
Q. Do guys consider it sexy when a woman wears heel naked during sex early on in a relationship or do they simply get the impression that the girl is a slut and begin to treat her like a fuck buddy? ...
A. 4 April 2006: hey there
I totally agree with sexybum on this one..
Wearing heels can be viewed as one or the other of your
options.. Depending on the "type" of guy you have..
I always believed that everyone is a unique individual and I think you would kn... (read in full...)
What can I do, I still miss her and can't forget about her!
Q. Hi there I posted this about a week, and i followed advice from this website sort of...anyway here is an update, and previous post.....help folks... Previous Post Hey there guys and girls, i have an issue, about one month ago I had a split with...
A. 3 April 2006: Hey there
I read your posts all over again and I sense that you are
excitied about the meeting and maybe that isnt a bad thing maybe you just want to be friends, and there is probably that wondering thought "What If" but I do think 100% that
y... (read in full...)
He cheated and now i cant kiss him!!
Q. Im with this boy and we've been together for 6 months but in the past he has cheated on me once and I found myself not trusting him. I also cant get myself to kiss him anymore. I love him so much and dont want to lose him but dont know if i'm doing ...
A. 2 April 2006: Hey there xXx EMZ xXx
Hope that I am able to help you..
I think that the best thing for you to do is get your communication barriers up again with your man and explain to him that you need to be able to get your feelings out in the open again..... (read in full...)
Could has fluids have seeped through our clothes??
Q. Well, my boyfriend and i were making out last night and we were really gettin into it. I guess you would say we were dry humping but thats it. I didnt go down on him or nething and he hadnt touched his self while i was there but he did finger me. M...
A. 1 April 2006: Hey there volleyball4life,
Just wanted to say that this is not possible unless you were really doing that with no clothes on
So dont worry you are fine!!!
Jacqueline... (read in full...)
My mummys boy won't commit!
Q. im 43 and my boyfriend is 51, we are back to the same problem, hes always lived with his mum who is 90 now and she has spoilt him, we have split up in the past and got back together, the problem is always his lack of committment to me, mention the ...
A. 1 April 2006: Hey there ambercapri,
Im sorry to hera you going through a troublesome time with your other half.
I agree with Shania, you are at the bottom of his list of priorities, and you need some time to him aswell..
I understand the care that an eld... (read in full...)
I havent had a g.f in over three years and now its really sapping my self-confidence!! What can i do?
Q. I am 20 years old and I live in a small town. Recently I've been getting quite depressed because I havent had a girlfriend in over 3 years. There has been a few girls over the years that have shown interest but they haven't really been right for ...
A. 1 April 2006: Hey there Pet,
I really feel for your situation, you need to get your confidence up more.. Not every relationship takes a starting point in the pub..
To be practically honest clubbing isnt my scene either, Fortunatley for you though you shoul... (read in full...)
I'm having a crisis of confidence!
Q. I'm having a confidence crisis. I had a bf for 6months and it all went wrong, 2 years later i'm having issues with my confidence around guys, i'm perfectly fine flirty and outgoing until it gets to that stage where you get asked out somewhere an...
A. 30 March 2006: Hey there pet,
Yeah you have closure now.. You now have your time to move on from the ex and your friends taht have been bad to you,
You dont need "Friends" like that anymore..
I have always believed in the old wives tales, (maybe becaus... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned about his weird phone habits!?
Q. I have a question. Okay, here's the situation. My boyfriend is pretty good, I'd say our relationship is pretty healthy, we respect each other and have separate interests and friends, encourage each other, etc. He cares for me when I don't feel wel...
A. 30 March 2006: Hey there pet,
If he does this calling at home business just to make sure you are there, that might be a difficulty and sticky situation in him..
He maybe had a relationship in the past that had no trust and the other individual was n... (read in full...)
Call for moderators to help out with DearCupid!
Q. Hi everyone, This is another appeal for volunteers to be moderators. You get to approve and categorise questions and approve answers. If you could spare say ten minutes a few times a week, then this could be for you! Just add your name in thi...
A. 29 March 2006: Id like to become a moderator..
Please Id be a great asset to your team
Jacqueline... (read in full...)
Does this man like me or am I convincing myself there's more?
Q. What do you make of this? He is one of my bosses but we seem to have had a weird personal rapport from the start. We have never had a date or anything but I often feel he is on the brink of asking me, just looking and lingering and then says off...
A. 29 March 2006: Hey there pet..
I think that you are just lack confidence in these situations therefore this is why you are finding it hard to work it out and have happiness with this man..
It doesnt matter if he is one of your bosses, Everyone is thie... (read in full...)
