I thought he liked me but now he avoids me.
Q. well i really like a guy and ive heard he likes me too and he has ever since he met me, but i never gave him a chance before and now i like him but whenever i try to talk to him he doesnt want me to and his friends say that he doesnt want me to have ...
A. 2 May 2008: Maybe he liked you and then went off you because you didn't give him a chance?
Who knows what is going on in his head.
If he is avoiding you and he friends tell you he doesn't want you to know his number then I think you are wasting your tim... (read in full...)
I've developed deeper feelings for this guy...
Q. ok so i really like this guy. but hes 5 yrs older than me. and im 14. he calls me and stuff and we and has become friends. but i've grown deep feelings for him wat should i doo? =[ ...
A. 2 May 2008: If you are 14 and he is 19 then it may well be illegal for him to have a relationship with you and he may not want to risk being thought of in that way.
If you tell him you like him then he may want to cut contact for the same reason.
I would... (read in full...)
Why would he take a condom with him if he didn't expect to have sex?
Q. My boyfriend went away to Seattle then to california to see his friend 2 weeks ago and he got back monday. When i went over last night i went to get the toothpaste out of his bag where he keeps all the toothpaste etc which he had taken with him, ...
A. 2 May 2008: Tell him you saw a condom in his wash bag. He might have an innocent explanation. (Like it was a spare for emergencies with you, or that it's been there since a holiday years ago when he was single? He may have had it for his friend in America to ... (read in full...)
What should I do about this girl in church? I think she may have a boyfriend.
Q. okay, iv'e met this really pretty cuban girl about 2 months ago while we were preaching. Her cousin and her kept whispering and looking at me and well im not sure but i think she likes me, but im stressing out cause i can't figure her out. In ...
A. 2 May 2008: Have you actually spoken to this girl at all. Or just sat in silence watching her?
The best way to find out about her is to go up and ask. Smile and say Hi when she passes you in the corridor. Sit with her at Basketball games and introduc... (read in full...)
How do you flirt with a guy who's older than you?
Q. I'm fifteen years old and this dude that i like this boy who's 18 years old. and i want to flirt with him but i don't know how. How do you flirt with a guy who's older than you and probably more mature than me????? i want to show him that i like him ...
A. 2 May 2008: Just talk to him. Find out about him and get chatting. You don't need any flirting techniques because if there is something between you then both of you will feel it.
Be warned though, 3 years is not a huge age difference normally... But at your ... (read in full...)
His ex stirred up trouble, so I broke it off with him, but now I want him back!
Q. I really don't know whatto o right now;; il start from te beginning. About 2 months ago I started dating this guy that i liked for a while, he was evrythig that you could have asked for. But.. one of his ex girlfriends starte giing him the...
A. 2 May 2008: Ask him to get back with you. Tell him you broke up because his ex was a pain but you now realise that he is worth any amount of hassle.
If you do get back together then ask him to have words with his ex and tell her to leave both of you alone.
... (read in full...)
He acts like he's mad at me and like he's my boyfriend or something but he is being so confusing, should I ignore him for a few days?
Q. I have this friend and we have been friends since 8th grade.Now in 9th grade we got closer and Me him and my best friend we are all like best friends. But to often he gets mad at me for no apparant reason I ask him like I always does and it's ...
A. 2 May 2008: He obviously has some kind of issue and you've been really strong by not putting up with his blackmailing.
Ask him straight out when you are alone with him why he is being so horrible. He may have problems at home or something so give him a chance... (read in full...)
Why is my friend so rude to me now he has a new girlfriend?
Q. ok so this guy who i used to talk to has a new girlfriend. now hes being mean to me. and would argue with me and then try and make up. I dont even contact him...he contacts me...I am really tired of it...he is not the same person that i knew before...
A. 2 May 2008: Then stop answering his calls.
You don't have to be in his life. Next time he says something mean just tell him that you don't need him, that he's changed and that you don't want him talking to you any more.
Hang up and move on. It's his los... (read in full...)
I have become a cheater and I feel so guilty
Q. i have fell out with my bf of 3 years about 6 months ago and NEVER EVER cheated on him but since i fell out with him i hav slept with a few ppl and i have been with 2 different guys who have girlfriends and i know them!! i told no 1 but all my ...
