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28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
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26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
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Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 29 July 2009: Rythm, please don't take this personally. I meant no harm. I am sure q1605 can speak for himself (he's grown), and I am also sure he meant no harm, either. I apologize if anyone feels personally insulted, but then I also insist that I had no ... (read in full...)
Is she giving me a signal that she wants me?
Q. Ok my first question so here we go... I got out of a bad relationship about six months ago and since then I started chatting to a girl I have known for many years well she rang me on Wednesday night from tesco and I said I fancyed some lemon ...
A. 29 July 2009: There you go! I'm happy for you.... (read in full...)
What is it she wants from me?
Q. Hi, I have a question. My ex-girlfriend had contacted me through facebook out of the blue. We haven't spoke in good terms for about 9 months. When she contacted me, I read on her facebook that she is arguing with a guy and told him that she just ...
A. 28 July 2009: The right question is, what do you want from her?... (read in full...)
What would you do if you found your 40 husband in bed with a girl age 18-21? Help me
Q. What would you do if you found your husband who's 40 in bed with a girl between the ages of 18-21? The girls blonde, young everything he would like and i even found texts on his phone where he told her she was hotter than me, and would prefer h...
A. 27 July 2009: My first impulse was say "leave him", but in real life such a decision is not that easy. You have been cheated on, maybe for a long time, and it is obvious you cannot believe everything is "business as usual". What you will do will depend on what ... (read in full...)
Is she giving me a signal that she wants me?
Q. Ok my first question so here we go... I got out of a bad relationship about six months ago and since then I started chatting to a girl I have known for many years well she rang me on Wednesday night from tesco and I said I fancyed some lemon ...
A. 27 July 2009: Not only did you get the green light, the street is wide and you can speed, man.
Ever saw "Fast and the Furious"? You can't go any faster...... (read in full...)
How long should I wait before sleeping with a guy?
Q. when you meet a guy what is the time frame you should wait to go to bed I don't want him to think im easy or slutty...
A. 27 July 2009: I am with Emily. I fully am.... (read in full...)
She always wants sex! I don't get anything from it
Q. Im in love with this girl and were going out but she always wants to have sex and im not too keen on sex but i do it anyway for her. also i dont enjoy and i dont feel anything from it. Is the something wrong with me? How can i tell her to lighten u...
A. 27 July 2009: Well, the mere fact that a woman would want me that bad would surely turn me on. I am sure there is nothing wrong with you, or he wouldn't want you that much, that often.
Oh, I wish I had your problem!!! Enjoy!!... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 27 July 2009: q1605, you can send me a private message me if you need to :-). I need the wisdom.... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 27 July 2009: Solidus, I checked the YouTube video and yes, my strong disliking for Vince Vaughn notwithstanding (he got Jennifer and I didn't), I agree with what he said in that video.
Tell the cougar that you want a killer feline, not a small cat. Pun inte... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 27 July 2009: Hey, I can play the role of "Pig Pen" too!
In case you don't remember who he is,
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pig-Pen
Tisha, you know you always look great. And, like wines, I am afraid you are "aged to perfection".
So does ... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 27 July 2009: Eyes, don't underestimate yourself.... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 27 July 2009: Tisha, better late than never. We all like you around here.... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 27 July 2009: Can Solidus tell her that he does not see her as an old woman, in line with Tisha's great advice (as usual), but as a young woman who will make up her mind and sleep with him? And, yes, that he does not need any help meeting someone else? That it ... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 27 July 2009: q1605, you're a friend.... (read in full...)
Taking our bedroom secrets to the webcam!
Q. hi all, I don't know where to start. My husband (of 3 yrs) wants us to take our bedroom secrets to webcam. I'm confused about it all, I used to think its all wrong but now its like a big question mark. Let's say if I was to do it how many people ...
A. 27 July 2009: I believe that this kind of things are better kept private. There's no way to tell how many people would see you, but, if I were you, I would hate it if the whole world saw me.
When the guy talks dirty is because he thinks sex is dirty.... (read in full...)
I want rough sex!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for awhile. I want him to be really rough me with during sex. Hes a really sweet guy and I wasn't sure how he would react to me asking him to be rough with me. So we've been having sex this for ahwile and he ...
A. 27 July 2009: I can. Tell HIM, and show him what you want. That will improve something called "communication".... (read in full...)
Is it fair to say women can't be bad at sex?
Q. Hey This is going to sound like a silly silly question, but oh well. So many answers about sex say women don't have to do much during sex (obviously more is better but...), is it then fair to say women can't really be bad at sex? :S...
A. 27 July 2009: No, it was not the one when she married Sideshow Bob. I understand she had money and the man married her out of interest. I don't remember more details, though.... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 26 July 2009: I agree with you, q1605. Actually, many of us have had our "whiffs" taken away the way you describe. None of us would even think about claiming "statutory rape" because we all loved it, did we not? We didn't see it as abuse, but as a wonderful ... (read in full...)
