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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My parents divorced when i was only 9yrs old, after moving back to his home city, my dad had his "2nd childhood". We often seen him with different women. I have had a few relationships in the past(one of which gave me my two beautiful daughters!)All of my closest friends,plus my older sister call me an Ice Maiden because i refuse to let anyone get close(except my girls) and don't trust a man at all! I also find it hard to express my feelings, if i cry at all, i just end up really angry at myself for being so weak. I don't see myself ever getting married,as i only like to be with a man who isn't looking for "forever". If a man gets all emotional,i run a mile! People say i need help,but i don't see where the problem is?
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (25 August 2007):
 Hi,
If it is people close to you that are constantly saying this, they know you best, so it might be worth looking into. However, the people closest to you CAN also like pushing your buttons... I think that you are probably the best judge of whether or not you have issues that need the help of a proffesional councellor. It is very easy to have trust issues when one of your primary relationships was lost or changed in childhood. If you find yourself repeating the same pattern over and over, and would really like to change it, maybe you Should look into it. Take Care!
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reader, cassandra_096  +, writes (25 August 2007):
well to tell u the truth i dnt think its a bad thing when a guy gets emotional. thats a good thing!like for a example my dad. he will never tell his feelings to no one no matter if hes hurt in the inside. well lets say it like this my dads mother passed nd he didnt so no feelings.. soo showing emotions is a good thing to me. And i understand the reason why u dont trust guys because guys can be dogs!! but sometimes u have to take a chance and open up to the one u think is right for you.because if u think about it everyone is not ment to be alone forever. soo just take a chance and let ur heart lead the way not ur mind.!.xoxo
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