Is masturbation murder?
Q. well as u all know ''sperm'' is pretty mutch something alive ,i mean it turns into a human if u have sexual intercourse with a woman ,well if people masturbate is it a sin ,as my freind said it ''mastubation is murder'' then he followed on ...
A. 13 May 2008: It's only murder in the same way that washing your hands with soap is murder.
Sperm is a single cell. Same as germs and viruses. You can't worry about killing tiny cells.
Other wise, every time a girl had a period it would be murder too as sh... (read in full...)
Is sex safe during menstruation?
Q. Hi I would like to know if it's dangerous to have sex when you are on your menstrual period, regarding an unwanted pregnancy or stds. When is a woman safe to have sex an not get pregnant? cause condoms are not that safe. ...
A. 13 May 2008: You can use the time of your cycle as a contraception method, but people who do that tend to have lots of kids.
What do you mean condoms are not that safe. They are 99% percent effective when used properly. It's only religious people who are agai... (read in full...)
Does taking Plan B reduce the chance of getting pregnant?
Q. I let my bf come in me so many times. But I've taken PLAN B so many times. and now we are 22 and ready for a child. but its not happening. Does taking Plan B a lot reduce the chance of getting pregnant..? ...
A. 13 May 2008: I'm not sure what you mean by Plan B. Do you mean the morning after pill?
Well there is no real documented proof that it affects fertility but overloading your system with enough hormones to prevent a pregnancy can't exactly be harmless... (read in full...)
My friend is pregnant again, what can I do to help her??
Q. hi everyone, I am 19 years old and so is my friend. she has a young baby. however I have just found out that she is pregnant again. she said they her and her boyfriend were ''being careful'' but I suspect that they have not been as she has been tal...
A. 13 May 2008: Apart from drugging her and then having her kids adopted there is not a lot you can do.
She seems bent on messing up her life and living on benefits forever and that is her choice.
Ask her why she wasn't more careful, does she think this baby ... (read in full...)
My parents want me to finish with him, what do I do?
Q. my mum has met my boyfriend and thinks hes okay . shes not sure weather she likes him because he lives in a rough part or our area . my dad has never met him , but dosnt like like '' at all '' and hes saying to me every day that ive been out with ...
A. 12 May 2008: You aren't 15 any more. Your dad can't tell you what to do in life forever. Ask him why he's so against him, you need to win him around if you do love this guy and want a long term relationship with him.
Talk to your mum and find out why she only... (read in full...)
Embarassed to buy lubricant and condoms...
Q. im 14 and i want to masturbat with condoms or lube but im too embarrased to go to the shop and buy them myslef what should i do?...
A. 11 May 2008: Well you can get condoms from machines in toilets in leisure centres and places like that.
As for lube then you'll have to either get the courage to buy it, or go without.
Sorry hun.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My college debts are dragging me down
Q. Hi not really a love question but anyway here goes. Im 21 ill be 22 next month and im at uni. I have another year to go and am already in debt with fees and everything. My problem is im dying to go travelling and I feel like everyone my age is going ...
A. 11 May 2008: Type Summer Jobs into Google.
You can go fruit picking or get bar work or holiday camp work all over the world. You can get to Europe pretty cheaply one way, so you could get away form home and earn cash to hit the overdraft.
There is also... (read in full...)
Penis Length Question
Q. is my penis normal it about 7"long...
A. 10 May 2008: Yes it is normal. 5 to 6 inches is average so you are doing well.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I'm feeling jealous and insecure, and it's wrecking our relationship, can you help, please?
Q. I am 41 years old, single, with four children under the age of 14. I have been seeing a wonderful man for the past twelve months. He is caring gets on great with my kids as I do his. We have a great time together and are a great team. The one pr...
A. 8 May 2008: Well you know you are over reacting so you have to work hard at controlling that. You are the only one who can do it, but you need to stop, take and breath and ask yourself if you need to shout at him whenever you feel the urge.
Talk to him abou... (read in full...)
I understand he is upset that I up and left, but I was going through some things that he should understand.
Q. Me and my boyfriend of seven years were living together, once again finally, he got clean and sober and I was having difficulties, I moved in with him and got clean for two months. I was having nightmares, trouble sleeping, and one morning I just...
A. 8 May 2008: Have you talked to him about it? It sounds like you are going through withdrawal. Are you getting help for whatever it was you are getting clean from?
If you talk to him you might be able to work it out. But you can't just expect him to understa... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about the girls he chats to on the pc or should I just brush it under the carpet?
Q. Hi, any suggestions or help would be gratefully appreciated. My partner and I have been together for 3 yrs and had a baby son 4 mths ago. We've had our ups and downs as most couples do, mainly to do with money as we own a house together and...