Will guys mind if I have a weird looking vagina?
Q. This is a little embarrassing, but I'm really worried. I have a really weird looking vagina, like quite long lips that kinda hide my clit, I think it looks weird but no one I've slept with have said anything, but I'm really scared about the way it...
A. 26 July 2009: I agree with the other aunts. Don't worry.... (read in full...)
Should I act on my attraction?
Q. My husband has a friend I am extremely attracted to physically. I think he feels the same about me. My marriage over 23 years is OK not spectacular. Should I act on my attraction? Not looking for an emotional relationship just physical. ...
A. 26 July 2009: No, you shouldn't act on your attraction. Morals aside, you're inviting a hell of a lot of problems. Emphasis on "hell".... (read in full...)
Does a guy know when a woman fakes an orgasm?
Q. Does a guy know when a woman fakes an orgasm? My lover and I have been together for 4 years and previous to this I was married for 15 years and I have never experienced an orgasm during sex but I cum so quickly with my toy. What do you think is ...
A. 26 July 2009: There is very good advice for you in the articles, given by women, but the name of the exact article escapes me now. It was written by a great aunt. Something like advice to a young man...
Sometimes you can tell whether a woman fakes an orgasm. ... (read in full...)
I hate always being horny
Q. I am always horny and I hate it because, I must always masturbate to make it go away, I usually masturbate 5-6 times a day. Does any one else find themselves masturbating too many times a day? ...
A. 26 July 2009: I don't, but, honestly, I would want to have your kind of problems. ENJOY!... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 26 July 2009: Your suggestion can be done, q1605, but I am afraid it can't be done by our friend the poster. He's not cold enough.... (read in full...)
Is it fair to say women can't be bad at sex?
Q. Hey This is going to sound like a silly silly question, but oh well. So many answers about sex say women don't have to do much during sex (obviously more is better but...), is it then fair to say women can't really be bad at sex? :S...
A. 26 July 2009: My two cents:
Where I live, many women were taught that they didn't have to put in any effort. All they had to do was lie in bed and wait for the man to do his job. Sex, then, was just something that men did to women, and just lying there wa... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 25 July 2009: Because you seem to be her plaything.
For your own sanity, DEFINE YOURSELF what you want from this. Do not wait for her. That way, you give up the control of your half of the relationship. All those years she's your senior already give her a he... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 24 July 2009: I am sorry to be the killjoy, but, here's my take:
Maybe she would like to have a little action with you ("a little action" meaning "a lot of sex"), but she does not want you to fall for her.
Or, she was flirting and does not want to go beyon... (read in full...)
I'm damaged goods... should I just settle for him?
Q. Ok so I hope you can take time and read this, as I dont know know who else to reach to. I am a woman in my mid twenties, I have a small child that I raise at home alone. I was married to the father of my child for four years. The relation...
A. 24 July 2009: Poster, won't you please read this link:
http://www.medterms.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=3577
Some of the contents:
The antiviral drug valacyclovir (Valtrex), taken once a day, has been found to reduce the shedding of HSV-2 on gen... (read in full...)
I'm damaged goods... should I just settle for him?
Q. Ok so I hope you can take time and read this, as I dont know know who else to reach to. I am a woman in my mid twenties, I have a small child that I raise at home alone. I was married to the father of my child for four years. The relation...
A. 24 July 2009: I am will all the aunts here. Your situation is difficult, but still it is a life worth living, dear poster. There is no reason why you should give up and settle for abuse and pain. Masq is so right that you have to live for your son. But you ... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 22 July 2009: Go with her. There's a possibility she wants you to be her toy. If you're fine with that idea...... (read in full...)
Does this flower have a deeper meaning?
Q. While on a bike ride with a mutual friend, the boy of my affections picked me a tiger lily off the side of the road to bring back to me. However, he does not know about my affections for him and I'm wondering if maybe this flower may have meaning to ...
A. 22 July 2009: He would lie to her because he does not want her to think he fancies you. Maybe there's more to this.... (read in full...)
Does this flower have a deeper meaning?
Q. While on a bike ride with a mutual friend, the boy of my affections picked me a tiger lily off the side of the road to bring back to me. However, he does not know about my affections for him and I'm wondering if maybe this flower may have meaning to ...
A. 22 July 2009: Sometimes. But in this case, the boy of your affections went into what could be "a lot of trouble" just to give you a small flower. Maybe there is something. I can't be sure, but...... (read in full...)
Do women in relationships still masturbate or have sexual thoughts about other men?
Q. My wife and I were talking the other day and the topic of masturbation came up. When I asked her the question I am positive she fed me with a bullshit answer. So basically I want to take a poll here. The question for any married woman or women ...