I've fancied this girl for 6 years, but I've never let her know. I think it may be too late!
Q. Im 20 years old, back in my school days I fancied this girl from about the second year till i finished school(about 3 or 4 years) the thing is I am incredibly shy and probably only ever spoke to her occasionally,she went to my college aswell but I ...
A. 29 March 2006: Hey There...
I think you should try to pursue her, maybe it is a sign..
You have already tried to move on, you said yourself that you have had 3 girlfriends so you ahve at least tried and moving on from school at the best of times is hard as you ... (read in full...)
What can I do, I still miss her and can't forget about her!
Q. Hi there I posted this about a week, and i followed advice from this website sort of...anyway here is an update, and previous post.....help folks... Previous Post Hey there guys and girls, i have an issue, about one month ago I had a split with...
A. 28 March 2006: Hey there Jude..
I just want to congratulate you, You did an admirable deed and It was the right thing pet..
and you most certainly went the correct way about it..
Sending the email meant that you will get your point across in a pleasant... (read in full...)
What can I do, I still miss her and can't forget about her!
Q. Hi there I posted this about a week, and i followed advice from this website sort of...anyway here is an update, and previous post.....help folks... Previous Post Hey there guys and girls, i have an issue, about one month ago I had a split with...
A. 27 March 2006: Hey There Jude..
Hey, Don't feel bad about turning to me, Thats ok,
Thats what I am here for!
I think that this girl is playing with your mind,
she probably thinks that you will go back with her and she is being selfish and playing on it..Hence... (read in full...)
He keeps telling me I have mental problems. Is it me... Or is it him?
Q. I have been in a mentally abusive relationship for the past 9 years (i have been told by doctors this is what it is anyway)I met this man when i was 16 and we had a daughter when 1 was18 and he was 20. he can show her no affection and it seems to ...
A. 25 March 2006: Hey there..
No and No.. You do not have mental health problems..
You have been treated very very badly, this is not how a Loving Relationship should be..
You should be able to settle down and talk to your partner
and unwind from the stresess... (read in full...)
How can I forget my past abuse?
Q. I was sexually molasted as a young child(4-5 years old) by a guy named X. He went to my old church. I didnt tell my parents until I was 24. They were a little upset with me, but wondered why I didn't tell them before. I guess its because I was ...
A. 25 March 2006: Hey there pet..
Yes you are right, Abuse victims find it 10 times more difficult with Relationships than a painfully shy individual has.. And these individuals find it really difficult to make a go at Relationships.. Because they are frighten... (read in full...)
I slept with him without knowing he was a virgin!
Q. last week i slept wiv my brother mate then i found out that before we slept together he was a virgin i really like him but he ignoring me...
A. 24 March 2006: Hey There..
Yeah, I agree with d4UO4, When an individual looses his
or her virginity, they need to come to terms with it
in their own time and place and I think this is what your
boy is doing..
Give him time though and he will eventuall... (read in full...)
I'm having a crisis of confidence!
Q. I'm having a confidence crisis. I had a bf for 6months and it all went wrong, 2 years later i'm having issues with my confidence around guys, i'm perfectly fine flirty and outgoing until it gets to that stage where you get asked out somewhere an...
A. 24 March 2006: Hey there Visfix..
Just wanted to reply to you as you sounded as if
you needed some good advice..
I think your confidence levels are kind of falling and it might hav something to do with your 6 month relationship...
Would you say that yo... (read in full...)
I love my ex but now he's with someone else. Any advice on how to get over him??
Q. i was with this guy for 3 years off and on , i still love him and wanna be with him but he's with someone else, is there a way to get over him....
A. 24 March 2006: Hey there Corbingirl..
Hope I can be of some help to you pet..
Well I was wondering do you still keep in contact with your ex at all?
Why did you split?
Of course you will still have feelings for him, 3 years is a long time to have been w... (read in full...)
What can I do, I still miss her and can't forget about her!
Q. Hi there I posted this about a week, and i followed advice from this website sort of...anyway here is an update, and previous post.....help folks... Previous Post Hey there guys and girls, i have an issue, about one month ago I had a split with...
A. 23 March 2006: Hey its ok.. I know that you could do better..
It just comes with time and a little more confidence..
Let me know how you are doing, I hope you get on alot better than you have been..
Im glad I was of some help to you..
Jacqueline
xx... (read in full...)
Love my partner, but not happy living in Spain. Is Gibraltar the answer?
Q. I need some advice. I currently live in Spain with my partner of six years. I am very unhappy living in Spain but am happy with my partner. I want to move back to the UK and he has told me he never wants to move back. I don't have a job I like or ...