A. 2 May 2008: You are on the re-bound and have obviously got some issues from the break up with your Bf.
Be single for a while and get your head sorted out. You didn't force these guys to cheat on their girlfriends, but as you say it was wrong.
You are regre... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex. The test was negative but could I be pregnant?
Q. Im under 16. i had unprotected sex around the 25th of March. its now may.. I Took the morning after pill the 2nd day after sex, i then had my period (In March) but in april i missed a period. Ive taken the pregnancy test and it said Not Pregnant. W...
A. 2 May 2008: Being stressed can delay your period.
It says you are 10 to 12 - if that is true then they may not be regular yet anyway.
You took the morning after pill in time and you have had a period since so you should be ok.
But if it doesn't com... (read in full...)
I get the feeling he's got past issues and comparing me to them.
Q. Six weeks ago started dating this guy. He's not very cuddly i guess you could say. I noticed he wanted to move very slowly. That's ok....always seemed to do the things he wanted to. One night he took my vehicle and drove his son and girlfriend home...
A. 1 May 2008: Hang on - he stole your car and tried to turn it round when you got upset about it?
Yeah this guy has issues. Get out of this relationship now, tell him to come back when he's no longer a childish thieving pig.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He has tried to get away from his girlfriend because of how he feels for me but it hasn't worked!! She doesn't even want to have sex with him!
Q. I have history with this guy! A couple of years ago I had a one night thing with this guy i worked with at the time. It went pear shaped because, he had a girlfriend and I got over him! A few years later there relationship is nearly over as h...
A. 1 May 2008: I can't split with my girlfriend because we have a holiday and a mortgage is the worsed excuse ever.
He could easily have split from her and let her take a friend on the holiday so she could get over him - but he wanted to go to America so didn'... (read in full...)
Am I a slut? I need to know if this is normal for teenagers to do.
Q. when i was 16 years old i dated my brothers friend,i dint like him that much cause he wasnt that gorgeous and i dint like his nature either..he wanted to have sex with me but i dint agree as i said i dint like him..i did not kiss or make out with ...
A. 1 May 2008: So pretty much, you've kissed 4 guys before you got to uni?
That is pretty much normal - in fact I would go further than that and say you are quite pure.
The average age in the UK to lose your virginity is 17. If you have boundaries becau... (read in full...)
I said awful things to my boyfriend. Should I just let it go even though I'm sorry?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend half a year ago and haven't spoken to him in a month. The thing is I said some awful things which I am ashamed of now. I had just found out that he had lied and cheated with lots of other girls the whole time we were...
A. 1 May 2008: You feel regret for it, although as you say he sounds like he deserved being called all kinds of things.
You have no need to appologise. I think it will be fairly obvious to him that you were hurt and lashing out.
The fact you are on here and ... (read in full...)
I found out my boyfriend joined a sex dating site. I don't know what to do.
Q. Hey all, where do i start, well im new to this but just so confused ,feel like i could talk to someone better, if they dont know me, than friends who give advice, not saying that we wont become friends on this site but you'll understand when i say ...
A. 1 May 2008: You need to confront him with this as soon as he gets home. You say he lives on base so I'm guessing you are set to become a military wife which is a hard life and demands 100% trust.
I can't tell him whether to forgive him or not, that is up to... (read in full...)
He is going to college and I am so scared I'll lose him
Q. Hey everyone, i need some advice, some comfort. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and eight months, he is talking about staying together forever. I am ok with him talking about it, but what bothers me is he is about to go away to college he...
A. 1 May 2008: You need to get your trust up if this is going to last. Long distance is possible but it's not nice.
You need to distract yourself if you are the one being left behind as it is hardest for you. Find a new hobby and keep yourself really busy.
... (read in full...)
I'm so worried he doesn't really love me now. Is it me?
Q. i am generally a very pesemistic person and ive been with my boyfriend now for a 19 months and i love him to pieces. he has watched me go through a really depressed anti social stage, hes always stayed around when i push him away when im stressed ...
A. 1 May 2008: He asked you if it was ok and you said yes?
The guy is not psychic. You could easily have said "well not really, you never spend time with me any more. Go out if you want to but I want more time with you."
