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writes:My partner and I lived very happily together for five months, and you could not have met a better match. We balled and played and we’re so deeply in love.Our home was too expensive to run, so we decided to move to a cheaper place in the country. Money was tight, and the move was very stressful, and over a two week period we both felt considerable strain, but leaned on each other for support.I’ve got baggage, I know that. My previous ex is living in the house we bought with my name on the mortgage, and saddled me with a load of debt. I know this irritated my partner, and was the only fly in the ointment.Just over a week ago, three weeks since we moved in, she exploded in a fit of temper about my ex. We have both been very tired, and broke, and we entrenched ourselves in a furious argument, which culminated her in demanding I leave.The financial situation has eased itself considerably since then, but she won’t talk to me. She’s changed the locks; humiliated me on Facebook, refuses to answer the phone, and will only reply to my emails with terse replies such as ‘it’s not worth it’.Where did it go wrong and will she ever love me again?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 June 2010):
Its illegal for her to keep your stuff. Don't let her keep it.
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reader, Broken Man +, writes (3 June 2010):
Broken Man is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your help. She's sent me a text now to say it's definately all over (though she won't let me come and pick my stuff up).
Guess I've got to get her out of my heart. :(
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 June 2010):
If you look at a lot of other posts like your own on this site, you'll see that there are a lot of people who just can't handle the whole idea of an 'ex'. Especially an ex who is living in a house kept by a man. Your girlfriend clearly couldn't handle that your ex was still in the picture. You're making the mistake of blaming yourself about it. It's not your fault at all. Chances are you can't do anything about your ex, otherwise you would have. Your girlfriend couldn't handle it. And do you know what? You need someone more reliable that her in your life. There is no use in having a girlfriend who is going to throw a fit about an ex. There's nothing you can do about that. It's not your problem, it's hers. Leave her to it. You deserve better.
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