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My friend and I kissed, and may have done more but I can't remember...what should I do?

Q.   I was round my mates a few nights ago drinking and well, he turned and stared into my eye's stroked my leg, i was taken by the moment and let him kiss me. I woke up in the morning in his bed naked, i snug out, i dont remember what happened after t...

A.   11 August 2009: The best I can say is "GO TALK TO HIM"! I've done odd things in the past that ended similar to your situation, just tell him what you feel, and the longer you leave it the harder it will get to go talk to him! and if he does like you then all you ... (read in full...)

I'm bi sexual and want to experiment sexually with my friend! How do I ask him?

Q.   how do i 'come out to my best mate'? im not gay, i might be bi, at the moment though im just abit curious and would really like to have sex with a man. My best friend seems to be the type of guy thats the same as me, i've not asked, he someti...

A.   10 August 2009: Yes, Take It VERY slow! I once had a similar situation, although I'm Gay, He wasn't my best friends, I tryed it on with a male friends because i reid him wrong, perhaps this isnt very scientific but I'm GAY I was wrong thinking this guy I kinda like... (read in full...)

I'm a masculine guy who wants a masculine guy...but I can't find anyone. Help, I'm sick of being alone!

Q.   Is there anyone who feels like I do? Im a 19 year old masculine gay guy and I live in this small town in north Carolina and there are almost no gay guys here. There's a few promiscuious feminine guys but I don't want anything to do with them. I'm a ...

A.   21 July 2009: Believe me its the "Exact" Same for me all the way over hear in the UK, I've been told in the past as well they're out there and they are, I live in a small town too so it can be hard, I guess we will all get what we want in the end, all I can say ... (read in full...)

Why did this text make me feel angry?

Q.   Well a long story short, I feel anxious about something and don't have a clue why? 7/8 months ago a guy stayed at mines, we were drunk, he was given me kissEs, groping me, he didnt care when I says I would help him with down stairs(when he was, lets ...

A.   18 February 2009: thank you for your advice, and ever since that night I've always stayed clear of him, or not all the time, the times I can think of he's tryed talkin to me at new years, thank you... (read in full...)

I'm incredibly confused about my sexuality...

Q.   I'm so confused at the moment and I have no where else to turn. I'm 17 and in a great relationship with this girl but I can't stop thinking about other guys. Just the other week my girlfriend told me one of her gay m8s saw a picture of me and ...

A.   25 December 2008: I Went through the exact same thing although I was not going out with anybody at the time of my episode, I found Eventually Relised that I Was Gay, don't really know about statistics but probably quite abit of human go though this at some point most ... (read in full...)

How does anal feel to a man?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend are so in love. Lately she has wanted to try new things. She wants to DO Me with a strap on. How does anal feel to a man? ...

A.   7 November 2008: you'll have to try it and find out if you like it, but as for a straight answer it feels good, can be a bit wierd at first, but then you'll get the hang of it, if you do wanna give it a go first though i suggest you try it your self first to see if ... (read in full...)

Does sperm cause problems by swallowing?

Q.   right quite a wierd question, can you get an upset stomach from swallowing the sperm?...

A.   2 November 2008: Thank, for all your answers, it was just a question I had to ask on another opinion because people have asked me this and I was never really sure if only some people can feel sensitive to it!, thnks again... (read in full...)

Everyone thinks I'm gay because I got an erection while changing in the locker room.

Q.   alright well i have a gf and have never thought about sex with men before but i was changing out in the locker room and got an erection so now every1 thinks im gay what do i do?...

A.   11 September 2008: lets face it, ALL us guys get Hard-Ons at the most wierdest times, they say we stand to attention even when we are sleepin, just tell them to piss of there probably jealious!!!!!... (read in full...)

When two guys are having sex, who exactly takes the role of the man?

Q.   Picture this, one guy is getting penetrated helplessly and the other is DOING the penetration. Theyre both enjoying it, which guy is more masculine or "manly" and why? Now the guy who is being penetrated cums because he got penetrated for.....

