My periods were like clockwork, now this bleeding! What could it be?
Q. Im worried im having a miscarriage. My last period was on 15 May. I had unprotected sex on 27 May and I noticed very slight spotting of blood afterwards. Then last week I noticed my breasts had become very sore and on thursday I noticed blood in my ...
A. 9 June 2008: You need to seek medical help.
Call NHS direct on 0845 4567, they will be able to tell you if you need to go to A&E or not.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
What is going on with my boyfriend?
Q. i dont know what to do i have been with this guy for 8 months and he seems to have less and less time for me as the relationsip goes on?? he says he is bussy in all because he works, skate boards and is tying to open hit own company? he will n...
A. 9 June 2008: A lot of the things you describe as his faults can actually be explained away.
His no girls at home rule is fair enough, and his busy schedule can explain the rest. I don't think he is intentionally doing things wrong.
However, it's not much of... (read in full...)
Is this love or just a crush?
Q. I love this girl so much!!!!!! Ive had a crush on her for over a year now, and i think its real love. Im pretty sure she like me too cuz i always catch her starring at me and turns away quickly when i catch her with a smile on her face. I was ...
A. 9 June 2008: Your age points to a crush, or it maybe infatuation.
In my view you can only be in Love with someone you know, and since you haven't really even spoken to this girl, you are more infatuated with what you think she is like.
Try talking to her b... (read in full...)
Should I tell him about the abuse or not??? Please help!
Q. me and my bf have been going out for 9 months were both 17 and boths virgins! but when i was like 7 or 8 i was sexually abused like i was never made have sex just made do other things with this guy who was 20ish i never ever told anybody and im over ...
A. 9 June 2008: I wouldn't tell him unless you have a serious reason to.
Although 9 months is a pretty long time and you have nothing to be ashamed about what happened, but you have to consider what he might do if this relationship ended. What damage would it... (read in full...)
I don't want to get pregnant but don't understand how it works...
Q. i have three kind of out there questions. first can you get pregnet from swalling a guys sperm? and: if your taking birth control and your off of your period but still on that certain color can you get pregent? and: if you can if you conti...
A. 8 June 2008: Sweetie you need to find a book or a teacher who can explain the facts of life to you as you have obviously never had sex education and that is very dangerous.
Why not go back the place where you got your birth control from and get them to expla... (read in full...)
My boyfriend broke up with me because of his friends. It's the third time. Should I take him back?
Q. Well my boyfriend broke up with me cause he gave up loving me cause of his friends. He broke up this past thursday over the phone! He recently texted me and said he is getting strong feelings for me and he is going to try and see if he can make up ...
A. 8 June 2008: If he's that stupid and immature that he would risk losing the girl he loved because of his friends... then no I would not take him back.
If you do then he will do exactly the same thing again because he will know he can dump you, mess you abou... (read in full...)
Did not accept to accompany him to another state for his new job - so he thought I was breaking! He refuses to talk and I'm devastated!
Q. I've been seriously dating my boyfriend for 2.5 years. He got a job offer out of state and originally when he asked me to go---I said no. I thought it best for him to venture out first and make sure he really likes it there. I needed some time to ...
A. 7 June 2008: This just sounds like massive miscomunication.
Have you actually said to him that you don't want to break up with him, that you want to be with him?
I can completely understand how he felt rejected when you told him not to consider you as ... (read in full...)
Missing Tampon??
Q. hi, pretty embarassing question here. I'm not sure whether ot not I have a tampon inside of me still or not. Yesterday, I used one and I'm not sure if I took it out or not. I've looked with the use of a mirror and cant seem to see anything...
A. 7 June 2008: The A and E department have this happen ALL the time. They'll get a doctor to have a poke around and he / she can tell you yes or no.
If you go down there and say you want to see a woman doctor then they may make you wait a bit longer but you shou... (read in full...)
I cant cope anymore with my husbands long absences throughout our marriage
Q. What do you think,? I dont have friends as such, as my partner gave me that a girl could ever need and in return all his needs were met too, both real happy,for a good eight years great feeling. Until children and where we lived and what we earned ...
