Hard to let go of past, current bf kept me on side before we got back together and slept with other people
Q. Hi Everyone. I wrote here months ago about my ex BF at the time was dating his ex soon after we broke up , but always kept me around and made me think he wanted to break up with her to be with me again. Everyone thought I should just move on and ...
A. 24 December 2010: he's been honest with you up to now, even though what he told you was not what he wanted to hear (that he was sleeping with others and didnt want to commit to you) . to get past this stage that you are at now, i suppose you need him to be honest ... (read in full...)
If he loves me, why doesn't he fight for us?
Q. ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for ten months tomorrow. things have been rocky for a long while. about 6 months ago i tried discussing with him the fact that i wasnt really happy like i used to be, that he used to make so much effort, ...
A. 23 December 2010: hi you seem to have had four months at the start of the relationship that were happy and he was attentive enough and then he cooled towards you. or to put it another way: the length of time he has made you happy and secure is LESS than the time... (read in full...)
When is the right time for our daughters to meet?
Q. Hi my partner anad I have been together for over 5 months we both have a daughter each from previous relationships.Both the girls are 16 but totally different natures.I was wondering if they should have met each other by now as my partner keeps ...
A. 23 December 2010: hi 5 months is not a long time to be in a realtionship. its still very early days. you shouldnt feel like you have to rush their meeting. have you and your partner met each others daughters? why does your partner put it off? he knows his daug... (read in full...)
I can't help but blame myself for our breakup
Q. My LDR boyfriend recently broke up with me and I have not contacted him and have absolutely no intention of, unless he wants to. It's nearly Christmas and New Year next week and there could be a possibility of being tempted to wish him a happy ...
A. 23 December 2010: there's no harm in sending someone a text or email to wish them happy christmas and new year. it doesnt have to mean you are trying to creep back into his life if that isnt what you both want. staying friends with the ex is suitable for some exes ... (read in full...)
I fall for people that are much older and taken!
Q. I just got out of a five year emotionally abusive relationship been a couple of month and I seem to fall for ppl that are older much older and taken :( I am 24 and like men in their thirties is this normal? How can I regain self confidence? I feel ...
A. 23 December 2010: hello
i have the same problem (although i am 39 now) the fact is is that most men in their 30's onwards tend to be married or involved in relationships already and the ones that are single are a lot of the time bitter about women because of thei... (read in full...)
My husband is controlling! What is the right thing to do?
Q. Dear Cupid, Me and my husband recently had a child and it has gotten to the point where he does not let me take the baby out, his mother is constantly telling the baby that she is her mother which is very annoying, just a few days ago while he...
A. 23 December 2010: can your husband give you a reason as to WHY he wont let you take the baby out and can your husbands mother tell you WHY she is calling herself the baby's mother? i think you need to know these key pieces of information before you can decide whether ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous of the fact I don't get to see what kind of girls he's around all day!
Q. I have such a bad problem!!! I am in love with this guy, just so we all know I havnt met him yet...he lives in Canada and I live in the UK...I have been talking to him for over 2 years now and he knows me better than anyone else and I know him m...
A. 8 December 2010: hey i think its really nice that you have found someone that you can get along with really well even if you have not met in person yet and i hope that when you do meet he is all that you want him to be. i really think though that you need to get ... (read in full...)
Need positive advice on feelings for a married man!
Q. Dear who ever is reading this. I feel a sense of wrong. I've been friends with a guy for about 2 years. Our friendship was always quite flirty but I have quite a few quite a few male friends that are married or have girl friends and I've always ...
A. 8 December 2010: find another man if you want to have sex with someone. the more you mess around with this situation the more danger of strong feelings coming into play and that will be bad news for everyone. if he is not happy in his marriage thats his problem - ... (read in full...)
Is this a move that alot of women put on men?
Q. So we just started to date, we're entering our 4th month now and at first we agreed to have a casual relationship, but now she is starting to fall for me (so she says) and is asking me to become exclusive with her.. I'm noticing that she's been very ...
A. 8 December 2010: why on earth are you questioning and cross examining her like this? you have a simple choice if you are not happy with the amount or quality of sex you are getting, leave. if you are, stay. she has told you how she feels. if you do not want a ... (read in full...)