A.   11 September 2008: yeah, I don't think it really matters, I go both ways and am not pariculerly feminine(sorry bout spelling), I just think its preference to whether an individuel want it up them or to put it up someone else in sence lololol hope this helps... (read in full...)

She's addicted to gay porn and it's getting out of control!

Q.   I have a problem with my girlfriend of five months. She's addicted to gay porn and it's getting out of control. She has always been very honest about her interest in porn. At first, this didn't bother me in the slightest as I watch a lot of porn ...

A.   8 May 2008: talk to her =D... (read in full...)

Am I gay???

Q.   hi im a young lad in my twentys and i have a female partner and a son. we were having sex a few weeks ago and she decided to slip a finger up my back passage, i didnt mind as i am open to try new things, but now im confused because i want her...

A.   13 April 2008: yeah,,,a had to come bak to your question, thinking about a male sexually, is different to what your situation is,do u think ov other men like you do women????the you shoud get your answer... (read in full...)

I'm So confused, I want to know the truth, is he STRAIGHT or BI

Q.   hello sorry this is pure long but I could describe what happened in a short version,but anyway i'm a 16 year old gay guy, I had some friends staying at mines just last friday, so basically what happened was, me and this guy were really drinking ...

A.   20 March 2008: ryt,,its the thursday after that friday,,,,, he was hanging about him self all nyt acting wierd,,he kept walking about h by him self and moping about,,,WTF,,am even more confused now,,,2 girly friends says you should go talk to im but after that I ... (read in full...)

Am I gay???

Q.   hi im a young lad in my twentys and i have a female partner and a son. we were having sex a few weeks ago and she decided to slip a finger up my back passage, i didnt mind as i am open to try new things, but now im confused because i want her...

A.   2 March 2008: like most things its like being stereo-typical ov something, enjoy, and don't worry,... (read in full...)

A question for mothers out there.

Q.   I was wondering for mothers who have more than 1 child..did you get more stretch marks with the 2nd baby, or is all the damage pretty much done after the 1st? I have a 10 month old and I am due next month to have another baby. Also, does it hurt ...

A.   3 February 2008: hi,,i'm 16,,and ive heard my mother saying she got more stretch marks after my little sister, so possibly yes =)... (read in full...)

Will a butt plug damage me?

Q.   hi there, i would like to know what damage can be done to the anus if a butt plug is inserted and is kept there for 4-5 hrs a day every day...

A.   26 January 2008: no! as long as it a relativly small butt plug i guess, tbh anal sex hasnt made me incontinant, =D... (read in full...)

I'm gay, he says he's straight - but is he?

Q.   I met this guy in a straight gym in Essex, England and i fell in love with him from day one. I got to chat with him, and asked him to be my gym buddy, which he agreed to. While we were in the jaccuzi, i noticed how he was staring in my eyes with ...

A.   26 January 2008: I kinda find it wierd why he would let you message him, most straight guy i'd think would cringe at the idea ov another guy messaging them, I think there something behind it, maybe he got nervious or imbarrest,or maybe hes confused about his ... (read in full...)

I think I am bisexual

Q.   hi im a male 24.. i recently broke up with my girlfriend , got drunk and gave my friend a blowjob.. so i think i must bi bisexual.... yes he came and yes i choked but i did swallow.. but the thing is now i have been confused since.... should i do it ...

A.   26 January 2008: thn if u enjoy it you are probably bi,,,have you ever had any other feeling for any other guy or like a quick fling, tht might give you your answer,... (read in full...)

Is it gay to watch gay porn?

Q.   is it gay to watch gay porn...

A.   3 December 2007: I just dont get all of those ppl it can be curiosity, because you wonder what gay sex involves, or maybe your bi-curious like jm81690 says, or then again u didnt say whether youve ever had feelings for a guy, that might mean you are bi sexual but ... (read in full...)

He says he is working but I see him online! I want this to work but feel he is lying.

