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Why doesn't he make his move???

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Question - (5 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 March 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *nique-angel writes:

I don't know whether its in my head, does he see me as a friend or more? I'm going crazy! If you look at my previous post he didnt end his online message with a x you'll get the jist of it.

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-didnt-end-his-online-message-with-a.html

We're both at uni first year im 19 hes 18.. there's always been a spark, signs etc all of that but we only have uni 2 days per week... it'll be like 2 days he'll be great then next week he'll be like a stranger he wont talk. maybe he'll look but i get shy or i think what's the point.

cuttin it straight.. tuesday i organised an event lecturers and students to chat etc. he turned up. we spent a hour sitting next 2 each other teasing, laughing chilling, some times touching each others arms, me touching his chest, hands, arms poking etc it felt so open.

he told me a massive family secret about his dad. i said i wont tell no-one, you can trust me... he said i know. from first day i met you i knew what type of person you was. i knew i could trust you.

i got a text whilst he was talking to another male friend. he got defensive who is it.. he kept looking until i told him who it was, then he was ok. he helped me pack up. my mates were there and he kept shoutin my name teasing. lol..

he took me to the side and said im going 2 call you kinu (asian word) small orange thing, small and cute. i said you calling me an orange, he said no im calling you cute, i walked away blushing cuz i fancy him loads but in the lecture never spoke, sat away. He sent me an email next day cuz i had asked him 2 forward sumat he did. i replied back but nicely ending it with kinu.. no reply.

my mate says he flirts with everyone but i never seen him do that, he isnt that type fo guy, he can be quiet, just talkative with me i like that... but then im confused why doesnt he make his move?

I've just sent him a email saying hi mr no reply! i saw your mate yesterday hes funny but your the one with the innocent face. i see you around with a girl is she your girlfriend. you two look cute bless. here's my msn addy, your lucky i never give it to others. hows placement im worried not got mine yet.

i tried makin it general but now im worried i've made a idiot of myself thanks for reading this. Do you think he's interested?

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A female reader, mizz.butterflies United States +, writes (5 March 2010):

mizz.butterflies agony auntThe email you sent him was a wrong move,you showed him you were in a hurry for yall to start something.Like the other reader said,keep your options open,laugh and flirt with him and make him go crazy thinking WHY DOESNT SHE WANT COMMITMENT?WHY DOESNT SHE DO ANYTHING??ARE THERE OTHER GUYS OR WHAT? ...I dont suggest talking on msn for long,this makes it too easy for a guy,he should properly call you.ANyway,now that he added you on msn,make sure you are nice to him whenever you talk (let him IM you first!) but after like 15 minutes let him know you have to go.

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A female reader, jroe United States +, writes (5 March 2010):

He is interested but the question is in what, so it is better to let him decide when he is ready to treat you the way you deserved to be treated, continue to laugh and have fun but don't take any further action until he is ready, because if you do he will only hurt you feelings in the end. If a guy like you he will always no matter how sly find away to let you know. Men love the chase and love to be chased, so let the chasing begin.

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