A. 22 July 2009: Women are not dead just because they are with you. So it is safe to assume they will masturbate occasionally, and will obviously have thoughts of being with someone else. If you've ever been flirted with, only to find later that the woman is not ... (read in full...)
I am thinking of a divorce, I'm fed up with the lies!
Q. I'm seriously thinking of divorcing my husband. I'm tired of all the lies and deceit. Back in April I checked out an email account that both my husband and I have access to but I hadn't looked at in over a year. I was sickened by what I saw. My ...
A. 22 July 2009: No, you are not making too much out of nothing. This is serious and I can understand why you want to leave.... (read in full...)
Is he dropping hints that I'm not picking up on?
Q. I met this guy about 6 months ago and we didnt really get close as firends til about a month ago and lately I think he has been dropping hints about wanting to get with me but I am not sure. He says things such as he went out on a blind date a few ...
A. 22 July 2009: It does sound like he is dropping hints. Maybe he fears rejection. Why don't you try to drop a hint sometime, and see what happens? Make sure the hint is something he can really see, not a thing there is no way he understand, like most hints are.... (read in full...)
I'm waiting on a man...
Q. I was dating my son's father for 3 1/2 years. When i became pregnant in 2007 he said our relationship was over because I wouldn't abort. We moved apart a month prior to the baby arriving. He was excellent and there through my entire labor. He love ...
A. 22 July 2009: I agree with you. You can't put your life on hold for this man.
Forgive me for this, but his loving his son is a different matter than loving you. What I see is that he does want the child, and enjoys having all the benefits with you, but it d... (read in full...)
She wants to end the relationship!
Q. hi im wondering if i may ask of your help with regards to my girlfriend and our current situation,we have been arguing just of late and she says she wants to end it although we have twin girls just 14 months old. is it a gene thing or a family trait ...
A. 22 July 2009: Children who come from single-parent families are prone to divorce, yes, but, to be honest, this is not what I detect here. Poster, if you want to solve problems, you need to see them as they are. Nothing in your post says WHY she wants to leave. ... (read in full...)
Is there an instrument that detects infidelity?
Q. if i have sex with another man will my husband know? i hear there is an instrument which detects that on this date you had sex with another man is it true? please assist?...
A. 20 July 2009: The instrument is called brains, intuition, as Oldersister says, or "loving blindly but leaving one eye open", in the memorable words of a taxi driver whose name I never bothered to ask.... (read in full...)
I want to renew my wedding vows to my husband, but he disagrees! What can I do?
Q. My husband and I have been married a little over three years. About 8 months ago, we hit a really bad patch and seperated for about 6 months. Now we are together and working things out and things have been going really well. There is a point of...
A. 20 July 2009: I agree with Kelly. Why renewing the vows?... (read in full...)
Is it true that men will have sex with any female who is willing?
Q. Is it true that men can have sex with any female. If female is willing and approaching them , they never say no. Even if they love their partner, but for sex they everready for any female. Male readers plz answer this question...
A. 20 July 2009: I agree with the anonymous poster. I just would like to say that, though many people will disagree with me, some of us don't sleep around because we love our women.... (read in full...)
My BF wrote to the aunts about the things awful he's said to me, and now I am destroyed
Q. Hi Aunts, I think my boyfriend wrote a few days ago (I saw something that was similar to what he said to me on his computer) about some things that he's said to me about our sex life (how "f*cking me is like f*cking a doll...I'm only good when I'm ...
A. 20 July 2009: I am one of the persons who responded to your boyfriend's post. I hope the other aunts will respond as well.
I am sorry, dear poster, but I do not see your boyfriend's "genuine effort to change". What I see is that he has been quite good at makin... (read in full...)
Effects of masturbation?
Q. Does masturbation make your penis smaller or affect its growth??...
A. 19 July 2009: Read this:
http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=100371
... (read in full...)
Is it possible to feel such a strong connection with someone you don't know in real life? Or is it just an illusion?
Q. I've met a guy on the internet. We have been talking for a year and half now. We've been always honest to each other, we spent hours of talking, watching each other on cam... I think of him more and more and obviously he feels the same. I feel that ...
A. 19 July 2009: It is possible to feel a strong connection with someone you never met. The real thing, however, is feeling connected to the person in real life.... (read in full...)
What are some of the signs of a cheating husband?
Q. What are the signs,that your husband might be cheating? I can;t tell for sure, but I just noticed,lately my husband changed a lot. Like never hugs,or no kisses, no sex of course. And never spends time with me,, Only working and busy busy. N...
A. 19 July 2009: A friend of mine was caught because he shaved his genitals. Also, he happened to always delete the calls he had received in his cell phone; he NEVER had any missed calls, or calls made, or calls received.... (read in full...)
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