A. 7 June 2008: Why on earth didn't you move to either where he worked, or where you have family and friends?
Well that would be my advice, it's not too late, move house to where you either have him, or have a social circle for support.
If you really can't mov... (read in full...)
Is she being too friendly?
Q. Is she being more than friendly? My sister-in-law always hugs me whenever she greets me. While this is common among our family and close friends she seems to press tighter, and hold for a little longer than the other women do. While one of m...
A. 7 June 2008: Most other women aren't your sister in law so it's no wonder they don't give you as big a hug as this girl.
I think you are just reading too much into this.
She's hardly going to make a move on her husband's sister as that would mess up he... (read in full...)
What sort of game is he playing with my head?
Q. how can your fiance use you,your son,my children and my brothers and sisters as a weapon to gain access to bring his daughter to this country,and allow his ex wife to abuse me with voicemail messages and tells me she has got all my familys telephone ...
A. 7 June 2008: If he won't tell his ex that he doesn't want to be with her, then he probably still does.
He's playing both of you off to get what he wants. Tell him to sort his ex wife out or:
a) you are leaving him and
b) getting legal help to stop her maki... (read in full...)
Any help?-I am losing hope of finding true love
Q. I am losing hope of finding true love. I moved to a new city for a job about one and a half years ago and my dating life died the day I moved. I have a female friend that tells me that I am attractive, fun, and a great catch, but if that is so ...
A. 7 June 2008: Ask your female friend for more specific advice. Tell her exactly how it is that you've been approaching girls and see if she can figure out what you are doing wrong.
Get her to be your dating coach!
You could also see if there are any clubs or... (read in full...)
I fancy a close friend - should I tell her?
Q. I get on really well with a friend from work, she is beautiful, intelligent and very funny, I can talk to her about things that I wouldn't talk to most people about but I don't know if I should tell her how much I like her and risk ruining our ...
A. 7 June 2008: Ok, well definitely don't do anything until she leave the job she is in at the moment.
Can you imagine the worst case scenario - you tell her and she says she only likes you as a friend and then her boyfriend starts making her more miserabl... (read in full...)
Is it selfish of me to try to get him to change his job?
Q. hi. my boyfriend works offshore 5 weeks on and 5 weeks off.I moved in with him last year away from my parent.i rearly see them.Im finding it more difficult to deal with every time he leaves.i cry every day and just sleep all day to pass the time.I j...
A. 6 June 2008: If he worked in this job when you met him then you really knew what you were signing up for, so it would be a bit wrong to try and make him change his job. Especially if he likes it or the money is good. Well paid jobs are hard to come by these ... (read in full...)
Since about christmas every now and then I've got these strange hallucinations/dreams!!
Q. Hello this isnt a relationship question but i use this site so somebody may be able to help! not been able to find anything on the internet about it. Basicly since about christmas every now and then ive got these strange hallucinations/dreams, they ...
A. 6 June 2008: If you are asleep when you are having them then there is nothing wrong. Try cutting down on nicotine, sugar, cheese, any strange foods before you go to bed as these can have an effect.
If you are awake and having them then you might want to see a... (read in full...)
We were supposed to go out on the weekend but now he says he is going to see his friends... any advice!?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out now for 9 months. We have recently had 'relatioship' problems and he said i could see him this weekend but insted he has decided to go out with his friends, where i have only seen him once this week. He has ...
A. 6 June 2008: Well he has no reason to change as you are his girl and will put up with it.
You have to make him see that you will not be taken for granted.
Tell him there are plenty of men out there who would love the chance to spend time with you, so if ... (read in full...)
There are some things not letting me and my boyfriend get close, please help!
Q. Hi, I love my bf very much and he loves me too its just a couple of things keep us from getting really close to each other. Number one) my parents are extreamly over protective of me. they hardly let me go out to the shops by myself never min...
A. 6 June 2008: I can understand why your parents are over protective of you, but also understand how horrible it is to be trapped inside the house all the time.
At school, you'll just have to be patient, people will get used to the fact you are going out even... (read in full...)
