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I think I am ready to lose my virginity

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Question - (25 August 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 5 November 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *assandra_096 writes:

hi everyone. i kinda need help. you c im a virgin and i think im ready to lose it to this guy i know. i mean like he is soo sweet nd he makes me feel sooo good inside. but the thing is hes not a virgin. we talk about the subject "sex" when we r on the phone. i mean i like talking dirty to him.!!. he knows that im a virgin nd he respects that he tells me when im ready he'll be there for me. i want to give it up. i tired of not knowing how it doesnt feel to have sex!! i mean i had my moments with guy and i ALMOST lost it but it just never happened!! sooo this is where u come in! i need help!! what should i do??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007):

Ermm... well you need to think about that 1 i know how you are feeling i feel excatly the same way but you need to make sure you are entirely ready and that you understand what it is all about but if your ready then go for it but make sure you dont get forced into it and if anything happens (e.g pregnancy) make sure you tell someone you can trust straight away

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (21 September 2007):

rcn agony auntIf you're ready you'll know, just be careful, use protection, and I think this is where your boyfriend comes in not us. We can't all be there to be a cheering section for you.

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A female reader, hit-the-road,jack... United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2007):

If you want to have sex and you feel ready to, then have sex!

the most important thing is tho that youre properly protected ok?

so use protection !

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (25 August 2007):

birdynumnums agony auntI like to play devil's advocate. Let's go straight to the worst case scenario. Let's say you wind up pregnant. If that happened, is he the kind of guy you could see yourself bound to, through a child, for the rest of your life? That is the bottom line, sex makes babies! If it's just a fun thing to do that will feel good and you are anxious to give up your virginity, well, you have your entire sex life in front of you, IS this the right time? You will also remember your first time forever, it only happens once, so is He the one that you want to remember doing it with? No one else can tell you when you are ready. You will know. You will be fully prepared, no worries, no doubts. Best of luck with the important decision. Don't forget the barrier methods and Take Care!

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A female reader, cutiebeauty United States +, writes (25 August 2007):

cutiebeauty agony auntWell if you have sex and you dont pay attention......theres a baby on the way!

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