Should I meet this bi older girl?
Q. i am a girl aged 19 and recently i met this girl through a site.she is 25 years old..and we talk a lot on msn..she has a boyfriend with whom she has a live in relationship but she is bisexual..we talk to each other a lot and now she wants to meet ...
A. 15 June 2008: Well you don't have to tell them she's a girl, or you could just say you are meeting as friends, but make sure you have someone looking out for you. Better safe than sorry!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Should I meet this bi older girl?
Q. i am a girl aged 19 and recently i met this girl through a site.she is 25 years old..and we talk a lot on msn..she has a boyfriend with whom she has a live in relationship but she is bisexual..we talk to each other a lot and now she wants to meet ...
A. 15 June 2008: Well follow the usual rules of meeting internet people. Do it in a public place and tell friends or someone where you are going and tell them you will text them every now and then to show you are not kidnapped / murdered.
You aren't a little g... (read in full...)
I still want my ex girlfriend!
Q. Me and my gf split up 4 months ago and the only contact we have had is courts because we have a son. I still think she looks really beautifull and love her so much . We have recently started talking after the courts and been phoning each other. ...
A. 15 June 2008: Well you could try and get her back.
Why did you split up? What ever it was, fix it and show her you want to try again. Help with the kid, do housework, get a good job, help her find childcare so she can get a good job too.
Find out her ... (read in full...)
How can I help my girlfriend?
Q. I have a gf who has alot of emotional issues, and hinderances, and would like to ask your advice on how to better understand and communicate with her. Are there definity things that I can do or is this just going to be a long hard hopeless ...
A. 15 June 2008: You aren't her counsellor, you can't fix her.
All you can do is carry on as you are and treat her as a normal 24 yearold girlfriend.
If you treat someone as something then they will become that thing. It's called self fulfilling proph... (read in full...)
I am all confused about the way he feels about me!!
Q. Last week I started talkin to this guy and we were really getting on well and i asked him if he was single and he said "yeh but im not really looking because ive just come out of a relationship" which was understandable and more or less the same as ...
A. 15 June 2008: It seems that yes he does like you, perhaps as a good friend, perhaps as more.
However, if he is just out of a relationship then you DO NOT want to be his rebound girl.
Be his friend, get to know him, flirt and look gorgeous for him, let him... (read in full...)
Should I talk to him even though he has a girlfriend?
Q. i like this boy but I dont know if he likes me. He seems nice. He knows a lot of my friends and thats how I know him. A few months we chatted on msn and we hit off well. We met and then flirted and spoke for about a month. But he has a girlfrei...
A. 15 June 2008: Yes it would be wrong to try and steal him away from his girlfriend.
This is the time of life where you figure out what kind of woman you want to be.
You can go around playing games and hurting people and trying to ruin people's relatio... (read in full...)
Should I dump him?
Q. I know this question is going to sound really small compared to the others i've read, but... I'm in a realtionship, this guy called Bob ;) We just recently got back together, after I heard some rumour about him, which turned out to be untrue....
A. 15 June 2008: Unfortunately when someone is in love with you then you don't get the choice of being friends again.
You can either lead him on to keep him in your life, or you can do the right thing and tell him you don't love him and you don't want him to be hu... (read in full...)
Should I try to get close to her by donating to her sister's charity?
Q. Ok, so I really like this girl: younger, still in college (I'm 23, one year out of school). We dated long distance for a couple months before she broke it off before coming home for the summer. I was affected by this more than I thought I would ...
A. 15 June 2008: I think "I'd like to buy a dinner date with Ann" sounds a little bit sleazy. Just my personal opinion but there you go.
I would just approach this girl and ask her about the charity. Ask her if she ever takes part in any fundraising events? ... (read in full...)
Hurt because he wanted me to get STI checked and use condoms!
Q. My boyfriend have had sex before but he always wants to wear a condom when I give him head. I like doing it but even the flavored condoms taste sooo weird to me. I wish he would just take it off and relax! We've both been tested for STDs and ...
