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Was this an erection and does it mean he likes me??

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Question - (2 February 2008) 11 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Does an erection mean he likes me?

Okay well me and my best friend are amazingly close, he is a boy, and i really like him alot more than a friend, its a long story, but we are pretty much in love with each other, although we have never kissed on the lips [yeah we kiss on the cheek and stuff] But so anyway, everyone thinks hes gay and well, i wouldnt be suprised. But yeah okay heres my question:

He stayed over at my house and he was laying in bed and my head was on his chest, this is probably gunna sound stupid, but I want to know if he had an erection or if it was just a fold in his boxers, because something definatly moved down there, and there was a large fold type things.....pointing up, and then as soon as it happened he suddenly edged me off and said 'im cold' and pulled the covers up over himself even though he complained he was to hot about five minutes before.

So do you think it was an erection?

And does that mean anything or is it just normal?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010):

He was definately turned on, but if might not have been from you, if u were watching tv, and a hot blonde walks on, then thats wat could have triggered it...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008):

yes, he did have an erection. he was probably embaresed about it and didnt want you to know that he is sexually attracted to you. he is just scared in case you dont feel the same way about him, he really wants to make love with you, but he is shy and is not sure if you and him are both ready for making love.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008):

If it was in the morning well! maybe. It does sound like he likes you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008):

yeah ive had the same problems too with guys but i believe it WAS an erection and he had it because of YOU!!!! but thats just my opinion. if you really wanna see just ask him how he feels about you. or try getting closer to him the next time your in bed with him.........and see what happends.

this is for the girl who commented first. i dont think you should have sex with him (unless you want to) because sex with a really close friend can ruin a good relationship and make things akward.

so my suggestion is do your homework first (and some extra credit too)

and if you work had you'll get the grade you deserve!!!

halla :)

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (3 February 2008):

Jamer70 agony auntWell to be honest assuming he did have an errection it might not mean anything.

When you around his age anything can set it off, anything really, or sometimes they are just random.

If you wanna know if he does like you your better off asking

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A female reader, Cherriepie United States +, writes (2 February 2008):

Cherriepie agony aunthell ya ..i was an erection. does it mean he likes you. You already know he likes you. attraction...thats another thing..its true guys can get erections for no reason. if hes is atracted to you sexualy and you feel it for him why not give hima ride. you will be friends anyway as i see it...maybe hes curious about being with you, its not impossible. and if he likes you and you know hes gay..lol..then hes bi! hunny you have this guy on a platter...you already both like each otther, so why not? use protection and have fun hunny.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2008):

lmao Jugurtha I've thought about that many times but I just don't have the guts, but valentines is coming up so.....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2008):

lol, yeah thanks ryan, thats pretty much what i was thinking =]

that helps and i will keep quiet about it....

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A male reader, dc.ryan United Kingdom +, writes (2 February 2008):

dc.ryan agony auntHello madam,

Chances are he did have an erection, but at this age-level could of been caused by anything - and doesn't necessarily mean anything!

Unfortunately by being male we do suffer from the ocassional (or often) unexpected erections - which can be influenced by absolutely nothing.. just something our bodies do as part of puberty.

It could mean he was attracted to you - you probably won't know the reason behind (and to be honest, its impossible to predict) him having a erection. It does sound like he tried to hide it (we become masters of hiding unwanted erections after experience), as he probably felt you brush by - and panic'd a little because he doesn't know what you thought of him for having one!

It could mean multiple things, or it could mean nothing at all - it could mean that he is attracted to you (which is a possibility because you're very close), it could be an unwanted erection or just a random erection because he was in a bed with a girl hes close to!

Its normal, and wouldn't worry about it - don't go questioning him as its quite an embarassing experience - as you can imagine!

Ryan

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (2 February 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntsharp point or rounded at the tip?

sharp suggest fabric fold. round = erection.

well it was certainly horny/turned on though at his age..

hell i used to get erections during math class.

no clue or reason why!

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A male reader, Jugurtha Australia +, writes (2 February 2008):

That certainly sounds like he had an erection to me.

Teenage boys (I was on once myself too) frequently get erections at odd moments; especially when there is some form of intimacy taking place.

What it means is that he is a normal teenage boy, whose body responded to your physical proximity in a way that embarrassed him.

If you want to know if he 'likes' you, you could try missing his cheek and kissing him on the lips next time you meet up. Make the kiss a bit longer than the usual peck as well. His reaction (after his surprise) should tell you what you need to know.

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