Q.   okay, back with my bf. he seems to be pretty honest, but he works at a fast food place (cuz hes 16. im 14-he dated a variety of ages so dont lecture meee please) well for someone who works 4-9 how could he be on myspace at 7?? i dont understand ...

A.   26 October 2007: well it might not have bben him actually on myspace,,maybe he forgot to turn the computer off, or maybe a relative of his knows his username and passwoed, i'm not trying to take side in defendeing him bbut you may have mistakin him for being on the ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to go from being gay to straight?

Q.   I'd love to hear from a guy who has turned from being gay to straight. I think that might be happening to me and its driving me absolutely insane. Can it really happen?...

A.   25 October 2007: if you are still relativly a teenager or you have just gawn into your 20's you could still not have relised your true sexuality,... (read in full...)

Could my son be gay? He has an odd friendship with a (much) older man...

Q.   My 17 year old son has befriended a 58 year old man. He visits him every week and stays all day says he has a bbq and a few drinks. He says he finds he can talk to the man easier than talking to me or his mother. He receives a lot of gifts some exp...

A.   25 October 2007: if he knows what he's doing then things should be ok, it puzzles me to know as well if he's gay or not, if he is then it could be a case of him not wanting to come out to parent, i found it much harder for some reason to come out to family than i ... (read in full...)

I found out my husband has been watching gay porn!

Q.   I just found out that my husband of 13 years has been watching gay porn on our computer when I go to bed earlier than he does. I'm completely floored and haven't talked to him about it yet. We do have sex but not as much as I would like. I don't ...

A.   25 October 2007: straight guys, believe it or not can fanticise about gay men but not want to participate in any sexual activity's with men, besides masterbation in front of gay porn on a pc of course, its pretty comlicated, maybe he's bi-sexual and just kept it ... (read in full...)

Am I gay if I watch gay porn and have fantacies of men (but don't want to be gay)?

Q.   i watch gay porn and fantasize about having sex with men but dont want to in real life, i dont want to be near a man but does it mean im gay...

A.   25 October 2007: it could be a phaze of curiosity, or you could be bi-sexual and not have relised it,,you may as well experament,... (read in full...)

I walked on him and my gay brother having sex!

Q.   I Have a problem....I've been seeing my boyfriend for two years now and last night I walked on him and my gay brother having sex!!! I really really love my bf and my brother and I know that I should dump him but I really love hi and he says it was ...

A.   25 October 2007: well its realy up you u whether you think he'll be faithfull in the future to you, and i suppose your boyfriend could be bi-sexual, he just didnt say because of the gay side of being in that sexuality,... (read in full...)

I am gay, should I come out of the closet?

Q.   im gay, should i come out the closet? my parents are VERY homophobic. just yesterday they saying how being gay is such a waste....

A.   25 October 2007: hey, you should only come out when your ready,, I made the biggest mistake and coming out to a ned in my skool, it was all over the place as quick as a blink of the eye, when your ready you should come out to a close friend, possibly its better if ... (read in full...)

Should I make a move on halloween?

Q.   Theres this girl my best friend since like 2006.... we always hang out together talk on msn. We both have boyfriends (we go threw them very fast) She's very pretty, I've grown so close to her. We always call each other sisters. The point is i ...

A.   25 October 2007: hey, If you want to know for sure try and make the scene romantic but not like candles n stuff,,,have the music on you both like if your in a house, try and carry on with her, comment on what's nice about her,, etc,,it always best to be able to know ... (read in full...)

Should I make a move on halloween?

Q.   Theres this girl my best friend since like 2006.... we always hang out together talk on msn. We both have boyfriends (we go threw them very fast) She's very pretty, I've grown so close to her. We always call each other sisters. The point is i ...

A.   25 October 2007: hey, If you want to know for sure try and make the scene romantic but not like candles n stuff,,,have the music on you both like if your in a house, try and carry on with her, comment on what's nice about her,, etc,,it always best to be able to know ... (read in full...)

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