A. 15 June 2008: He's doing what all the advice tells you to do. It was nothing personal, it just means that when you have sex you can just use the pill and you can both enjoy it more.
As for the condom while giving blow jobs thing.... have you consider... (read in full...)
Did I loose my virginity or am I just on my period???
Q. ok this is how it went down...last night my boyfriend tried to finger me but it hurted so i told him to stop, so we tried again but it still hurted...so we stopped trying...he told me my hole was too tight and it was hard to go in...i went to the ...
A. 15 June 2008: I very much doubt you lost your virginity as you didn't have sex.
It's most likely that you are on your period, most girls only get the tiniest spot of blood from their hymen.
It may also have hurt when you went to the loo because he was p... (read in full...)
In love with a guy but his problems are too much...
Q. I have a problem, I'm very much in love with my boyfriend who I've been dating for a while. He told me that he had PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) after an accident in which his close friend died. He keeps himself to himself in his own spac...
A. 15 June 2008: Sometimes you can go in and help a person and bring them out of themselves. Sometimes they are just too damaged for one girl to be able to handle.
If you can get him out of the house as much as possible and try and remind him that life is worth li... (read in full...)
Teen love bite drama!
Q. I wanted to know if your boyfriend pop up with a hickey on his neck n first he tell you its a burn then he tell you what really happen he told me that his homegirl dared him to let her give him a hicky? What should I do?...
A. 15 June 2008: He's a teenage boy so it could go either way. He could have got it as a dare to impress his friends without considering you....
Or
He could have got it from some girl and cheated without considering you.
Either way he's a little boy and is... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex. Help please!
Q. Hi, my girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with me at the moment. Its been since last sunday that we had sex. I am really frustrated, but trying not to let it show. I asked her what was wrong and she claims that she has no sex drive. 2 days ag...
A. 15 June 2008: So.... It's been a week where she doesn't want sex and has been snappy and miserable.
You might want to get you mum to explain it to you in details but women have these things called periods and they can cause the symptoms you describe.
For god... (read in full...)
How can I get the help I need without anybody finding out?
Q. I've tried to battle through symptoms I see as "depression" for years now, but I never seem to actually get anywhere. I'm not the typical type of depressed teen you see, as I always try to keep a brave face and a low profle just so nobody actually ...
A. 15 June 2008: You sound a lot like me at your age. Long baggy school tops are such a blessing aren't they? I used to use them like an invisibility cloak and just disappear into a corner somewhere.
The first thing you need to know is that life after school g... (read in full...)
How can I get my face to look thinner?
Q. how can i lose weight on my face?I notice that when i exercise i loose weight everywhere but from my face.Any advice?Or are there any make-up tricks i can use for a slimmer face??...
A. 14 June 2008: I think the make up tricks below are your best bet but you could also try ex foliating your face with a good scrub to get the blood flowing to the right areas.
You could also try exercising the muscles in your face by doing "ooh" and "ahh" fa... (read in full...)
Gaining weight on my face and arms. Could I see a difference in just one day?
Q. Recently i've noticed that i gain some weight on my body.i notice the weight gain more on my face, and arms.Is it possible for me to drop 5 pounds in one day? I plan to excercise for almost the whole entire day tommorow before father's day on ...
A. 14 June 2008: The only way to loose 5 pounds in one day is either to get some kind of tropical disease which gives you vomiting and diahorrea and you'll loose all your water and muscles.... or the other option is to chop off one of your legs.
If you want to ... (read in full...)
I love him, but do his flaws make me want to leave him?
Q. I have been dating a guy for over 3 1/2 years. I love him so much, but there are quite a few things that I'm not ok with. I need to know if I should just ignore his "flaws" and be ok with them because it's normal, or should I move on because he's ...
A. 14 June 2008: It says you are 22 to 25. I assume he is he same but am a bit confused because you seem to be describing him as an 18 year old.
From what you've told me, the guy is an immature idiot - but then hey! Why on earth shouldn't he be? He has no reason t... (read in full...)
So just wondering is it just that he's choosing to stay single or has he GOT to?
