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I have been through a lot, but lately i think ive learned to accept myself who i am, which to be honest not doing that was probably creating a lot of my problems in the first place:)
i love sports, used to sprint for my bourough, play basketball for the school team and am a black belt in taekwondo,
i like to read, although i dont do it as much as i used to:S and i luv writting, so hoping to be an author wen i grow up;) There are a few other things i would consider doing, but thats really my main passion.
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Do I tell him, even though he has a girlfriend?
Q. I like this guy and ive liked him for a while. and he was single and we were flirting alot and hangin out like 4 times a week. but i never was brave enough to ask him out. now he has a girlfriend. and i dont know what to do. i broke up with my ex ...
A. 20 October 2007: chanches are he will be single soon=] lol most relationships in teenage years dont stay strong for to long.
so dont do anything that might jepordize your relationship with him already, wait.
good luck, x... (read in full...)
I have everything I ever wanted. So why am I unhappy?
Q. what is wrong with me ?. i have just moved into my first home with my partner, i have a beautifull house a wonderfull partner a supportive family and a good career ahead of me but im so so lonely and down. i feel so lonely i have nothing to compl...
A. 20 October 2007: heya=] um youll find that everyone has to have somethiing to worry about, even if there rlly little. but you need something, its what gives your life that litlle bit of esscence and meaning, something for you to do and concentrate on. most people in ... (read in full...)
I hate my family life. What can I do?
Q. I hate my family life im 13 and there are so many family problams I hate everyone in my family there so unfair and horrible. I want to leave home. I have a week off school for half term and i would rather go to school just to escape! What can I Do?...
A. 20 October 2007: what exactly are the problems?
and try and stay with your family ok.. i mean i dont know whats going on in there but, this is a very emotional time in your lifee.. i think if you stay there you will realize there only trying to help you, and maby... (read in full...)
21, if I can't have her, It doesn't seem like I can have anyone. How can I painlessly move on from my ex?
Q. Hi I've just turned 21, and basically, I HATE love. The only girl I've ever loved for over 2 years left me to go to university. My friends have told me to move on, but the thought of moving on really hurts. I wanted the only girl I've ever l...
A. 19 October 2007: hi, um chances are this is your first love.. yh stating the obvious but everyone feels like this with there first love.. everyone. you will move on, you just need to focus on something else, someoneelse. try talking to new people, dont become boxed ... (read in full...)
How can he say he loves me and I'm his soulmate but still leave me??
Q. hi, I've been split up with my bf for 3 months now and it seems to be gettin harder. I love him so much and miss him more everyday no matter what i do i can't seem to move on . He told me that we needed to sort our heads out and he would love th...
A. 19 October 2007: heya=] um answering your question, dont think to badly of this guy. more detail into the problem would help produce a more acurate answer but basiclly there are two solutions to this. one: he does care for you, just not in the way that he may have... (read in full...)
I want to tell her about us, but he'll be mad.
Q. Hey I'm a 19 yr old female with a dilemma! I have this friend, we have been best friends for about 7 years. He's had a girlfriend for the past 4 years, one that I helped him to get- when he saw her he basically fell in love and said he wanted t...
A. 19 October 2007: dont take to many of these posts seriouslly, you should live your life the way you want to live your life. most people wil say that you should always do the right thing like many of these people here and they will say your disgusting but no doubt ... (read in full...)
How do I get a boyfriend?
Q. I thought that I was an attractive person. I have big brown eyes, long brown hair, perky breast's, long legs, flat stomach, athletic, kinky, smart, nice and have a strong sense of humer... Why don't I have a boy friend? yyyyyyyyyyyyyyy??????? What ...
A. 8 September 2007: heya, well most boys wont come up to you unless they are absaloutly sure they arent gonna get turned down. so if someone looks at you, give them a smile. and with any boy you like flirt with them, make sure they know you are interested. things sh... (read in full...)
Am I still in love with my ex? Do I love my classmate?
Q. Ermm.. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4months a few weeks ago. Now, he's with one of my close friends. I really support them, and wish them the best. I thought I could get over him and I thought I did. I guess I was wrong. Whenever he talks to me ...
