I am depressed with my sad existance. Do looks improve everything?
Q. i feel life is very unfair the way things are .the goodlooking /cute ,girls get good jobs,good freinds,a fair share of boyfreinds,good exams ,there have figures . goodlooking /cute people are lucky . i try very hard and i get no where.i have no ...
A. 30 December 2008: Well, aren't you just a bag of sunshine and happiness? Isn't that a lovely positive way to talk about yourself? I'm sure that attitude has people banging down your doors...
Do yourself a favour- adjust that attitude. I don't know who lied to you a... (read in full...)
Kissing age?
Q. just looking for others outlooks but does anyone think 16 is too young to be making out with a boyfriend of six months? ...
A. 30 December 2008: You're so CUTE!!! Its absolutey fine!... (read in full...)
I'm not ready to talk sex yet!
Q. I am 23 and have just started University. On my course and around University campus, I have met a few guys who seem friendly. We became friends and I decided to hang out with them but they seem to only want to be in contact with me because they ...
A. 30 December 2008: I agree with the last answer. You'll regret it if you don't listen to that little voice in your head. Losing their approval won't be half as devastating as losing your own sense of self respect. Prioritise accordingly... (read in full...)
Why is it so unfair? Why do I get treated so badly?
Q. does any thinks this is unfair?? guys reject me and hate me all the time.The guys who reject me always find a NEW girlfriend and NEW JOB even if a few months! but me i get nothing only yet another broken and cold rejection and only good things...
A. 22 December 2008: Well, how much do you love yourself? You know what I'm learning? You can't ask of others what you don't ask of yourself. And this applies to love too... Its time to take a year/ a few months off dating and re-asses the way tou relate to guys..... (read in full...)
Husband had sex with a stripper!
Q. My husband had sex with a stripper. he said it only happened once. he's been going to strip clubs, always getting lap dances from strippers. I am just so disgusted just thinking about him rubbing against other women. i still love him, can i ever ...
A. 22 December 2008: You don't have to apologise / justify wanting to forgive. Its natural to want him back, the mammal in you wants to regain her territory. And he's YOUR husband... you don't need permission to forgive him, want him. And its also natural to be ha... (read in full...)
Do I have any chance of rekindling my relationship?
Q. Do I have any chance of rekindling my relationship? My ex girlfriend of 10 years found another girl's earrings at my place. She had moved out two weeks prior after I told her I needed a temporary break. She came over to do some laundry and found th...
A. 26 November 2008: There's a song by Beyonce called "Resentment" Listen to it.... (read in full...)
Does anyone believe in the magic of true love?
Q. I have a really good friend who I have been friends with for three years. We have hooked up a few times and hang out with the same people. He has told me he cares about me and loves being around me. He is also playing the hot and cold game with ...
A. 26 November 2008: Nothing wrong with beliving in true love. But friends like him are dangerous. Just don't get hurt.... (read in full...)
How do I make him miss me?
Q. i really want my ex back, but because when we first broke up i did the typical girl thing and panicked and text him and rang him so he didnt even get a chance to miss me. he said to my friend he thinks we'd be back together if i hadn't have don...
A. 25 November 2008: If a man likes you he'd be the one not allowing you to miss him. Why should you have to repress all your feelings so you appear uninvolved? You can't make him feel anything... I'm sorry. I really am, I also bloomin-well wish I knew where to bu... (read in full...)
She's thinking about cheating on him with me
Q. She thinks about cheating on her boyfriend with me. We haven't done anything, yet. But the more we hang out, the higher the chances of something happening. I want to have an exclusive relationship with her. What do I do? ...
A. 21 November 2008: Don't be her doormat. ... (read in full...)
Do I have any chance of rekindling my relationship?
Q. Do I have any chance of rekindling my relationship? My ex girlfriend of 10 years found another girl's earrings at my place. She had moved out two weeks prior after I told her I needed a temporary break. She came over to do some laundry and found th...
A. 21 November 2008: Are you KIDDING ME? Re-read your letter but this time swap "me" for "her" and "her" for "me". Imagine the roles were reversed? Do you get the idea? Do you even care about this girl... I mean if she's that disposable and meaningless to you that you ... (read in full...)
My husband's friend keeps sending him nude pictures and it upsets me!
Q. Hey there, My husband's friend keeps sending him nude pictures on his email. I talked to him about how it makes me feel but he is still looking at these and tells me "he's just a guy" how do I make him stop? ...
A. 18 November 2008: Oh, "he's a guy"? So this is Manly behavior? Since when is hurting your wife manly? Why the hell do you need more than me, hubby? do you realise that your behavior is making me feel invalid? Its disrespectful! And you're really not helping by ... (read in full...)
Now I'm reticent to express my feelings to her.
Q. I know there is a social idea that people who are inexperienced with relationships get attached too quickly and think what they are feeling is love. I haven't had many relationships and I know that I definitely fell into this category for my first ...
A. 18 November 2008: I'm inexperienced too. But I'd love to hear "I love you" from a guy who does. I think all girls do. If she doesn't, perhaps she's cynical due having been hurt. If that counts for anything...... (read in full...)
Is there a possibility you can be in love with two women at the same time?
Q. I have been married for 3 years and have two young children, I have seen an old friend recently that I have had feelings for, for a very long time, I had forgotten all about these feelings until she came back into my life. I have never talked to ...
A. 12 November 2008: If the feeling translates into action then you'll be being untrue to your wife and your kids. I believe that it is possible to have feelings for two people (heck 10 people) and the same time. To love them all equally. But with love comes Respe... (read in full...)
How to deal with a family member who is undergoing surgery and treatment for breast cancer.
Q. Hi, this isn't a dating or love question, this is a question about how to deal with a family member who is undergoing surgery and treatment for breast cancer. I just want to make sure that I'm dealing with her and helping in the best possible way. ...
A. 12 November 2008: You seem to be looking for a mathematically RIGHT or WRONG answer. But are there any for situations like this? Do you really need the guilt baby? Will getting yourself all tense benifit your relative in any way? You're already doing the RIGHTE... (read in full...)
He's not mine - but I want him!!
Q. He's not mine - but I want him!! I don't know what to do - I got on really well with this man who I thought liked me! I gave him my number but he said he had a partner! Nevertheless he does call me from time to time but not very regularly due to...
A. 12 November 2008: "He's Just Not That Into You". It's a book by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccilli or something. Read it. You need a reality check.
Don't you deserve more than to be the Other Woman? Is that what you want for your future? Are you THAT disposab... (read in full...)
Is this teacher behaving innappropriately? Or just being friendly?
Q. Long story cut rather short, I have the best friendship with my ex head of year. He know alot about one another, can read read me like a book! We have a very mature and brilliant relationship, some students actually envy as he is an amazing man. ...
A. 12 November 2008: Don't try fool me- I'm a girl too. You're validating yourself and like you have a crush on him, girl. You sound HOPEFUL that he is being inapproprate. Because maybe some day in the distant future... I understand that there is a fine line - but older ... (read in full...)
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