When he leaves to go to see his adult children on sunday afternoons and I am left at his house because I am not allowed to go with him, what should I do?
Q. how do you stay in a 3 and one half year relationship with a man that allows his adult children to control him.he will not even get engaged much less get married because they object. he see his kids and their spouses by his self. i am not allowed ...
A. 4 June 2008: Well his kids are not going to change because they don't have to. He is not going to change because he's scared to upset his kids (Possibly guilt for screwing them up in the first place.) and he knows you will be there when he gets home.
So yo... (read in full...)
He is leaving and doesn't want me to go!!
Q. Been in a 2.5 year relationship. Told him back in December that we needed to take some space as he had a job offer in another state and I wanted him to make a clear, honest decision without me being a factor. I told him that I wanted the best for ...
A. 4 June 2008: Have you thought that he's going to go over there and needs space to think about his career?
If you moved in and set up home and got a new job and new friends and you spent tonnes of cash on a new place and doing it up.... and then after 3 months... (read in full...)
I want him to prove to me that his worth figthing for but I do not think he gets it...what should I do with him?
Q. My ex and I broke up like 4 months ago but we never really broke it off for good. I started to feel like it was time to end it for good about a month ago and i stopped answering his phones calls. Today, on his birthday he called on a restricted ...
A. 4 June 2008: If after a month of not speaking to him, he still hasn't put any effort in, then I think it's safe to say that he's happy being single.
I think you should think of yourself as single too and try to move on.
If he sees you with other guys then ... (read in full...)
Can you get an STD from sperm on skin?
Q. My best friend had sex with her boyfriend a recently. Not to sound gross but he took off his condom at the last second and his sperm went all over her back. Is there any risk of STD just by it being on bare skin? She freaked out but I told her she ...
A. 3 June 2008: No I don't think you can get as STD from it. Otherwise hand jobs would be really dangerous.
However, how dare he take off his condom and do that to her without asking? If he'd squirted on her private parts then she could have got pregnant or an ST... (read in full...)
A long and complicated breakup.. desperately need advice and support please
Q. being dumped is hard. here goes :( so me and my (ex) bf had been on a rocky road for a long time, ever since i went off to college and we tried the long distance thing. after many arguments, many about him smoking - i have a problem with thi...
A. 3 June 2008: I'm going to be harsh but I think you need a reality check.
You have basically just written "desperate doormat" on your face. It's no wonder he doesn't respect you.
He has no problem lying to you, he doesn't want to be with you, he's called... (read in full...)
I have a problem with my fiancee, please help!
Q. ok i've been engaged to this guy for a year and a half and we have been living together for 4 months and he hangs out way more with his friends then with me...do i have a right to be upset?...
A. 3 June 2008: You don't need to have rights to feel anything.
You are upset. That should be enough for a man who supposedly wants to dedicate his life to making you happy.
Sit him down and ask him if he is unhappy with the relationship since he "obviously do... (read in full...)
Will his mother ever accept me as a person? It would be better to be greeted with hug and smile, rather than 'ugh!'
Q. I am a 24 asian woman and dating a european man for over 5 years now. But, through this 5 years, I have had a really hard time talking to his mother. And being around her makes me uncomfortable. Everytime we stopped by at her house, I rather stay in ...
A. 3 June 2008: I may not just be about race... it may just be that no woman will EVER be good enough for her perfect little boy.
But you have to rise above and show her you won't be put off by her prejudices. Don't stay in the car when you go round. She'll j... (read in full...)
How often do people see or contact their boyfriends and girlfriends each week on average?
Q. I'm just curious as to how often people see their bfs/gfs each week on average? And on the days that you do not see your bf/gf do you always contact them by phone/email/text message to see how they are going? Thanks for the replies in advance :...
A. 3 June 2008: There is no "normal amout" every couple is different. Some can't be apart for more than an hour, some are more independent and so don't need constant reassurance.
Some people get offended if the other stays out of contact for a day, some would fe... (read in full...)
Why does he want to be in a relationship without the 'boyfriend' or 'girlfriend' title?
