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My name is Jacqueline and Im 21 and work in a Nursing Home...
My job is what drives me to help people, its my life...
Im in a long term relationship..
I love watching Will & Grace, Charmed, Just Shoot Me and Bwitched..
I love to read anything by Shakespeare or Sylvia Plath and have just recently read Jordans autobiography.. Very interesting..
I dont like people who lie or cheat but It does happen I suppose..
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I'm shy around him. Is that a bad thing? Will other girls seem more attractive than me?
Q. I am 15. I like this guy and we are sort of friends. He is pretty outgoing and I am kind of shy till I get to know you. I have a hard time talking to him because I like him so much. I asked him what the worst thing there was about me, and he ...
A. 14 March 2006: Hey there pet,
Dont worry! I know exactly how you feel!! When I first met my boyfriend he said I was too shy.. Its not a bad thing its just becasue I was more worried about how I looked and If i made the right impression than I was trying to make ... (read in full...)
It's been 7 months, but I'm still not over him
Q. I know that many people have a difficult time letting go of an ex. I was with my boyfriend for seven years and relocated across the country just to be with him. I left family and friends behind and it was a shock when he decided to return to the ...
A. 14 March 2006: Hey there Pet,
This type of hurt is also associated with grievance as they both are linked and take their time to pass etc: (The death of a Loved one and the death of a relationship) Most people deal with the two in their own ways, you, however,... (read in full...)
I love him madly..so how do I get him to make love to me?
Q. I have posted this elsewhere and I hope you do not think I am being rude or crude. I love my bf madly. I live at home. When he brings me home after a date and we are kissing, I do really do like him feeling my tits and putting his fingers in me but ...
A. 13 March 2006: Hey there anon..
Just some advice for your question..
You are not being rude or crude, these tye of situations happen.. and they do take time.. Maybe he was testing the waters by doing the foreplay.. I think that you should wait for the rig... (read in full...)
I'm sure he has really changed, he may just be waiting for the right moment
Q. I would like people's views on whether people can really change. My boyfriend of just over 6 months has had a really 'eventful' past and I'm scared he'll turn out to be just like he was then. He's slept with over 100 girls, including a pros...
A. 13 March 2006: Hey there anon..
Your question is indeed a tricky one, although, In saying that I am sure there are people out there who have done things similiar (to the guy you mention in your question) have came out totally brand new... Yet again on the othe... (read in full...)
Don't want to tell my boyfriend about my depression and counselling sessions in case he thinks I'm a basket case!
Q. Hi, I am afraid of talking with my bf about my problems. I was treated for depression last year and saw a psychologist for a period of time and actually did take an anti-depressant for some time afterwards, which I ahven't told my bf about because I ...
A. 12 March 2006: Hey there pet,
I think that you should tell your boyfriend what you are going through, If you trust him enough and you love him then you should have no reason to think these negative thoughts about him..
Although if you dont tell him, he will... (read in full...)
Got close to my friend's reject - now she's decided she likes him after all!
Q. Ok so to me what I'm going through sounds like it's straight out of some teen movie, only problem is that in those movies everything ends up ok for everyone and i don't see that being a possibility in my current situation. I'm 19 and at university, ...
A. 11 March 2006: Ok heres some advice I hope also comes your way!
First of all, Im happy for you that everything else is going great in your life, your social circle, your family background, University, be grateful that these things are going ok the now, alot of ... (read in full...)
My friend told me that my bf asked her if she would sleep with him if he was single! What do I do?
Q. calling alll agony aunts!!!! i need ur help drasticly. i've been with my bf for 2 years now he's 22 im 20. recently i found out that he has said to my best mate "would you sleep with me if i was single?" this happened about a week before my b...
A. 11 March 2006: Hey there pet,
First of all, dont apologise for your problem being to long, This is an advice column and I am always happy to brighten up someones life or answer anyone's problems..
Ok It sounds as if you have already confronted him about this, ... (read in full...)
What are we supposed to talk about when we're together?
Q. i have known my girlfriend for a year already. we just started going out a few days ago. it seems all that has to be said, has been said before. i know pretty much a lot about her, (but not that much) i am afraid when we hang out, i.. will have no...
A. 11 March 2006: hey there mdo808
Here is some advice I Hope comes your way..
How do u mean going out?
You mean you were friends before and now become a couple?
If so, then you should keep in mind that this girl was really into you in the first place to becom... (read in full...)