Why is dating her so wrong!?
Q. My girlfriend is 15 and I am 19. We are not sexually active. Everyone is telling me it is wrong, but I don't know why. The only answers I have received so far are: -She is in a different part of life and we should have nothing in common. -I have t...
A. 8 December 2010: it is possible that as you are 19 and she is 15 you may actually have the same level of maturity (as girls are said be mature sooner than boys - although i think this depends entirely on the individual) as long as you treat each other nice and have ... (read in full...)
Will I ever lose the guilt of cheating?
Q. I had been dating my boyfriend for 4 months before i cheated on him. Our whole relationship was long distance, since he was a year older than me and in college. In March of my senior year of high school i went on spring break with a BIG group of ...
A. 8 December 2010: don't beat yourself up about this. you are young and you will probably have loads more boyfriends before you find the one you will settle down with. you seem to have learned a good lesson here that its wrong to cheat on someone coz it hurts them ... (read in full...)
I have communication problems with my mum
Q. Hey guys im having troubles with my mom ( she a single mother aand very hardworking) so im 14 my mom has 5 kids shes in her early 40 2 of her kids and 1 of her grandaughter she has to take care there 8,9 . my mom comes home from work usually yelling ...
A. 7 December 2010: i think your mum yells at you because she is tired working and then coming home and having to do yet more work to look after you guys, cook, clean the house and make sure you have got clean clothes, food to eat, making sure you are all ok and ... (read in full...)
I don't want my girlfriend and her son to move with me!
Q. When I met my girlfriend, it was supposed to be a physical no strings attached kind of relationship. She has a son, something that never bothered me before because I wasn't trying to get serious. I myself don't really want children at all. About a ...
A. 7 December 2010: you should tell her and let her help you come to the right decision. there is no reason why you have to break it off with her completely is there? if you love each other you can have a different sort of relationship for a while, if she is in ... (read in full...)
He told other girls I was good at giving blow jobs?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months and I can honestly say we love eachother. He has told me since the begining that I give awesome blowjobs. Today we were joking around and I asked if he ever told anyone how good I am. He said yes I told 2 ...
A. 7 December 2010: erm yeah, i wouldnt be happy about my boyfriend discussing blowjobs with girls either but i suppose you would have to have seen the situation and how this subject came up and who said what etc. hey at least he told em you was good! i think this is ... (read in full...)
He claimed he was going to tell his girlfriend about me, yet I have not heard from him!
Q. ok so I met this guy about six months ago and we really liked each other so we started hangin out n getting to kno each other but after a couple weeks i started to notice that alot of times he wasnt answerin my calls or texts but i let it go i didnt ...
A. 7 December 2010: dont do anything honey. just put this down to experience. your not the first and wont be the last person this happens to so dont feel bad. i know what it is like to be single for a long time, it can make you put all your hope into it when you get ... (read in full...)
Can somebody explain to me why a man would conceal being in a relationship?
Q. Can somebody explain to me why a man would conceal being in a relationship ? When I say "conceal", I man that he never mentioned being in a relationship and we have been knowing each other for 2 years. I fell in love with him and he kissed me. He ...
A. 7 December 2010: i think he didnt want to ruin his chances of a bit on the side. if he was a genuine friend to you he would've been open about his relationship from the start instead of allowing things to develop to the extent where you fell in love with him. i hope ... (read in full...)
I desperately need help to leave this poisonous relationship with the man I am in love with
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. He pursued me after we broke up with our respective exes, and after around 5 months I really fell in love with him. Our first year together was good. However, just over a year after we got together, I ...
A. 7 December 2010: you are answering your own question you know that dont you? i know its hard to make the final break though because i have been in this situation too (although not with someone as BAD as this!) heres what you need to do...
1 make a list. write down... (read in full...)
Am I too ugly to be loved?
Q. im ginger, ugly and fat im 19 and i ust cant get girls to like me they never talk to me and the ones that do talk to me are the ones that just do it as a joke any help please ...
A. 7 December 2010: Hi
you are probably not as ugly as you think you are, i think a lot of people think have too low an opinion of themselves in this way. ginger is ok. and if you are overweight then you CAN solve this. i am sorry for you that you feel unlo... (read in full...)
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