A. 3 August 2007: Sounds like you're still thinking about your last relationship and because you havent been involved with anyoneelse since and your ex is still talking to you, thats why your feeling like that. I think if you like this other boy and start dating you ... (read in full...)
I'm married-he's married. I am having his baby..should I allow him in the baby's life?
Q. I'm married, he's married, and now i'm having his baby should I allow him to be in his baby's life? We met at work and I thing lead to another that we starting seeing each other and having a sexaul relationship in May of 2006 We are both married...
A. 26 July 2007: yeah i think he should. he has no other children of his own, and this is his first child:(
if you dont let him in its like your punishing him but you are both equally responsible for the baby and should both contribute to the babys life.
im su... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend but i can't stop thinking about my best friend.
Q. I have a GF, and my best friend who is a girl we shared a hug and there was this moment when i forgot my GF and being with my best friend seemed perfect. What should i do?, i love my GF but now i am constantly thinking about my best friend in a ...
A. 25 July 2007: remember you might lose both.
think about it long and hard. was there a reason for you asking your girlfriend out? or was it a mistake, and the real person was always there just unnoticed?
think through your emotions about your best friend. ... (read in full...)
Five year old girl masturbating, is this normal?
Q. Is it okay or normal for a 5 year old girl to masturbate, I see her in her bed humping at night and wanted to know how to handle? Thank you....
A. 25 July 2007: um nope that does not sound normal. i looked it up and most masterbating problems written by people are about there 11yr kid +. are you sure she is actually humping? at may be something conforting her. have a talk with her and ask her. but she is... (read in full...)
I dont believe in giving cheaters second chances, but I kind of want to with him
Q. okay well firstly i have quite a harsh perspective of realationships if someone ceats on me then its over with them offcourse it takes time for me to get over them but i can. if someone ceats on me with a mate of mine then i get make out with them ...
A. 25 July 2007: he sounds a litlle bit forceful to be honest:( you clearly told him that you couldnt make out but he still started didnt he? um well to be honest you cant be sure he has never cheated before, youve only got his word for that:( and very few guys... (read in full...)
An old GF wants to get together. Should I take a chance?
Q. So a girl I went out with a few times in college, about 5 years ago, (we went out on a few dates but really didnt work out and no hard feelings afterward) and was somewhat friends a little while thereafter the few dates we went on...emailed me out ...
A. 25 July 2007: mabye she has just left a relationship and is on the rebound? anyway if you didnt really argue and you liked her why not? give her a try:) but 6 hours is a long way. mabye a long weekend? but remember she only said she wanted to talk, did she ... (read in full...)
Is not contacting her the best thing? Its making me miserable and ruining any chance we had left!
Q. Tomorrow marks 1 month since my long distance, 2 year relationship was officially called off by my partner, who couldn't handle the distance anymore. I've been very up and down throughout the past month, feeling fairly possitive highs, to lying on ...
A. 25 July 2007: try to move away. yeah you will feel pain but it is the best thing. it will hurt but you can survive it try not to worry to much. after all relationships shouldnt be your life. mabye you got to attached to this one? you need a brake, i think s... (read in full...)
My married lover's guilt is getting to her; should I try to see her or give her space?
Q. Hi guys, been seeing a married work colleague, whos marriage is seriously not fulfilling for her. Know we both shouldent but fancy each other like crazy. She is suffering with guilty concience and i am too believe it or not and its made us both ill...
A. 24 July 2007: leave her to get her thoughts together. she has walked down the aisle with this other man, there was obviously a time when she loved him. be careful you might be getting involved in something with no happy ending. often when a girl says somethi... (read in full...)
Why are so many children having sex?
Q. Hi. This is a general question, rather than help really, and for all the young people to think about perhaps. Ok, here it is..... Why are so many very young people having sex under 16 years old? For a start the legal age for it is no...
A. 24 July 2007: its about technology. these days people want everything good and fast. they dont care that taking drugs could kill them its what they feel that they care about. they dont care that having sex is illegal or that they could bring a, sorry to say th... (read in full...)
Update on the guy at the gym; he's acting even friendlier now
Q. hi all, yesterday i posted a question about this guy i like from my gym, well today i saw him again and was talking to one of the others about my crap day yesterday, he was standing thre the whole time, and smiled at me a couple of times, then w...