A. 23 March 2006: Im sorry If I did sound too harsh..
I just wanted to help you...
Let me know what happens
Jacqueline
xx
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Should I be patient, or just cut my losses and run?
Q. My boyfriend is 27 and is having some problems at the moment with money and stuff. He never wants sex with me and it's really getting me down. I'm 19 and have a very high sex drive, my confidence has really been knocked by this. The other nigh...
A. 22 March 2006: Hey there pet..
I dont think he would go with anyone else, so you shouldnt worry about that.. But I do also think that you should communicate more with each other. I think you need to look between the lines, you mentioned when he lost his erec... (read in full...)
What can I do, I still miss her and can't forget about her!
Q. Hi there I posted this about a week, and i followed advice from this website sort of...anyway here is an update, and previous post.....help folks... Previous Post Hey there guys and girls, i have an issue, about one month ago I had a split with...
A. 22 March 2006: Hey there Jude,
I really feel quite bad for you.. If this ex girlfriend of yours is more interested in what her friends think then she is not the type to be running after, People do change after break ups, they wallow in what their friends ... (read in full...)
I want to kiss him again, but we also need to study, what should I do?
Q. This is similar to my last question,but i still need some advice... Like i said last time, my boyfriend has been grounded because hes failing 3 classes and we had our first kiss a couple of days ago.And last time my problem ...
A. 22 March 2006: Hey there sweetie pie..
Im glad that my advice about the studying had helped you and I sure hope this one helps too!!!
Well, when you are studying you could try the testing method.. It was my lil cousin who had the similiar problem and we m... (read in full...)
I can't tell if he's interested or just being nice
Q. I am 15. Things between me and this guy I like haven't really worked out because I am so shy and found it hard to talk to him and he thinks we don't have any connection because we never talked about anything really. (he made me really nervous so I ...
A. 21 March 2006: Hey there pet..
Its not a question of being more interesting though love, Its more a question of being yourself.. A pat on the back for the anonymous aunt who replied, thats 100% true..
Just be yourslef and I know that is easier said than... (read in full...)
What should I do to help her grieve?
Q. I really need people's help with this. My girlfriend's brother took his own life 9 months go and she is still grieving which is understandable. However, I feel that I am not able to help her. I never know what to say, what to do, or how to approach ...
A. 21 March 2006: Hey there pet,
Hope I can shed some light onto your problem..
Ok, You could try taking her out for a meal or doing something that just involves the both of you... Something that shows you are there for her at all times of life, even the hard tim... (read in full...)
Not allowed to kiss my boyfriend because he's grounded...
Q. I'm 12 and in the sixth grade and have what you might call a problem... You see my boyfriend and I had our first kiss a couple of days ago. It was nothing really; in fact how we kissed was how you might kiss your grandma!!! Anyhow I really want us...
A. 21 March 2006: Hey there Sweetie Pie, Hope I can help ya!!
Ok so your boyfriend is grounded because he is failing 3 classes, and you have just recently had your first kiss a couple of days ago and you obviously are quite eager to spend some more quality time wit... (read in full...)
Not allowed to kiss my boyfriend because he's grounded...
Q. I'm 12 and in the sixth grade and have what you might call a problem... You see my boyfriend and I had our first kiss a couple of days ago. It was nothing really; in fact how we kissed was how you might kiss your grandma!!! Anyhow I really want us...
A. 21 March 2006: Hey there Sweetie Pie, Hope I can help ya!!
Ok so your boyfriend is grounded because he is failing 3 classes, and you have just recently had your first kiss a couple of days ago and you obviously are quite eager to spend some more quality time wit... (read in full...)
Love my partner, but not happy living in Spain. Is Gibraltar the answer?
Q. I need some advice. I currently live in Spain with my partner of six years. I am very unhappy living in Spain but am happy with my partner. I want to move back to the UK and he has told me he never wants to move back. I don't have a job I like or ...
A. 20 March 2006: Hey there pet..
Im sorry to have to say this but I really think YOU
should do what makes you happy.. Of course you would miss your partner if you moved back to the UK, but please do ask yourself What makes me happy?? Answer? Your partner ..
Yo... (read in full...)
He tells me he likes me, I reject him....am I hiding my feelings for him?
Q. Dear readers. I am in complete turmoil, i am s confsed on what to do. There is a man who always tells me how much he likes me and how much he wants us to be together.Even though i dont no what i am feeling i always tend to reject him, but it esul...
A. 20 March 2006: hey there pet..
Hope this advice helps I think that you should give this man a complete yes or no.. I think its heading more to yes than no though if youve had more than one encounter with him!!!
You should be careless to what aother people th... (read in full...)
