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My names H!(not telling the rest) and i come from Bradford I am 15 years old :) at last lol XD
I am here cos i have enough problems of my own and i think that my expierences can truely help people out as i undersatnd what people are going through :)
I have a book all about decoding your dreams, so if your not sure what it means, just ask me! :)
I have posted three questions on here and would like to thank the people who replied and helped me out as you made me realise a few things; dont be fooled by poison sugar coated (one of my new sayings lol :)) and its up to me to make my own choices in life :) .... so thank :) I would like to repay the favour by helping you out sometime so if you wanna talk i'm here and i will try and talk through your problems so just e-mail me!
I am not qaulified professionally but my ambiton in life is/ was to be a Primary School History Teacher ( i know its a big leap lol) I am also fasanated by how the mind works, how people act concouisly and subconcouisly. I dream to be a criminal phycologist/ profiler
I get annoyed by the following things; 1. When people say or do something that is not correct. Then I correct them ie correcting them when someone pronounces a word wrong
2. Soaps with heart breaking story lines; ie amy giving her baby for her mum to raise, little tom going into care, Custody battles that last a long time, never ending storylines that really get on my nerves and such cliches'.
Soaps i cant stand; Eastenders, Corrination St, Home and Away, Hollyoaks!!!
3. Rap music is my version of torture! i cannot stand; Smack that! that song is annoying, I wanna luv/f.u.c u, pacs life!
or people rapping terribly and singing terribely
I am in a long distance relationship @ the moment with the worlds most amazing, caring and wonderful boy, ever (i know its an biased opinion but we all have to be biased @ some point point in pur lives)
i'm also; English, Iresh, Scotish, Welsh, Russian and Indian. (as u can tell my family is pretty global)
Thats all for now. Here a few things to keep you thinking;
- Never trust anything too perfect
- Its ok to be selfish occasionally
- If you have a gut instinct, follow it
- Your family dont control you, you make your own descions
- Follow your heart not your head
- Be strong
- Ignore certain cynics,there just jelouse
- Its ok to be a sheep sometimes
- Things happen for a certain reason
- Calma exsists, just because u cant see it doesnt mean its there
- once a cheat always a cheat
- curly hair rules
- size 12/14 is not fat!its curvy!
- Eat food, it makes u happy
- Self starving is agonising, dont do it
- Dont let ur hormoans get control of you
- curves are in! dont feel threatend
- love is like the sea, go with the flow
- Mess is pkay occasionaly
- Its ok to cry
- Love is the best feeling ever!!!
- Let your feelings known
Good Luk
Hannah :)XxX |
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Why is it so hard for me ( a girl) to keep female friends?
Q. Why is it so hard for me (a girl) to keep female friends? I seem to be able to have close bonds with men, but not with women. I do have girl friends but they never seem to last for very long. Is this common? I just don't know what I'm doing ...
A. 9 July 2007: maybe these female friends of yours arent the type of friends that you want to keep.
go out find other females who share the same interests.
good luk, Hannah :)... (read in full...)
I think I like my best friend more than a friend.
Q. Hi i am a fourteen years old boy I have a best friend who is a 13 year old girl but we go to diferent schools and she has a boyfriend there or so she tells me but i think i like her more then a friend what do i do...
A. 9 July 2007: Dear unluky in love,
My best advice is to ask if she feels the same. maybe she has a bofreind because she is subconcouisly trying to make you jelouse or get your attention.
ask her if you two can have a chat and discuss how your... (read in full...)
I'm worried about the prejudice over the fact I'm having a baby so young
Q. well im gemma,recently i posted a request for some advise on this and the people have really helped me loads!!you know who you are so thanks a million!but i have another thing i have been thinking about today,because i think i am pregnant,my ...
A. 8 July 2007: if you ask a majority of people, they would of have had kids younger. its nothing really, concentrate on your baby, be a young yummy mummy, good luck hannah :)... (read in full...)
He divides the time we have between his mates and me. What does this mean?
Q. started seeing a younger guy recently, he is 24 and I am 30 everything seem's perfect, but he still likes to spend a lot of time with his mate's, I would spend every availible minuite with him, we dont have much time because i have two children, but ...