A. 24 July 2007: i would say he is interested b! go for it;) if a guy is looking at you and smilling, then he starts a conversation he is trying to out the hints across that he likes you. but the only problem with this site is with things like this were not much is ... (read in full...)
Is not contacting her the best thing? Its making me miserable and ruining any chance we had left!
Q. Tomorrow marks 1 month since my long distance, 2 year relationship was officially called off by my partner, who couldn't handle the distance anymore. I've been very up and down throughout the past month, feeling fairly possitive highs, to lying on ...
A. 24 July 2007: ok... well do remember that in this the most important feelings are yours.
i think that you will feel pain in any way you go here and im a not quite sure if she feels the way about you that you do about her.
look at her, see if you can feel any... (read in full...)
Is not contacting her the best thing? Its making me miserable and ruining any chance we had left!
Q. Tomorrow marks 1 month since my long distance, 2 year relationship was officially called off by my partner, who couldn't handle the distance anymore. I've been very up and down throughout the past month, feeling fairly possitive highs, to lying on ...
A. 24 July 2007: ok... well do remember that in this the most important feelings are yours.
i think that you will feel pain in any way you go here and im a not quite sure if she feels the way about you that you do about her.
look at her, see if you can feel any... (read in full...)
After living together for 6 years and having a daughter w/ me, he left me for another girl! Why can't I get over him?
Q. My boyfriend and I was living together for more that 6 years and we have a daughter together.We have known eachother since primary school.He left me for another girl and it's been 4 months now. Does he realise what he has done? What his he thinking? ...
A. 24 July 2007: hey:) noone can tell you if he is thinking about you, talk to him see how he replies, everythign from the words he uses to the way he says them will tell you.
but hes left a little girl and a mum on there own...its been four months. sorry b dont... (read in full...)
Is not contacting her the best thing? Its making me miserable and ruining any chance we had left!
Q. Tomorrow marks 1 month since my long distance, 2 year relationship was officially called off by my partner, who couldn't handle the distance anymore. I've been very up and down throughout the past month, feeling fairly possitive highs, to lying on ...
A. 24 July 2007: dont cut her out of your life, that is one of the most confusing and painfl things you can do.
wondering with what ifs, could i have her back.
and if you've had your last kiss.
im so sorry:(
you need to talk to her, tell her all this.
if she do... (read in full...)
Why was he ignoring me and now he wants to meet up?
Q. Theres this guy, Ive liked him and been seeing him casually for the last yr and a half. Ive been away for the last 2 months and we were keeping in contact up untill the last week I was there, which was last week. I kept calling him, texting and ...
A. 24 July 2007: heya, um he ignored you for a long time. and now he wants to meet up?
it sounds as when he wants something he comes running to you, and when he didn't need you he ignored you.
if you get into a relationship again the feelings you will have are
1. ... (read in full...)
He was with another girl while we were on a break
Q. Im 16 years old my ex boyrfriend and I were together for 7.5 months. We did argue sometimes but never anything serious. There was always this girl that really bothered me that he used to hang out with, so while he went to go see his friends she text ...
A. 24 July 2007: hi:) umm if he hasn't done anything before, hes probably made a mistake and feels very bad about it.
this site is very helpful and i can see you already have many answers to this question:)
so ill just say talk your feeling over with him.
te... (read in full...)
Now that she knows marriage is imminent my girlfriend seems to be questioning everything in life
Q. for the past eight months my girl friend has been begging to get married. now that she knows it is close she seams to be second guessing everything in life it seems. so, could some one just tell me that shes just scard and it is normal, or should i ...
A. 24 July 2007: she is probably nervous, as most people get when they are about to give dedicate there life to someone lol.
just go over your emotions with her, im sure things will be fine:)
if she wanted to marry you before, chances are she still does.
good luck... (read in full...)
If I register on this site will I get tons of spam?
Q. I'm thinking of registering on this site but am a little cautious about giving my email details in case I subsequently get inundated with unwanted spam emails which have been the bane of my life in the past. Can anyone reassure me that if I DO reg...
A. 24 July 2007: no spam on this site! :)
its just something to help people, im still new on here and ive found it to be a really good site, so register:)
it will help a lot, and you get a good feeling from it anyway... (read in full...)
