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writes:Me and my boyfriend are in a extremely happy relationship. We have been together for 5 years and I am planning to spend the rest of my life with him (cheesy I know!) We have had sex before however we want to know places outside were we could do it. For various reasons my parents do not like him and he only comes round when they are not at home and his parents aren't keen on me and it is extremely awkward when I am round there. We haven't had sex in around 4 months and we are both dying to! We have done other things in his car at night but I need to be with him and it is impossible for us to do this at either of our houses. Usually I would book a room in a hotel or b+b however we both do not have the money to do this.I am aware and quite worried about getting caught although I wondered if anyone has any ideas or experiences with this. I think the thought of getting caught could make it more exciting but I am stuck for ideas of where we could go to have sex.Any advice, opinions or experiences you can share would be appreciated x
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (11 July 2012):
 Oh yeah, on the beach. Me and an ex one time went out on the beach to one of the banks that were further out. We sat down, me on his lap facing him, and it was fun. Except for sand in inconvenient places.
But if you are in wooded areas, or near fresh water.. beware of mosquitoes. Spray your asses.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (10 July 2012):
One word: mosquitoes.
Beware of those. Or get a good bug spray.
Have sex in the car? Public bathrooms? Behind a bush? At a concert where there is a dense crowd?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 July 2012):
 after one outdoor sexual experience my then boyfriend's new nickname for me was "twig ass"
nuff said.
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reader, daletom +, writes (10 July 2012):
The sensuousness of outdoor sex - the different sights, sounds, sensations on naked body parts that are seldom exposed - is a significant enhancement to the experience. Have never deliberately put on a show, but the knowledge that you might be seen can be a turn-on - and it HAS happened a few times.
We have done it in public parks and beaches after dark, in the middle of pastures in broad daylight, and after dark on the deck behind our suburban house quite commonly.
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (6 July 2012):
Hey, just use your imagination. If you wear a dress you can commit the deed fairly discretely almost anywhere. As long as you don't make too much noise. With dark clothes a neighbours garden would be good. At dusk on a beach or in a park is good. I remember empty trains and buses, even a shops changing room. Do you have a tent? That would add lots of opportunities.
Have fun.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (6 July 2012):
 Having sex outside is always better as kind of an excitement/novelty thing. I've done it a lot, sometimes out of boredom, sometimes just because we could, and sometimes because we were camping and in the end the only worthwhile thing about it was that I could remember the illicitness of it (and try to forget the rest).
If you can't afford a B&B, why not go camping? Those run about $25 a night MAX for a campsite. Just be careful of silhouetting yourselves against the tent and noise. Also avoid "family friendly" places at all costs.
Other than that, in my fairly extensive experience with this, sex outside just tends to be kind of uncomfortable.
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