Tell him how you feel, don't expe... (read in full...)
I'm scared I might be pregnant
Q. i take mycrogynon 30 contraceptive pill i had sex with my boyfriend he always wears a condom but it broke he didnt cum though there might of been some pre-cum there though will i be pregnant i am so scared i wolud like an answer sent to my email ...
A. 1 May 2008: As long as you have been taling the pill properly and have not been sick or had dihorrea (so the pill came out again) then you will not be pregnant.
Thousands of women take that pill and have sex and don't get pregnant. Hey, it even worked f... (read in full...)
Is my ex running a scam with my phone?
Q. I was right in the middle of something at work when my cell phone rang....looking at the caller ID it was my OWN cell phone number. I didn't pick it up because I thought my phone must be acting up. I put it in my drawer and went back to work. Then...
A. 1 May 2008: No idea, you'd have to talk to someone who knows about the technology.
Why not head to a phone repair shop and ask them. You could always buy a new sim or get your number changed without too much hassle.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I have a gut feeling my husband has cheated on me before, has he?
Q. I have this gut feeling that my husband cheated on me in the past. We were having problems, he walked out on our less than a year marriage, said he lost all interest in everything and need to get away for awhile. He moved in with friends of his ...
A. 30 April 2008: You have no proof that anything happened other than the fact you aren't able to spy on his computer or his phone.
Talk to him and tell him you have these feelings. How he reacts should tell you a lot. If he blows up and yells then you have to ... (read in full...)
I'm having huge problems with my cold and withdrawn father! Any advice?
Q. hey i dont live with my parents anymore but ive a huge prob with my father and its affected me my whole life. He always lived with us and hes not physically abusive or anything but he is the coldest most withdrawn person. He always expects my mother ...
A. 30 April 2008: This guy is horrible so move out and get yourself a life.
You can stay in contact with your mum but you don't really need to have any more contact with your dad once you are out from under his roof. I bet your brothers would happily move it with ... (read in full...)
I have sex five times a week but he has a girlfriend
Q. Hi I have had sex 5 times in a single week with a man who already has a girlfriend. The sex was suprisingly very good and he wants to see me again(obvisouly). I just wanted to have fun and all but now I am not sure whether it's okay to contin...
A. 30 April 2008: Imagine how hurt and betrayed his girlfriend will be when she finds out her boyfriend has been sleeping with some slapper.
Do you really want to be that slapper?
Is your self esteem so low that you are happy to be used by a guy who has no respe... (read in full...)
Sticky love triangle here...what to do?
Q. Hi... It all started when my mate and his girlfriend were going through problems. Me and his girlfriend had became good friends cause we spent alot of time going out and partying together with our other friends too. Then one thing led to another a...
A. 30 April 2008: I think it's perfectly fair to ask your girlfriend to spend less time with a guy who is trying to steal her away from you.
Talk to her and tell her above all that you love her and trust her. But you are worried about his behaviour and get hurt bec... (read in full...)
When do you give up? Am I over-reacting?
Q. Help! I take psych medications for depression and anxiety so I dont always know if I am overreacting to something or getting being too nice and always question myself. So I am please asking for advice I am so angry and hurt! My bf of almost three ...
A. 30 April 2008: You said:"I want to tell him that I am taking back the phone and lawnmower and breaking up unless he gets it together and doesnt contact her, gets her nudie pics out of the house, and NO drugs."
Then do it. This is the best thing to do anyway. ... (read in full...)
Off-white discharge for nearly a year, what could it be?
Q. Hi I'm 14 and I have been having a off white discharge for almost a year now I am a virgin I thought I might have caught a STD from a public bathroom but I heard that some women just have discharge I don't want to tell my mom becuse what if it is a ...
A. 30 April 2008: All women have some discharge, it's just your insides coming alive and keeping itself clean.
As long as there is not a huge amount of it and there are no other symptoms you should be normal. It could be something you grown out of in time.
... (read in full...)
I've been broken up with my ex but should I tell him what my real feelings are?
Q. I've been broken up with my ex for almost a year, we're still friends, but I guess not "truly friends." I still think about him almost everyday, and I feel regret. He's had a girlfriend for a while now, and I'm feel the need to tell him how I'm ...