I hate cheaters, but now I have become one!
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. he lives over 200 miles away from me and i only see him about once a month. i get lonely a lot of the time which makes me interested in lads more. I've always been against cheating and ...
A. 24 July 2007: heya:)
well um look at it this way, a lady wrote on here that her husband had a fling with her best friend...
if your best friend found about you two. and came on here, most people as they did with the other one would tell her to get away from you... (read in full...)
I love her very much but she has taken a sudden dislike to physical contact and I feel a bit rejected
Q. Hi all, can somebody please help with some objective advice... I'm going out of my mind! To cut a long story short, I'm in my late 30s, and have a fairly long distance relationship (100 miles) with my girlfriend. When we started out, it was brillian...
A. 24 July 2007: ok, well it is good that your getting in to shape. but if she dosent realize the effort your making, mabye its better to leave her. usually i would say in you love her keep trying but if your giving into this relationship and not getting anything ... (read in full...)
I love her very much but she has taken a sudden dislike to physical contact and I feel a bit rejected
Q. Hi all, can somebody please help with some objective advice... I'm going out of my mind! To cut a long story short, I'm in my late 30s, and have a fairly long distance relationship (100 miles) with my girlfriend. When we started out, it was brillian...
A. 24 July 2007: try and be more stronger when your speaking to her and do things that may turn her on. also going to the gym or woring our for an hour a day then a little run isnt to much to ask so that your relationship stays healthy. ... (read in full...)
I've done very well but nothing seems good enough for my wife; she finds fault everywhere. I just want to be happy, what can I do?
Q. I have been together with the same woman since we were teens (30 years). Wonderful kids, it was a long struggle - but life turned out very well for us and I do help out around the house and look after the kids every change I get. However, we are r...
A. 24 July 2007: confront her about her feelings. i often say this to everyone but it always the best option. and then go counciling, dont brake up something that been going 30 years, you should know each other inside out by now. you can do it, for the kids get it s... (read in full...)
I'm dating a wonderful guy but I keep cheating on him
Q. Hi everybody! okay, at 24 I have been in a steady relationship for nearly 10 months with an awesome guy.I do enjoy my first real gay relationship. He is sweet and attentive and loving and caring etc. Yet I have cheated on him three times......
A. 24 July 2007: no it is not a smart thing to tell him.. really i am saying this becasue it is you asking the question and i am thinking of a way to help you but i dont exactly agree with what has happend :( of course i dont know you and dont know why you don... (read in full...)
I caught my husband cheating with his best friend; now he wants an open relationship with her and I. I can't accept it, what should I do? I'm desperate
Q. I recently caught my husband and best friend in an affair that as it turns out has been going on for seven years. She has always been around the house several times a week for the entire time. I thought something was going on about 4 years ago and ...
A. 24 July 2007: im afraid your husband is basicly a cheater. if he wanted a open relationship he would have told you 7 years ago. he just wants as much as he can get, please get away from him, and watch him and your best friend break up. shes been fooled unfortuna... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cheated on me when she was drunk but I don't want to dump her; how should I handle it?
Q. My Girlfriend admitted she Cheated on me!!! She was very drunk when she did it and i don't want to get ride of her. i want to make sure she doesn't do it again! , but how??? Do i not speak to her for a bit? Do i shout at her? Do i forgive h...
A. 24 July 2007: dont forgive her straight away, you would look a bit weak in her eyes. not that that would matter but its just for your personal image with her. mabye act a bit weird with her then say im sorry babe that ive been acting weird its just remember... (read in full...)
Should I masturbate before seeing my girlfriend incase we get intimate, so she won't have too much of a mouthful?
Q. Hello. this is a really odd question but something that im never sure what to do about. i never sure what to do before i see my girlfriend, as all men have probaily noticed if thet dont masturbate for a period of time, the sperm tends to build up...
A. 24 July 2007: its up to you and her, if your having sex chances are you can disscuss with her how you feel? see her point of view:) nooneelse on here can tell you what to do, its what she likes:)... (read in full...)
My friend said I remind him of an actress I find ugly and it really hurt my feelings; am I overreacting?