A. 8 July 2007: there are two possible reasons; the age could be something to do with it, hes in hos early 20's so he lives young
yet he could be living 2 personas, his caring side with you and his lads lad side with his mates
talk to him,
gd luk Hannah :)... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to stop spying on me?
Q. My boyfriend of 1.5 yr won't stop spying on me. He takes my cell phone without my knowledge and reads texts, goes through my recent calls. We have an otherwise great relationship. I want him to trust me. I have done nothing to betray him, yet ...
A. 8 July 2007: Isn't a relationship all about trust?
well if he doesnt trust you then is this relationship worth persuing? if its that strong then suggest he get therapy or councling
gd luk hannah :)... (read in full...)
He is abusive and possessive, but he says I overreact--please help!
Q. I'm sorry this is so long but really feel the need to spill all. I have been living with my partner for 8 months. About one month after I moved in he started to become very jealous and possessive. He wanted me to stop seeing my single friends...
A. 8 July 2007: he sounds like he has insecurities,
my best advice is to get away from him,
good lk hannah:)... (read in full...)
What's the quickest way to lose weight?
Q. I have watched so many videos and seen so many pictures of skinny people that makes me want to lose weight I'm a size 12 and want to know the quickest way of losing weight; I saw a size 0 and want to go to a size 6. I'm only small so fat doesn't ...
A. 8 July 2007: Nowadays, men prefer curves to a stick thin insect! ( no offence)
i'm a size 12 and perfectly happy, celebrate ur figure!... (read in full...)
He's 50 and he's reknowned for cheating. Will it be different now?
Q. Is it possible for someone who has cheated on nearly every girlfriend he has had to change and not cheat anymore? He is in his 50's now...
A. 7 July 2007: ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER, well thats wat people say, but in my opnion he sounds like a don jon, casonova. trust ur head not ur heart this time good luk hannah :)... (read in full...)
She's put me off the relationship with her plans for the future.
Q. ive met a girl online and we have been together for a few months, she is making all these big plans for the future and shes pushed me to a point where i dont want to be with her anymore how do i tell her i dont want to be with her for no reason plz ...
A. 7 July 2007: Ok minus the plans, do u still like her? dont break it off just because shes planning a head, explain it to her that ur not ready for this kind of comittment good luk Hannah :)... (read in full...)
After the death of her father she has grown dependent on me. Will these feelings go away?
Q. My girlfriend just lost her father in a car accident very recently and it has changed the way she thinks and feels about me. She has grown very attached and dependent upon me. I just want to know some ways that will help us through this hard time ...
A. 7 July 2007: She is feeling very vulnerable at the moment and needs to depend on someone emotionally and physically (thats the part were u come in). Once she has grieved she will become independant again gd lk Hannah :)... (read in full...)
I love my husband even though we've had our bad times but I feel I've missed out on other parts of my life.
Q. I've been married 5 years and got together when I was only 16, I love my husband even though we've had our bad times but I feel I've missed out on other parts of my life. I know I'm being selfish but I can't shake this feeling that there's more to ...
A. 6 July 2007: Why dont you spice up your life, take a long weekend off and go somewhere nice, do something your nice together. try knew things, do crazy outragous things gd lk :) maybe have a dirty weekend... (read in full...)
I feel like my boyfriend doesn't appreciate me.
Q. This probably sounds quite pathetic but I feel like my boyfriend doesn't appreciate me. It seems like I'm the only one making an effort to see him or make him happy. I put myself out there with him 100%, I don't see the point in holding anything ...
A. 5 July 2007: make him apreciate you, spice up ur sex life so it isnt exactly seen as a chore but a hobbie.
the losss of physical contact is normal just reinforce it, good luk!
Hannah :)... (read in full...)
I acted very jealous one night when we were out and now she's being a bit cold towards me, how do I deal with this?
Q. On a night out with girlfriend and friends I got very drunk and acted very jealously. I appologised the next day to my girlfriend but have found her being a little cold to me since. I find myself now over accommodating for the shakiness in our ...
