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anonymous
writes:On a night out with girlfriend and friends I got very drunk and acted very jealously. I appologised the next day to my girlfriend but have found her being a little cold to me since. I find myself now over accommodating for the shakiness in our relationship that I seem to have created.What's the best way to deal with this.
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reader, hj87  +, writes (5 July 2007):
 You should apologized to your girlfriend again and tell her why you acted like this. Talk to her thoroughly. See what she says.
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reader, sunrise +, writes (5 July 2007):
 Hi, it's time to sit down and clear the air. We've all done it (well i have)Explain that yes you were jealous of what ever it was that happened but had you been sober you would have seen it for what it was and not have reacted in that way. Tell her how you feel about her and ask if you can leave it in the past and move on.
You apologised, either she accepts your apology or tells you what it is she wants you to do, it may be that she enjoys seeing you grovel and acting needy so just stop, talk to her and sort it out.
Always remember that in a relationship if you dont have trust you dont have anything, so try to think before you react in future. good luck x
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reader, jtaunton5410  +, writes (5 July 2007):
 Ok first you should sit her down and talk to her about it. If you tell her that you have noticed her acting different since that night then she could think that you care about her feeling and want to talk to her about it. Basically the best thing to do is just say sorry once more and ask her for forgiveness. I guarantee that she is not going to give you the cold shoulder. She will think it is sweet that you want to communicate, almost all girls like a caring guy. Dont worry everything will work out. Good luck.
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reader, Ask_HanBan +, writes (5 July 2007):
 Wat did u and say exactly?
speak to her, let her no that the only reason u did and sed those awful things is because u care for her and feel very protctive of her :)
wat attracted u 2 together? talk, remind her of the times when u were a gentleman,
chocolates, candles, romantic meal that would do the trick
good luk :)
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reader, eddie +, writes (5 July 2007):
 What did you do and say?
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