A. 8 May 2008: If my husband was chatting to other girls and telling them he was single then I would be really hurt and angry.
Does he know how upset you are by it or does he just not care?
Tell him that even though it's on the PC doesn't mean it's not re... (read in full...)
I like this guy but right now we arent talking....
Q. uh hi.. i like this guy but right now we arent talkin because i heard how he doesnt like me and he wants to try to mess with my head so i got mad. today he was so random he told me to come to him i was like oo0kie ..:S and u know what he a...
A. 8 May 2008: He is so young that of course he is going to be immature and play games with you. But you are playing games with him by ignoring him and pretending to laugh at his jokes and screaming his name.
I can't tell you what to do next as it's so complica... (read in full...)
It's so hard to work with someone I love without showing my feelings!
Q. I work with a married co-worker who flirts with me constantly. The thing is he has flirted with me for so long that I now have feelings for him. I know He has feelings for Me too. I know it's wrong. The thing is I can't quit my job. It is hard to w...
A. 8 May 2008: You say you can't find another job, but can you move departments?
You can certainly try to avoid him and not to flirt with him. If he says anything flirty then just don't respond to it and he'll soon give up.
The best thing to do is sit the gu... (read in full...)
Two years...and he still hasn't introduced me to his family!
Q. Hi! I have a relationship problem. My boyfriend is 12 years older than me. He is currently working and i am still in Varsity. The problem is, he was married and has a child from a previous relationship. He doesn't call or give me any attentio...
A. 8 May 2008: What is he getting from this relationship? Love and sex when he wants it? How do you know he is even divorced? He could just be using you as a mistress and not answering your calls as he's at home with his wife.
It sounds to me like he's using yo... (read in full...)
My weight problem is getting me so down - I wont even leave my house!!
Q. I am a 17 year old girl, and weigh 8 stone 5 pounds. When i was 12 i weighed 15 stone and i myself admit i was overweight. After the passing of my grandad i lost weight dramaticly, i couldn't cope, and went down to the size i am now. I feel very f...
A. 8 May 2008: You don't say how tall you are but 8 and a bit stone is very very light. Unless you are 4 foot then I really don't think you are fat. The reason you can't lose anymore weight could well be that you've lost all the fat you can, and now you are eating ... (read in full...)
Could my gay friend be bi?
Q. My gay best friend and I were messing about on webcam the other night. We're dead close and have seen eachother naked before, and for a joke I was dancing around my room to music on webcam and it kinda turned in to a bit of strip tease which ...
A. 8 May 2008: Very few people are 100% gay or 100% straight. Most people have a few percent they are not sure about.
It's impossible for me to tell you what is going on because he probably doesn't know what is going on either.
If you wanted to start a relat... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend just using an "upgraded excuse" by saying he has a low sexual libido?
Q. After a few years together and quite a while of sexual frustration my boyfriend tells me he just isn't much of a sexual person. Is this a cop out? If this is true why didn't he just say this before instead of saying he ddn't know why or that it w...
A. 8 May 2008: Maybe he doesn't know why he finds it harder to get in the mood than you do.
Maybe you keep asking for reasons and him saying he's tired wasn't working so he had to come up with something new - even if he is just tired.
If things used to b... (read in full...)
Will he feel hurt if I don't tell my parents about our relationship?
Q. Do most teenagers tell their parents about their love life? I've never felt the need to tell mine, partly because they never ask and partly because it's just not the kinda thing we all talk about. The main reason though is that they would act weir...
A. 8 May 2008: I never told my parents about my love life either. Although when I met a guy I thought was "the one" I let them find out about him eventually because I thought he was going to be their son-in-law eventually.
Tell your boyfriend early on that you... (read in full...)
She's uncomfortable being affectionate in public, she says. What can I do to make her feel comfortable?
Q. I just started seeing this girl who is kinda shy and on our first date i was her first kiss. At school however, she is strongly against p.d.a.(which i agree) and told me she's uncomfortable being affectionate in public. She says she doesn't like ...
A. 8 May 2008: You can respect her feelings and not do the touchy feely stuff.
If you are her first boyfriend then she is bound to be a bit uncomfortable. If you give her some space and let her get used to having you around then she will probably be up for hold... (read in full...)
I'm being used to make another girl jealous - I want to get even!
Q. How do you get even with a guy for using you to try to make another girl jealous? This is happening at work. I'd love to sock it to him!!!...
A. 7 May 2008: Why get revenge? Let this guy take you out for dinner, bring you gifts, buy you lunch, and then when he either gets back with his poor sap of a girlfriend, or she dumps him then you can go off on your way with a cupboard full of chocolate boxes and ... (read in full...)
They're both amazing. Which do I date?