Fallen for my sisters best friend but worried a) she doesn't feel the same b) it will mess everything up
Q. I have a friend who I have known for quite a few years. She is my sister's best friend and we all go out together quite regulary in a group. I feel though that I am falling in love with her but am not sure whether she feels the same. I keep getting ...
A. 9 March 2006: Hey there UnluckyinLove..
How much do I feel for you!! Thats a shame you obviously really like this girl and you do mention that you have known her for quite a while..
So I suggest you take the bull by the horns and take the plunge.. She obv... (read in full...)
Fallen for my sisters best friend but worried a) she doesn't feel the same b) it will mess everything up
Q. I have a friend who I have known for quite a few years. She is my sister's best friend and we all go out together quite regulary in a group. I feel though that I am falling in love with her but am not sure whether she feels the same. I keep getting ...
A. 9 March 2006: Hey there UnluckyinLove..
How much do I feel for you!! Thats a shame you obviously really like this girl and you do mention that you have known her for quite a while..
So I suggest you take the bull by the horns and take the plunge.. She obv... (read in full...)
My husband hides things from me! Little things...
Q. Okay this sounds silly but it really bothers me. My husband will keep things from me. For example he got off from work one day and went by an old friends work. (male friend) I really don't care that he went I do care how ever that he felt the need ...
A. 9 March 2006: Hey there..
I just wanted to share some advice with you, Hope it helps!!
I think your over reacting just a bit pet.. He doesnt need to tell you sily things like that, after 18 years Im sure he would honour and Love you enough not to be daft and ... (read in full...)
I still have feelings for my ex, but I'm not sure I should go with them. HELP!
Q. ok basicly i was with this guy for about a year when i was 15..things kinda just fizzled out and we moved on (thats how i had remembered it)...we hadnt spoken for 2 years then one day i see him in town walking and everything kinda came back... i was ...
A. 9 March 2006: Hey there Anon,
Hope my friendly advice helps you pet..
First of all..Its only natural for old flames to light again even the worse breakups can go on like a house on fire..and keep in mind that (in your particular case) its not such a bad thing ... (read in full...)
He texts me everyday, but I'm still not sure where I stand in this relationship.
Q. Hey, I've wrote before about a boy that i've been kind of seeing for just over two months now, although we're not officially an item. He's 19, i'm 18. He texts me every day just to generally chat and we've been out a few times together since w...
A. 9 March 2006: Hey there AstraeKiana, Here is some advice that I think you should take into consideration...
I think this boy is genually interested in you, He obviously enjoys your company and judging by the way you are explaining things, I guess he really l... (read in full...)
He's still with his girlfriend, but I'm the one he wants long term...
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and met him while he had a girlfriend. He is still with her but said I'm the only one he wants to be with in the long term. In a way I believe him cuz he takes risks to see me. He said he wants children...
A. 7 March 2006: Hey there.... How can this man be your boyfriend when he never actually left his girlfriend??? What this man says and does are two completely different things and I think you are wasting your time with him.. On the other hand if you love him... (read in full...)
I have a thing for my best friend's boyfriend!
Q. Hi, I am needing desperate help from the cupid bunch. Ok, the problem is that I have a thing for my best friends boyfriend, needless to say, I dont think she treats him fairly and sorry to say that I think I can be better for him. I wish that he was ...
A. 7 March 2006: Hi there.. I think that you need to stop thinking about your best friends boyfriend.. and concentrate on your own boyfriend.. You mentioned that you dont think that she treats him fairly.. this does not mean he would be better off with you.. He mi... (read in full...)
Attracted to my friend's boyfriend, and I *know* it's wrong!
Q. I really need some help. I have been friends with this woman for over 20 years. We hadn't spent much time together in recent years, but started hanging out again recently. My problem is that I am extremely attracted to her live-in boyfrien...
A. 7 March 2006: Hi there Anon.. First of all congratulate yourself for admitting to your husband that you were attracted to this other man.. Shows real guts pet..
Im glad that you wanted to take some of the secrecy away and in doing so it shows you have a kind o... (read in full...)
He's working away... How do I deal with my (almost) unfounded insecurities about his possible cheating?
Q. Ok, recently my husband took a new job(a little over 2 months now) and he has had to travel for it. The first two months he was home for maybe a month of that. And this morning he left again and will be gone til Friday. This has been very tough on ...
A. 7 March 2006: Hi there Only A Woman... I know how you feel my boyfriend works away and I have also beeen treated coldly in the past, I just thought id give some helpful advice as i know what you are going through....
Insecurities in Relationships are hard and... (read in full...)
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