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Hi there, i'm 39 yrs old, reside in Texas U.S.A. and am recently married. I have two children ages 21 and 16.

An old flame has contact me... but I'm married now!

Q.   I have been married for 10 years and thought the relationship was pretty good. Suddenly a girl from 12 years in may past contacted me and I know she had tried a few times over the years. She truly was the love of my life but we parted due to ...

A.   24 February 2010: All i have to say to this is put yourself in your wife's shoes for a minute and stop thinking selfishly if you can. Now wouldn't you like to have been told that you are not loved anymore and that your spouse is in love with someone else, instead of ... (read in full...)

Everyday I wait for a call from him, and wait and wait ..

Q.   Hey Guys, Thank you for this site cuz whenever I have problem, everyone is trying to help me.. I have problem with my bf whom I havent seen him since he went to his country for 2 weeks because sickness of his granddad. I know its really hard for ...

A.   24 February 2010: patience is a virtue ... :)... (read in full...)

Everyday I wait for a call from him, and wait and wait ..

Q.   Hey Guys, Thank you for this site cuz whenever I have problem, everyone is trying to help me.. I have problem with my bf whom I havent seen him since he went to his country for 2 weeks because sickness of his granddad. I know its really hard for ...

A.   20 February 2010: I think you should be more patient, and understanding and less selfish. His siutation with his grad dad is a critical one and you have no idea if the grand dad passed away or got worse, etc..and he and his family are gathered and united trying to ... (read in full...)

I hate it that he has anger issues but I love him too. Love shouldnt hurt like this

Q.   How can i settle differences in my relationship without making an argument worse? My bf has anger issues and its never easy talking to him about anyhtin. It seems like everything gets him upset. He never thinks he's wrong and doesnt say sorry when ...

A.   20 February 2010: I also was married to an abusive, physically, verbally, emotionally you name it it was abuse! These don't change unless they get the help they need. And if they acknowledge it in the fist place. I hate to say it, but these type of people never ... (read in full...)

Doesn't he love me anymore?

Q.   My husband of 5 yrs (been together for 11 yrs) has become increasingly uninterested in me and our marriage over the last 7 yrs. I'm not really sure if he is having an affair, although a lot of the circumstances surrounding us appear that he could ...

A.   20 February 2010: First of all Im so very sorry that this is happening to you.. by the looks of things, things will not get any better. Sounds like he unfortunately doesnt have feelings for you anymore, and he doesn't know how to handle the situation without hurting ... (read in full...)

Should you marry someone if the sex is terrible?

Q.   Should you marry someone if the sex is not good and there is no possible way for it to get any better?...

A.   20 February 2010: A simple no is sufficent.. trust us we have a lot of experience lol funny but true. :)... (read in full...)

Should you marry someone if the sex is terrible?

Q.   Should you marry someone if the sex is not good and there is no possible way for it to get any better?...

A.   19 February 2010: Wish you would have given a little more detail into who's the bad lover, and what is exactly the issue, then we'd be more detailed or aware of the answers we give you. I personally think that love conquers all, but the sex, well it will either ... (read in full...)

I had an abortion and now regret it deeply.

Q.   i had an abotion on the 6th feb 2010 and i really didnt want it and everyday i feel myself wasting away. when i found out i was pregnant i told my boyfriend straight away and the first thing that he said was, what am i doing? and then he said if ...

A.   19 February 2010: Im sorry that you had to go through this, and i wish i could make it better for you.. but truth is you are mourning your loss of a child.. that is something very deep and hurtful for a mother to go through, you did what you thought at the time was ... (read in full...)

How can you be happy and single?

Q.   how do you be happy and single. Everyone around me is with someone and I feel really depressed. Any tips? Thank you x...

A.   19 February 2010: You wanna know something funny, we've all been there, well all that are older than you.. we've all experienced that at one point or another, and trust me it doesn't end quickly.. it's in different chapters of your life, love comes and goes, when you ... (read in full...)

I have no love for him anymore, but I feel reluctant to ask him for divorce

Q.   I have been married for almost 5 years. We both have two kinds, 2 year and half (twins). I am very frustrated about my marital relationship because day by day, I found myself and my husband becomes far away and away from each other despite we sleep ...

A.   19 February 2010: Listen to Nandos17, I agree with 100%. Children need to be raised in a home where love is shown between two parents. And sometimes in life it is better to live with divorced parents than to live with parents that don't love each other at all.... (read in full...)

Why is he doing this?? Does he just want SEX?

Q.   a guy i met on plenty of fish dating site.. we've met in public once he says he wants to come to my house and chill with me cos HE HAS NO MONEY TO TAKE ME OUT. but he drives a very posh car and has a good job. i said i want to go out on d...

A.   19 February 2010: Girlfriend, why bother with a loser like that.. follow your instinct and your gutt feelings, if you had to ask this question, then chances are that you know the answer to it already. IF i was you, i wouldnt give him the time of day.. no proper date, ... (read in full...)

How can I get my husband to start paying attention to me,instead of masturbating to porn?

Q.   My husband and I have been married for 8 years and lately I feel that he doesn't think that I am attractive. He is always looking at pictures of naked girls online. He admits that he likes masturbating to these pictures even though usually I am ...

A.   19 February 2010: I'm sorry Ladies, I think you've got it all wrong when you complain but don't do anything about it.. the guy is an ass, with a sexual problem, and the weird part is he dont want to do you, yet he's pretending to be doing this with porn stars on the ... (read in full...)

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