Q. hi erm just wondering when christains have done that SRT program thing to say they won't have sex before marriage does that mean they have to stay single to o can they still have a bf/gf? The reason i'm asking is because the lad i like is a christ...
A. 12 June 2008: Well in order to get someone to marry you I think you have to get them to be your girlfriend first. Unless you order a Russian bride off the internet.
He's probably just choosing not to have a girlfriend because he's a 17 year old boy and if he st... (read in full...)
How do I lose weight in my gut without losing my breast size?
Q. i have a pretty weird question....how can i lose my gut without losing my breast.is there a way because im really scared to lose them i only want to lose my gut nothing else. thanks....
A. 12 June 2008: Baby Duck is right, there is nothing garunteed but you could do sit ups and this will tone up the right area at least.
Smaller boobs aren't a huge issue and being fit and toned it far more important.
Good Luck!!... (read in full...)
When I have sex, I don't really find it enjoyable. What's wrong with me?
Q. When I have sex, I don't really find it enjoyable. It doesn't give me pleasure at all, really. Also, when my boyfriend gives me oral, I don't find that enjoyable. I just find it uncomfortable. I actually get more pleasure from my boyfriend fingering ...
A. 12 June 2008: I'd say you are pretty normal.
Fingering is the most direct way for a man to stimulate you. Oral sex can be pretty embarrassing so that can stop you getting turned up mentally. Sex can also bypass the clitoris so you might not be feeling much fro... (read in full...)
Why did he come to see me in the first place and why did he sleep in my bed if he didn't want anything?
Q. Hi, i have quite a big problem..and I know part of it is me. Anyway, 8 years ago I was completely besotted with a guy and I lost my virginity to him although he never wanted a relationship with me. After this we stayed friends while I was in t...
A. 12 June 2008: He probably came to see you because you are friends and you go and see people you know when you are near by.
You have been very pushy with all your texts and emails. It's no wonder he's a bit worried about sleeping with you. If you had been chi... (read in full...)
I am having problems in my long term relationship!! Please help!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. Im only 19. Its rlly been an on and off kind of relationship and when I was younger I did cheat on himj with others. He knows this and has forgiven me years ago. The past 2 years we have been very ...
A. 12 June 2008: No one can tell you if you are in love with him, but you seem to have jumped on this feeling as an excuse to break up.
You don't say, "if I carry on feeling like this I am going to have to talk to him about it and try and have a serious think or... (read in full...)
I feel like I am loosing a battle... Any tips on post-break up depression?
Q. I've been breaking up/trying to make up with my boyfriend for the past 2 months. I love him very much and I think that he loves but he's just so confused with things, I'm not sure he wants anything to do with me right now. After fighting it for ...
A. 12 June 2008: Keep doing what you are doing - force yourself to do those good things like eating and talking to people.
You will come through this and you are obvoiusly mentally quite strong because you can spot the temptations and pit falls and are avoiding... (read in full...)
Hots for my sister in law!
Q. My wife and I see quite a lot of her married sister who likes to talk dirty in our presence. She asks her sister about intimate details of our sex lives. She was a naughty girl when she was single, I'm told, who encouraged her sibling to have ...
A. 12 June 2008: Talk to your wife and get her to have a quiet word with her sister along the lines of "stay away from my husband"
It's quite normal for sisters to try and compete with eachother and she's obviously trying to prove she could steal you away if she w... (read in full...)
I will be unable to see my teacher again as I am leaving school. I'm scared I will relapse into depression!
Q. I developed extremely strong feelings for an attractive male teacher about 18 months ago. His personality is simply 'perfect'. He's such an amazing person! In the course of this time, i've gone through depression (He had a baby boy last year an...
A. 12 June 2008: You need to find yourself something fabulous and exciting to do over the summer. Can you line yourself up a job or a work experience placement somewhere cool so you can focus on what career you want?
You could set up a jewellery making business... (read in full...)
Am I going in the right direction if I want to lose weight?