A. 5 July 2007: Wat did u and say exactly?
speak to her, let her no that the only reason u did and sed those awful things is because u care for her and feel very protctive of her :)
wat attracted u 2 together? talk, remind her of the times when u were a gentlema... (read in full...)
Can anybody give me some advice to as why my ex abusive partner does not approach me when we split up and apologize even when he knows that he was in the wrong?
Q. Can anybody give me some advice to as why my ex abusive partner does not approach me when we split up and apologize even when he knows that he was in the wrong? We have had a stormy realationship for many years and he has been emotionally and ...
A. 5 July 2007: He is in denial with wat he did and didnt think he was in the wrong (like men do no offence to any men ok maybe the violent abusive types) its good u've moved on, ask yourself the most important question why do you want him to apologize? then move ... (read in full...)
I am confused about when to try to have a baby
Q. Ladies I really need help from you. My husband and I are really wanting to have a baby but there is one thing that comes between us, its my period I am very inrregular sometimes I go a year with out it. the doctor put me on loestrin24 fe a birth ...
A. 5 July 2007: see your doctor about fertilty treatment and let him/her explain it to you gd luk... (read in full...)
He doesn't take anyone into consideration but his kids, am I being over-sensitive?
Q. OK I will try to keep this brief! Dating this guy for 10 months. Both of us have been married and both have kids. I have mine full time he has them 1.2 time. In the beginning he used to plan things together but now he seems to run his own life and...
A. 3 July 2007: your being human, how can u not take ur kids with u? sit down and talk to him is my best advive, state ur case; it sounds like he would drop anything to be with his kids, thats perectly understandable because he hardl sees them but my advice i... (read in full...)
He's always out with his girl friends and I'm never invited
Q. my boyfriend goes to the movies with his close female friends all the time and im NEVER invited. he goes with them at least once a week sometimes with a couple of them and sometimes with just one of them and i know a couple of them have a crush on ...
A. 3 July 2007: try talking to him and tell him how u feel maybe he's doing this cos he needs to feel powerful and attrictive among other females, maybe he still needs to know that he is good looking. even make him jelouse! u hang around with your male freinds and... (read in full...)
YOU CAN HELP: Spread the word about DearCupid!
Q. Hi, I want to ask a really big favour of everyone who uses, likes and has been helped by DearCupid. Help spread the word this weekend, by doing some of these suggestions: * Tell your friends and family about DearCupid * Talk about and ...
A. 29 June 2007: already spreading the word!... (read in full...)
I want my new husband to stop thinking about his ex wife
Q. Hi! I have been married for the past 6 months to a divorcee with one kid. I knew my husband while he was going thru his divorce. I have this feeling that he thinks of his ex while he is in bed with me, and he still harbours feelings for his...
A. 29 June 2007: y on earth did u marry a guy who's mind was on someone else? u should of sorted this out b5 u wed!
u cant force him to stop thinking about her but try talk to him make him jelous by thinking of an ex! (this idea could so back fire ie. the unthinka... (read in full...)
I want to meet my Irish boy without my parents knowing. What can I do?
Q. I met this boy, on Habbo Hotel a popular chatroom for teenagers, i am 12 years old and he is 13 he lives in Ireland and we got on really well, we started going out a while ago its a hard relationship because, i am from england and he is from Ireland ...
A. 29 June 2007: did u meet him real life or via internet, if u met him via internet can u really trus him and what he says? if you've actually met him face to face then u know who is he is.
if u were to do this how would u travle to ireland to meet him?
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I love him but he treated me harshly. Now he wants me back! What should I do?
Q. I was going out with someone for 8 months and in the this time i found videos of him having sex with the mother of his son, he treat me like i meant nothing but then would tell me he loves me. He would get txt messages off other women who i thou...
A. 29 June 2007: if he loved you would of he played those awful mind games?
move on is my best advice... (read in full...)
I feel that some girls like their guy to take control of her. Is this true?
Q. I have had difficult forming a stable relationship with a girl, though i have met quite a few wonderful women in my life. My problem is, i can't feel secure about a relationship with her as long as i am not in complete control of her, like what she ...
A. 26 June 2007: i agree with anyone here,
taking complete control is almost like bullying
how would u feel if she controlled u?... (read in full...)