A. 30 April 2008: If he has a new girlfriend and you turn up and tell him you love him he is going to cut contact with you. Imagine if you had a boyfriend who's ex turned up, you'd tell him to get rid of her.
You regret losing this guy but there is nothing you can ... (read in full...)
What can I do to stop these dreams about my ex and just move on?
Q. I broke up with my ex about 6 months ago. I've been having "nightmares" about him lately, despite not being n contact with him for 5 months. Summary: Together 3 years, 2 of which he was a homeless and jobless and various friends and family (incl...
A. 30 April 2008: If you are dreaming about your Ex and the past then it must be because you are dwelling on it and still too full of questions.
You need to accept that your relationship just wasn't right so it ended. Stop beating yourself up and wanting closure.... (read in full...)
I don't love my cheating hubby but my secret relationship with my ex is going nowhere!
Q. I was blissfully married until last year when i bumped into my ex boyfriend who i had left 20years ago when i went to study abroad. He was my first love and his also married but when we meet we get very intimate. He says we are only friends and that ...
A. 30 April 2008: Break it off with your Ex. He has made it clear he loves his wife.
You say you cannot forgive your hubby for cheating, that is fine but just think that you are doing exactly the same thing to your Ex's wife.
Get out of your marriage and awa... (read in full...)
How can I tackle my insecurities and get my bf back?
Q. Hi, I'm writing this following my bf splitting up with me last night. I know there are things about me I need to change, but not sure how. I also wonder if there's a way we can be together again - we've had some really good times and after over a...
A. 30 April 2008: Well you seem to know what is happening and when it is happening so you just need to work on stopping it.
As soon as you feel those feelings coming just take a breath and tell yourself not to be so silly.
Give yourself a kick up the arse and ... (read in full...)
I do not want to see him until my skin looks amazing - how to hide my blemishes?
Q. Hi.I need help with something.I like this guy but i don't want to see him unless my skin looks absolutely perfect.I just would like to know which is good make up to use to hide anything like blemishes. I have porcelain skin which is why i'm find...
A. 30 April 2008: If you wait till you feel perfect till you see him you'll be waiting forever. No one ever feels like they look perfect.
Just work on getting a really good cleansing routine morning and night and use moisturiser too.
They don't have to be expen... (read in full...)
He is the most popular among girls but only seems interested in studying! How can I talk to him?
Q. this question is for all the shy guys or people who know shy guys and also for guys who study all the time but dont perform well academically.. well what do these guys like in a girl..would they go for someoone as hot as a typical chee...
A. 30 April 2008: They want a girl who doesn't assume they are a nerd for studying.
You seem to think he is of a certain type, and will like a certain type of girl as a result.
Maybe you should start thinking of him as a person with thoughts and feelings of his ... (read in full...)
My ex broke up with me when I revealed my secret, I'm not handling it very well, help!
Q. i dont want to stop loving my ex. we broke up a month ago i really believed we were perfect together, best friends but i kept a secret from him for a year. last year his friend tried it on with me but i said no. i knew this would hurt my bf so i ...
A. 30 April 2008: I doubt he has just fallen out of love with you, but I can understand him being angry and hurt by this.
Write him a letter or an email or something explaining why you did it.
Tell him how sorry you are and how you want him to forgive you. Tel... (read in full...)
We've been together every day since we got into contact again, how will we cope with a long distance relation now? Any similar experiences you can share?
Q. Hi, I'm 18 and i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, iv known him since we were 3 years old, but lost touch when i moved away when we were 9, but 2 years ago we got into contact again, and we both were planning to go into the army but i ...
A. 30 April 2008: Long distance is very hard, especially when he is going in the army. But it is possible.
Basic training will be really hard as he won't see you for 3 months.
Just take it one day at a time and distract yourself so you are not thinking about h... (read in full...)
Urgent advice needed!I am pregnant and I'm going to dubai in 2 weeks.?
Q. I am pregnant and im going to dubai in 2 weeks.? since everything is set, me and my boyfriend will be having a civil wedding here in the phils. ive heard that it will be a big problem if a girl delivered a baby in dubai out of marriage, so we thoug...