Q. i have a health problem as told from other people and i know this myself. i am quite over weight lets say around 45 pounds overweight and it's been 4 years since i was in great shape. now i am not in great shape. i've been thinking about my weight ...
A. 12 June 2008: I think the advice below is really great so I will just add to it a bit and say:
Don't cut down your breakfast size, have a big breakfast but make sure it is something like porridge or a healthy breakfast cereal with semi skimmed / skimmed ... (read in full...)
When is the right time to give up on a long term relationship?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months today. He is the first person I have ever had a long term relationship with and my first love. I used to think we would get married and live happily ever after. But I have been so unhappy on and off (maybe ...
A. 12 June 2008: So what is there in this relationship for you? He won't tell you he loves you, he's a controlling freak (seriously, normal men do not get annoyed if you wear your hair in the way you want or pick a perfume yourself rather than letting them do it.) ... (read in full...)
Why if hes married why does he consider me as his girlfriend?
Q. ok i have a problum im 18 n im seeing a guy thats 32.. i consider him a booty call but he told me he considers me as his girlfriend i am trying to stop feelings for him but when he told me that i gave in..well the problum i have is that hes ...
A. 12 June 2008: If he's willing to shag about behind his wife's back how do you know he's not got other girlfriends across town.
He's calling you his girlfriend because he knows that will mean you keep having sex with him and don't tell his wife.
He's playing ... (read in full...)
How can I handle seeing my boyfriend with such a controlling mom?
Q. Hey I need help. My mom is constantly blackmailing me about my bf and won't let me see him very often. She doesn't really like him and hasn't given him a chance. His parents arnt being very nice either. But he's a really sweet guy. We've only met ...
A. 12 June 2008: I have to agree with neonpink a bit here.
You need to meet someone more than once before they are your boyfriend, let alone to decide to move in together, especially when he's too scared to even drive a car. Moving in carries some serious ... (read in full...)
I love my mate. how can I tell her and not ruin out friendship?
Q. I split up with my boyfriend of 6 months last week because I have strong feelings for one of my closest friends, and I felt that all he wanted was sex after I regretably lost my virginity to him in May. She is also a girl, and is only 2 months y...
A. 12 June 2008: I don't think there is any risk free way you can do this.
You either take a chance and tell her, and risk rejection and losing her, OR you keep quiet and suffer in silence.
Neither is great so I'm not going to advise you either way to be honest... (read in full...)
What is up with this obsession of his with my work outs?
Q. My bf keeps talking to me about working out... He says (and acts which is even more important I guess) that I'm totally hot and attractive. He's more passionate now than he was when we started dating almost two years ago (maybe because I've los...
A. 12 June 2008: You just need to ask him why he seems so obsessed with this. he may think he is helping you by supporting you efforts to tone up and not realise he's coming across as strange and pressurising.
He might be hoping you invite him along so he can tone... (read in full...)
I really miss her and haven't seen her for 2 months, what should I do?
Q. What is wrong with me?! everyday i always think of this girl who i haven't seen in a while (2 months)now and i really want to see her again. I really care for her and the thing that is anoying me is that i keep thinking that she won't feel the way i ...
A. 12 June 2008: You can't just carry on in this state, you have to get your head straight so you can concentrate on school / college / getting a good job.
Ringing her might be very scary so why don't you send her a text. Just say something simple like "saw som... (read in full...)
What should I do if my teacher finds out I have a crush on him??
Q. this is a long one... theres this teacher i have a bit of a crush on at school,hes in his late 20s early 30s. when my cat got run over he was trying to cheer me up and said he would hate it if i cried, so hes really caring, my other friend fancies ...
A. 11 June 2008: Just make it clear that you know it's a school girl crush. Avoid him for a bit and let him know you are embarrassed about it.
If he finds out from someone else he'll probably just back off a little bit and hope you get over it. It's only if you t... (read in full...)
Should I give my friend some space for a few days?
Q. I have a question for the ladies out there. I know that some women like to have conversations most days with their "guy" friends and some would rather they only spoke maybe once a week or so. Well my dilema goes like this. My best friend a...
