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What are your thoughts on what he really meant, when he said (possibly not sober at time) that he loves and hates me?

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Question - (26 February 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 March 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *mmagreeneyes writes:

Hi,

So I've met a very sweet shy guy who I've been out with on 7 dates and we've been texting daily so in total 3 months.

I received a message stating that he hates me but loves me at the same time! Then an hour later another message apologising that he didn't mean any harm! I believe he had been drinking but keeping tbe phrase a sober man's thoughts are a drunk mans words what could he mean?

I will ask him when I see him but what are your thoughts?

Thank you xx

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A female reader, Emmagreeneyes United Kingdom +, writes (8 March 2012):

Emmagreeneyes is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you, no I haven't slept with him. He apologised the next day but its weird isn't it! I will def take your answers into consideration. Xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2012):

How can he hate you and love you at the same time? You've only been out 7 times. I agree with other answers, the text was intended for someone else. Forget him and move on.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2012):

Maybe that text was meant for someone else. Over the last 90 days, he's seen you 7 times? That doesn't sound very promising and I hope you haven't slept with him!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2012):

Sounds weird, you haven't really seen him much over 3 months.He text you drunken ramblings and he obviously wanted a reaction from you - I wouldn't read too much into it, just don't get too attached to this one.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (26 February 2012):

chigirl agony auntI think this is an odd statement coming from someone who barely knows you, you've been on a total of 7 dates. Is 7 dates really grounds enough to say you either love or hate someone?

Are you in a relationship even?

I think this guy sounds weird. After 7 meetings this is what he comes up with, I'd consider that very odd attention seeking behaviour. Perhaps you should distance yourself from him, rather than try to get to the bottom of his mind. It sounds like he isn't talking any sense and just said that to get your attention or to provoke you.

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