Q. Hi, i was seein three girls recently, one was my girlfriends for a year who i have broken up with now, because i was havin trouble with the realtionship for many months and decided to end it...after i broke up with her i started to see someone,...
A. 7 May 2008: I don't think it is possible to have equally strong feelings over 2 girls.
You have to take a bit of time away from both and figure out which one you want. Do they know you are dating other girls or are you cheating on them?
Only you know... (read in full...)
I could not make love to her. Is she still seeing him?
Q. my ex was is bipolor, and we was together for 2 yrs i looked after her in most ways loved her cared for her and much more but i could not trust her . we split up for 5 months and she contacted me to meet and it hit off , but a few days seeing her ...
A. 7 May 2008: Well the fact she cried about it may mean she feels guilty about it, or it may mean she felt you were being horrible to her.
She had every right to text a guy when you were split up and they may just have been friends. You could have asked he... (read in full...)
I caught my BF cheating with his ex of 4 yrs. He wants to get back together and I might be pregnant... what to do??
Q. First off I will give a little background information about this very complicated situation. I (24 yrs) will call my most recent ex boyfriend Paul(27 yrs) and my other ex boyfriend John (24 yrs). I know this is a little long but it explains my ...
A. 7 May 2008: Oh dear, this is a messy situation.
You need to face up to the possibility your are pregnant. Stress can delay periods and with the amount of stress you are under that is quite likely. But you need to know either way so you can start making d... (read in full...)
How can I get in contact with girls for friendship, romance & sex?
Q. hi how i can get contact of girls for friend romance and sex....
A. 7 May 2008: Go to Google and typing dating and your country.
There are a million websites out there.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I love him, but there's no sexual contact between us
Q. Hi well I dont know where to start.Im in love with my fiance very much.We live together.But for the last 5 months we have been like friends. No sexual contact,2 kisses a day.I told him i was highly sexed when we met.we were ok.but then after we move...
A. 7 May 2008: You have to ask yourself if he is worth staying with in other ways.
He was nice enough to tell you you are too fat to turn him on - I'd have slapped him and walked out at this point.
He seems to be content to have a little wife at home for com... (read in full...)
Help with my little sister's project please!
Q. My little sis has got this project in which she has to interview grand parents and ask them how did they plan their summer vaccations and what kind of holidays do we have now??? seems interesting then feel free to use your imagination.even teenager...
A. 7 May 2008: we aren't your grandparents so can't help with this.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My wife gets too dry
Q. my wife gets dry too quickly. she gets really wet but after two minutes she gets really dry and i can feel goosebumps inside her so i pull out as i think she is sore. any advice?...
A. 7 May 2008: There are medical reasons that could be behind this so do some research online and go to your GP if you are worried.
Other than that just take it really slowly and get some nice lubricant.
You can get tingly ones in the supermarket that... (read in full...)
How do I show him that I really care and am here for him??
Q. ok here goes... ive been seing this guy for about 2 months...and he messaged me yesterday saying that the two people that he lives with are moving out...and told him that they'll speak to the landlord to see if he can have the lease but all of...
A. 7 May 2008: As long as you let him rant his problems at you and help him look for new places then you should be fine.
His problems shouldn't impact your relationship. If they do then it's his problem not yours.
Be his shoulder to cry on and help with ev... (read in full...)
My boyfriend asked me to marry him but his randomness in the past makes me very uncertain about him, what shall I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 9 months now. A while back, he pulled the "I love you but I'm not IN love with you card" but that very same night he showed up at my house in tears about the mistake he had made admitting that he was ...
A. 6 May 2008: This guy does seem a little spaced out and to tell you to quit your job so he can fund thousands of pounds worth of uni seems a little bit unbelievable.
Tell him you want to slow things down as you want to be sure of his feelings. Tell him you ... (read in full...)
My lover says he wants his wife to know about us but is too afraid to tell her, should I tell her?
Q. My lover has said he would like for his wife to find out about our affair. He is too afraid to tell her, he's afraid of losing his kids. Should I tell her? ...
A. 6 May 2008: No. If you do then you'll be volunteering to do all the work in your relationship or ever.
Plus the fact, finding out that your husband has been cheating on you is the worst way to end a marriage. To have to find out from your husbands mistress... (read in full...)
I feel I'm not good enough at any subjects at school-any advice?
Q. im stressing about finshing grade twelve, I am not very good at any of my subjects, im more of a hands on person than a study person. But im afraid i will become nothing at all if i dont do well. Im a country girl and is very good with many things ...
A. 6 May 2008: Many people just aren't academic. My husband is one of the cleverest people I know but hated school and has rubbish qualifications.
It's only because he joined the army that he's got where he wanted to go.
There are many people like you and man... (read in full...)
We have been apart because I got drunk. Should we go our separate ways?
