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What should I do? Crushing a lot. A friend recommended telling him I like him but I'm scared

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Question - (29 March 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2016)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

I like this boy, a lot, like a lot a lot, and we're quite close.

We hang out quite a bit, and we're really flirtatious but I don't know how he feels.

He'll never make the extra effort, like text me or call me, we'll only speak face to face. I don't know what to do, a friend recommended telling him I like him but I'm scared that'll ruin our relationship. What should I do?

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A female reader, chigirl Norway + , writes (30 March 2016):

chigirl agony auntDon't tell him. Kiss him and see if he kisses you back.

Yes, it will ruin your friendship, but that's what you must decide on. Do you want friendship, or do you want more? If you want more, then you need to risk losing the friendship. You can't have both at the same time, you are either his friend or you are a potential girlfriend. Not both.

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A male reader, WiseOwlE United States + , writes (30 March 2016):

He likes speaking face to face. Which is better than texting.

The more you see him, the more he likes you. You don't have to tell him you like him just yet.

Some guys enjoy hanging-out and talking to you face to face; over reading your messages. He gets to look in your eyes, and he can tell just by the way you look at him; that you like him.

Tell long are these periods of time that you talk and spend time together? Do they seem to get longer and longer? Does he make excuses to stick around, or keep you there? Do you lose track of time?

He's getting to know you. YOU for YOU. He can text or FB anybody. He hangs out with YOU! He just might be a little shy about telling you he likes you; but actions speak louder than words.

Here's a sneaky way to find out if he will say it. Just say: "I like the time you spend with me!" He'll have to say: "Me too!" Then you'll know!

Good luck, sweetheart!!!

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