I'm a great wife and mother-but his bad behaviours are so unfair and I'm hurt!
Q. My husband and i have been married for 9 years with 4 children between us, However i have never been highly sexed and he has, he says i haven't paid him enough attention in our marriage and states this for the reasons that he hasn't come home on ...
A. 18 March 2006: Hey there pet, I hope that I amm able to help you..
Ok, your husband says that you havent "paid him enough attention" if this is how he is feeling, this still, under no circumstances, does not give him the right to just not go home on numerous... (read in full...)
I want to tell him I like him when I see him, but how am I to do this?
Q. Hi there I am in a dilemma, over a boy (shock horror) I have been friends with him for about 8 years, not mega close- but catch up occasionally, I saw him a couple of years ago before he was to go to Australia with his girlfriend and he asked me...
A. 16 March 2006: Hey There,
Hope I can shed some light in your tricky but hopeful situation..
This boy seems to really like you, he can trust you, have faith in you, even give you confidence tips and he seems like a really great friend.. And that, My friend,... (read in full...)
My ex raped me and I blame it all on myself. HELP!
Q. my ex bf of 5 yrs raped me infront of my children, he has been charged by police and i am due to appear in court soonish. he was violent towards me during the relationship, which he has also been charged for. The problem i have apart from the above ...
A. 16 March 2006: Hey there Pet,
Please please please dont blame yourself, (I can understand how you feel) and you should not blame yourself, Its definately not your fault..
People who confess that they have been raped, do blame themselves and Its only because... (read in full...)
I'm feeling so down, how can I bring that up?
Q. I've been told that exercise brings your mood up but I feel so low at the moment, I can barely get out of bed, never mind do exercise!!! I really want some help, as my relationships are suffering due to my moods. Please help....
A. 16 March 2006: Hey there pet,
Do you have any idea what could be causing your worry??
Have you been ill (or seriously ill)??
You didnt really say why you feel so low, so i can only assume you are at the first few stages of Depression, and there has got to... (read in full...)
She says I don't satisfy her sexually and now she doesn't love me either!
Q. My wife has recently told me that should doesn't love me like I love her. She loves me but is not in love with me. She says it's not fair to me or her to stay together. She won't give me any clues as to what might be the problem. We have been ...
A. 16 March 2006: Hey there pet,
I hope I am able to help you out and get your life back on track..
Maybe your wife feels like she has missed out on alot of things that others dweld in growing up. Were you married young?
Were you her first serious partne... (read in full...)
He said my fat bum doesn't bother him, but I know it does. That's why he's not interested in sex
Q. I have been with my fella for 11yrs and we love each other very much, but im begining to feel he's only with me out of pity and habit. He has a low libido and I'm highly sexed and pester him at least twice a week, which annoys him sometimes. All of...
A. 15 March 2006: Aww hunny..I really do hope I am able to help you get willpower and stop putting yourslef under pressure..
And the only way to get willpower is to earn it..
In this case you should confront what is making you upset and annoyed and depressed.. ... (read in full...)
I thought we were giving things another go, until a text message said we were "just fun and sex" and nothing more!
Q. Please help... I posted the other day about problems with this guy I am seeing. He's due to be moving away soon and didn't think we'd work out..Thanks for the thoughtful replies I received. Right, well things have been a bit up and down with us...
A. 15 March 2006: Hey there Strumpet..
I hope I am able to help you and put some light in your dark tunnel pet, First of all see the friend whos been sticking the nose in? He really shouldnt be doing that, Its really not his place to be nosy, and he is certainl... (read in full...)
I think I have outgrown my family, PLEASE HELP!
Q. Dear Cupid, Hi, I'm a 22yr old male, and I'm a metrosexual,always well groomed, well dressed, look after myself, work hard, and am capable of many things. I'm also secretly struggling with my sexuality, and I'm trying to hide it, but I really am...
A. 14 March 2006: Hey there,
Its only natural to feel like you have moved on a bit from your family..
Although we all love our families dearly, we will always be there for them and we cant always be with them, your sister has proven this by moving away to s... (read in full...)
I'm shy around him. Is that a bad thing? Will other girls seem more attractive than me?
Q. I am 15. I like this guy and we are sort of friends. He is pretty outgoing and I am kind of shy till I get to know you. I have a hard time talking to him because I like him so much. I asked him what the worst thing there was about me, and he ...
A. 14 March 2006: Hey there pet,
Dont worry! I know exactly how you feel!! When I first met my boyfriend he said I was too shy.. Its not a bad thing its just becasue I was more worried about how I looked and If i made the right impression than I was trying to make ... (read in full...)
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