I tried to trick her into being jealous and now it's backfired--help!
Q. Hello, The entire fours years her and I have been together I have been faithful. She has refused to marry me and gives me a bullshit excuse about beliefs. It has eaten me up really badly. I tried to make her come around by making her jealous. I p...
A. 26 June 2007: try talk to her, ask her why she has commitment fears, maybe its not you, maybe she fears of being hurt and betrayed but if you were married then it would be a really messy split,
good luck.
just talk
tell her how you feel... (read in full...)
I feel sad all the time and I don't have a clue as to why.
Q. i feel sad all the time but i do not know whats wrong with me or why i feel this way,i have no or little self confidence at the moment , i do not ever tell my mum or friends they just assume i am the happiest person in the world but i really am not. ...
A. 25 June 2007: it sounds like depression hun
do u lak sleep?
feel tired and constant moodyness
find it hard to get out of bed in the morning
see a councellor and talk any issues through!!!
gd luk... (read in full...)
My boyfriend see-saws back and forth between me and another girl--I'm scared I'll lose him to her!
Q. So im really in Love with my boyfriend but our relationship has been a bit rocky....lets face it whos isnt at a teen age. After two months earlier broke it off on acount of work and crazyiness and i felt i wasnt meeting his needs. A month later i ...
A. 25 June 2007: why are u seeing a man that is mentally with anther woman? meet a new man, move on,... (read in full...)
I tried to trick her into being jealous and now it's backfired--help!
Q. Hello, The entire fours years her and I have been together I have been faithful. She has refused to marry me and gives me a bullshit excuse about beliefs. It has eaten me up really badly. I tried to make her come around by making her jealous. I p...
A. 25 June 2007: Why did you do that in the first place?
A piece of advice thats too late,dont do anything that will baclfire!!! Most guys would want a girl who isn't jelous or posessive.
The fact that you describe you gf reasons as "bull shit" shows you have no ... (read in full...)
I'm happy with my new relationship, but can't get over my ex--please help!
Q. Dear Cupid I had on and off fling with a bloke for a period of 2 and a half years. During this time he was verbally abusive and generally undermined me. The most recent time was 6 months ago--at this point he told me I was ridiculously stupid f...
A. 24 June 2007: focous ur energy on ur new man! if ur ex treats u badly verbally and mentally then remove him by blocking him if he comes on MSN, he would expect you to e-mail him but dont, just block him
gd luk... (read in full...)
We agreed to try for a baby--now he wants me to get rid of it!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years we are also living together. We both agreed to try for a baby--then last week when I found out I was pregnant I told him and he was so disappointed and told me to get rid of it. I was so confused...
A. 24 June 2007: keep the baby! is my first piece of advice, as long as you want him/her thats all that count, if he doesnt want to the child then fair enough but as long as you want to keep him/her thats fine... (read in full...)
My husband won't take any responsibility for my unhappiness--please help!
Q. I am very unhappy with my husband at this time and I have tried to express how I feel but he keeps saying that 'he is not responsible for my emotions' and that 'he is not responsible for my happiness'. I know it is important in life to find your ...
A. 24 June 2007: he sounds like a bully
try play mind games with him see how he likes it, if not try explain to him how you feel.
it sounds like he wants to be the domeneering one,
... (read in full...)
Am I too young to really be in love with her?
Q. So many say I am too young to feel love. I would lke to know when it isn't so young. how will I know I love someone. Cause I feel something toward a girl. I talk to her when she feels down. I don't let her pay for anythign when we hang out. I think ...
A. 24 June 2007: Your not too young to be in love, i'm in love and i'm only 14!
i think its really sweet that in your eyes not anyone elses eyes your gf is beautiful.
I wish there was more boys/men out there just like you, that would make the world much better
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We broke up and he's taunting me but I'm still not over him
Q. I was in a three year relationship and I'm having a really hard time getting over him. I honestly think about him everyday and I can't help but feel lonely without him. I go out with friends but all I can think about is him. He left me for another ...
A. 23 June 2007: i agree with myp, if he's making u jelous then delete his no from ur phone, socialise, flirt, find a new richer, cuter man who will love u and not throw the luv bak in ur face,
gd luk and move on, even get a new hobbie... (read in full...)
