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*iceyd
writes:I'm in love with my ex after I broke up with him for cheating.we have not been together in a year.we had sex he didn't call or text after that and he has a big ego, so he won't say how it was or say he misses me I didn't text or call him either fearing hearing him say I was just a booty call how should I handle this or not to say nothing at all why a year later am I the chosen one?
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (5 August 2012):
 I think it's pretty obvious. You WERE a booty call.
Auntie BimBim got it right.
When you are willing to have sex with him NSA (no strings attached) he will do it, if he doesn't have someone else to have sex with at that moment.
Since YOU still have feelings for him, I would advice to not contact him and NOT to have sex with him again. You will only feel used.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (5 August 2012):
 Unfortunately, I think what you fear is the reality. You can't just hop back into bed with someone and expect the reality of a relationship to change. You broke up with him for a reason, so you should have also stayed out of bed with him. All you've done by hopping into bed is made the situation more emotionally tedious and confusing for yourself. Forget him and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2012): He's a user hun.
Just like he used the other woman for sex when he cheated on you, he used you a year on for sex too.
Obviously its hard when you love someone, but you can do better than that.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (5 August 2012):
 He wanted sex you were there, he doesn't care that's why there was no text or call afterwards.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (5 August 2012):
 You arn't the chosen one...you are just a booty call...ALL his actions say so.
Live under the illusion that it is more if you wish but it is a booty call all the same.
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