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writes:Is it wrong to want someone dead? Is it wrong to want them to completely disappear? To die a horrible death?I know this seems like a harsh question, and you probably think I'm crazy for even saying this, but it's true. I've never hated anyone so much that I want them to be hurt, or for them to die/disappear, but there is one girl that I wish for all of the above to feel, as she has hurt me more then anyone else has.She was my current boyfriends friend for 3 years, nothing more, nothing less. I've known my boyfriend for 2 years, at first as a friend, then more. So she's only known him 1 year longer then me. She found out we were dating a few weeks back, and completely lost her top. She said she hated him and nearly ruined our relationship by lying to me about him, which made me wonder if she liked him more then a friend, or maybe she's just the type of girl that wants EVERYONE to have their attention on her, and she get jealous if one of her friends has someone else.Anyways, it all calmed down a bit after I found out she was lying (I nearly broke up with my boyfriend until he told me the truth), then she came on MSN, and started up again. She said to my boyfriend that I just "piss her off" and that she made up all the bullshit to upset me.She said sorry to him and they were friends again, but she was making me depressed, so he blocked and deleted her. Now about 2-3 weeks on I'm starting to feel less paranoid, but then when we were online yesterday (on a game type think. It's universal) she came into our room (not noticing my name) and tried talking to him. My depression came back. You can't block people on this sort of thing, so it's hard to get rid of her.And all I'm thinking is: WHY WON'T SHE F***ING QUIT!She's gone for the moment, after about half an hour of tormenting me, but I know she'll still try contacting my boyfriend, and I seriously don't want her to.It's not so much of a problem as she lives in Canada, and we're in the UK, so it could never work out for them (not to mention he doesn't like her in that way), but her trick was: "I'm nearly back on drugs", before he blocked her, and she is clearly using any means possible to talk to him.I just... I'm fed up with it. She drives me crazy, and I just want her out of our lives! I don't know what to do anymore if she does come back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your advice erfrieren. We've had a talk, and though I'm still a little paranoid about it all, we're getting better. He's doing his best to avoid her, and we've been giving each other loads of attention, so everything is sort of settling back into place.
Now I have another problem, what to get him for his birthday... :S
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