A. 11 June 2008: She is probably just at home with her parents saying "are you still on that bloody computer?" or "come and do the washing up!"
You could go a day without speaking to her and tell her you are going out to a mates or something. She might feel fre... (read in full...)
Question about the pill..I'm taking Microgynon 30
Q. Seeing my boyfriend on Monday evening and have got a bit of a question. I'm currently on the pill Microgynon 30. Just by chance every other time we've had sex it's been on a day when I was taking my pill. I take this packs last pill on Sunday ...
A. 11 June 2008: Read the instruction leaflet to check this, but I used to take that pill and I am 99% sure that as long as you are taking it in the right way you are protected all the time whether you are on your 7 day break or not.
If you are nervous about it... (read in full...)
Do men in generally like women tiny skinny, or somewhere in between?
Q. I was wondering, guys help me out and women too. What type of body to men like in women? Are there any men out there that are actually chub chasers and they like there women big? Or do men in generally like women tiny skinny, or somewhere in ...
A. 11 June 2008: I like big butts and I cannot lie, you other brothers can't deny, that when a girl walks in with an itty bitty waist and a round thing in your face you get sprung.....
Men are all different, they all like different things. The most important t... (read in full...)
I'm female and I watch lesbian porn. does this mean I'm bi?
Q. I am a straight female and I watch lesbian porn, it turns me on and I of course when I first started doing it I wondered why I did. I've been dating this guy for 4 years and everything was perfect up until 3 months ago. My brother told me he was gay ...
A. 11 June 2008: I do exactly the same thing as you and I am straight too.
I pick lesbian stuff because I don't find men's arses bobbing away a turn on.
Plus lesbian porn is all about what is happening to the girl rather than "look at what she is doing to my m... (read in full...)
Am I coming on too strong if I write a letter?
Q. This will sound like such a silly question..but I'd appreciate some advice incase I'm doing something stupid. I've known a guy for ages as a friend, he has always liked me but I have been in a relationship. I broke up with my boyfriend a few mont...
A. 11 June 2008: Hee hee, I think that's a really romantic idea. Do it!! You might want to put a PS about how you lost his number in case he has been waiting for you to call, and put your number on there in case he has lost yours!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Can going on the pill control periods?
Q. I maybe sound dumb by saying this, But can the pill control periods ? Mine seem to be rather heavy and i am very self contious about them :( .x...
A. 11 June 2008: Yes, some will make them lighter and more regular, some will stop them all together. The one I am on at the moment makes them go all over the place and is horrible so I am going to change soon.
Go to your GP or ask for a nurse practiti... (read in full...)
Is there anybody out there who feels as though being a wife and motherhood has enriched their lives rather than detracted from it?
Q. i am 23 years old. i live with flatmates, the same age as me, i have for 2 years. i have a university degree, a challenging, satisfying and well paying job. the majority of my friends are single, love to party and are out socializing at every opp...
A. 11 June 2008: If you are at uni then you are surrounded by girls who want careers and sex in the city lifestyles. It's no wonder they think you are mental.
I live on an army estate and I am the only woman without kids. It's a different world. As soon as you h... (read in full...)
I'm worried about the way I look!
Q. i'm really worried about the way i look. people at school are always laughing about people who have cameltoe... the only problem is .. that i have camel toe... is it really that bad? how do you get rid of it? am i the only one? please help ...
A. 9 June 2008: Um, what exactly do you mean by cammel toe?
As far as I knew it meant you were wearing incredibly tight trousers / pants and you could see the shape of your bits through it.
If that's your problem then the solution is to buy bigger trousers ... (read in full...)
My periods were like clockwork, now this bleeding! What could it be?
Q. Im worried im having a miscarriage. My last period was on 15 May. I had unprotected sex on 27 May and I noticed very slight spotting of blood afterwards. Then last week I noticed my breasts had become very sore and on thursday I noticed blood in my ...
A. 9 June 2008: You need to seek medical help.
Call NHS direct on 0845 4567, they will be able to tell you if you need to go to A&E or not.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
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