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writes:I met this guy while on holiday, he is so charming and I like being with him. He has fallen in love with me and openly says so, I dont feel like I love him, so I dont lie about it. I gave him a blowjob and played with him, I really liked him, he makes me feel so pretty and really enjoys what I am doing to him. I know him for nearly 2 weeks now. Should I sleep with him, there is no love but his member is so big i feel like its a waste not to try how a big one feels inside me, but on the other hand I dont want to end up being a complete slut. Am so stupid, what should I do?
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (10 August 2011):
 as long as you are both honest with each other and neither of you ends up disappointed to learn that it is just no strings sex then yes, why not have a bit of fun. just be safe - use a condom
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reader, fishdish +, writes (9 August 2011):
 I think if you believe he is honest about having strong feelings for you, I would not do it because you're just going to hurt him because he's going to be more emotionally invested and you're just running an experiment. I do think two weeks is a short time to be declaring one's love though and I think he could be using you too just to have sex. If you think this is the case, then it's fine.
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (9 August 2011):
 You have plenty of time to sleep with him. Give it at least a few more weeks or maybe a month before you sleep with him. Just because you've done some things with him doesn't mean that you have to rush to have sex with him. If he really loves you, then he'll wait for you to come around. But if you do decide to sleep with him now, remember that he could leave you like he was never in love with you.
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reader, babygirllovej  +, writes (9 August 2011):
 I don't think there is a problem with having sex with him. As long as you use protection and your careful. You already were sexually with him so trying to act modest around him is going to be hard.
Have fun and use protection! ;)
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