A. 30 April 2008: Go to the government website and ask them. You need to find out the laws for sure before you go.
Travelling when you are changing names shouldn't be too much of a problem. Just keep your old name for a while to make things easier.
You sound lik... (read in full...)
She likes me!... But she lives far away. I don't want to hurt her. How can I spare her feelings?
Q. There's a girl who likes me. Problem is, she lives over 3 hours away. We met over facebook. Until she revealed how she felt, I thought it was just friendly banter. Although, there were a couple of occasions where we were clearly flirting. During...
A. 30 April 2008: Just be honest with her.
Tell her you really like her but you can't get involved because of the distance. Do it soon before anything serious happens between you.
Plus at uni you will have no money to visit her and no time as you will be so b... (read in full...)
I have a fear of rejection, so how do I make a move on some one I like?
Q. How do I make a move on a girl I like??? I have a fear of rejection. In the past few months, some mutual female friends have told me there is a girl who fights over me with another girl. They've also tried to get me to go to some sort of formal w...
A. 30 April 2008: Take a deep breath, walk over to her and ask her if she wants to go on a date with you.
Suggest the cinema and a film you want to see.
It doesn't sound like she would say no so you just have to take the risk.
The cinema is a good first d... (read in full...)
Good break up tips? How do I say goodbye?
Q. 8 months ago i met Shawn when i began a new job where he worked. things went pretty fast and we began to date 2 mths later. along the line, we were convinced we shld get married. but lately there've been so many issues. we had an issue last wk when ...
A. 30 April 2008: Next time he blows up about something or says something nasty or hurtful to you just tell him that you don't think you want to be with someone who treats you that way and walk away.
Of course you will have to follow this up with a meeting to end i... (read in full...)
I know it's weird, but I am in love with a stranger!
Q. This may sound weird, but I don't know of any other way to describe it other than the fact that I'm in love with a man I've never met. The other problem is that he's much older than me. I'm 17, but I'll be 18 the next time I see him, which if I'm ...
A. 30 April 2008: Eye contact means everything or nothing. It could be that he is looking at you because he's checking you out. It could be that he's gazing at a bird over your head and you are reading it wrong.
It could be that you are staring at him so he is lo... (read in full...)
Should I tolerate his porn watching based on the fact it is harmless visual pleasure compared to actual cheating? Your thoughts?
Q. Girls, here's one for you, or maybe I should be asking the boys, cus maybe they just might understand better. Anyway this is it. My husband has a thing for porn. At first I wasn't happy about it because it was all done in secret, and when I trie...
A. 29 April 2008: How did you not realise his views on this before you got married?
I don't care if they dance naked down the street and have sex with trees "where he comes from". That is not an excuse.
It's just like girls who put up with their husbands h... (read in full...)
I know it's weird, but I am in love with a stranger!
Q. This may sound weird, but I don't know of any other way to describe it other than the fact that I'm in love with a man I've never met. The other problem is that he's much older than me. I'm 17, but I'll be 18 the next time I see him, which if I'm ...
A. 29 April 2008: Don't talk to him. You've made him into your perfect man in your head. If you meet him you'll find out he's nothing like you imagine and be really let down.
He's an actor and loves the stage and attention. Do you think you are the only pretty g... (read in full...)
He is unappreciative and seems to call only when he needs me - why do I feel I can be so easily swayed by him?
Q. Ughhh ok I am so frustrated... it honestly is an emotional roller coaster with this guy.. I talked about him earlier and I honestly thought it would be over with him- what with him not calling and all- so last night I get a call from him saying he's ...
A. 29 April 2008: Because you are an idiot!
What did you expect to happen? This guy rings you because he knows you are too soft and will come running to him.
Don't.
You've been foolish and you've paid the price. Learn from this and don't do it again. If he... (read in full...)
I'm so worried he doesn't really love me now. Is it me?
Q. i am generally a very pesemistic person and ive been with my boyfriend now for a 19 months and i love him to pieces. he has watched me go through a really depressed anti social stage, hes always stayed around when i push him away when im stressed ...
A. 29 April 2008: Could it be that when you were going through your down stage he was there for you so much, that now you are happy and in uni and sorted out he feels he can relax and see his friends?
Leave him to it and don't worry about him. Besides you are at u... (read in full...)
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