Q. I have a relatively new friend who has always been sweet and kind towards me but said something recently that I find I am really insulted by. He commented that I reminded him of the actress Kirsty Alley. Now this may seem silly to most people, but I ...
A. 24 July 2007: no the best thing to do is ask him what he meant by it and was he comparing you to that actress and her horrible ways. he is diffrent then you as everyone is diffrent and will view her in a diffrent way. chances are he was trying to complime... (read in full...)
Could he be jealous of my ex? Does that mean he really likes me?
Q. hello my name is shaniqua well ur site seems interting and the reason y im using it is because i really need love advices, i like this guy n he knows it when i first told him he said i like u too and we had a thing going on but when we got back to ...
A. 24 July 2007: yes it might do and if he is a nice kind of guy you need to say sorry and that you will spend more time with him.. but if he is a kind of strong and bit controlling guy you need to look at weather he is just going to be jealous of your, or will he ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with this girl but she says she doesn't want to go out with me because we're best friends
Q. I'm completely in love with my best friend. She is everything I have ever wanted in a girl. She is smart, funny, is interested in the the same things I am (the list goes on). I've told her that I had feelings for her, but since we are best friends ...
A. 24 July 2007: oh...if she is in a relationship already you need to be careful. does she sound a little bored when she is around you reccently? or is she still the bubbly person she was? i would be careful with what your doing and bring it to a final conclusi... (read in full...)
My girlfriend of almost 2 years has told me she can't date anyone right now and that we can maybe date again when she's ready. What is it she's feeling?
Q. I have been dating a girl for about a year and eight months. One day she tells me she doesn't want a boyfriend right now in this time in her life. She says that she still loves me she just cant be with me right now. She also said that i just have to ...
A. 24 July 2007: shes going through her thoughts and ideas. you need to keep telling her how you feel, and that you still want to be with her. if shes going through something hard, and shes reviewing her life clearing her thoughts your gonna be one if the things sh... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but we're completely different people, what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is a very hot-tempered person. A lot of times he can be disrespectful and rude. He's very jealous and possessive and always thinks i'm lying to him. He loves me alot but at the same time he thinks very differently. We're always arguing ...
A. 24 July 2007: babe look at it this way, if your willing to accept his ranting and raving, look at him as your other half, completeling your life. if you want someone thats more quiter, who wont drink and will allow you to live you own life.. go someonewere else... (read in full...)
My 'friend with benefits' has started seeing someone and I'm mad at him and feeling used
Q. How do I let go of my feelings towards my roommate (friend with benefits)? I currently live with my friend with benefits and he started to date and of course I am feeling used. After last night I am so mad that I can not look at him in the eyes. He ...
A. 24 July 2007: if he has been living with you chances are he likes you two. look dont forget that in every persons life only one relationship stays true. eg the person you marry and dont brake up with, that is if you get married at all. chances are whoever he i... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and if I don't masturbate every day I feel irritable; I have constant erections. What can I do?
Q. i am 18yr old boy i had lot of feelings about sex i masturbate daily if i cant masturbate 1 day i feel angry in college and my penis will stand contineously i am wondering about what to do...
A. 24 July 2007: if you dont masterbate as much your d**k wont stand up as much, and you wont feel to angry once you get used to it. the first three days of you stopping are the hardest and will take willpower but after that you can do it.... (read in full...)
Sex with my boyfriend is a bit awkward; where could we go for some proper privacy?
Q. Well, I'm in love with my boyfriend and vice versa.. We've had sex... But it had been rather awkward. I do believe we would both like to continue, but, we both feel nervous about feelings, atmosphere, and I was just wondering.. If you want to be ...
A. 24 July 2007: im not exactly sure, do you both have your own apartments?
... (read in full...)
I'm in love with this girl but she says she doesn't want to go out with me because we're best friends
Q. I'm completely in love with my best friend. She is everything I have ever wanted in a girl. She is smart, funny, is interested in the the same things I am (the list goes on). I've told her that I had feelings for her, but since we are best friends ...
A. 24 July 2007: i think that there is a way you can go out with her but it may be a weirdo ne. with friends girls view it as someone who they can tell there problems to, someone who they do not see in the boyfriend role. girls views of boyfriend and friend can b... (read in full...)
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