I'm engaged but still thinking about other people
Q. Am I doomed? I have been engaged for 7 months and am getting ready for my engagement party. I recently been having thoughts of being with other people or what it would be like with other people. I wouldn't cheat on my fiance... but if I'm suppo...
A. 22 June 2007: theres nothing wrong with fantasisng,
i'm in pretty serious relationship but i still fantasize, its natraul... (read in full...)
Should I believe in a second reading from a medium?
Q. Who believes in psycics/mediums. The first prediction came true, the 2nd reading said the same as the first. Should I believe in the second reading? ...
A. 22 June 2007: i am a strong beleiver in psycics/meduims but i am also pesemistic, first time could of being purely co-incidence.
trust your gut instinct... (read in full...)
I feel depressed and don't know why
Q. Hi, I am a 21 year old female. I have been dating my boyfriend for 15 months now .our relationship has recently become serious. We have slept together, he said he loved me 4 months into the relationship and says he wants to marry me someday. He i...
A. 22 June 2007: depression can strike at any time, it doesnt matter what season it just stikes.
go see a councellor and talk through your issues, you'll feel better
gd luk... (read in full...)
What are the signs he's cheating?
Q. how would you know if your boyfreind is fooling around with other woman?...
A. 22 June 2007: Sign #1: Your sweetie keeps you a secret from his/her family & friends
Sign #2: Your sweetie is emotionally absent
Sign #3: Your sweetie says he or she wants a no-strings-attached romance
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Sign # 4: Your sweetie admits to cheating o... (read in full...)
My fiance says he'll dump me anytime he isn't getting his way
Q. what does one u do or should do when ur significant other sabotages the relationship to get it their way. i mean, my fiance threatens to break off the relationship when he doesn't get it his way, so i always give in for him. what can i do about ...
A. 22 June 2007: if he truely loves you, would he do this to you? if you get married do u think the situation would be any better? or would it make it worse? My advice would be leave before it gets anyworse, he may say he does it cos he he loves you but he's pl... (read in full...)
Shall all the dear cupid advisors meet?
Q. I know you have aunts from all over the world, but I wondered whether it may be a nice idea for us to meet at a convention of some sort...somehow? Perhaps several....
A. 22 June 2007: i live in bradford, anyone else live in bradford? ... (read in full...)
Shall all the dear cupid advisors meet?
Q. I know you have aunts from all over the world, but I wondered whether it may be a nice idea for us to meet at a convention of some sort...somehow? Perhaps several....
A. 21 June 2007: yeah, y not?
be a great chance to socailise, but where though?... (read in full...)
Me and my bf had sex and he got angry because I didn't get anything from it. He told me to get out. I dumped him. I'm so upset. What should I do?
Q. I went to my boyfriends today we had sex but he knew i didnt get anything from it all i care about is holding him close not pleasure, he got really annoyed that i didnt and when i got upset saying its not his fault he told me to get out of his house ...
A. 21 June 2007: find a guy that treats you right and doesnt go off on one cos u didnt feel the same way he did.
talk to him and try to get him to look at it from your point of view
gd lk... (read in full...)
I really like this girl. How do I find out more about her without being too obvious?
Q. I really like this girl. I just need some advice on how i can talk to her more, find out what she's interested in? How do i do that without being too obvious. We are goin out on a date, but i want to know her bit more and make her feel really easy ...
A. 21 June 2007: Dont put ur heart on the line but try and strike a mutual conversation about summit that both you and her like.
u never know, she could like u 2!
gd lk with it... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and I think I've got the first sings of pregnant. Do you think I am?
Q. Im 15, Ive had alot of the first signs of pregnancy like morning sickness, thrown up twice, sick stomach feeling, tiredness, backaches and headaches, Could I be Pregnant?? Please reply soon, I need all the advice I can get!! ...
A. 21 June 2007: first of all have you had sex?
if yes then get checked out imediatly and dont make a harsh desision
if no then its proably really bad period pains, trust me, i get them all the time and i havent had sex so its normal... (read in full...)
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