Q. Why does this guy im talking to want to be in a relationship without the girlfriend?boyfriend title? He says its just public, but if he did that with his Ex"s why not me?...
A. 3 June 2008: Because he just want casual sex with out commitment and without putting any effort.
It's probably nothing personal, he may just have been messed up by his Ex.
For your own sanity, please tell him that you like him but want an boyfriend and th... (read in full...)
Very confused, what changed so fast for her? Does this guy sound controlling?
Q. Long story short. Went out with a girl for over a year. We broke up about 3 months ago because she thought she was putting more effort into us than I was. We talked and emailed after the breakup and went out a few times and seemed like we are ...
A. 2 June 2008: He may be controlling, he may just have heard that you are an ex who hurt his girl and then rang her up trying to steal her away.
He has a right to be pissed off.
As for her. She put the effort in, she cared about you and then as soon as she's... (read in full...)
How do I dump my boyfriend? He's got a very troubled past and I know he's not bluffing.
Q. How can I dump my bf? I've tried many times before and he just says no. What am I supposed to say to that!? The one time he did actually accept it was over (I had threatened an injunction to ban him from the house) he got so upset he said he was ...
A. 2 June 2008: Emivia is right.
You just need to treat him a bit like a child.
Just tell him facts, something he can't say No to. Tell him you don't love him and that you are no longer his girlfriend.
If he says no, just tell him he doesn't have a choice... (read in full...)
I didn't tell the clinic the truth when I got the injection today. Will this do something to me?
Q. Hey... i got the injection today your suppose to get it when your on your period but i wasnt they asked me if id had sex since my period (i have) but i said no. she said she could give me it aslong as i hadnt had sex since my period. and she ...
A. 2 June 2008: Why would you lie? That's so stupid.
It's probably both to make sure you aren't pregnant and also so that your cycle is in a certain phase.
Your hormones are going to be messed up for a week or so now so expect cramps and PMT and headaches et... (read in full...)
My sister has become a spoilt brat, and I can't cope with her anymore!!!!
Q. I find my sister quite disturbing, arrogant and selfish, and I am not quite sure what I should do about it. I feel guilty for thinking bad things about her. It is making my life intolerable to the point that I do not want to be around her anymore. ...
A. 2 June 2008: Why are you running round after her then? No wonder she carries on when you keep covering for her.
Let her leave washing for your mum, and make constant demands, start doing a cross word when ever she starts going on about her self as she's ob... (read in full...)
I have total proof he is going out with someone else, but he still won't admit it to me! What do I do?
Q. Hey, I was going out with this boy for about a month but ended it because I didnt see him enough. I really miss him and he told me he misses me too, so we've decided to try again. However he is a player, and I know he is. I've seen mes...
A. 2 June 2008: You don't need him admit it to know he's guilty. There are plenty of murderers in prison due to overwhelming proof, who still say they are innocent.
You can stay with him and be a door mat and get hurt and damaged hoping he will change... Or you c... (read in full...)
My best friend doesn't like gay or bi people!
Q. One of my best friends is a great friend, but she discriminates against gay and bi people. Our other friend says she might be bi and when my best friend found out,she says, "Eww,that's nasty. Let's not hang around her". Best friend knows, but still ...
A. 2 June 2008: You don't need to cut her out of your life, but just make it clear that you think she's a bit backwards when she says something prejudiced.
Make fun of her if she does it, make her out to be a religious nut job or be sarcastic and say "Ooooh, ... (read in full...)
This girl wants me to come over, is that slutty?
Q. I just recently started talking to this girl, we havnt hung out yet but she has already asked me to come over to her house, is that somewhat of a slutty thing to do? I really would like her to be my GF but it seems shes looking just for sex. Btw im ...
A. 2 June 2008: If she made it clear that she wanted you to come over to her house to have sex with her then maybe it is a bit "slutty."
But it's the 21st century. Women are allowed to want sex without relationships now.
Be flattered, she thinks you are c... (read in full...)
I've been pulled away from my children and I'm stressed out!