Q. I was in a relationship for over two years. My girlfriend loved me more than anything. I was young, stupid and when I drank I would break up with her. I did that 7 times. This last time I broke up with her was on her b day I was drunk. March 22. ...
A. 5 May 2008: It doesn't matter if you are an addict or not, if you are an idiot when drunk then avoiding alcohol is definately the way forward.
If you want to show her that you've changed then you need to be respectful to her and show her you have given up... (read in full...)
She has a 6 month old baby from him and he has gone back to England.
Q. Hi all, i really need some help and fast, my sister has fallen for a guy and i know he's a liar and a cheat. She has a 6 month old baby from him and he has gone back to England. He said he wants to get a passport, as he never had one! AND he said...
A. 4 May 2008: Yeah they brought in new rules about going for interviews to stop people getting fake passports.
However this could be a handy excuse to flee the country.
Has he been in touch? I mean he should be able to phone or email or something. You a... (read in full...)
I'm 5 weeks pregnant...am I miscarrying?
Q. Hi everyone i have a question, i'm a little freaked out, i think i might be miscarring! I've looked online for the symptoms of miscarring and you have cramps like your on your period, sharp pains in your lower abdomin, and bleed alot for 4 days - up ...
A. 4 May 2008: If you are worried you are miscarrying then why the hell are you on the internet?
Get to a doctor!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I want to be a Model not a Doctor!!
Q. hey everyone i am 19 years old..and i am doing medicine(mbbs)in the first year of school..recently i have lost all my interest in studies and dont want to pursue what i am doin..cause now all my attention is into modelling..i did a few shows and i ...
A. 4 May 2008: Hi,
I know a few people who do both studying and modelling so why not do that?
You can start finding out about modelling and take a trip down to the city to visit agencies to see if they will take you on.
If you find one that does you will p... (read in full...)
We have been apart because I got drunk. Should we go our separate ways?
Q. I was in a relationship for over two years. My girlfriend loved me more than anything. I was young, stupid and when I drank I would break up with her. I did that 7 times. This last time I broke up with her was on her b day I was drunk. March 22. ...
A. 3 May 2008: Wow you've been horrible to her. Why should she believe that you are not going to do that again?
if you really need her back then you will respect her wishes and back off for a while. But write her a letter telling how sorry you are and how you ... (read in full...)
Are my feelings for my beautiful teacher only a crush that will wear off?
Q. i no this is wierd but i really really fancy my teacher. i cant stop staring at her. She has blond shoulder lenghed hair, blue eyes, fantastic skin. I just really want to touch her hips and kiss her. I have had dreams about her many times. Shal...
A. 3 May 2008: I disagree with Just helping - although he's right about the strict rules.
Keep your crush to yourself. It may pass with time and then think how embarrassing it would have been if you had told her. Plus she might have told her head of departme... (read in full...)
Why do so many teenage girls have a thing for their male teachers?
Q. Why do so many teenage girls on this site have a thing for their male teachers? There are so many posts from teenage girls who say they are in love with their male teachers. Some of these teachers are 20 or more years older than these girls, so it ...
A. 3 May 2008: I don't see why we have so many of these questions because moderators have an option to block them with an "asked often - please go through the site an find a similar one to yours" reply.
But they also have the option to block questions like thi... (read in full...)
I do not have a good relationship with my co-worker, could you tell me how to obviate the tenson?
Q. I have this problem with a guy from my work lets call him M. He is really attractive but i would never wanna go out with him as i have a bf and he has a gf we used to get along really well and we would chat and have a laugh,then everything changed ...
A. 3 May 2008: He's a really attractive guy who has a girlfriend yet became quite good friends with you....
My immediate thought is that his girlfriend has got upset about you and demanded he never speaks to you again.
Next time you have a chance simply as... (read in full...)
I love my children, but should I divorce?
Q. My wife of 14 years asked for a divorce. She is still in love with her first love. We have 2 children ages 10 and 13. After a year and long fights she wants me back and says she made a mistake and still loves me. This has happened twice before ...
A. 2 May 2008: If even your daughter is telling you it's time to split up then it probably is.
Try a separation for a while but see if you can get custody of the kids. They don't automatically have to go with your wife.
Talk to your kids and see what they fe... (read in full...)
I thought he liked me but now he avoids me.
Q. well i really like a guy and ive heard he likes me too and he has ever since he met me, but i never gave him a chance before and now i like him but whenever i try to talk to him he doesnt want me to and his friends say that he doesnt want me to have ...
A. 2 May 2008: Maybe he liked you and then went off you because you didn't give him a chance?
Who knows what is going on in his head.
If he is avoiding you and he friends tell you he doesn't want you to know his number then I think you are wasting your tim... (read in full...)
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