Q. hi cupid i have been with my boyfriend for about a year a half and its all good but i lost my kids a year ago to there dad and i miss them very much and i have not seen them from when they left and do not know what to do i love my boyfriend but miss ...
A. 2 June 2008: Threaten him with family court. It might scare him into talking to you and sorting it out. And if it doesn't then you may have to get someone to enforce your legal visiting rights.
He can't just keep them from you forever. Talk to the citizen'... (read in full...)
He lies to me all the time!
Q. i feel extremely angry towards my bf. my friends invited me on a holiday with them to malia a few months ago, and i had to turn it down because he said he would finish with me if i went. last week he went missing for 5 days, automatically i thought ...
A. 1 June 2008: Trying to get revenge is not a healthy way to deal with this. It'll never end if you start it.
Why not just tell him that if he ever tries to threaten you with breaking up because he doesn't want you to go on holiday or whatever, then you won't pi... (read in full...)
I've been pulled away from my children and I'm stressed out!
Q. hi cupid i have been with my boyfriend for about a year a half and its all good but i lost my kids a year ago to there dad and i miss them very much and i have not seen them from when they left and do not know what to do i love my boyfriend but miss ...
A. 1 June 2008: You make it sound like your boyfriend is the reason your kids got taken away.
If that is right then I would leave him and go back to be single and seeing your kids again. There must be some reason for him to be so unsuitable that your kids had... (read in full...)
What should I do about my hair around my nipples?
Q. what should i do about my hair around my nipples? i'm a girl, and started plucking them about a year ago, however this has resulted in getting ingrowing hairs and now even some scars/marks on my skin from where i broken the skin trying to get them ...
A. 1 June 2008: The best advice is just to leave the hairs where they are. Most women have some hairs round there. It's normal.
If you do decide you HAVE to get rid of them, why not try using hair removing creams? Like Imac. Find a really gentle one though a... (read in full...)
I had sex with the guy I met on line, but he does not know I am a minor as I lied about my real age!
Q. Right this may sound really stupid, and anyone who reads this is going to think I have a very low self estime and no confidence at all. But I used to go on chat rooms quite often, when I was bored or had no one to talk to on msn, and just for fun I ...
A. 1 June 2008: You may be falling for him but at the moment you have made him responsible for a serious crime. Jen86 is wrong, the police will accuse him of grooming you over the internet and sexually assaulting you.
If he finds out what you did then he will fre... (read in full...)
Making myself sick by thinking I'm gay because I get aroused by girls sometimes
Q. Anyone out there who is female and turned on by females in the general public...lately ive been getting turned on by femininity but love my bf and love thinking of him cuz thats REAL to me...my mind is diverging though and i wanna know if you do ...
A. 1 June 2008: You've stopped seeing guys other than boyfriend as attractive because you love him. You only have eyes for him.
And then girls are pretty. They are. It's a fact. Plus the fact we are bombarded with images of sexy and quite often naked girls in... (read in full...)
Is it normal for me to feel this angry and jealous about othe rpeoples success?
Q. Hi,im hoping to get some advice on a situation. My cousin who is younger and more attractive than myself was spotted by a modelling agency (its not a bogus thing or anything she has had a few jobs)now she will be doing a catwalk for top designer...
A. 1 June 2008: Yes it's perfectly normal, but you need to stop taking it out on your boyfriend.
Every woman secretly dreams that someone will come and tell them they are amazingly beautiful and pay them to wander up and down a catwalk all day.
But honestly,... (read in full...)
My 40 y-o bf wants me to move in with him, I'm 16 and scared my mum will cut me off if I do
Q. I've fallen in love with a 40 year old man. He's everything to me and makes me happier than i ever been. I'm only 16, so there is a 24 year age gap. My mum hates him and is making life at home hell. All i want to do is move out, to live with this ...
A. 1 June 2008: You mum is handling this very badly, but I am sure you can understand why she is over-reacting this much.
Just try and talk to her and reassure her that you aren't going to run off with him, that you are not having sex, and that you want to show ... (read in full...)
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